you never win in this in the long run. it should be for entertainment purposes only. you never win in gambling . trust me i know. for years i thought i can make a profit from it only to be buried by some bullshit. bet small or bet points . dont bet what you can't afford to lose. that is all i will say .
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jjgold
SBR Aristocracy
07-20-05
388179
#39
Well if you middle or scalp you can hang in there or get lines that are 3 or more points off
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mighty maron
SBR MVP
04-20-09
4215
#40
Originally posted by crzbrave
After every game where I lose on a half-court buzzer beater, a shit turnover, a backdoor cover, a blind ass zebra I say I'm done. I have to quit, how can you cap this shit? It is bullsh*t. I know that even if I do get on a streak, I will probally give it all back. I have made two cashouts in 6 years of sports betting I'd say.. but I have built up my balance from 20 to over a 1000 atleast 20 times. I don't have the means to be gambling right now really, yet I say one more reload. I give it a shot have a couple of good nights, then BANG.. it's back to 0. I say I'm done, then the next day comes around.. it's 4:00 pacific 7 eastern and I feel like damn I'm going to miss out on a winner. I went through 4,000 in a couple of months with a local when I was 19 my first experience betting, I should have known to quit then. I remember I had a 3 team parlay going to get me back out of the hole, my last play was a Sunday night game Oakland at Denver in a snow game, I had the Broncos this was prolly 6 years ago. Of course Oakland was a bad team and they kicked the shit out of Denver in the snow. rofl Been gambling every day for the past 2 years I'd say give or take a couple of days off.
I'm not going to some ga meeting , I don't have much spiritual going on for me and one of the few things left I enjoy is betting on sports. That is until halfway into the game. lol. I just turned 26 3 days ago, I think it is finally time to come to the realization that this isn't the life I want to live any more. I gotta make a change. One day at a time.. I gotta have some faith in myself and realize that the actions today make your future. Hope I can do this,
Hindsight Bias. The sporting world is not out to get you nor does it revolve around your wagers. Your ego is killing you. Most people are expected to lose at this. The longer one thinks they are an exception and that rules of probablity and statistics dont apply to them then the longer you will suffer.
Entertainment morphing into addiction is so painful...once the line is crossed theres no going back. So 1. become humble and realize you are going to lose. Step Away. or 2. Suffer quietly.
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Wulfman14
SBR Hall of Famer
08-24-10
8869
#41
Originally posted by jjgold
Well if you middle or scalp you can hang in there or get lines that are 3 or more points off
middling and scalping is profitable but not even close to the high you get from being on one side of a game. most gamblers are not that disciplined simply to scalp day after day and make their money.
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scORRgasm
SBR Rookie
09-12-11
12
#42
Don't kill me I'm just new. What is scalping?
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jimmyeatworld
Restricted User
10-30-11
498
#43
Originally posted by scORRgasm
Don't kill me I'm just new. What is scalping?
explanation by example, if you bet on team A at +120 and then the line moves to team B + 110, you take both bets and guarantee yourself profit.
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jimmyeatworld
Restricted User
10-30-11
498
#44
for those that know what games are going to be able to be scalped, scalping can be pretty profitable. Under the scenario i said you make an average of 15% off that from the original wager... 15% in a couple hours isn't half bad as far as investing goes.
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big0mar
SBR MVP
01-09-09
3374
#45
Whatever you do, don't quit while you are in the hole
Reload at an SBR sponsor
Make it back and more
[B][B]They key isn't getting rich quick. The key is getting rich slowly, and enjoying it.
for those that know what games are going to be able to be scalped, scalping can be pretty profitable. Under the scenario i said you make an average of 15% off that from the original wager... 15% in a couple hours isn't half bad as far as investing goes.
Right but this is where the issue of discipline comes. Swings of that magnitude are quite rare but what if you didn't take the original +120 on Team A and instead went for Team B at -140?
In that scenario the right thing to do is to scalp out for a guaranteed loss but a true gambler is unlikely to do this and will let the bet ride.
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floridagolfer
SBR MVP
12-19-08
2757
#48
For starters, don't watch the games you bet on. This makes it a thousand times tougher because you're happy, then you're PO'd . . . happy, PO'd . . . happy, PO'd . . . for hours on end.
Watching the games doesn't change the result; the teams don't play any harder or any smarter because you've bet on 'em.
Good luck.
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krk1030
SBR Posting Legend
08-13-08
17610
#49
It's probably harder than any other form of gambling to stop, because most of us start because we love watching sports.
You cant go back to just watching 2 random teams play with no action after years of betting.
And even though you know you lose long term you always see a match up and feel strongly about a side and want to play it.
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scORRgasm
SBR Rookie
09-12-11
12
#50
So how do you identify what games will be able to be scalped?
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big0mar
SBR MVP
01-09-09
3374
#51
Originally posted by scORRgasm
So how do you identify what games will be able to be scalped?
There is a book. Its called How to Get Rich by Asking People on the Internet.
[B][B]They key isn't getting rich quick. The key is getting rich slowly, and enjoying it.
Dude,
you should have just hung onto that girl. If good pussy cant keep you interested then ur screwed. If i drop my kids off with inlaws for the weekend and me and the wife are havin a good time all weekend then i dont bet that weekend. pussy has me hooked moore than sports.
If pussy isnt more important to you then your either gay or just a degen for life. go try and blow a dude and see if maybe thats your problem.
