guys, am i a fukkin idiot (this is regarding a chick)

[hoopster42]

i hear what you all are saying, i know it seems like that classic swinger scene, but its kind of opposite...... the string of texts ending w/the call yesterday came at the end of my 1 yr association w/the chick, not at the beginning of it...............it was a fitting end for me to call, it was the first time she heard my voice since the last day of summer class almost a yr ago....................at least i feel much better now and do not have any guilt

no chance whatsoever, less than 0% if it is possible, that i will EVER EVER EVER initiate any contact via text, email, or ph call w/this chick EVER AGAIN. even if by remote possibility she tries to contact me, i do not see myself responding because it will only start up the stupid gm again. the chick basically does not exist any more in the world of hoopster

thx for evything guys (and beautiful gal robyn)

[Rich Boy]

Now she thinks your a big pussy for caving in like that (so do I). If you make a heated text, you dont go back and apologize... This inst high school.

[hoopster42]

Now she thinks your a big pussy for caving in like that (so do I). If you make a heated text, you dont go back and apologize... This inst high school.

it was not the first time in the past few mos that i gave her a piece of my mind. interestingly, after the last time i had a mini blow up on her, she was not phased whatsoever. she continued to text w/me afterwards. anyhow, my apology was for going off the way i did, it was a pretty short voice message, but i thanked her for texting w/me for the past yr and for keeping her cool, i also said it's clear that we are in different places in our lives and i wished her well in her life. at this pt, w/a full yr almost gone (end of july will mark 1 yr since our class ended and we hugged goodbye), i could care less if she thinks i'm a pussy or whatever..........i was not gona get in her pants any way so who gives a shit...........any chick who does not respond to invitiations to hang out in a few wks let alone a full yr, has no interest and i can clearly see it (finally)

i'm closing the book on this "text-ship"

[hoopster42]

almost 3 full days after my apology w/zero contact between us, and just mins ago i receive a text from the chick saying: "odom is a dumbass, why is he doing this?"...................the chick acts like nothing happened in the past wk...............like we're right back to normal or something! i think it's painfully apparent that i am dealing w/a very young woman who is more like a girl, she is less expressive and less in touch w/her own emotions and the emotions of others than any chick i have dealt w/in a very long time...........this whole thing is becoming strange, like i'm dealing w/a robot or something

anyhow, i deleted the text and have not responded, nor will i............................if it's only sports the chick wants to talk about then fukk it, i'm not interested any more in keeping in touch

[themajormt]

Why don't you just take your cock out of your pants and show it to her... not literally but figuratively...

Say "Listen Phong, I have wanted to touch your little vietnamese spring roll since I first saw you. You might not have figured this out by now, judging by us talking for 1 year and it not happening, but I want to touch your vietnamese spring roll. Preferably with my cock and balls. I would even consider taking you to a nice dinner first, like the places that have white tables cloths, if you agree to let me touch it. What do you think?"

She is obviously just not getting it so this is the only way pal...

[losturmarbles]

Why don't you just take your cock out of your pants and show it to her... not literally but figuratively...

Say "Listen Phong, I have wanted to touch your little vietnamese spring roll since I first saw you. You might not have figured this out by now, judging by us talking for 1 year and it not happening, but I want to touch your vietnamese spring roll. Preferably with my cock and balls. I would even consider taking you to a nice dinner first, like the places that have white tables cloths, if you agree to let me touch it. What do you think?"

She is obviously just not getting it so this is the only way pal...

[Robyn]

I think all Asians are robots. Sorry, pal. You are dealing with a robot.

[hoopster42]

robyn, i agree..............most asian cultures seem to raise robots............i believe japanese and filipinos may be a bit different....... but definitely chinese, korean, vietnamese.............these are raised robots from birth pretty much

[BGS 9.5]

almost 3 full days after my apology w/zero contact between us, and just mins ago i receive a text from the chick saying: "odom is a dumbass, why is he doing this?"...................the chick acts like nothing happened in the past wk...............like we're right back to normal or something! i think it's painfully apparent that i am dealing w/a very young woman who is more like a girl, she is less expressive and less in touch w/her own emotions and the emotions of others than any chick i have dealt w/in a very long time...........this whole thing is becoming strange, like i'm dealing w/a robot or something

anyhow, i deleted the text and have not responded, nor will i............................if it's only sports the chick wants to talk about then fukk it, i'm not interested any more in keeping in touch

That's right, this is why we have SBR Fourm.....

[cholo1124]

I hope we can continue to have conversations like this without raising sweeping generalizations about entire cultures. All Asians are robots? ok....

[Robyn]

cholo, do you take everything you read on the internet at face value? OK then. White people are crocodiles. Blacks are lamps. Jews are peanuts.

Enjoy!

