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  • Grits n' Gravy
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    • 06-10-10
    • 13024

    #36
    A 400 credit rating is beyond awful.
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    • QuangX
      SBR MVP
      • 02-03-11
      • 2756

      #37
      Yeah, Im done they chargeoff one of my other cards, I gotta go with the remove debt deal.
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      • FourLengthsClear
        SBR MVP
        • 12-29-10
        • 3808

        #38
        Pay your debts. No ifs, no buts.
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        • LVHerbie
          SBR Hall of Famer
          • 09-15-05
          • 6344

          #39
          Originally posted by QuangX
          Hey, This route is not that bad.

          Quick question though, So which path should i Take

          1) get chargeoff, and then do paid for deletion

          2) pay for it before it get to chargeoff

          Im at 400, If i get chargeoff, How bad will my credit go?

          But after the removal, I should be able to rebuild
          My info might be a bit outdated (in other words do your own research)... For example, after looking at some pay for deletion info last night, while it seems like it still possible (as it benefits both parties) it looks like the credit reporting agencies have tried to crack down on it recently...

          As far what you should do you can offer the CC companies anything you like as it just a matter if they will accept or not... Personally, with such a low current score I wouldn't worry at all about going lower as you got some serious repairing / rebuilding to do... Just try and get the best offer / as clean of a report as possible and start over...
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          • MadTiger
            SBR MVP
            • 04-19-09
            • 2724

            #40
            creditboards.com
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            • Living The Dream
              SBR MVP
              • 12-23-09
              • 4521

              #41
              Never just let something charge off, either file BK or pay it... BK is gonna cost you almost what you owe, PAY IT!
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              • ngates815
                SBR Posting Legend
                • 12-01-09
                • 13845

                #42
                Just do some chargebacks you fukkin bum.
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                • opie1988
                  SBR Posting Legend
                  • 09-12-10
                  • 23429

                  #43
                  Hey scumbag......how about you grow the fukk up and pay your fukkin' bills? Regardless of how this ends up, hopefully you will be deported before you can steal anymore.

                  WalterAbrams......you seem like a real piece of sh*t in this thread. If that's the look you were going for.....well done.
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                  • jjgold
                    SBR Aristocracy
                    • 07-20-05
                    • 388179

                    #44
                    This is what gambling does boys, kid got banged up a little

                    Its not that bad though...go withdraw from the fukkin books and pay those cards down

                    Bet small and try to build it Son
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                    • Walter Abrams
                      SBR Sharp
                      • 11-07-11
                      • 265

                      #45
                      Originally posted by opie1988
                      Hey scumbag......how about you grow the fukk up and pay your fukkin' bills? Regardless of how this ends up, hopefully you will be deported before you can steal anymore.

                      WalterAbrams......you seem like a real piece of sh*t in this thread. If that's the look you were going for.....well done.
                      Is your dad the CEO of Wells Fargo? You come off as a piece of sh*t backing big banks. That goes for ANYONE. Then again, Im sure you and your family voted for Bush. Why should you care if banks own America now? Mommy and Daddy left you a nice nest egg? Is that why you wear your BkofAma sweater when you go outside? You wouldnt last a day away from your sheltered life. Posting on this forum makes you feel like you relate to real people. In reality though, you're nothing like us.
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                      • Living The Dream
                        SBR MVP
                        • 12-23-09
                        • 4521

                        #46
                        Originally posted by Walter Abrams
                        Is your dad the CEO of Wells Fargo? You come off as a piece of sh*t backing big banks. That goes for ANYONE. Then again, Im sure you and your family voted for Bush. Why should you care if banks own America now? Mommy and Daddy left you a nice nest egg? Is that why you wear your BkofAma sweater when you go outside? You wouldnt last a day away from your sheltered life. Posting on this forum makes you feel like you relate to real people. In reality though, you're nothing like us.

                        YOU are whats wrong with this country and why its in so much trouble. You actually believe what you are saying which means there are people around you that feel the same way.
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                        • SBR Lou
                          BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                          • 08-02-07
                          • 37863

                          #47
                          Originally posted by QuangX
                          CC debt is around 3k,

                          I do have 1k from the Niners bet last sunday
                          Possibly 1k from my book
                          and 2k coming in on the loan,
                          I might start working this week, which would make me around 850 after taxes. So ill be okay Gambling wise too. Well to me it not Gambling, It an investment. I sorta wanted to use the 3K into investing Stocks
                          Why are you gambling when you are in debt? It'd be more admirable, in a degenerate way, if you were at least betting to climb out of it. But you have the money and aren't even paying? I hope you aren't going to major in finance.
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                          • ngates815
                            SBR Posting Legend
                            • 12-01-09
                            • 13845

                            #48
                            Originally posted by Walter Abrams
                            Is your dad the CEO of Wells Fargo? You come off as a piece of sh*t backing big banks. That goes for ANYONE. Then again, Im sure you and your family voted for Bush. Why should you care if banks own America now? Mommy and Daddy left you a nice nest egg? Is that why you wear your BkofAma sweater when you go outside? You wouldnt last a day away from your sheltered life. Posting on this forum makes you feel like you relate to real people. In reality though, you're nothing like us.
                            While half of this is true.

