Why Are Intelligent People Not The Happiest?

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  • Nate rasta
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    • 05-30-22
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    #36
    Is there a difference between being smart and having a lot of knowledge I think so
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    • Natty68
      SBR Wise Guy
      • 05-11-14
      • 550

      #37
      That idiotic Masked Singer show pretty much sums it up.
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      • JIBBBY
        SBR Aristocracy
        • 12-10-09
        • 83686

        #38
        Really smart people are usually nerds and have no friends. They live in books and their work. Usually not very attractive people and they lack social skills.

        That's my take on the super smart rocket scientist that is borderline autistic anyways.

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        • stevenash
          Moderator
          • 01-17-11
          • 65408

          #39
          Originally posted by Nate rasta
          Is there a difference between being smart and having a lot of knowledge I think so
          I mildly, not 100 percent disagree, as I do see where you are coming from.

          Smart, or having smarts suggests one with intelligence.
          But yeah, you can have a head full of facts and not be able to intelligently use those facts.
          Then there's a difference.
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          • JIBBBY
            SBR Aristocracy
            • 12-10-09
            • 83686

            #40
            ^ Big difference between being book smart and street smart in life.
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            • stevenash
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              • 01-17-11
              • 65408

              #41
              Originally posted by JIBBBY
              Really smart people are usually nerds and have no friends. They live in books and their work. Usually not very attractive people and they lack social skills.

              That's my take on the super smart rocket scientist that is borderline autistic anyways.


              You're generalizing Jibby.
              You're better than that.

              I work with IT engineers that are beyond brilliant with Brad Pitt looks that have super model type wives.
              Helps if you make 200k a year too.

              Don't generalize dude.
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              • stevenash
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                • 01-17-11
                • 65408

                #42
                Originally posted by JIBBBY
                ^ Big difference between being book smart and street smart in life.
                I've been told I'm geek smart, and working in NYC when I was in my 20's I learned street smarts, I had to to survive with a wad of cash in my pocket, I like to think I'm both.
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                • TheGoldenGoose
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                  • 11-27-12
                  • 3745

                  #43
                  Howard Hughes said, at the end of his life that he’d rather have been a beachcomber.
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                  • stevenash
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                    • 01-17-11
                    • 65408

                    #44
                    Originally posted by TheGoldenGoose
                    Howard Hughes said, at the end of his life that he’d rather have been a beachcomber.
                    Read Robert Maheu's book "Next to Hughes:
                    Beyond fascinating, Hughes was a bigger nut job than we thought he was.

                    Not for nothing, Robert Maheu served as Hughes' right hand man for decades, he was one of a very few on the inside.


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                    • JIBBBY
                      SBR Aristocracy
                      • 12-10-09
                      • 83686

                      #45
                      Originally posted by stevenash
                      You're generalizing Jibby.
                      You're better than that.

                      I work with IT engineers that are beyond brilliant with Brad Pitt looks that have super model type wives.
                      Helps if you make 200k a year too.

                      Don't generalize dude.
                      It's called stereotyping Stevie and not generalizing.. Get it right smart nerd.. ..

                      I know there are good looking and socially very smart people. I just playing around here.
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                      • stevenash
                        Moderator
                        • 01-17-11
                        • 65408

                        #46
                        Originally posted by JIBBBY
                        It's called stereotyping Stevie and not generalizing.. Get it right smart nerd.. ..

                        I know there are good looking and socially very smart people. I just playing around here.
                        It's called both, get it right dude
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                        • JIBBBY
                          SBR Aristocracy
                          • 12-10-09
                          • 83686

                          #47
                          Originally posted by stevenash
                          I've been told I'm geek smart, and working in NYC when I was in my 20's I learned street smarts, I had to to survive with a wad of cash in my pocket, I like to think I'm both.
                          Best combination to be in life is both book smart and street smart.

                          I've read many books in my life time as well and I've always been interested in learning new things. I've also experienced the hard streets and in the hoods as being a property manager with the section 8 housing. Traveling the world also opened my eyes to many different cultures.
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                          • Slurry Pumper
                            SBR MVP
                            • 06-18-18
                            • 2811

                            #48
                            Being smart sucks. People are always coming up to ask some questions. When you're stoopid noone asks you shit, you don't get blamed for anything and being tard happy means the simplest of phenomenon will astonish you.
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                            • Nate rasta
                              SBR MVP
                              • 05-30-22
                              • 2953

                              #49
                              Originally posted by stevenash
                              I mildly, not 100 percent disagree, as I do see where you are coming from.

                              Smart, or having smarts suggests one with intelligence.
                              But yeah, you can have a head full of facts and not be able to intelligently use those facts.
                              Then there's a difference.
                              I think knowledge is attained and learned but being smart I think is a gift that you're born with but it also helps you learn knowledge faster
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                              • JIBBBY
                                SBR Aristocracy
                                • 12-10-09
                                • 83686

                                #50
                                Originally posted by Slurry Pumper
                                Being smart sucks. People are always coming up to ask some questions. When you're stoopid noone asks you shit, you don't get blamed for anything and being tard happy means the simplest of phenomenon will astonish you.
                                You have a valid point there..