[slapshot53]

small dick?

maybe somebody told her that you have a very , tiny, penis

[jellobiafra]

almost 3 full days after my apology w/zero contact between us, and just mins ago i receive a text from the chick saying: "odom is a dumbass, why is he doing this?"...................the chick acts like nothing happened in the past wk...............like we're right back to normal or something! i think it's painfully apparent that i am dealing w/a very young woman who is more like a girl, she is less expressive and less in touch w/her own emotions and the emotions of others than any chick i have dealt w/in a very long time...........this whole thing is becoming strange, like i'm dealing w/a robot or something

anyhow, i deleted the text and have not responded, nor will i............................if it's only sports the chick wants to talk about then fukk it, i'm not interested any more in keeping in touch

Hoops. Text her back and say what you think. Keep it short. Something like: "I don't want to talk sports with you. I want to take you out and I want an answer before you text me anything else. When are we going out?"

[hoopster42]

Hoops. Text her back and say what you think. Keep it short. Something like: "I don't want to talk sports with you. I want to take you out and I want an answer before you text me anything else. When are we going out?"

jello i tried this approach a few mos back when she blew me off for like the 3rd time or whatever...........when she texted i said: "look girl, anything other than let's grab coffee, let's shoot hoops, or let's grab a drink, i don't wana hear about"

that approach didn't work, so i'm using the 'completely ignore the chick' approach and my gut is that it's working...............i feel really good that's all i know, i feel that i have some power back in my corner................my feeling that she was gone for good has shifted quite a bit and i think if i play it right, i'm gona back this chick before the reg season football games kick off in beginning of sept

[cholo1124]

Hey Robyn: I thought I was generally good at reading sarcasm or joking. It just didn't seem like it to me. Especially given some of your other comments about Asians in other threads. But if that's all it was, cool, no biggie.

It's just that a comment like yours seems to spark further comments (such as the one immediately following yours). I was just worried if the thread was going to veer off into that direction, but thankfully it hasn't. So I really should just shut up before it does :-).

[CashMoney]

You're in the friend zone. She ignored your text and is acting like it never happened because she really doesn't care. Let it go.....nothing is going to happen with this chick but ask her if she has a friend you can hook u up with

[hoopster42]

You're in the friend zone. She ignored your text and is acting like it never happened because she really doesn't care. Let it go.....nothing is going to happen with this chick but ask her if she has a friend you can hook u up with

normally i would agree, but this girl is very different. remember, i've been texting w/her for over 9 mos, in touch 12 mos in total. she is pretty inexpressive and does not seem to know how to handle certain situations. by texting me back and keeping the convo light, it was her way of saying: "hoopster, i forgive you for going off on me and what's done is done, i would like to still be friends and maybe more". she has many friends, i'm sure...........so she is getting back in touch w/me because i am still intriguing to her. like another poster said, it's the passion they like. i am becoming more intriguing by the hour as i have not responded back.

as far as her friends go, i have already tried that angle to try and make her jealous and when i asked if she had any hot friends to hook me up with, she said that none of them were my type. i asked, "how do you know what my type is?" she did not answer.

translation of this is: hoopster i wana keep you for myself, not for my friends.

i am getting into the pussy zone here................i can feel it

[lakerboy]

hoopster go get a hooker guy im getting sick of this thread for fukk sakes bro come on man

[Robyn]

Hey Robyn: I thought I was generally good at reading sarcasm or joking. It just didn't seem like it to me. Especially given some of your other comments about Asians in other threads. But if that's all it was, cool, no biggie.

It's just that a comment like yours seems to spark further comments (such as the one immediately following yours). I was just worried if the thread was going to veer off into that direction, but thankfully it hasn't. So I really should just shut up before it does :-).

People who "know" me here, know that you can't really take much of what I say very seriously. Especially when a post is made after 1AM.

[Bigmikesm]

You're acting like a guy that got to hit that a ss with this chick?? All my friends that every went crazy about a chick "hit that ass of hers" or she swallows. I've pretty much read every post you left about this girl, but come on already. YOU'RE NEVER GOING TO FVCK HER!!!

[hoopster42]

going on 2 days that i have not responded to her text, and i am building my respect my back in her eyes and the intrigue is building in her mind, she is wondering "what happened to hoopster?".......................i can feel it.......................i know one thing for sure, if i am ever gona get a chance to see her again and get in her pants, this is the ONLY way that i have a chance....................guys and gal (the beautiful robyn), your advice did not fall on deaf ears............and my own common sense about chicks and how to play the game has returned to my mind.....................i feel some power in this association w/the chick, now...............and it feels really good.................

i'm holding out and simply will not return any communication w/this chick for now......................

