guys, am i a fukkin idiot (this is regarding a chick)

[AMBlai01]

She's not into you just move on...it really is that simple. This is the one thing about women...if they are interested, they will do what they have to to see you and spend time with you no matter what. They will change their schedule...push back friends..whatever. This girl has done nothing but blow you off...once, okay something came up, more than once....remove her number from your phone. If she gets at you sometime...act like you don't know who she is..."Who is this number? Oh sorry been so busy..." She's not worth it...

[InTheHole]

my advice is to ignore her, totally

if she wants you, she will come to you

trust me this is the only way, you have made all the right moves

time to move on

Without reading any other responses

[Robyn]

fukin good advice from robyn and spot on

we should have like a permanent section on the site, robyn's corner

advice on love and releationships

One thing with me is that I never sugar coat anything and if asked, I will give my opinion. You boys should listen to me, I am an old broad. I have learned a thing or two along the way.

[ijustwant2bpaid]

Dude u should know one thing, that is that all asians are sluts... you have lot it for sure if u cant peel an asian, just put it down u fukk, u said u had game and u complain on here that his chick is dating someone else your age. Just take the broad to dinner get some alcohol in her and fukk her till ur dicks chafed. Not too difficult.

[Flying Dutchman]

One thing with me is that I never sugar coat anything and if asked, I will give my opinion. You boys should listen to me, I am an old broad. I have learned a thing or two along the way.

Robyn, as you know I'm "into" old broads, he he.

[hoopster42]

Late into this.

1) I think she may know more about you than you think. If she knows your married, big stop sign.
2) She may have a sense that you older than you say, another reason for her to be really careful.
3) If you just want to fvk, why spend all this time? Mixed signals, she can probably sense this.
4) Bar option (ala Robyn) is best for blue balls. Clear your head, MOVE ON, play more options.
5) Hoopy, face it, from her stand point, you're just another lying, cheating older prick. She may like you but bad signal flags are flying.

FD, you bring up some fantastic pts here. Scary fantastic actually.

[Chuck Sims]

hoopster42, Trust me you're wasting your time. By her ignoring your minimal advances, it should clue you in she is not interested in that kind of relationship. Move on.

[hoopster42]

She's not into you just move on...it really is that simple. This is the one thing about women...if they are interested, they will do what they have to to see you and spend time with you no matter what. They will change their schedule...push back friends..whatever. This girl has done nothing but blow you off...once, okay something came up, more than once....remove her number from your phone. If she gets at you sometime...act like you don't know who she is..."Who is this number? Oh sorry been so busy..." She's not worth it...

great stuff, AMB..........she knows that i'll recognize her number right away as she will mine if we text coz we've each seen the other's number probably 1800+ times in 9 mos, so if i act like i dont know her number it will be too obvious

i'm simply gona delete the text and forget about it

anything short of "hey hoopster, do you wana hang out?", and i will simply delete it............. if she asks me to do something w/her, i'll wait a day or 2 and respond, "sorry, been busy....... whats up?"

[Robyn]

Robyn, as you know I'm "into" old broads, he he.

I did not know that.

[Flying Dutchman]

FD, you bring up some fantastic pts here. Scary fantastic actually.

Hoopy, put yourself in her shoes. Try to think like a broad. When you do, things become clearer.

[hoopster42]

well everyone has given me GREAT advice and i really appreciate it

first and foremost i will resist every urge i have to text her........... and if i do hear from her, it has to be "hey hoopster, lets grab some coffee or can we have that breakfast after all?" anything short of that and i will simply delete the text

the last text i sent to her was yesterday, july 10th at around 7 pm pacific so not even 1 full day has passed

gut feeling tells me that i will NEVER hear from the chick again but in the unlikely even that i do, i'll report here for your amusement

GOD bless everyone for helping me out

[Flying Dutchman]

I did not know that.

well, I didn't know we were separated these last 6 months...

Drinking will do that to you, I guess.

