you went all weird creepy dude with the text you ****ed it up now
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I like your style in giving her the ax, however I would have done this after the second time she refused to hang out with you. It seems as though she has a boyfriend or isn't interested in your c ock. Women for some unknown reason believe that they can be friends with guys and talk sports with guys. In reality we just talk sports with them because we want to nail them. Period. Guys are better to talk sports, because they pretty much know something about every sport, every team, not just the hometown team.Originally posted by hoopster42
Put your pole back in the water and keep fishing. Catch a few bluegill along the way in your quest for a Marlin. You'll catch one. Try putting your profile on several of these internet dating sites and you will soon be putting your c ock on ice.
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If you are going to tell a girl off, at least call her up man. The text-rant just reeks of middle school drama. Not texting her at all (just ignoring her) would have been the move... then she'd wonder what happened, etc. This text message probably just got a good laugh from her and she showed it to her buddies as well.Originally posted by hoopster42
Future reference; make your move sooner, CALL instead of text.
Good luck
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you did blow up on this pricktease. Should have ignored her stupid as s.Originally posted by OB 2138Comment -
Honestly, I think your wasting too much time here...
Its just ONE GIRL... there are tons of other girls you could be meeting (and possibly fvcking) right now with half the effort. Some chicks just play games forever, without any intentions of having sex.
It usually the younger chicks who play these games because they are all on power trips.
Here is something for you to try... Go out tomorrow and talk to 5 girls, and try to pick them up. Just random girls from the street/library/market something like that. That should help you put things in perspective.Comment -
Wow, I just read the update...
Sorry man, but you totally blew it. You should NEVER, EVER leave things on a bad note. Because what if she did want to **** you, but was just nervous/shy (asian girls are sometimes like that). Now shes thinking "Im glad I didnt sleep with that guy, hes such an asshole". Now all the doubt and negative feelings she had towards sex with you was justified. Its no longer HER fault that you didnt have sex, its your fault now...
But this is healthy, at least now you wont be thinking of her and you can go out and nail some other broads.Comment -
Loose her # bro and move one if she cares she will hit u up "to much circulation makes price go down the more u r seen and heard from,the more common u appear. If u r already established in a group temporary whitdrawl from it will make u more talked about even more admired u must learn when to leave crate value through scarcity"
the 48 laws off powerComment -
u failed, never should have texted her, should have left on a hugh note for sure, didnt you learn anything from seinfield....Comment -
Originally posted by jjgold
what about Carol?
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Great response would have beenOriginally posted by hoopster42
"I know a great pick but I cant just give it away, you have to earn it..."
She'll respond with something cute, or ask "how can I earn it?"
Then you call her up since asking out a girl via text is pretty lame... and you have a topic of conversation, and a great way to set something up where you have to meet her in person (get drinks/coffee) for her to "earn" the pick.
If she doesnt reply then you had no chance to begin with and is probably the type of girl where youd rather be at the dentist then be with her
I think you could have been more aggressive at the start but I have no problem with what you did since it seems like you did your part to try to make this happen. If she really wanted you it would have been done long ago...now she texts you out of the blue asking what your pick for the HR derby is...FK that!!
I would have rather ignored her text than your reply...she probably didnt take your relationship too seriously and I think the text reply showed her the lack of women in your life, which is a turn offComment -
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guys and dolls, thank you all for your perspectives and opinions, i value ALL of them because they were all well-intentioned and sincere, and most of them spot on
the bitch and i never spoke even once on the phone this last yr since the last day of class that i spoke to her, our "friendship/relationship" manifested through text messages nearly every day
after blowing me off FIVE TIMES that i asked to casually meet up (never asked on a real date, just grab a drink, grab breakfast, shit like that)....................the bitch had my rant coming, and for the first time in God knows how many yrs, i simply do NOT feel guilty at all, not one bit, for saying what i said...............usually, when i get pissed and go off on someone, i feel guilty within 2 to 3 hrs and i apologize to the person
not with this one, though...........THIS FUKKING COCKTEASE HAD IT COMING..........i was too gentlemanly for too long and she still came back around w/this HR derby shit and i think it was just to fukk w/me again
THE BITCH CAN POUND SAND FOR ALL I CARE..................i am fukking done being in touch w/her and it feels fukking fantastic to get that off my chest and call her out like that!!!!
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like a few posters said in other eloquent words................if i could not even get her to meet up in the 9 mos that we texted and the full yr that we knew each other, then it simply was not going to happen and i do not give a single fukk about the bitch
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anyway you look at it hoop, its been a very entertaining thread
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WTF, exactly bro..........it gave me some satisfaction because instead of waiting around and playing the game on HER terms, i ended it on MY terms.............i usually dislike having a relationship or a friendship end on bad terms, but in this case, i was just fed up w/her fukkin gms, flirting w/me and shit, like dangling the carrot that is her pussy right in front of me then pulling it away................ i needed to drop the verbal hammer on the fukkin bitchOriginally posted by wtf
i put the cocktease in her place, and although she's obviously a game player she is not a bad human being, at some pt now or in the next few days, what i said will hit her because chicks dont like to look like "the bad guy"
Roguey, glad i could be of entertainment, bud
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This, my friends, is a man who knows and understands women (or at least appears to).Originally posted by VincepcionComment -
Stop the bs........ just send her a text thats says...Hey whats up havent heard from you in a while? Does this mean i wont be banging you any time soon?