[Vincepcion]

i think texting back a light joke would get you back into the game

how about something like

"odom doesnt know what he wants...reminds me of someone I know "

if she doesnt understand what youre talking about, then sorry she just doesnt see you as a potential lay/partner...just dont take this whole situation as seriously as before...for some girls, knowing you want her is just as good as you having her (since her ego is satisfied)...I hope that made sense...just have a quick wit and dont be afraid to put her in her place, just make sure you dont offend/insult her...having an IDGAF attitude makes her think "hmmm this guy is intriguing", then she'll want to get to know you better, and having that attitude makes her think think that you couldnt care less if you dont talk to her again...unfortunately after your last text where you blew up I dunno if its possible

ps. smiley face after the comment is crucial

Edit: whatever you decide to do GL

[hoopster42]

i think texting back a light joke would get you back into the game

how about something like

"odom doesnt know what he wants...reminds me of someone I know "

if she doesnt understand that its her, then sorry she just doesnt see you as a potential lay/partner...just dont take this whole situation as seriously as before...for some girls, knowing you want her is just as good as you having her (since her ego is satisfied)...I hope that made sense...just have a quick wit and dont be afraid to put her in her place, just make sure you dont offend/insult her...having an IDGAF attitude makes her think "hmmm this guy is intriguing, I should get to know him better"...unfortunately after your last text where you blew up I dunno if its possible

ps. smiley face after the comment is crucial

Edit: whatever you decide to do GL

great advice, Vince........................ i was good about smiley faces when i gave her indirect jokes about herself or backhanded compliments............. but when i went off i clearly went off and that did show that she got to me............ by apologizing with a voicemail instead of a text or email, (she had not heard my voice in a yr), i think something hit home with her and she could tell the apology was sincere, which it was

i'm just enjoying the fact that right now the ball is in my court and i am not returning it

[losturmarbles]

even i want to fuk this guy ^^ (vince)

[trinitiy]

i'm just enjoying the fact that right now the ball is in my court and i am not returning it[/quote]


dude , the ball was never and will never be in your court. you have everything going against you - balding hair loss, 10 years older and on a loan. not to sound like a dick but this bitch knows you want her and is just toying with you. playing games with girls is a lost cause unless you can throw large amounts of $$$ in their face. my advice would be to stay friends and wait for the bat phone to ring. in the mean time, there has gotta be other girls you can try to sting.

[hoopster42]

i'm just enjoying the fact that right now the ball is in my court and i am not returning it

dude , the ball was never and will never be in your court. you have everything going against you - balding hair loss, 10 years older and on a loan. not to sound like a dick but this bitch knows you want her and is just toying with you. playing games with girls is a lost cause unless you can throw large amounts of $$$ in their face. my advice would be to stay friends and wait for the bat phone to ring. in the mean time, there has gotta be other girls you can try to sting.[/quote]

maybe you're right..........though i look pretty good (this is what girls tell my sister and my friends, and they convey it to me) for my age...............tall at about 6'3" and athletic body at 200-210 fluctuating and i work out often and stay in good shape...........the chick might have been slightly into me last yr to give me her email addy, her cell phone #, and even tried to add me to blackberry messenger but i have a treo so could not join her on that.....................i think i just too much interest early on and that hurt me.................i might get back into the game

in the meantime, i have something goin on w/another cutie but she speaks little english and i speak barely enough spanish so aside from the physical attraction thats goin on, not much of a chance for anything extended................ just some fukking right now and that's about it.....................tho this peruvian hottie i speak of is definitely keeping my mind off the evasive vietnamese cockteaser

[Vincepcion]

even i want to fuk this guy ^^ (vince)

lol...theres no one in the world who has messed up with women as bad as I have...its not possible
ive learned from everything

[hoopster42]

you guys were right...........i am an idiot.............i'm ignoring the chick and she does not give a shit.............she was obviously never interested but she did love the attention which is why she kept returning my texts...............either that or she was just extremely polite

[MilfDriller]

That was common sense 101, bro.

There's a million whores in the sea... go grab another one.

[Dark Horse]

Throw out the phone and get your life together. You gave away all your cards with this girl. She's got you all figured out and under control. You're not interesting to her in the slightest. You're just an innocent little toy. No danger at all.

[thesinister]

Move on, dude.

[MadTiger]

my advice is to ignore her, totally
if she wants you, she will come to you
trust me this is the only way, you have made all the right moves
time to move on

Polite Ignore for the mutha****in' win.

[fiveteamer]

I have a better name for this thread

http://forum.sbrforum.com/players-talk/207488-least-youre-not-guy.html

[hoopster42]

so i text the bitch outta the blue this afternoon and i say: "any regrets?", she responds immediately and says, "yeah, i've been wondering what it would be like if just ****ed. i've been thinking about you in an intense sexual way. what are your requirements for how many times a week you need to **** if we are just **** buddies?"

is she feeling me now that i'm gone or is this all a game to her?

[hoopster42]

i know i'm pathetic but please read the post right above ^^^ and please give your honest thoughts