Poll: will the chick come running to hoopster if he ignores her?????

KingRevolver · 07-11-09, 08:47 AM

The more you open your mouth around her, the less of a chance you got. I can see you now, she wants to talk about the ballet and you're telling her you know more about it and go on a long spiel.

hoopster42 · 07-11-09, 08:49 AM

Originally posted by KingRevolver

The more you open your mouth around her, the less of a chance you got. I can see you now, she wants to talk about the ballet and you're telling her you know more about it and go on a long spiel.

KR, believe it or not i'm much more humble around chicks........ confident, but humble

KingRevolver · 07-11-09, 08:53 AM

Originally posted by hoopster42

KR, believe it or not i'm much more humble around chicks........ confident, but humble

Good.

hoopster42 · 07-11-09, 09:38 AM

voters please!

SBR Lou · 07-11-09, 09:40 AM

It doesn't matter if you're 29 or 33, an intelligent and savvy individual such as yourself undoubtedly has the required charm to sweep her off her feet.

KingRevolver · 07-11-09, 09:43 AM

Originally posted by CrazyLou

It doesn't matter if you're 29 or 33, an intelligent and savvy individual such as yourself undoubtedly has the required charm to sweep her off her feet.

Louie he's -400 that she doesn't want him. So I know you don't feel that way.

hoopster42 · 07-11-09, 09:43 AM

Originally posted by CrazyLou

It doesn't matter if you're 29 or 33, an intelligent and savvy individual such as yourself undoubtedly has the required charm to sweep her off her feet.

Lou, thank you Sir. the ladies my age and older say i am charming & handsome, but they have lower standards than the youngones. the girls in their 20's don't give me the time of day. unfortunately, this kitty cat is in her early 20's, and its not going my way...............

hoopster42 · 07-11-09, 09:45 AM

Originally posted by KingRevolver

Louie he's -400 that she doesn't want him. So I know you don't feel that way.

i am a realist, it is probably more like -800 that she does NOT want me,
but thanks for the better odds

Robyn · 07-11-09, 09:48 AM

Post a picture of yourself, please.

TheLock · 07-11-09, 09:50 AM

Ignoring her might not work but it is your best shot.

How about meeting new chick? Gets your mind off her and makes the ignoring process simple?

hoopster42 · 07-11-09, 09:52 AM

Originally posted by Robyn

Post a picture of yourself, please.

i cant do that. i would rate myself a 7.75. my sisters say that all their friends (every ethnic background you can think of) all told them that when they were youngsters they thought i was very cute, every one of them, and they rate me a solid 9, face AND body..... i have sharp features and long eyelashes which chicks dig (i get compliments on my eyes all the time)........ although now at age 33, i have a small belly, skinnier arms than i used to when i worked out, and a receding hairline and thinning hair on my crown

i am a shell of my 24 yr old self

SBR Lou · 07-11-09, 09:53 AM

Originally posted by hoopster42

Lou, thank you Sir. the ladies my age and older say i am charming & handsome, but they have lower standards than the youngones. the girls in their 20's don't give me the time of day. unfortunately, this kitty cat is in her early 20's, and its not going my way...............

You're just not trying hard enough, man.

Pull yourself together. *slaps*

She's a young egotistical 20 something bimbo, you're too old to ignore her and make her come running, you've got to make her feel gorgeous, make her feel like a superstar and that she'd need to really pity you in order to get with her. This will bring you into the promise land. Ignoring her will just give her more time to give some other guy a shot.

Oh and, some alcohol wouldn't hurt.

hoopster42 · 07-11-09, 09:53 AM

Originally posted by TheLock

Ignoring her might not work but it is your best shot.

How about meeting new chick? Gets your mind off her and makes the ignoring process simple?

Bro, i've got 2 other cute chicks on my jock but because this other one is playing so hard to get she's got a mindfukk on me

hoopster42 · 07-11-09, 09:55 AM

Originally posted by CrazyLou

You're just not trying hard enough, man.

Pull yourself together. *slaps*

She's a young egotistical 20 something bimbo, you're too old to ignore her and make her come running, you've got to make her feel gorgeous, make her feel like a superstar and that she'd need to really pity you in order to get with her. This will bring you into the promise land. Ignoring her will just give her more time to give some other guy a shot.

Oh and, some alcohol wouldn't hurt.

Lou, i did this..............early on i told her that i thought she was so hot that i'd get a sex change if she were a lesbian just so i could get with her..............i complimented her stunning eyes, infectious smile, and golden skin tone..............i once called her a Goddess of all Goddesses walking around the campus

thats all i can do

hoopster42 · 07-11-09, 09:58 AM

one thing she told me that really pissed me off is that she dated a 30 yr old in the past 9 months which is during the same time that i was going after her.......... she gave him a chance but not me......... apparently he must have been hotter

SBR Lou · 07-11-09, 09:58 AM

Originally posted by hoopster42

Lou, i did this..............early on i told her that i thought she was so hot that i'd get a sex change if she were a lesbian just so i could get with her..............i complimented her stunning eyes, infectious smile, and golden skin tone..............i once called her a Goddess of all Goddesses walking around the campus

thats all i can do

With that attitude, it is no wonder she has not invited you to spend tonight.