                            I can't believe you're encouraging people to spend money they don't have. How are you ever going to get ahead in life if you're always in debt? Because we all know if this kid just says fukk it and doesn't pay off his bills, there is probably 95% chance he'll just do the same thing over and over again, if he can get ************.
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                            • opie1988
                              SBR Posting Legend
                              • 09-12-10
                              • 23429

                              #49
                              Originally posted by Walter Abrams
                              Is your dad the CEO of Wells Fargo? You come off as a piece of sh*t backing big banks. That goes for ANYONE. Then again, Im sure you and your family voted for Bush. Why should you care if banks own America now? Mommy and Daddy left you a nice nest egg? Is that why you wear your BkofAma sweater when you go outside? You wouldnt last a day away from your sheltered life. Posting on this forum makes you feel like you relate to real people. In reality though, you're nothing like us.
                              Listen, pal.....let's make sure this is the last time you ever make a post toward me. Got it? Failure to follow this simple rule will make for a quick exit off of my beloved chit-chat room.

                              And lastly, yes, I do sit on the board of a couple of different banks. So I see firsthand how lowlife, lazy jerkoffs think they shouldn't have to pay their debts but miraculously still find the funds to gamble, smoke, drink/drug, and be an overall worthless piece of sh*t.

                              So if not finding that type of behavior admirable or acceptable places me in the minority......then so be it.

                              A man pays his bills. Period.
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                              • No coincidences
                                SBR Aristocracy
                                • 01-18-10
                                • 76300

                                #50
                                Originally posted by Walter Abrams
                                Is your dad the CEO of Wells Fargo? You come off as a piece of sh*t backing big banks. That goes for ANYONE. Then again, Im sure you and your family voted for Bush. Why should you care if banks own America now? Mommy and Daddy left you a nice nest egg? Is that why you wear your BkofAma sweater when you go outside? You wouldnt last a day away from your sheltered life. Posting on this forum makes you feel like you relate to real people. In reality though, you're nothing like us.
                                Far be it for me to defend the banks in this matter, but get a fvcking clue guy. You want this cat to "stick it to the banks" by being irresponsible, reckless and negligent? Nice. Two wrongs make a right, eh?

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                                • No coincidences
                                  SBR Aristocracy
                                  • 01-18-10
                                  • 76300

                                  #51
                                  What has happened to our country?
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                                  • Walter Abrams
                                    SBR Sharp
                                    • 11-07-11
                                    • 265

                                    #52
                                    Originally posted by ngates815
                                    While half of this is true.

                                    I can't believe you're encouraging people to spend money they don't have. How are you ever going to get ahead in life if you're always in debt? Because we all know if this kid just says fukk it and doesn't pay off his bills, there is probably 95% chance he'll just do the same thing over and over again, if he can get ************.
                                    Im not encouraging him to do anything. Im simply letting him know the banks will be ok if he cant pay the debt. Maybe a CEO will have to take one less vacation? Hopefully the banks bottom line is not affected. I will say a prayer for the bank. A few posters in this thread will be saying one as well.
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                                    • No coincidences
                                      SBR Aristocracy
                                      • 01-18-10
                                      • 76300

                                      #53
                                      Originally posted by Walter Abrams
                                      Im not encouraging him to do anything. Im simply letting him know the banks will be ok if he cant pay the debt. Maybe a CEO will have to take one less vacation? Hopefully the banks bottom line is not affected. I will say a prayer for the bank. A few posters in this thread will be saying one as well.
                                      How you turn a situation like the OP's into an "us vs. them" scenario is beyond me.
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                                      • SBR Lou
                                        BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                        • 08-02-07
                                        • 37863

                                        #54
                                        Originally posted by Walter Abrams
                                        Im not encouraging him to do anything. Im simply letting him know the banks will be ok if he cant pay the debt. Maybe a CEO will have to take one less vacation? Hopefully the banks bottom line is not affected. I will say a prayer for the bank. A few posters in this thread will be saying one as well.
                                        I don't think the bank's bottom line is what's being discussed here. It's more about personal accountability, being responsible and a productive member of society.
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                                        • ngates815
                                          SBR Posting Legend
                                          • 12-01-09
                                          • 13845

                                          #55
                                          Originally posted by SBR Lou
                                          I don't think the bank's bottom line is what's being discussed here. It's more about personal accountability, being responsible and a productive member of society.

                                          Right, and he is ENCOURAGING him to be a DEADBEAT.

