It's 11:00 and I have already had the craziest day of my life...HELP

[GiveMeaBJ]

shouldnt the other guy know or does he?????????/ id tell her parents, and the guy and you are a jerk, deserved to be banned here and your an asshole

You clearly don't understand. I'm a jerk but I should tell her parents? Why would I want to put them and her through this? The other guy knows and doesn't care. He is clearly an asshole.

[Fishhead]

you clearly don't understand. I'm a jerk but i should tell her parents? Why would i want to put them and her through this? The other guy knows and doesn't care. He is clearly an asshole.

.....so is she!

[podunk]

you've got it made right now...you are going to get crazy sex for awhile...stick it in the butt

[GiveMeaBJ]

Ok guys here is what went down.

We went to the clinic together we talked on the way and things got better. She explained the whole situation and how she thinks it happened and that he ****ed him just once when she was drunk. I explained to her that the girls I ****ed were at the beginning of our relationship before we were serious. She asked my why I did that and I gave here what I think was a genius line "I didn't know we would get this serious but since then I stopped after I found out what your really were all about. Now I know were perfect for each other". We apologized or whatever and really I am fine with everything now. I didn't know how much it cost so I brought whatever I had in my room because I heard it could be a bunch of different numbers based on how many weeks, etc. So final tally was $600 something. I paid it. It was real quick, much quicker then I thought. We were out much quicker then I thought. She thanked me for taking her and I laid with her in bed and right now she is still up there sleeping.

I have never had a big incident with a girlfriend like this as usually if something I don't like happens I break it off quickly but going through this made me realize she really does love me and there is something to that and I can't just kick her to the curb. I really do care about her so I decided I am just going to try to put that behind me and take it day by day with her and try to make it work for a while.

[GiveMeaBJ]

you've got it made right now...you are going to get crazy sex for awhile...stick it in the butt

We tried that twice, she didn't like it. Whatever I figure I have several free bj cards that I can use anytime.

[DOMINATER]

Kid it is her choice or you can do is show support, thats what women wanted when they fought for equal rights show support half these guys are joking others never been through this pm if you think guilt will be an issue

[DrStale]

Ok guys here is what went down. We went to the clinic together we talked on the way and things got better. She explained the whole situation and how she thinks it happened and that he ****ed him just once when she was drunk. I explained to her that the girls I ****ed were at the beginning of our relationship before we were serious. She asked my why I did that and I gave here what I think was a genius line "I didn't know we would get this serious but since then I stopped after I found out what your really were all about. Now I know were perfect for each other". We apologized or whatever and really I am fine with everything now. I didn't know how much it cost so I brought whatever I had in my room because I heard it could be a bunch of different numbers based on how many weeks, etc. So final tally was $600 something. I paid it. It was real quick, much quicker then I thought. We were out much quicker then I thought. She thanked me for taking her and I laid with her in bed and right now she is still up there sleeping. I have never had a big incident with a girlfriend like this as usually if something I don't like happens I break it off quickly but going through this made me realize she really does love me and there is something to that and I can't just kick her to the curb. I really do care about her so I decided I am just going to try to put that behind me and take it day by day with her and try to make it work for a while.

Sounds like it worked pretty well, all things considered. BOL in the future.

[stevek173]

Ok guys here is what went down.

We went to the clinic together we talked on the way and things got better. She explained the whole situation and how she thinks it happened and that he ****ed him just once when she was drunk. I explained to her that the girls I ****ed were at the beginning of our relationship before we were serious. She asked my why I did that and I gave here what I think was a genius line "I didn't know we would get this serious but since then I stopped after I found out what your really were all about. Now I know were perfect for each other". We apologized or whatever and really I am fine with everything now. I didn't know how much it cost so I brought whatever I had in my room because I heard it could be a bunch of different numbers based on how many weeks, etc. So final tally was $600 something. I paid it. It was real quick, much quicker then I thought. We were out much quicker then I thought. She thanked me for taking her and I laid with her in bed and right now she is still up there sleeping.

I have never had a big incident with a girlfriend like this as usually if something I don't like happens I break it off quickly but going through this made me realize she really does love me and there is something to that and I can't just kick her to the curb. I really do care about her so I decided I am just going to try to put that behind me and take it day by day with her and try to make it work for a while.

you got my respect here dude, well played

[podunk]

it sucks to wrap it up...but it's a lot better than having the chick say "i'm late." christ...hearing that is like getting punched in the dick

[GiveMeaBJ]

Guilt? No I don't feel guilty at all. The only thing I felt bad for was her. Not the unborn baby. I have no guilt what so ever. She made the descision and it was the best for me, her, and the other guy and our families. Let me get this off my chest.

Guys who say adoption:
Is that fair? This kid has to grow up with two people it has no relation to. I know two kids who were adopted and they have it pretty good but for every kid like that there is a ****ed up kid who was adopted and can never have that special bond with parents. Plus if it was my kid I would rather keep it then give it to strangers .