The above was probably enough merely to capture her attention, once you've got it, you've got to dig deep, my friend.

Robyn · 07-11-09, 10:02 AM

Hoopster, it isn't always about who is hotter. You have to know how to play the game with some girls. More than likely, he wasn't texting her sixty times a day and handled things much smoother than you. Maybe he even LIKES older guys.

hoopster42 · 07-11-09, 11:07 AM

well everyone has given me GREAT advice and i really appreciate it

first and foremost i will resist every urge i have to text her........... and if i do hear from her, it has to be "hey hoopster, lets grab some coffee or can we have that breakfast after all?" anything short of that and i will simply delete the text

the last text i sent to her was yesterday, july 10th at around 7 pm pacific so not even 1 full day has passed

gut feeling tells me that i will NEVER hear from the chick again but in the unlikely even that i do, i'll report here for your amusement

GOD bless everyone for helping me out

hoopster42 · 07-11-09, 11:26 AM

the vietnamese cocktease loves sports so i wonder if her or any of her friends (probably many males) are sports gamblers and may catch wind of this site and these threads

wouldnt that be funny

web_connect · 07-11-09, 11:33 AM

You are in the friend zone

hoopster42 · 07-11-09, 11:36 AM

Originally posted by web_connect

You are in the friend zone

if i suddenly disappear after these 9 mos of texting almost every day like i am planning to will it make a noise in the forest and get me out of that zone and maybe into her pants?

Robyn · 07-11-09, 11:38 AM

Originally posted by hoopster42

if i suddenly disappear after these 9 mos of texting almost every day like i am planning to will it make a noise in the forest and get me out of that zone and maybe into her pants?

From this post alone, it is clear that the second she texts you, you will text her back within 2 seconds. Don't be an idiot. Stick to your guns. There are plenty of other women out there....even Asian women....especially Asian women.

wtf · 07-11-09, 11:43 AM

robyn , asian women is a broad stroke

do you mean philipina-korean-indian-chinese

they are all RADICALLY different in their morals and attitudes, especially with money-sex-men

ijustwant2bpaid · 07-11-09, 11:43 AM

guy, i voted sh would come back to u but u are honestly starting to care waaay to fukking much and this might lead to a reversal of my vote in the very near future...

hoopster42 · 07-11-09, 11:49 AM

Originally posted by Robyn

From this post alone, it is clear that the second she texts you, you will text her back within 2 seconds. Don't be an idiot. Stick to your guns. There are plenty of other women out there....even Asian women....especially Asian women.

honestly i will not. she texted me after 3 or 4 days went by with no contact and i waited like 5 hrs to return the text. she texted me back within mins, maybe 5 or 6 mins max

i'm at my wit's end w/this little cocktease and i wana game the chick out............. she wont know what happened when i get done gaming her out

hoopster42 · 07-11-09, 11:50 AM

Originally posted by ijustwant2bpaid

guy, i voted sh would come back to u but u are honestly starting to care waaay to fukking much and this might lead to a reversal of my vote in the very near future...

Bro, my ego just wants redemption to have her text after many days and then i get to press the delete button on my phn which is my way of saying "FUKK YOU COCKTEASE"

this is more about my ego than anything, my ego is severely bruised is all

ijustwant2bpaid · 07-11-09, 11:56 AM

just think, redemtion will come in the form of a brutal make up fukk so just wait this broad out, and eventually u will be able to get ur charlie fukk on... till then be strong my friend...

Robyn · 07-11-09, 11:56 AM

Originally posted by wtf

robyn , asian women is a broad stroke

do you mean philipina-korean-indian-chinese

they are all RADICALLY different in their morals and attitudes, especially with money-sex-men

The broad comment was intentional considering there are more Asians on this earth than any other race.

TheLock · 07-11-09, 11:58 AM

Originally posted by web_connect

You are in the friend zone

Boys and girls, we have a wise new poster.

hoopster42 · 07-12-09, 12:17 PM

bumped for new voters to chime in before the voting closes

thx

pavyracer · 07-12-09, 12:22 PM

You are 33 and still in school? Were you a freshman for 5 years in a row?

yisman · 07-12-09, 12:22 PM

Originally posted by pavyracer

You are 33 and still in school? Were you a freshman for 5 years in a row?

x2.

Anyway, you're stuck in the almost-friend zone.

Forget about it.

Teela · 07-12-09, 12:24 PM

If a guy stops texting me, I just take it as a sign of not being interested and move on.

Casperwaits · 07-12-09, 12:37 PM

Considering I give the best advice about relationships, I can tell you that you have no shot, A girl that has a texting relationship with you for that long and nothing materializing has no interest with you except for the occasional diversion. Move on and God Speed Hoopster.