How can I get my girlfriend back???

[mike67]

why is it that she didnt asked you to go out and party with her? she was too young when she started dating you, and she never had the time to have experiences, but, also, she could of told you to have those experiences with her?... Give her some time, and in the mean time you can also have some fun, if she loves you, she will get jealous and she will let you know that she is, and then you'll realize if she loves you or not.
GL!

[A.M.S.]

pic or u never had her ............

[Lookingtostart]

My girl dumped me after 6 years. Been dating her since she was 19 , now she is 25. She says shes never been single before and wants to go out with the girls and see whats out there.

Sounds like she's upgrading.

[TheMetsSuck]

usually when this happens the girl already has a guy in her sights and is ready to try something different. Girls rarely play this card without an option or two that has them curious. I made a post like this on covers a while back and made all the wrong moves you could make in the beginning. trust me....best advice you got was to ignore her completely. it will eat away at her and she will reach out to you. Best revenge is living well. Go **** a few sluts and do some wild shit you normally wouldn't have a chance to do since you two love birds were in on a saturday night watching the notebook for the 5th time.

[AribaAriba]

he doesnt deserve you bro, move on and ask her whats up with that? there are things in life that arent permanent and time will heal whatever pain in there.

[TheCentaur]

Even if she is already seeing another guy, her seeing you with another good looking girl will drive her crazy with jealousy and her feelings will change towards you for the better. Do whatever you can to create this situation (pay a hooker, hang out with a good looking female friend or cousin where you know she will just happen to be)

There is not a guy alive who isn't more attractive to a woman if he has a beautiful woman under his arm. Once you get her back, occasionally be mean to her for no apparent reason and sometimes don't call her for a whole week. Her love for you will blossom more and more with each of these traumatic events and she will question her worth and whether she is good enough for you.

This sounds like a terrible way to behave but girls love drama, and you've tried to follow your heart and be honest, now follow what works.

[andywend]

BigBear, there is only 1 course of action you should be taking as it will improve your self-esteem (which must be in the tank right now) and increase the chances of her coming back to you.

You need to get back on the horse and go out on a date ASAP. The longer you wait, the harder its going to be.

If she is the only girl you want, then try and arrange a date with a girl she knows that you like as well.

The only way she will come back and stay with you for any extended length of time is if she believes you have moved on with your life.

"Begging" her to come back is a receipe for disaster as there is no way your relationship will be anywhere near the same as what it was even if you succeed.

[bignicki26]

Hahaha What???????? Don't play those stupid games, sure it will entice her interest briefly, but then she'll clue back into why she left in the first place. Been there twice, once really recent! Played all the games, had them running back,it just isnt good enough... they leave for a reason big guy, sorry to break it to you but she is gone and it's for the best... you'll see.

Be thankful she didn't pull this crap in 5-6 years though... you're in prime shape now. My advice from experience: hit the gym, tone up, let her breathe in the big bear goodness! Then when she comes back (and she will) laugh your arse off. ahahaha I'll never forget the priceless look on her face. Goood stuff.

take your fellow posters advice, ignore her and what shes doing for a while and live it up with the boys... eventually you'll find a keeper.

[AraiWa]

so basically just let her go and wait to see if she comes back..?

Basically, take a trip to Thailand, bang a bunch of lithe, little brown fvkking machines, and get over her. If she loves you she'll come back.

Seriously, do not call her. Wait to see if she calls you. If not, oh well, you need to get a few girls lined up so you're kept busy. If she
finds out what you're doing, three things can happen. One-she'll come running back. To which you MUST reply, I'm not sure, let me think it over. Or two, she'll get pissed. Oh well. Three-she'll understand that she is the one who wanted her freedom, now you have it and you're doing what men do. If she asks you about this, tell her it hurts you not to be with her and the best way to keep your mind off her is to date other women! If she wants you back, do what I tell you and it will work. If you turn pvssy and kiss her ass, you're going to look like less of a man and she'll never want you back. She'll want that guy she meets that doesn't call her, doesn't talk much and doesn't give a shit if she lays, stays or pray.

[pronk]

Bigbear, marry her dummy, she doesn't want to be your gf forever

[Ghenghis Kahn]

best thing to get her back is by dating other chicks. bitches are very competitive with each other. even if she doesn't want you back, she'll get jealous that other chicks are into you. once she realizes she can get you back, she'll dump you again. you just have to repeat the cycle until you realize she's a fuckin bitch and you can do better. don't ever show that you are weak with bitches, then she'll walk all over you and lose respect for you. but looking at how you are crying about how you want her back, i think she's already moved on and needs other cocks to please her vagina...

[manny24]

don't call...next time she calls you just say, "never fukkin heard of ya." and hang up...then find her best friend (ugly as she may be) and fukk her in the azz...everyone wins.

[William Walters]

If you want the truth............................

[William Walters]

..............................maybe she's just not in to broke dikk fukks?

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[BettingWizard]

by not needing her




btw, if 100 playboy playmates were at your door right now, you wouldn't even remember this chick existed. You just think you'll be alone, or some other stupid mindset.

[thetrinity]

agree for the most part of what these guys are saying. we dont know the situation but heres the possibilities.

1. she wants to slut it up.

