Originally posted by pavyracer
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Pavy, i graduated HS at age 17, undergrad at 21, i was an engineer, got burnt out and left in early 07, started law school fall 07, then went back and took some undergrad summer classes for shits and giggles last summer coz i had no law classes, a BS internship, and free time so i took a few classes at the local univComment -
Casper, my mind says you are 100% correct. my heart hopes that she will wonder what happened to me and why the 9 mos of texting pretty much back and forth just stopped................ then i can receive a text from her out of the blue, and delete it while in mind saying "fukk you you cockteasing ho"Originally posted by Casperwaits
yes, its my ego talking but what can i say, i am a man and we men have egos that easily bruiseComment -
When I was in college in the 90's if we wanted to get some pussy we would go outside the bars at 2:00 am when they close and pick up all the drunk flies to take home. Have things changed now and you have to text a girl to put her under the covers?
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Pavy i am no spring ckn, i am 33 fricken yrs old, if i wait outside a bar at 2 am and pick up a chick, i am asleep the moment we get home!Originally posted by pavyracerWhen I was in college in the 90's if we wanted to get some pussy we would go outside the bars at 2:00 am when they close and pick up all the drunk flies to take home. Have things changed now and you have to text a girl to put her under the covers?Comment -
judging from the poll results, things not looking good for me in terms of the cocktease texting me back
sadly, i agree....................... i swear that all i want is to a) delete her 1st text back, and b) if she texts again and shows interest maybe i can pull the FFF (fukk, flee, and forget)Comment -
UPDATE: the cockteasing whore texts me an hr ago asking me who i am picking for the HR derby tomorrow because her brother is putting a pool together and whoever wins get a case of his/her favorite beer. this is the first text from either of us since friday evening about this time. so 48 hrs pass and nothing from me, she finally comes up with a BS reason to re-connect.
i immediately deleted the text and did not respond.....................though i have to admit i did feel like responding with: "I HAVE A GREAT PICK BUT NOT GIVING IT, COCKTEASE".
edit: for purposes of this poll, the people who said "NO CHANCE...." are still correct because she was just making BS small-talk again, nothing about us hangin out.Comment -
the cock teasing whore!
classic......... you seem like a decent guy hoopster. my advice is, just quit the BS yourself and be like, look, do i have a chance with you or not? and if it's not, then move on...
no more time should be wasted on these petty games, from either side. she is prob thinking of you as a reserve guy-- that you'll be there if she ever really needs you. until then, she is messing with other guys and such. you either gotta ask her directly what's up or just wait til she's freakin lonely as heck..
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TI Kid, i did ask her a few times straight up if she was interested and i said if she's not it's okay and there are no hard feelings, that i'm not everyone's type, etc etc.............. she never answered..............so either the cock-tease whore is too weak to say she is NOT interested or too scared to admit that she is...................when i ask her direct, tough questions and put her on the spot, she does not answer.................she prefers to keep the conversation light................then outta nowhere one time she was "wondering out loud if we could ever go on a real date", it was totally unsolicited, she said she was imagining us in her mind dating and "it felt really good", etc..............and another time how our convos were "turning her on"
cock-teasing little whore
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just reply saying , your super busy no time
your too available for the c u n tComment -
WTF, i did not respond bro, just deleted it............now its been 2 hrs since her text..............i'm never a fast responder to chicks, usually wait a few hrs..........w/this chick i began to wait 4 or 5 hrs....... it did not register because obviously she's not interested in me, at least not seriously interestedOriginally posted by wtf
i'm not responding at all to this text message of hers
FUKK THIS BITCH..................i'm hoopster42 goddammit
no bitch can phuck w/me like this and get away with itComment -
well... i have to agree with wtf here... if she is saying these things but then blowing you off... just blow her off yourself and be like, talk to me when you are ready for us to actually go on that date
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a couple of times recently when i realized i was getting nowhere with her i asked her for advice on now to handle a few other chicks that i said "were on my jock wanting something more serious than just dating"Originally posted by TheIntegrityKid
and asked her how a chick likes a dude to "let her down easy"
she ignored those texts but later on when i started talking sports again the little whore responded................its like she's using me just to talk sports or something
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Forget her hoopster
She is messing with your mind
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maybe she just sees you as a friend...
are u that nice of a guy? going by some of the arguments ive seen you in, i would think that you're not, but based on how your mind is fukked up by this chick, im inclined to think that you are WAY too nice
do u have any pics of this chic that ud be willing to post? i wanna see this girl!!!