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                                • bhoor
                                  SBR MVP
                                  • 12-17-12
                                  • 2256

                                  #51
                                  How do you define 'smartness'? People who had ivy college degrees and MD titles believed in covid scam. These are system produced doctors and personalities, who won't think out of box for any critical decision, following whatever protocols satanic masters provide.
                                  Aaseevagam was the oldest religion in the world, at least, it was more than 20,000 yrs ago. One follower came and asked with God Muruga, who lived 12,000 yrs ago, that he wasn't happy and faced with lots of struggles. God Muruga said 'try not to think anything'. And it had become one of the famous 'mantras'. Yes, if you can control your mind, you can be happy. You won't control your mind unless you practice 'Kundalini' opening your tenth gate in your head.

                                  Yes, don't overthink about anything.
                                  Last edited by bhoor; 09-21-22, 09:01 PM.
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                                  • Nate rasta
                                    SBR MVP
                                    • 05-30-22
                                    • 2953

                                    #52
                                    I used to work facilities at silicon valley tech companies,and these top notch engineers had no common sense
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                                    • stevenash
                                      Moderator
                                      • 01-17-11
                                      • 65408

                                      #53
                                      Originally posted by Nate rasta
                                      I used to work facilities at silicon valley tech companies,and these top notch engineers had no common sense
                                      I'm an analyst by trade, I'm the guy who has to make sense of it all.
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                                      • Nate rasta
                                        SBR MVP
                                        • 05-30-22
                                        • 2953

                                        #54
                                        What kind of analyst?
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                                        • Fred The Hammer
                                          SBR Posting Legend
                                          • 08-13-13
                                          • 11577

                                          #55
                                          Going into the Air Force in 1987, I took the ASVAB test which they use to assign your job after basic training. I'm pretty sure they had 5 categories and I got a perfect score in Math and maybe 2 points from perfect in General or whatever. I also got like a 30% in Electrical/Maintenance or whatever that category was. I still can barely change a light bulb or open my hood and do anything

                                          It still amazes me that some people that can build or fix complex things or do what they do. Those same people might be amazed at all the mostly useless knowledge I have of numbers, sports, history, geography, genealogy, etc.

                                          Calling someone smart or a genius is so subjective though. I know in my poker room there are some very, very intelligent players in there and most are to be avoided, but thats not a lock either. I play with 1 guy that owns his own tech company or whatever, but yet he plays with ego and always tries to bully the table. Playing poker as an ego boost is not a recipe for winning, but the guy knows crypto and everything else that would be considered cutting edge.

                                          Its better not to judge a book by its cover
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                                          • TheMoneyShot
                                            BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                            • 02-14-07
                                            • 28672

                                            #56
                                            ^ I agree.... some people are very slick at certain topics.... to each their own. If you lack in an area... that said area... you'd be amazed at someone who has a better handle on it.
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                                            • spro23
                                              SBR MVP
                                              • 07-17-15
                                              • 1129

                                              #57
                                              I wish I enjoyed socializing more, I'm severely introverted and it sucks. Always amazes me when I see people doing things with groups of friends like dinners, trips, etc... I can't fathom knowing that many people, having many friends and whatnot. I'm like an alien observing a different planet it sucks.
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                                              • stevenash
                                                Moderator
                                                • 01-17-11
                                                • 65408

                                                #58
                                                Originally posted by Nate rasta
                                                What kind of analyst?
                                                IT Mainframe Operations Analyst
                                                Big Blue (IBM) Heavy metal as us geeks refer to the corporate mainframes.
                                                I work for a major insurance company, my office is in New Haven Ct. I'm in Fairfield Ct, since Covid I've been working pretty much remote.

                                                I analyze computer programs that abend (abnormal ending = abend) but my job description is must more than that.
                                                I crunch actuarial numbers, you know life expectancies, they vary from one year to the next, life insurance manager need those numbers to set rates on different types of policies... I think you get the jist of it,

                                                Boring?
                                                To most people.

                                                It's who I am, it's what I do.
                                                I'm IT and numbers geek, yep, I'm a nerd.

                                                Back in the day I wrestled and played scholastic ball, I can still handle myself, but I'm not that guy any longer.

                                                That's more than enough personal information I'm going to divulge.
                                                There's more, but that's all anybody is going to get on these boards.
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                                                • Nate rasta
                                                  SBR MVP
                                                  • 05-30-22
                                                  • 2953

                                                  #59
                                                  Big up mon. I was going to say if you're in the bay let's have a beer but it's all good big up mon
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                                                  • stevenash
                                                    Moderator
                                                    • 01-17-11
                                                    • 65408

                                                    #60
                                                    Originally posted by Nate rasta
                                                    Big up mon. I was going to say if you're in the bay let's have a beer but it's all good big up mon
                                                    I'll look you up next time I'm in SF.
                                                    Been awhile, I'm in Vegas often, last time I was in the bay area was to visit friends in San Ramon.

