Poll: will the chick come running to hoopster if he ignores her?????

hoopster42 · 07-14-09, 10:50 PM

Originally posted by jellobiafra

Well that's good to hear hoops. The important thing is that YOU feel closure. Who cares what the little cocktease feels? I understand why you did what you did - the text and the call. But they were both mistakes. I'm the same way, though. Impatient. It would have taken an extreme amount of self-control to just stick to the plan and not responded. I can't really blame you, but try to learn from it.

Anyway, just make sure you don't try to contact her again...k?

thanks for the sincere advice. i agree, the angry rant in the text was a mistake.............. but i do feel tonight's voice message was a good move. a HORRIBLE move would be to ever text or call again, so i am removing the girl and the ph # from memory.

onward in this gm we know as life

hoopster42 · 07-14-09, 10:52 PM

Originally posted by TheIntegrityKid

poor married hoopy... seriously

i feel for ya.. i understand having mixed emotions about a chic... but while ur married to someone else? i think you should wait until that situation is COMPLETELY resolved before even considering another girl

judging by your up and down emotions, you may need to work on yourself before you get with another girl

and dont say you just wanted sex from her because that'd be a lie...

honest to God, TI kid, this is all i wanted. i figured a young girl can just bone down and not expect any kind of commitment, i do not want a GF, just some pussy & TLC

TheIntegrityKid · 07-14-09, 10:59 PM

Originally posted by hoopster42

honest to God, TI kid, this is all i wanted. i figured a young girl can just bone down and not expect any kind of commitment, i do not want a GF, just some pussy & TLC

well you can find yourself a fukk buddy anywhere, yo...

when you spend 9 months or a year going after a chic, it makes people think you wanted A LOT more...

you'll be alright tho... just go meet some women and ull get one or two for a fukk buddy soon. just dont spend a year trying to get them in the sack!!!

hoopster42 · 07-15-09, 12:00 AM

Originally posted by TheIntegrityKid

well you can find yourself a fukk buddy anywhere, yo...

when you spend 9 months or a year going after a chic, it makes people think you wanted A LOT more...

you'll be alright tho... just go meet some women and ull get one or two for a fukk buddy soon. just dont spend a year trying to get them in the sack!!!

i guess the saying "we want what we cannot get" rang true w/me re: this chick, i was gamed out...........never again

TheIntegrityKid · 07-15-09, 12:08 AM

Originally posted by hoopster42

i guess the saying "we want what we cannot get" rang true w/me re: this chick, i was gamed out...........never again

it's happened to us all, buddy

here's to finally realizing the BS and not falling for it again

hoopster42 · 07-15-09, 12:12 AM

Originally posted by TheIntegrityKid

it's happened to us all, buddy

here's to finally realizing the BS and not falling for it again

wanted to see if i still had it with the youngones, i thought she might be an easy and fun lay...........oooops

the joke was on me!

TheIntegrityKid · 07-15-09, 12:14 AM

Originally posted by hoopster42

wanted to see if i still had it with the youngones, i thought she might be an easy and fun lay...........oooops

the joke was on me!

okay, since you said, i can finally say this:

LOSER

lol just fukkin with ya....

TheIntegrityKid · 07-15-09, 12:14 AM

altho you may be lucky hoopy... she could be all emotional as the mcnair chic if all u did was bang her and leave her

you dont wanna end up like him just for some young pussy, do ya?

hoopster42 · 07-15-09, 12:17 AM

Originally posted by TheIntegrityKid

altho you may be lucky hoopy... she could be all emotional as the mcnair chic if all u did was bang her and leave her

you dont wanna end up like him just for some young pussy, do ya?

exactly...............a chick like her w/a great body and avg face probably has major insecurity issues 'cause dudes look at her as a great lay but not GF or marriage material.............probably drives the ho nuts

TheIntegrityKid · 07-15-09, 12:21 AM

Originally posted by hoopster42

exactly...............a chick like her w/a great body and avg face probably has major insecurity issues 'cause dudes look at her as a great lay but not GF or marriage material.............probably drives the ho nuts

YUP---

and she was feeling you out, to see if you were gonna be BF/marriage material and you getting all insecure and emotional like a girl ruined your chances for anything!