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Ban WTF! That was uncalled forOriginally posted by wtf
LOL @ No chance [poll result]. That's fvcked up
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i have a rough edge to me which tends to either intimidate or attract women who see me as a bit of a bad boy. deep down inside though i a am a huge softieOriginally posted by TheIntegrityKid
the chick looks a bit like teela tequila but taller and with bigger
. she's not hot by any stretch................very cute, but not hot.... i think i'm just gamed out by the fact that i can still pull chicks but this chick is sticking around but playing so hard to get then pulling back then coming back and as jj said she is playing gms with me
ive let her in my head, which is a place not many chicks have been able to get into but i'm older now and maybe more of a softie cause its much tougher to meet chicks
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i really wana tell the bitch off a bit after she fukked with me for almost a yr
one time, a few mos ago, i flew off the handle a bit and when i apologized she said "no worries, dude, dont trip, it was nothin". this little eruption of mine happened when she skipped out on the breakfast with me
i seriously feel like telling her off right now...................i'm getting steamed when i see the poll results and when i continue talking about her...........................guys i am getting really angry...............NO I WOULD NEVER DO ANYTHING TO THE CHICK but when i get mad i start texting and talking a ton of shitComment -
Originally posted by hoopster42
you have an anger problem yo!
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guys i could not contain myself any longer.....................i texted the little cockteasing slut whore, i said:
(in text short-hand lingo)
"look girl, you wasted my fukkin time 4 a yr...........if u were not interested, y the hell continue texting back & 4th with me........y not jus say u have a BF or say that u only c me as a frend, y not jus say that so i dont get led on? how fukkin selfish was that of u? i wasted my fukkin time 4 a yr, ask u to hang out like 5 times, u blow me off all 5 times, and now u wana kno who i think is gona win the HR contest? y dont u ask some1 who actually cares 2 answer ur ?. i'm done w/u girl......pls lose my #, lose my email addy, and 4get we were ever "text buddies" or w/ever the fukk u thot we were. goodbye & good life".
verbatim that is what i texted and i feel so much fukkin better about it. good riddance 2 this fukkin bitch.Comment -
never worth it to burn your bridges.[quote=jjgold;5683305]I win again like usual
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guys and dolls, thank you all for your perspectives and opinions, i value ALL of them because they were all well-intentioned and sincere, and most of them spot on
the bitch and i never spoke even once on the phone this last yr since the last day of class that i spoke to her, our "friendship/relationship" manifested through text messages nearly every day
after blowing me off FIVE TIMES that i asked to casually meet up (never asked on a real date, just grab a drink, grab breakfast, shit like that)....................the bitch had my rant coming, and for the first time in God knows how many yrs, i simply do NOT feel guilty at all, not one bit, for saying what i said...............usually, when i get pissed and go off on someone, i feel guilty within 2 to 3 hrs and i apologize to the person
not with this one, though...........THIS FUKKING COCKTEASE HAD IT COMING..........i was too gentlemanly for too long and she still came back around w/this HR derby shit and i think it was just to fukk w/me again
THE BITCH CAN POUND SAND FOR ALL I CARE..................i am fukking done being in touch w/her and it feels fukking fantastic to get that off my chest and call her out like that!!!!Comment -
like a few posters said in other eloquent words................if i could not even get her to meet up in the 9 mos that we texted and the full yr that we knew each other, then it simply was not going to happen and i do not give a single fukk about the bitch
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This is how you blew itOriginally posted by hoopster42
Also asking her how you can "let down these other chicks on my jock" blew it for you too.
Just trying to be helpful...this thread makes some for interesting discussion and I'm glad you have put it behind you.
How can you expect a girl to respect you when you have basically put yourself below her by calling her a Goddess of Goddesses, etc.?? You cannot, at any point, show the woman that you are fazed by her, or show her any demonstration of lower value.