                                          Walter is probably one himself. Deadbeats like to stick together.
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                                          • Walter Abrams
                                            SBR Sharp
                                            • 11-07-11
                                            • 265

                                            #56
                                            Originally posted by No coincidences
                                            Far be it for me to defend the banks in this matter, but get a fvcking clue guy. You want this cat to "stick it to the banks" by being irresponsible, reckless and negligent? Nice. Two wrongs make a right, eh?

                                            In a sense thats what you just did though. Along with a few other posters in this thread. Well if you are the 1% I understand. If you are in the 99% like the rest of America it would make no sense. In the end if someone dosent pay a CC debt their credit is poisoned for 7 years. The bank sells the 3k debt for $25. If someone goes and gets ************ to max out just to file bankruptcy thats a different story. The OP already paid his debt 3x via the interest the banks make. The bank dosent care about you.
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                                            • No coincidences
                                              SBR Aristocracy
                                              • 01-18-10
                                              • 76300

                                              #57
                                              Originally posted by SBR Lou
                                              I don't think the bank's bottom line is what's being discussed here. It's more about personal accountability, being responsible and a productive member of society.
                                              A lot of people justify irrational and negligent behavior by taking the "us vs. them" mentality. We need less of the finger pointing bullshit in this country -- not more. The only advice this guy needs is to man up and take care of his own responsibilities. Nothing else matters.
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                                              • Walter Abrams
                                                SBR Sharp
                                                • 11-07-11
                                                • 265

                                                #58
                                                Originally posted by ngates815
                                                Right, and he is ENCOURAGING him to be a DEADBEAT.

                                                Walter is probably one himself. Deadbeats like to stick together.
                                                LMAO. I pay my bills. Ive seen you post losers on here. Go hit up the family for a bailout after you go all in again.
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                                                • No coincidences
                                                  SBR Aristocracy
                                                  • 01-18-10
                                                  • 76300

                                                  #59
                                                  Originally posted by Walter Abrams
                                                  In a sense thats what you just did though. Along with a few other posters in this thread. Well if you are the 1% I understand. If you are in the 99% like the rest of America it would make no sense. In the end if someone dosent pay a CC debt their credit is poisoned for 7 years. The bank sells the 3k debt for $25. If someone goes and gets ************ to max out just to file bankruptcy thats a different story. The OP already paid his debt 3x via the interest the banks make. The bank dosent care about you.
                                                  I'm not in the 1%. I make an honest living, I pay my bills, I live within my means and I don't spend money I don't have unless an emergency arises. I'm raising a family so I walk the financial tightrope every day, but I do what I have to do because that's what made this country great in the first place and I can only control my own actions and try my best to contribute in a positive way to getting that back.

                                                  You want to poison your credit in the short term for what? To prove a point? To stick it to the banks?

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                                                  • ngates815
                                                    SBR Posting Legend
                                                    • 12-01-09
                                                    • 13845

                                                    #60
                                                    Originally posted by Walter Abrams
                                                    LMAO. I pay my bills. Ive seen you post losers on here. Go hit up the family for a bailout after you go all in again.


                                                    Yea I post tons of plays on here, especially in the 2 months you have been here.


                                                    Good try though pal...I pay my bills
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                                                    • Living The Dream
                                                      SBR MVP
                                                      • 12-23-09
                                                      • 4521

                                                      #61
                                                      Originally posted by SBR Lou
                                                      I don't think the bank's bottom line is what's being discussed here. It's more about personal accountability, being responsible and a productive member of society.


                                                      Exactly. This is what I was meaning when I said this is why our country is going to Crap. People think they are entitled and if they don't have what they expect to be given to them, then they are entitled to screw banks or anything more successful than they are. This burns me up.
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                                                      • QuangX
                                                        SBR MVP
                                                        • 02-03-11
                                                        • 2756

                                                        #62
                                                        Originally posted by SBR Lou
                                                        Why are you gambling when you are in debt? It'd be more admirable, in a degenerate way, if you were at least betting to climb out of it. But you have the money and aren't even paying? I hope you aren't going to major in finance.

                                                        I Just recently came up with my money, and trying to figure out what to do with it. The debts has nothing to to with gambling. It just paying for books, Rent and Food. Im a full time college student.
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                                                        • floridagolfer
                                                          SBR MVP
                                                          • 12-19-08
                                                          • 2757

                                                          #63
                                                          Pay off the CC and STOP GAMBLING WITH MONEY YOU CAN'T AFFORD TO LOSE!!!!!!!
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                                                          • str
                                                            SBR Posting Legend
                                                            • 01-12-09
                                                            • 11717

                                                            #64
                                                            How much of the 3k is goods and how much is interest?

                                                            That is the key to the correct answer.

                                                            Tell me that and I will tell you what to do.