Guys who say I should keep it:
What good could have come out of that? Here are the scenarios:
A) It's not mine
This kid now has a mom who isn't prepared to be one and a deadbeat dad for a father based on one night of ****ing.

B) It's mine
This kid now has two parents who are very unprepared for a kid and has to grow up while I am going through college etc.

[GiveMeaBJ]

it sucks to wrap it up...but it's a lot better than having the chick say "i'm late." christ...hearing that is like getting punched in the dick

I know man, my heart dropped when I heard that she was pregnant. I can't explain the feeling. I have never felt it before and never want to feel it again.

[whatsgood5]

Holy balls, that is some crazy shit. I guess congrats that it's not yours. Kinda sucks that you won't be able to **** this chick much longer before she gets bigger and gross tho...

[Tree Rollins]

I wouldn't sweat the std's thing. Go get tested if you want, but if you aren't showing any signs of anything then you're good unless you have hiv, which you don't. I've been through the worrying about that. Go get tested if you want but the chances you have something are remote. Also, you don't think she's trying to scam 700 bucks out of you, do you? obviously, you probably know her well enough to be able to tell. But if you give her the money, i'd go with her to make sure she has it done, especially if she isn't showing anything yet.

Also, don't ****ing take her back, but i definitely would try to keep things on good terms. She might get pissed and decide she thinks the baby is yours, and she's going to keep it. It will be her way of punishing you for treating her badly. If you treat her like shit, the pregnancy thing would be her only way to get revenge at this point, since you 2 are broken up. Only bad things will come from you being a dick to her.

[GiveMeaBJ]

Oh and thanks to everyone who helped me out. Thanks for the PMs Dom. Thanks for making this whole process easier. Thats what SBR is for I guess. Non of my friends know about this so I had to get you guys to help.

[DOMINATER]

No codems she needs to go on the pill

[DOMINATER]

And condems so you dont get an std

[DrStale]

Guilt? No I don't feel guilty at all. The only thing I felt bad for was her. Not the unborn baby. I have no guilt what so ever. She made the descision and it was the best for me, her, and the other guy and our families. Let me get this off my chest. Guys who say adoption: Is that fair? This kid has to grow up with two people it has no relation to. I know two kids who were adopted and they have it pretty good but for every kid like that there is a ****ed up kid who was adopted and can never have that special bond with parents. Plus if it was my kid I would rather keep it then give it to strangers . Guys who say I should keep it: What good could have come out of that? Here are the scenarios: A) It's not mine This kid now has a mom who isn't prepared to be one and a deadbeat dad for a father based on one night of ****ing. B) It's mine This kid now has two parents who are very unprepared for a kid and has to grow up while I am going through college etc.

Don't even bother trying to argue with those people. You will never change their mind and they will never change yours. Bottom line is it's a personal decision and its a hell of a lot easier to say "baby killer" when it's someone else's situation and not your own. You made the right call for all parties involved.

[acarmelo1]

Good Job it ended well

[GiveMeaBJ]

Don't even bother trying to argue with those people. You will never change their mind and they will never change yours. Bottom line is it's a personal decision and its a hell of a lot easier to say "baby killer" when it's someone else's situation and not your own. You made the right call for all parties involved.

[Pecos Bill]

at least your getting laid

[Tree Rollins]

Invite her over. Then punch her dead square in the stomach, as hard as you can.

[podunk]

at least your getting laid

[Pecos Bill]

can i see a picture of you BJ?

[GiveMeaBJ]

Why would you want to see a picture of me? I thought I would get gf requests by now.

[Tree Rollins]

uhhh, please don't post a picture of yourself. but if you could post a picture of your gf so that we could all imagine her walking into our room and giving us a bj, that would be great. thanks man.

[Tree Rollins]

is that your girlfriend in your avatar? just say it is.

[podunk]

uhhh, please don't post a picture of yourself. but if you could post a picture of your gf so that we could all imagine her walking into our room and giving us a bj, that would be great. thanks man.

[GiveMeaBJ]

is that your girlfriend in your avatar? just say it is.

Yes, it is.

[Tree Rollins]

Yes, it is.

Sweet. if i were you i would go ahead and get her pregnant.

[Pecos Bill]

Why would you want to see a picture of me? I thought I would get gf requests by now.

I guess i want to see what a guy who gets laid regularly looks like, then compare myself to him an try to analyze why he gets laid and i dont. I imagine you having a hard body and a handsome face.

[GiveMeaBJ]

Lol, it's obviously not I just figured I wouldn't spoil your fun.

[GiveMeaBJ]

I guess i want to see what a guy who gets laid regularly looks like, then compare myself to him an try to analyze why he gets laid and i dont. I imagine you having a hard body and a handsome face.

[SexyMit]

Just made an appointment for tomorrow. I think I have to answer, she won't stop calling.

Change your number!

[1st and Ten]

is that your girlfriend in your avatar? just say it is.

[acarmelo1]

Lol, it's obviously not I just figured I wouldn't spoil your fun.