[Robyn]

well, I didn't know we were separated these last 6 months...

Drinking will do that to you, I guess.

I guess I must be pretty far behind with all of the SBR gossip. People think that Bread = you? LOL! I get two for the price of one? Nice.

[hoopster42]

I guess I must be pretty far behind with all of the SBR gossip. People think that Bread = you? LOL! I get two for the price of one? Nice.

you 2 need to get a room instead of doing this in my thread


and robyn, you are a beautiful looking woman.......... and i mean that in a NON "i'm gona come to the bash and look for you kinda way"

[FrozenMAN]

Hoopster I like you pal, solid poster, ect........

But your a fukkin mess right now, I think by now you would of known if she was interested. I think she just likes to texting, ect. Also I think your too old for her. Hoopster why even get involved with women?? They are fukkin headaches and eventually you will end up hurt and disappointed. I have not been laid in over 13 years but I have a clue about this stuff. Save a few bucks and once in a while get a blow job in an alley or go fuk some escort in the woods like I do.

Good Luck pal

CLASSIC, iim telling you gold write a book, id probably read it lol

[Robyn]

you 2 need to get a room instead of doing this in my thread


and robyn, you are a beautiful looking woman.......... and i mean that in a NON "i'm gona come to the bash and look for you kinda way"

I'm sorry, hoopy. I didn't mean to ruin your thread.

I am proud of your new outlook on this girl. Grow a set, keep the backbone in tact and do not respond to her text. I have a feeling that this girl, being as young as she is, is addicted to texting. She is probably one of those girls who constantly has her phone in her hand. She will probably find herself bored one of these days and go through her phone book and say "OMG, I haven't heard from hoopy in forever, let me text him!" Don't fall for it.

[ijustwant2bpaid]

be strong hoopster, the asian will come moaning, trust me...

[hoopster42]

be strong hoopster, the asian will come moaning, trust me...

well it looks like youve got quite the hottie in your avatar so i hope you are speaking from experience!

i believe you are the only one in this thread or the poll thread who actually believes she'll come back wanting some............ i dont think she'll text me after i called her out for blowing me off etc...... i wasnt cruel or cussing, just matter of fact and straight forward that i was taken a back by it

let see what happens, would love to get some texts just to have the pleasure of deleting them

[Flying Dutchman]

OK Hoopy, good luck dude. You're moving in the right direction.

Hey Robyn, why don't we reconcile and start our own thread?

[hoopster42]

the vietnamese cocktease loves sports so i wonder if her or any of her friends (probably many males) are sports gamblers and may catch wind of this site and these threads

wouldnt that be funny

[losturmarbles]

[hoopster42]

Marbles, chris rock is a GOD and what he says is so true................... if the viet chick that is cockteasing me wants me to play that card and use me in an emergency, i'll wax that vietcong ass all night long and the next fukkin day too..........

[hoopster42]

UPDATE: the cockteasing whore texts me an hr ago asking me who i am picking for the HR derby tomorrow because her brother is putting a pool together and whoever wins get a case of his/her favorite beer. this is the first text from either of us since friday evening about this time. so 48 hrs pass and nothing from me, she finally comes up with a BS reason to re-connect.

i immediately deleted the text and did not respond.....................though i have to admit i did feel like responding with: "I HAVE A GREAT PICK BUT NOT GIVING IT, COCKTEASE"

[paco]

if she wont give u the pussy, then be a tout n start charging her for piks

[hoopster42]

if she wont give u the pussy, then be a tout n start charging her for piks

Paco, this is exactly the problem! she asks me who is going to win in the big sporting events like BCS champ gm, super bowl, etc, and i have actually hit those picks straight up AND ats, so now she thinks i'll give her the winning picks for evything...........bitch even asked for my ncaa tourney picks and i got her 3rd place in her brothers pool and she won like $35 on a $5 entry and promised me starbucks coffee + dessert to say thanks

then i never saw the starbucks prize and that was over 3 mos ago

[paco]

dont wanna sound racist but is she black? Cuz they never ever keep there word and always want everything free. They think its "owed" to them.