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scORRgasm
SBR Rookie
09-12-11
12
#53
Originally posted by big0mar
There is a book. Its called How to Get Rich by Asking People on the Internet.
Thanks man. I really appreciate the help. I can't find it on amazon????
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tony_come
SBR Posting Legend
03-31-10
21695
#54
keep pounding and dont quite
I moved to vegas just gamble
we can all relate but remember learn from your mistakes
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Big Bear
SBR Aristocracy
11-01-11
43253
#55
don't quit. Just be smart with your money management. If you are truly broke and need some action get an account at 5 dimes. You can make $1 bets.
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tony_come
SBR Posting Legend
03-31-10
21695
#56
^
exactly stay in the game
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pad
SBR High Roller
06-11-10
160
#57
thats true. just manage your $. bet the same amt on everygame never go all in. make the move from action junke to sports bettor. dont just bet for action, do it to win.
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Bongo
Restricted User
01-22-11
134
#58
Don't be a quitter! Look at the bright side, the money you lose helps keep people employed and keeps peoples wallets fat.
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xyzky
SBR MVP
08-23-07
1577
#59
Originally posted by Brock Landers
your a compulsive gambler pal, there is no quitting
First thing you have been right on in a long time...
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excel
Restricted User
03-25-10
4270
#60
How to stop gambling in two easy steps... 1. Buy a taser(>499,000 volts)
2.Tase self upon urge to place bet
Welcome to the gambling free life, enjoy
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crzbrave
SBR Wise Guy
01-24-09
755
#61
Is there a worst feeling then waking up to an account balance of 0 $? Then thinking about what you bet last night. Empty house with nothing to do and the winds are howling like never before. The Eagles - One of these nights, whatta song. Listened to it 7 times in a row last night, didn't fall asleep till 6 am and I'm up already. Just wanted to sleep all day.
You are right whoever said you can't watch a random game and enjoy it after betting for years every day, it sucks.
Here's a funny story, went up to the casino one night with my whole paycheck after work. We went to play some poker, I did ok grinded for 3 hours and lost 30 bucks. It was time to go, my buddy walked out the door.. I'm on my way behind him. Figure one hand of blackjack to make some profit, I throw a hundred down bet 40. lose that, bet 100, lose that, bet 200 lose that, bet another 200, get 20, dealer draws to 21. Sumthin like that, lost the whole check 600 bucks. Last time I played blackjack. That was the one and only time I ever did that...
They say the one problem most of us sports gamblers have is we feel we need to make a call on every game? I think I don't have to , but most games I do. But I lock into one game and research the hell out of it, and think I have an edge or a strong feeling about what will happen. They say don't bet unless you have an edge, how do you know when you have an edge on a bet?
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135steward
SBR High Roller
07-28-11
171
#62
a new forum?
A suggestion for the moderator: Start a "whiney bitch" forum for, well, you know.
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FindTheLock
SBR Hall of Famer
02-27-10
7194
#63
21 is more profitable than poker if you know how to play. You have to sit down for hours and hours to make money playing 21, and you can't try to hit and run on a 21 table with continued success without getting very lucky. You have to pick your spots in 21 just like sports betting. In order to do that though you have to be playing for a while. If you don't know what it feels like to have an edge on a bet, then you have never had one.
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zephyr
SBR Wise Guy
09-19-10
516
#64
Psychologists do these experiments with pigeons. The pigeons peck on a button to get fed. They train them to do it, then they quit feeding them and see how long the pigeons keep pecking without getting fed. If a pigeon gets fed after every peck, they quit pecking pretty fast when the food stops. If a pigeon gets fed after every 5, or maybe 10, or 20, pecks, the pecking for no food goes on longer. Then there are the pigeons who got fed at irregular intervals, sometimes every peck, sometimes after 3, sometimes after 25, etc. Those ******* pigeons peck themselves to death after the food stops flowing. The next peck might be the one that gets you the crumb.
Dude. You're young. Very young. You can do whatever you want.
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135steward
SBR High Roller
07-28-11
171
#65
So the pigeons are a bunch of peckers?
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SoCalFisher
SBR Wise Guy
01-22-09
769
#66
Sounds like you have been told what to do, so whats going to be your next move?
You gonna join/start the new forum I suggested, jj?
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DemoralizdDreamr
SBR MVP
02-04-11
4319
#69
You need to do something in life that will take away your interest. For instance, join a gym, a sports club, adapt a hobby, read a book, start swimming. ANything man, i started gym and started reading books about health.
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baskets
SBR Posting Legend
11-24-11
11691
#70
Originally posted by Leo Bello
You are on a power trip and think it is a self-control issue. Even the so-called experts can't agree why people can't quit gambling. From what I've read about these 12-step programs, they all begin by avowing that they are powerless to stop gambling, just like you are. For starters stay away from sites like these and take your girl or wife or kids somewhere every Saturday and Sunday and don't watch sports. Find friends that don't gamble, and stay away from people and places that do. That's a start. I don't mean to be rude, but your post was silly bullshit and not very convincing. You don't need any "higher power" to quit, but some friends who have gone through what you are currently going through could be a 'real friend' who just might help you, since he's been there, done that. If nothing else, think what you have stolen from your family and your kids, your wife, etc. If you're serious, you'll stop. It's either that or you'll die broke and lonely singing this same pathetic song. Oh, I didn't say it would be easy, but you can do it, but not by posting bullshit like above. I wish you the best, but I will not wish you 'good luck.'