
Originally Posted by
Mac4Lyfe
You are the one with stinking thinking. I'm a grown ass man, why would I need a handout from anyone? Why would I need to receive help from family? If I want something, I go get it. I don't want anyone getting me anything, I'll get it myself. I don't need to deny anyone's help because I don't need anyone's help "FINANCIALLY". Broke is childish and I'M GROWN... I think it's much more disrespectful for someone to come up to me and beg for money. The problem is not with me, it's with them. Get off your ass and make your own way. When I was a child, I thought like I child but when I grew up I threw away childish ways.
I made a lot of money, I retired my mom and dad (stepdad). I told them both to quit their jobs many years ago. I paid for their house, cars, vacations, expenses, medical bills, etc., until the day they both died. I took my mom on a shopping spree once and told her to get what she wanted. She was so use to looking at the tags that should couldn't even enjoy what she was looking at. I had to finally tell her to not look at the tag (although I still peeked when she wasn't looking). One day she told my wife... "He gives me what I need but he doesn't always give me what I want". Now it wasn't because I didn't try but because most normal people are not going to ask for more than what they need. Do you really think Thomas' sister would ask for more than what she needs? That would be pathetic IMO.
You give a man a fish, he will eat for a day. You teach a man to fish and they eat for a lifetime.
Too many broke minded people in this forum. Somehow IT didn't love his sister because he didn't buy her a new car? Or because she was still living in the same house they grew up in? Or because she was a half sister? They expect him to stupidly spend money to keep up with the Joneses.