hoopster42 · 07-15-09, 12:25 AM

no TI, i was totally playin it cool the first 6 or 8 mos, it was only the last few mos that i started being a bit of a dikk to her because she was dangling the carrot then pulling it away every time..........then i'd back off totally and she'd come back, same song and dance over and over for a while

i didnt get all weird on the ho until recently bro

TheIntegrityKid · 07-15-09, 12:32 AM

Originally posted by hoopster42

no TI, i was totally playin it cool the first 6 or 8 mos, it was only the last few mos that i started being a bit of a dikk to her because she was dangling the carrot then pulling it away every time..........then i'd back off totally and she'd come back, same song and dance over and over for a while

i didnt get all weird on the ho until recently bro

i know, i know

just fukkin wit ya...

while extreme, you did the right thing. a guy has to stand up for himself too

KingRevolver · 07-15-09, 12:41 AM

who mentioned O.J.?..........i know everything about OJ. i'll bury you!

That's not exactly a great pick-up line, Hoop.

wtf · 07-15-09, 12:58 AM

i think we should officially announce that KR is sbr's resident oj expert

can we please put this to bed?

hoop, i did not know she was vietnamese, YOU FUKED UP BUDDY, get back in there, they have great pussies............

send her some flowers, and report back to us !

hoopster42 · 07-15-09, 01:21 AM

guys, unless i hear back from her sometime in the future which we all pretty much know is NOT happenin, i will not bump this thread again

hoopster42 · 07-15-09, 01:24 AM

Originally posted by TheIntegrityKid

i know, i know

just fukkin wit ya...

while extreme, you did the right thing. a guy has to stand up for himself too

you show me a dude who doesnt go off on a chick after 6+ mos of her cock-teasing, and i'll show a dude w/no sack............... granted, i or any other dude should never stick around that long w/a broad who refuses to hang out and only wants to text

TheIntegrityKid · 07-15-09, 01:26 AM

oh... you will hear from her...

in like 2 months or so.... she will be all into some guy, who will just use her for sex and then she will be thinking about you, because you showed passion with your rant. then ofcourse, she will think you will be a great guy and will give you a chance.

then you'd sleep with her. diss her and she will be feeling as shitty as you felt the other day

hoopster42 · 07-15-09, 01:30 AM

Originally posted by TheIntegrityKid

oh... you will hear from her...

in like 2 months or so.... she will be all into some guy, who will just use her for sex and then she will be thinking about you, because you showed passion with your rant. then ofcourse, she will think you will be a great guy and will give you a chance.

then you'd sleep with her. diss her and she will be feeling as shitty as you felt the other day

you must be one of the 5 who voted "within 2 mos"

18 ppl voted "no chance at all" which is one of the reasons i tend to believe them

dont you think my text rant from sunday was a bit much? my apology today was very sincere and i left a voice-message in doing so, a complete change of pace w/the voice message after a 9 mo to 1 yr stretch of texts

the chick seems like high maintenance, she will have to run back and literally ask me to hang out or i'm simply gona delete the texts as if they never happened

TheIntegrityKid · 07-15-09, 01:34 AM

Originally posted by hoopster42

you must be one of the 5 who voted "within 2 mos"

18 ppl voted "no chance at all" which is one of the reasons i tend to believe them

dont you think my text rant from sunday was a bit much? my apology today was very sincere and i left a voice-message in doing so, a complete change of pace w/the voice message after a 9 mo to 1 yr stretch of texts

the chick seems like high maintenance, she will have to run back and literally ask me to hang out or i'm simply gona delete the texts as if they never happened

i voted within 2 months, yes... and yes, i do think your rant was too much. BUT, women like passion and will remember the passion of your rant, more than the context of it.

like i said, she will have a bad experience and then run back to you.

the fukked up part is, instead of being the guy who wants to romance her/date her, you are just hoping to be a guy to give her another bad experience!!

KingRevolver · 07-15-09, 01:36 AM

Originally posted by wtf

i think we should officially announce that KR is sbr's resident oj expert

can we please put this to bed?

LOL Actually I was quoting what he said to me about O.J.