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Robyn, i swear i tried all that shit he said mos ago. what he said was correct but nothing groundbreaking. i'm 33 and have bedded many good looking broads in my day. just so happens that this one gamed me out so i finally told the bitch off. i did not resort to the over the top compliments etc until it was well into the gm and my usual gm of mysteriousness and such was not workingOriginally posted by Robyn
btw, guys, its been over 12 hrs since i told the bitch off, and while i used to feel guilty about something like this w/in a few hrs i actually feel like i can move on and accept the fact that while i wasted 9 mos of texting and another 3 mos before on emailing the bitch, that at least i ended whatever stupid little thing we had on MY terms and it does feel good in this particular situationComment -
some of you said i should not have sent her the angry texts ending our communication on a bad note..... you were right...........the guilt set in last night and all day today, especially since the chick was never rude to me in the yr we texted............so i just called her (did not text which is all i ever did before with her)..... it was the first call i have ever made to her..........i left a voice message saying how truly sorry i am and that i did not mean what i texted on sunday, that i was just frustrated and angry, and that i understand how we are clearly in different places in our lives, etc... i wished her the best in her life and said no hard feelings, take care
i feel much better about it now and do not expect or need a return call or text
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Hoopy...when you filing for divorce?
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open marriage---how did you convince her of that?Comment -
This is too easy.
Do not email, text, call her again.
I guarantee you that you will hear from her again - I probably have 5-7 chicks just like this.
When you hear from her, do not play games. Send her a simple text response. "I'm at ___ bar. Come by if you want to have a drink and chat."
She will either come by and you will bang her or she'll make up an excuse.
If she makes up an excuse, back on ignore.
THen when she texts again... I am at home watching a movie, you should come by...
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Originally posted by increasedodds
not sure if you read the whole thread, but my chance to bang this chick was probably gone when she saw that i'm much older, i lied and said i was 29 (she's only 23, was 22 at the time), but i look my age of 33 (at least)
after everything that's happened, i highly doubt i will ever hear from the chick againComment -
Odds... don't get his hopes up again. I think hoops understands this is done.Comment -
yes i do. it was done a long time ago before it even started, i am too old for the chick and probably not her type any way. she's a hot little vietnamese chick, i am an old has-been, i need to play in my own league, i am aware of that. i know i can still pull trim, but older trim my age and older, the cougars. 10 yrs ago, the way i looked and felt, i bag this chick no problem. i am at a different stage of life now.Originally posted by jellobiafra
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Alright hoops.... oh and one more word of advice. You might have better luck if you stop referring to them as "trim".
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Hoopster at the bash we will go to the Spearmint Rhino and dance the night away. Girls are like NASA. It's costs a lot of $$ to get them off and for some reason when they do we all watch in awe. Don't be THAT guy. Let them have have their moment in the sun with SOMEBODY ELSE. Save your $$, buy a more feasible form of transport, and enjoy life. FYI, I am drinking.Comment -
casper, i like the way you think bud...........the NASA line is freakin classic hahahahaComment -
Originally Posted by Vincepcion
Great response would have been
"I know a great pick but I cant just give it away, you have to earn it..."
She'll respond with something cute, or ask "how can I earn it?"
Then you call her up since asking out a girl via text is pretty lame... and you have a topic of conversation, and a great way to set something up where you have to meet her in person (get drinks/coffee) for her to "earn" the pick.
If she doesnt reply then you had no chance to begin with and is probably the type of girl where youd rather be at the dentist then be with her
I think you could have been more aggressive at the start but I have no problem with what you did since it seems like you did your part to try to make this happen. If she really wanted you it would have been done long ago...now she texts you out of the blue asking what your pick for the HR derby is...FK that!!
I would have rather ignored her text than your reply...she probably didnt take your relationship too seriously and I think the text reply showed her the lack of women in your life, which is a turn off<3Originally posted by RobynComment -
Better luck next time Hoopster. Texting is seldom the way to go. The only time I message girls is to send them pictures of my unit. Step one for next time.
No guessing game there, gets straight to the point.
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Hoops, just please.....PLEASE....do not call or text her again. I am just imagining that terribly painful scene in Swingers when Favreau's character made a fool out of himself by calling this girl over and over and over again.Comment -
Oh no.....you called to apologize......that was the worst thing you could have done!!!!!
You now look like the creepy guy that is texting and calling and can't make up their mind. She listened to that voicemail and there is a good chance she has already blocked your number.... If you were going to send her an angry text, so be it...but you have to stick by it. You can't feel guilty, that is one of those things that that is once you go there you can't go back.
Robyn is right....whatever you do....DO NOT and I repeat DO NOT call or text again!Comment -
Yep. That's exactly the image I conveyed to hoops in his poll thread last night.Originally posted by Robyn
"Nikki, it's me...Mike...again. Listen this just isn't gonna work out. It's not you...it's me."Comment