                                                            Also need to know your current interest rate.
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                                                            • LVHerbie
                                                              SBR Hall of Famer
                                                              • 09-15-05
                                                              • 6344

                                                              #65
                                                              Originally posted by opie1988
                                                              Hey scumbag......how about you grow the fukk up and pay your fukkin' bills? Regardless of how this ends up, hopefully you will be deported before you can steal anymore.

                                                              WalterAbrams......you seem like a real piece of sh*t in this thread. If that's the look you were going for.....well done.
                                                              Perhaps you heard that the economy is in the shitter right now (with a significant part due to the banks lending money to people like the OP who doesn't sound like he was a prime candidate for having any money loaned to him in the first place)...

                                                              Since the banks aren't taking responsibility for their mistakes (surely you heard about the whole bailout thing?) I personally would have a hard time telling someone on the bottom of the shit pile not to do what is best for him when all of us are getting ****** by our flawed system...

                                                              BTW do you have any interest in collection agencies Opie? Sounds like you studied their training model some...
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                                                              • LVHerbie
                                                                SBR Hall of Famer
                                                                • 09-15-05
                                                                • 6344

                                                                #66
                                                                Originally posted by opie1988

                                                                Listen, pal.....let's make sure this is the last time you ever make a post toward me. Got it? Failure to follow this simple rule will make for a quick exit off of my beloved chit-chat room.

                                                                And lastly, yes, I do sit on the board of a couple of different banks. So I see firsthand how lowlife, lazy jerkoffs think they shouldn't have to pay their debts but miraculously still find the funds to gamble, smoke, drink/drug, and be an overall worthless piece of sh*t.

                                                                So if not finding that type of behavior admirable or acceptable places me in the minority......then so be it.

                                                                A man pays his bills. Period.
                                                                Why the hell would a mod nominate this threatening, hateful rant rather then delete it and issue a warning?

                                                                While I wish it was more because it is perfect example of the mindset of those on top of the shit pile I suspect it more likely a display of partisanship instead...
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                                                                • opie1988
                                                                  SBR Posting Legend
                                                                  • 09-12-10
                                                                  • 23429

                                                                  #67
                                                                  Originally posted by LVHerbie
                                                                  Perhaps you heard that the economy is in the shitter right now (with a significant part due to the banks lending money to people like the OP who doesn't sound like he was a prime candidate for having any money loaned to him in the first place)...
                                                                  Since the banks aren't taking responsibility for their mistakes (surely you heard about the whole bailout thing?) I personally would have a hard time telling someone on the bottom of the shit pile not to do what is best for him when all of us are getting ****** by our flawed system...
                                                                  BTW do you have any interest in collection agencies Opie? Sounds like you studied their training model some...
                                                                  Wow. Thanks for opening my eyes to my insensitivity.

                                                                  Now, please enlighten me on exactly how our "flawed system" is fukking over poor Quang while he is busy stiffing people on payment for items he's willingly bought using the money they loaned him??

                                                                  Of course......it's especially touching to see that while we should feel sorry for jerkoffs like Quanger getting "fukked" by the evil banks, these same jerkoffs will miraculously come up with the money to piss away gambling.

                                                                  How special.
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                                                                  • Iced
                                                                    SBR MVP
                                                                    • 01-04-11
                                                                    • 1614

                                                                    #68
                                                                    opie laying the smack-down on walter and herbie.
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                                                                    • LVHerbie
                                                                      SBR Hall of Famer
                                                                      • 09-15-05
                                                                      • 6344

                                                                      #69
                                                                      Originally posted by opie1988
                                                                      Wow. Thanks for opening my eyes to my insensitivity.

                                                                      Now, please enlighten me on exactly how our "flawed system" is fukking over poor Quang while he is busy stiffing people on payment for items he's willingly bought using the money they loaned him??

                                                                      Of course......it's especially touching to see that while we should feel sorry for jerkoffs like Quanger getting "fukked" by the evil banks, these same jerkoffs will miraculously come up with the money to piss away gambling.

                                                                      How special.
                                                                      Are we talking about Quang or the banking system as a whole? If you want to pick one or the other rather then creating flawed straw man arguments I probably could respond...
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                                                                      • Walter Abrams
                                                                        SBR Sharp
                                                                        • 11-07-11
                                                                        • 265

                                                                        #70
                                                                        Originally posted by LVHerbie
                                                                        Perhaps you heard that the economy is in the shitter right now (with a significant part due to the banks lending money to people like the OP who doesn't sound like he was a prime candidate for having any money loaned to him in the first place)...

                                                                        Since the banks aren't taking responsibility for their mistakes (surely you heard about the whole bailout thing?) I personally would have a hard time telling someone on the bottom of the shit pile not to do what is best for him when all of us are getting ****** by our flawed system...

                                                                        BTW do you have any interest in collection agencies Opie? Sounds like you studied their training model some...
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