RE: the "how do I get these chicks off me?", while women want to know that there are other girls in your life, they dont want to be told explicitly...be more mysterious next time about it IMO
Good thread and I sincerely hope you bang tons of girls in their mid-early 20s.Comment -
Vin, i hear you bud..............i only dropped the compliments after she blew me off like 3 or 4 times and i thought i needed to really flatter her.................i have only taken that angle after other angles have failed w/a chick..........believe it or not, ive had good results going to the "you're so hot you're like a vixen (or a goddess)" card before and its gotten me into bed w/some chicks that first resistedOriginally posted by Vincepcion
i agree though, one should NEVER put the chick above him and should NEVER EVER EVER EVER compliment a good looking woman, early on..........be the guy that does NOT fall all over himself for her and it works best
re: the talking about other chicks, this happened in about the 8th or 9th month, it was like a hail mary attempt to see a reaction
the first several mos i played it cool, it was toward's the end that i started throwin shit against the wall just because it seemed like such a fun challenge to crack her nut but obviously it did not happen and now i do not give a fukkComment -
Well, with the text you sent, it is now 100% guaranteed that you will not be humping this girl.Comment -
She is jackin you
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Good way to tell that girl off, Hoop.Originally posted by hoopster42
I have a feeling she didn't like you 'cause you're a know-it-all. You were probably telling her when her periods were due to come.Comment -
guys, its been over 12 hrs since i told the bitch off, and while i used to feel guilty about something like this w/in a few hrs i actually feel like i can move on and accept the fact that while i wasted 9 mos of texting and another 3 mos before on emailing the bitch, that at least i ended whatever stupid little thing we had on MY terms and it does feel good in this particular situationComment -
hoop, in his very eloquent manner KR has a point
i think for future reference to add more notches to the belt you might want to take his advice
love, wtfComment -
guy, my schtick on this board is way different than the way i am w/chicks
in sports, i am a know-it-all-prick..............w/chicks, i am confident not cocky, and as i said, women my age and older constantly talk about my charm
this board persona i have is just that, a board personaComment -
some of you said i should not have sent her the angry texts ending our communication on a bad note..... you were right...........the guilt set in last night and all day today, especially since the chick was never rude to me in the yr we texted............so i just called her (did not text which is all i ever did before with her)..... it was the first call i have ever made to her..........i left a voice message saying how truly sorry i am and that i did not mean what i texted on sunday, that i was just frustrated and angry, and that i understand how we are clearly in different places in our lives, etc... i wished her the best in her life and said no hard feelings, take care
i feel much better about it now and do not expect or need a return call or text
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Originally posted by hoopster42
Jeezus dude. You're starting to sound like Mikey from Swingers. You need to just forget it. The text you sent blew the whole thing up completely. She thinks you're a psycho asshole. You didn't leave much doubt.
Now don't go and change your mind again and text her something nasty. And don't even answer if she calls you or texts you back. Unless she says lets go out, just stop calling and texting. She's dead to you. Own it.Comment -
Jello, you are completely right. i admit that the guilt just got to me because i don't usually tell people off like that, let alone chicks. she has been very cool and sometimes even fun to text with less the blowing me off for hangin out. that's why i felt so guilty. this situation is now dead and the feeling i have right now of closure trumps the feeling of redemption i had when i told her off. i left this voice message for my own benefit of not feeling guilt and a better overall closure.
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poor married hoopy... seriously
i feel for ya.. i understand having mixed emotions about a chic... but while ur married to someone else? i think you should wait until that situation is COMPLETELY resolved before even considering another girl
judging by your up and down emotions, you may need to work on yourself before you get with another girl
and dont say you just wanted sex from her because that'd be a lie...
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Well that's good to hear hoops. The important thing is that YOU feel closure. Who cares what the little cocktease feels? I understand why you did what you did - the text and the call. But they were both mistakes. I'm the same way, though. Impatient. It would have taken an extreme amount of self-control to just stick to the plan and not responded. I can't really blame you, but try to learn from it.
Anyway, just make sure you don't try to contact her again...k?
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