But you're right...different subject.

hoopster42 · 07-15-09, 01:37 AM

Originally posted by TheIntegrityKid

i voted within 2 months, yes... and yes, i do think your rant was too much. BUT, women like passion and will remember the passion of your rant, more than the context of it.

like i said, she will have a bad experience and then run back to you.

the fukked up part is, instead of being the guy who wants to romance her/date her, you are just hoping to be a guy to give her another bad experience!!

one thing is that i never insulted her personally, never called her a name, i just pointed out w/strong words where i think she fukked up

in the event she does come back, i'll have to bump this thread and give you serious props for knowing because her actions will have fooled the lot here w/the text only shit for so long and avoiding to meet up, then a sudden 180 after a few mos of me ignoring her, it would be fukkin hilarious, ironic, and man so satisfying

hoopster42 · 07-15-09, 01:38 AM

Originally posted by KingRevolver

LOL Actually I was quoting what he said to me about O.J.

But you're right...different subject.

this chick was making me angry, displaced anger

TheIntegrityKid · 07-15-09, 01:52 AM

Originally posted by hoopster42

one thing is that i never insulted her personally, never called her a name, i just pointed out w/strong words where i think she fukked up

in the event she does come back, i'll have to bump this thread and give you serious props for knowing because her actions will have fooled the lot here w/the text only shit for so long and avoiding to meet up, then a sudden 180 after a few mos of me ignoring her, it would be fukkin hilarious, ironic, and man so satisfying

i'm a guy so i hope she does come back and you get what you want

but part of me is hoping that you never hear from her again. if only so that'd mean she doesnt have a bad experience and/or doesnt have to have one from you too!

Damn Integrity has to care about the world and hope everyone gets what they want! It's just in this case, you and her want different things-- even if she comes back.

How 'bout this? I hope she comes back to you and tells you that she doesn't want a relationship but a fukk buddy that she can see whenever she needs some. That would be ideal...

P.S. and I also hope you got her into gambling and she found out about SBR and has been secretly reading these messages and goes, 'hmm, there's something about that Integrity guy' hahhahahahahahaaha j/k!

KingRevolver · 07-15-09, 01:52 AM

Originally posted by hoopster42

this chick was making me angry, displaced anger

Does this girl remind you of your mother? Serious question.

hoopster42 · 07-15-09, 02:00 AM

TI Kid you are the man

KR, she is not like my mom, my mom is an absolute gem of a lady.................... this chick is a little kid who has no clue who she is or what she wants................. a virtual baby in the game of life

hoopster42 · 07-15-09, 02:03 AM

TI Kid, if she or her friends got a hold of this thread she would hate me forever...........which at this point is fine i guess

TheIntegrityKid · 07-15-09, 02:03 AM

Originally posted by hoopster42

TI Kid you are the man

KR, she is not like my mom, my mom is an absolute gem of a lady.................... this chick is a little kid who has no clue who she is or what she wants................. a virtual baby in the game of life

Thanks you wanna be virtual baby fukker!

hoopster42 · 07-15-09, 02:05 AM

Originally posted by TheIntegrityKid

Thanks you wanna be virtual baby fukker!

hoopster42 · 07-17-09, 07:29 PM

now that the chick returned 3 days after my apology, wanting to talk about how lamar odom is pissing her off by not signing right away, does anyone wana vote on whether or not i'm gona bag the chick in the near future?

ZBOIZ · 07-17-09, 08:05 PM

she is using sports to tell you that she miss your conversation

Robyn · 07-17-09, 08:25 PM

She is lame.

ijustwant2bpaid · 07-17-09, 08:36 PM

take her out to go get some pho and then some sake and bang the chick for christs sakes....

wtf · 07-17-09, 08:38 PM

so bizarre u apologized to her

hoopster42 · 07-17-09, 08:42 PM

zboiz, yes, that is her 'back in' w/me............the sports angle

robyn, i agree..........not only lame, but extremely immature for a 23 yr old........i agree that is young, but it's not that young

ijust, dude, tell me about it..............enough of this nonsense!

wtf, i apologized for myself, not for her............i was feeling guilty because its been a long time since i went off on a chick like that, let alone anyone but esp a chick

the relationship/association we have is just straight weird.............unusual, unorthodox, i just dont get the chick..........she doesn't me, she wants me..............she doesnt want me....................FUKK IT...............i still have not responded to the text and do not plan to

wtf · 07-17-09, 08:45 PM

then tell her u will discuss the sports question over a drink

fuk, lick that pussy already!!!!!!!!!