                                                    Peace.
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                                                    • Nate rasta
                                                      SBR MVP
                                                      • 05-30-22
                                                      • 2953

                                                      #61
                                                      Cheers
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                                                      • JIBBBY
                                                        SBR Aristocracy
                                                        • 12-10-09
                                                        • 83686

                                                        #62
                                                        I enjoy smart people. I enjoy wise people more. With age comes wisdom.

                                                        Visit an old folks home and talk to them about life. You could learn something no matter how smart you think you are.
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                                                        • stevenash
                                                          Moderator
                                                          • 01-17-11
                                                          • 65408

                                                          #63
                                                          Originally posted by JIBBBY

                                                          Visit an old folks home and talk to them about life. You could learn something no matter how smart you think you are.
                                                          Here you go Jibby.
                                                          Listen closely to this song about old folks.

                                                          Pretty much spot on, huh?





                                                          [Intro]
                                                          And then the same thing comes from us
                                                          And then the same thing comes from us

                                                          [Verse 1]
                                                          Old have memories to keep the cold away
                                                          What is that you say?
                                                          No sense to dwell
                                                          Old, are you ridiculed and fumed away
                                                          No attention paid?
                                                          I thought as much
                                                          Yes and the dumb patriots have their say
                                                          Only see their way
                                                          Nothing to sell


                                                          [Chorus]
                                                          And worse from us, so obvious
                                                          Preposterous, when you think
                                                          Of the time that each has spent
                                                          Words heaven sent and truly meant to show (Ooh)

                                                          [Verse 2]
                                                          Old, may I sit down here and learn today?
                                                          I'll hear all you say
                                                          I won't go away

                                                          [Chorus]
                                                          And worse from us, so obvious
                                                          Preposterous, when you think
                                                          Of the time that each has spent
                                                          Words heaven sent and truly meant to show (Ooh)
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                                                          • Optional
                                                            Administrator
                                                            • 06-10-10
                                                            • 61209

                                                            #64
                                                            Originally posted by Nate rasta
                                                            Is there a difference between being smart and having a lot of knowledge I think so
                                                            Smart people probably end up with more knowledge than average naturally.

                                                            But I'd agree educated people with a lot of taught knowledge can be disappointingly dull sometimes.
                                                            .
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                                                            • Optional
                                                              Administrator
                                                              • 06-10-10
                                                              • 61209

                                                              #65
                                                              Originally posted by JIBBBY
                                                              ^ Big difference between being book smart and street smart in life.
                                                              Street smart is just what people too lazy to learn call themselves.

                                                              Book smart is just people who need to be told how to think.

                                                              Big difference between both of those and real naturally smart types too.
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                                                              • blankoblanco
                                                                SBR MVP
                                                                • 11-18-11
                                                                • 3491

                                                                #66
                                                                Flip the question around. Does anybody ever wonder why stupid people aren't the saddest? Of course not. Nobody expects stupid people to be sad. So then why expect smart people to be happy? Extrapolate from there.
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                                                                • JIBBBY
                                                                  SBR Aristocracy
                                                                  • 12-10-09
                                                                  • 83686

                                                                  #67
                                                                  Originally posted by Optional
                                                                  Street smart is just what people too lazy to learn call themselves.

                                                                  Book smart is just people who need to be told how to think.

                                                                  Big difference between both of those and real naturally smart types too.
                                                                  My take is -



                                                                  - Street smarts gives you ability to see when people are trying to scam you, hurt you, etc.. or basically it teaches you to read into people and to not put trust into others. You become wise to the evil ways of people and puts you on guard. It can also teach you to con people as well.

                                                                  - Book smarts teaches you everything that street smarts don't..
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                                                                  • TheGoldenGoose
                                                                    SBR MVP
                                                                    • 11-27-12
                                                                    • 3745

                                                                    #68
                                                                    In High School you could see what was important to different clicks of kids. The study club, the Band, the jocks. We worked on cars because my best friend had a free car garage. Needed new brake pads? No problem but we’ll take that free invo to your parents Vermont ski chalet this weekend.
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                                                                    • stevenash
                                                                      Moderator
                                                                      • 01-17-11
                                                                      • 65408

                                                                      #69
                                                                      Originally posted by TheGoldenGoose
                                                                      In High School you could see what was important to different clicks of kids. The study club, the Band, the jocks. We worked on cars because my best friend had a free car garage. Needed new brake pads? No problem but we’ll take that free invo to your parents Vermont ski chalet this weekend.
                                                                      In HS I wasa hybrid jock/nerd
                                                                      Nobody really gave a shit, I was liked for my humor.
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                                                                      • Auto Donk
                                                                        SBR Aristocracy
                                                                        • 09-03-13
                                                                        • 43558

                                                                        #70
                                                                        JJ Gold claims to be intelligent....


                                                                        as you can see, however, he is not happy:





                                                                        did the research have anything to say about "intelligent people with tiny kahks" being unhappy?

                                                                        ironically, the video shows the intelligent JJ grabbing ahold of what makes him so angry.....
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