2. she wanted you to propose by now.

3. she found someone else already.

my guess is that 1 is the most likely followed by 2 and 3. if she makes more money then you, she probably thinks you are a loser and now that shes 25 she realized it. like others said dont mope go out and do stuff u wanted to do without her. shes gone for now, but i wouldnt be begging her to come back either, shell come back if she wants 2 after 6 years.

[chilidog]

OP was just comfortable with the girl. There's a reason that the old adage still rings true: "The best way to get over a person is to get under another one".

[manny24]

also, don't forget to come the face...you're welcome.

[boeing power]

I wonder how many coks she's had in her ass since she dumped you.

[TheMetsSuck]

I wonder how many coks she's had in her ass since she dumped you.

i bet you think about cocks going into asses alot

[brettcecil]

My girl dumped me after 6 years. Been dating her since she was 19 , now she is 25. She says shes never been single before and wants to go out with the girls and see whats out there. Her friends,her sister and probably her parents , i think are probably influencing her to be single. But It's not like I don't treat this girl well or anything and we haven't had a major fight to bring this on.

My question to you guys is what is the best way to win this girl back? My boss told me to make sure whatever I do that I don't call her. He said if I don't chase her and act like I don't care then all of the sudden she will come back to me.

Anybody have had any experience with something like this? I'm not trying to start a lame thread or anything. But i'm 28 , i'm not getting any younger I am sure this is the girl I would like to marry. I guess I could try to meet other girls and move on but I don't want a different random slut every night as crazy as I'm sure some of you think that sounds. This girl is banging though great personality and all.

somebody give me some serious advice please...thanks

Teach yourself to be better in bed. If you **** a girl real good and make her *** on a consistent basis, she will never leave you. Lot of guys brag but only a few guys can a **** good and make a girl *** on a consistent basis.

[boeing power]

i bet you think about cocks going into asses alot

Ya,

I think about my cok going into your moms ass.

Gtfo bitch

[onlooker]

Big Bear. Fuking any new chicks yet?

[tokio]

I dont think going out and banging new chicks is gonna set you down the right path your wanting to head to if your mindset is already "I want to marry this girl". Take some time, cool off with friends and family and after that slowly start to see if there is still a spark within her to get back with you.

[manny24]

still no pics of big bear's girl's nips?...wtf is going on here?

[Extra Innings]

Read between the lines, she probably has a guy lined up from work, etc. Simply put, it's over. Trust me, been there, done that. The fact of the matter is there are a million girls out there just like this one, perhaps even better.

[HoulihansTX]

If you see her with her new BF. Beat his ass in front of her, and your golden.

Any luck?

[thetrinity]

a pic of ex ms big bear and big bear himself would make this a lot easier to determine.

[paranoyd androyd]

she wants to be a whore, so let her. she'll probably catch herpes as a result and thus will regret dumping you for the rest of her life.

winner.

[Dark Horse]

My girl dumped me after 6 years. Been dating her since she was 19 , now she is 25. She says shes never been single before and wants to go out with the girls and see whats out there. Her friends,her sister and probably her parents , i think are probably influencing her to be single. But It's not like I don't treat this girl well or anything and we haven't had a major fight to bring this on.

My question to you guys is what is the best way to win this girl back? My boss told me to make sure whatever I do that I don't call her. He said if I don't chase her and act like I don't care then all of the sudden she will come back to me.

Anybody have had any experience with something like this? I'm not trying to start a lame thread or anything. But i'm 28 , i'm not getting any younger I am sure this is the girl I would like to marry. I guess I could try to meet other girls and move on but I don't want a different random slut every night as crazy as I'm sure some of you think that sounds. This girl is banging though great personality and all.

somebody give me some serious advice please...thanks

When you meet your wife it won't take you six years to marry her. Take this girl out for a fancy dinner, tell her you really appreciated the time together, and let her go.

[AraiWa]

Teach yourself to be better in bed. If you **** a girl real good and make her *** on a consistent basis, she will never leave you. Lot of guys brag but only a few guys can a **** good and make a girl *** on a consistent basis.

So the thousands of broads I've nailed have all been lying? Oh well, I got mine!

Seriously though, you definitely better make her ***. Better yet, learn how to make her squirt. If you can do that, you're ahead of the game.

It might not be a bad idea (if you're not a total pussy and can be strong enough) to take her out to dinner. Take her out, smile alot, don't say one fukking word about your relationship with her other than, "She's right and you want her to be happy. And maybe it would be good for you to see other people too." Be prepared that she's not going to beg you not to date but in the long run, doing this will make you appear less frigging needy!

[ColdBeerHere]

BigBeer must be on a heavy drinking spree...he's gone...

[Big Bear]

thanks for all the advice guys

[Big Bear]

Here is a little update. we broke up Tuesday she calls me Thursday comes over spends the night things went well but we didnt talk about anything serious. I woke up went to work before she woke up. I havent heard from her since. we did make plans to hang out today on thursday when i saw her but she didnt call me today...

[Big Bear]

this is a girl i love and want to marry and i was planning on asking her to marry me this fall on a trip we had planned. The reason i havent asked her to marry me yet is until now i havent had been in a good position financially and ofcourse ya know i want to be sure before i pop the question.