Paco, this is exactly the problem! she asks me who is going to win in the big sporting events like BCS champ gm, super bowl, etc, and i have actually hit those picks straight up AND ats, so now she thinks i'll give her the winning picks for evything...........bitch even asked for my ncaa tourney picks and i got her 3rd place in her brothers pool and she won like $35 on a $5 entry and promised me starbucks coffee + dessert to say thanks

then i never saw the starbucks prize and that was over 3 mos ago

[hoopster42]

dont wanna sound racist but is she black? Cuz they never ever keep there word and always want everything free. They think its "owed" to them.

bitch is vietnamese, which i have heard east asians call "the ******s of the orient". not my words, their words.

[losturmarbles]

hoopster if you want to hit it, dont get nasty.

wait until tomorrow and respond with something like "sorry i just seen your text, i had an old friend over last night and we were catching up" or something along those lines.
if she asks who, just keep it really mysterious and say an old friend from (blank).
dont carry on the conversation, make up an excuse and tell her that you'll text her back later.
then dont.
wait for her to respond. may take a couple of days.
then apologize and say youve been preoccupied with things. be very non-specific.
she will come around and try to initiate something.
blow her off a time or two, but dont be overly abusive or mean.
then when she says something about meeting up or something, give in and take her up on it.

play the game playa.

[hoopster42]

LostURm's, you're right, i need to play nice but at this point bro i'm almost turned off by the bitch and if she wants to meet up (which would take a miracle) i'm gona be a smart ass and say yeah, come down to my place and prepare to undress immediately you ****ing cock-tease whore

the thought of her cock-teasing ass is making me angry and completely turned off, to be honest

[hoopster42]

guys i could not contain myself any longer.....................i texted the little cockteasing slut whore, i said:

(in text short-hand lingo)

"look girl, you wasted my fukkin time 4 a yr...........if u were not interested, y the hell continue texting back & 4th with me........y not jus say u have a BF or say that u only c me as a frend, y not jus say that so i dont get led on? how fukkin selfish was that of u? i wasted my fukkin time 4 a yr, ask u to hang out like 5 times, u blow me off all 5 times, and now u wana kno who i think is gona win the HR contest? y dont u ask some1 who actually cares 2 answer ur ?. i'm done w/u girl......pls lose my #, lose my email addy, and 4get we were ever "text buddies" or w/ever the fukk u thot we were. goodbye & good life".

verbatim that is what i texted and i feel so much fukkin better about it. good riddance 2 this fukkin bitch.

[wtf]

[losturmarbles]

girls are always testing us hoopster, you blew it man. she may have been keeping you on the bench, but you got to make her call you up.
you dont throw in your hat and quit the team just because she hasnt given you any play yet.

where are you located hoopster, pm me her number. i'll let you know how much fun she is.

[ZBOIZ]

Hoop listen to me! First you need to see if she is truly interested before you do anything. The only way you can do that is to try not to text or call for 3 days. If she care she would text you or call you because she should be worried! If you here nothing from her than she really don't care. Try this step 1st.

[ZBOIZ]

UPDATE: the cockteasing whore texts me an hr ago asking me who i am picking for the HR derby tomorrow because her brother is putting a pool together and whoever wins get a case of his/her favorite beer. this is the first text from either of us since friday evening about this time. so 48 hrs pass and nothing from me, she finally comes up with a BS reason to re-connect.

i immediately deleted the text and did not respond.....................though i have to admit i did feel like responding with: "I HAVE A GREAT PICK BUT NOT GIVING IT, COCKTEASE"

I should have read this first. The reason she text is because she is trying to find a reason to talk. I would simply give her no answer or a very very short answer,and dont respond after that.

[VegasDave]

If you have been texting for 9 months and nothing has happened, the boat has looooong since left the dock.