What are doing to try to find it, then ?
There are plenty of resources to find this mate. Dating sites, maybe church activities if that's your thing, volunteer work, an AA, GA, NA meeting....anything where you can be meeting people.
Bars are probably not great for you.
maybe classes at a community college.....something not too heavy like math, maybe something more artsy-fartsy....pottery making, cooking,etc.
The women are out there, assuming you aren't some freaky dude.
There are plenty of resources to find this mate. Dating sites, maybe church activities if that's your thing, volunteer work, an AA, GA, NA meeting....anything where you can be meeting people.
Bars are probably not great for you.
maybe classes at a community college.....something not too heavy like math, maybe something more artsy-fartsy....pottery making, cooking,etc.
The women are out there, assuming you aren't some freaky dude.