Whos knocked up a girl who you want too have the kid but she gets an abortion?

[SportNut]

I have a daughter of 2 year old, she's the best thing happened to us when we decided to take on the responsibility. THANKS GOD, AMEN. The feeling is great, she's so cute. Being a parent it's very tough, however knowing that we were ready, somewhat, and sometimes when I look at her, just the thought of what might have been if we chosen abortion. No guilt trip now but good feeling of being responsible just REALLY GOOD AND WORTH IT FOR US. After all it's in our nature.

[Shark79]

Who would want the responsibility and cost of having some1 totally dependent on them, I'm not sure what the appealing side of this is, sounds like a real lose/lose deal, lose your money and lose all your energy and free time in exchange for just having a kid walkin around your apartment

They can judge by themselves ... just as you learned to such a thing.

A real lose/lose deal would be not having anyone around at all.

You lose your money on an investment that in the long run if done properly would be a positive thing for others (I dont see how you can lose on that), energy and free time? My energy is waisted on work and son, however my free time is well spent with or without him.

I have a house (remember I live in CR) ... and honestly ... I dont mind him walking around it at all ... its nice to know that your not the only one enjoying what you have earned and developed.

[bettilimbroke999]

I kinda like wakin up by myself and relaxin on the couch and not having any1 bothering me, I don't have to get up at 6 to dress/bathe/feed/take to school a kid and change diapers and blow all my cash and have my apartment destroyed with stains, smells, toys allover the place, when I'm gettin a blowjob from my girl I dont want to hear some whining baby that just crapped its pants stop her and give me a softie and make me wish I had pulled out when I could've saved a quarter mil over the next 18 years by sploogin on her instead, etc. etc. etc. too many etcs. to list

[teaserpleaser]

I kinda like wakin up by myself and relaxin on the couch and not having any1 bothering me, I don't have to get up at 6 to dress/bathe/feed/take to school a kid and change diapers and blow all my cash and have my apartment destroyed with stains, smells, toys allover the place, when I'm gettin a blowjob from my girl I dont want to hear some whining baby that just crapped its pants stop her and give me a softie and make me wish I had pulled out when I could've saved a quarter mil over the next 18 years by sploogin on her instead, etc. etc. etc. too many etcs. to list

[Shark79]

I kinda like wakin up by myself and relaxin on the couch and not having any1 bothering me, I don't have to get up at 6 to dress/bathe/feed/take to school a kid and change diapers and blow all my cash and have my apartment destroyed with stains, smells, toys allover the place, when I'm gettin a blowjob from my girl I dont want to hear some whining baby that just crapped its pants stop her and give me a softie and make me wish I had pulled out when I could've saved a quarter mil over the next 18 years by sploogin on her instead, etc. etc. etc. too many etcs. to list

I guess when you get to be a father, you will see things differently.

[teaserpleaser]

Child Free Couples Are Happier!
Guest Author - Kim Kenney

For the child free, this should come as no shock. But my guess is some parents will be surprised by the findings.

A recent study conducted by the American Sociological Association concluded that parents are more likely to be depressed than their child free counterparts. People without children were deemed happier than any other group, including empty nesters!

The authors acknowledged that as a society, “We romanticize parenthood. It’s difficult and it is expensive.”

This is reassuring news for those of us who have made the decision not to have kids.

The study lists obvious factors, including more worry, financial drain, and guilt over not being able to “do it all.”

I have some clear cut data from my own life that supports this research. I know that my newly minted mother friends are definitely more stressed than I am. If I have a long, hectic day at work, at least I know when I get home my house will be blissfully quiet and calming. For parents, the chaos never seems to end. When it’s finally bedtime, most of my parental friends aren’t far behind their kids drifting off to Slumberland.

They also have little time to even talk on the phone, let alone have a nice evening out with their husbands. Chris and I have plenty of time for each other, both for special “dates” and just to sit together in the evening reading or watching TV.

Money is probably one of the biggest issues. We often talk about how on earth people can afford to have kids, and how they just couldn’t squeeze themselves into our present budget. A few years ago, I refinanced my student loans for 20 years, so it is conceivable that if I had a child this year (at the age of 31!), I would be paying for my own education at the same time I sent my kid off to college! Unbelievable.

For me, the greatest factor would be the worrying. When my husband gets on a plane, I immediately begin imagining all of the horrible things that could happen. I worry when my sister and her husband are on a road trip, when my cats are home alone, and when I get my mother’s answering machine when she didn’t tell me she was going anywhere. All these things indicate that I could not deal with the worry of parenthood.

It is interesting how most parents know they are under intense pressure from these issues, and yet say they wouldn’t trade their families for anything.

That’s great for them. But I won’t trade my child free life for anything either!

[teaserpleaser]

^^^ And thats a chick who wrote that

[SportNut]

I kinda like wakin up by myself and relaxin on the couch and not having any1 bothering me, I don't have to get up at 6 to dress/bathe/feed/take to school a kid and change diapers and blow all my cash and have my apartment destroyed with stains, smells, toys allover the place, when I'm gettin a blowjob from my girl I dont want to hear some whining baby that just crapped its pants stop her and give me a softie and make me wish I had pulled out when I could've saved a quarter mil over the next 18 years by sploogin on her instead, etc. etc. etc. too many etcs. to list

You're right! But I have more money now than I was single. All the parties, going out every nights, strip clubs, gambling with no money management, etcc..it's balance now

[bettilimbroke999]

You're right! But I have more money now than I was single. All the parties, going out every nights, strip clubs, gambling with no money management, etcc..it's balance now

So now that you've eliminated all the fun in your life you have the same amount of money

[teaserpleaser]

Child Free Couples Are Happier!
Guest Author - Kim Kenney

For the child free, this should come as no shock. But my guess is some parents will be surprised by the findings.

A recent study conducted by the American Sociological Association concluded that parents are more likely to be depressed than their child free counterparts. People without children were deemed happier than any other group, including empty nesters!

The authors acknowledged that as a society, “We romanticize parenthood. It’s difficult and it is expensive.”

This is reassuring news for those of us who have made the decision not to have kids.

The study lists obvious factors, including more worry, financial drain, and guilt over not being able to “do it all.”

I have some clear cut data from my own life that supports this research. I know that my newly minted mother friends are definitely more stressed than I am. If I have a long, hectic day at work, at least I know when I get home my house will be blissfully quiet and calming. For parents, the chaos never seems to end. When it’s finally bedtime, most of my parental friends aren’t far behind their kids drifting off to Slumberland.

They also have little time to even talk on the phone, let alone have a nice evening out with their husbands. Chris and I have plenty of time for each other, both for special “dates” and just to sit together in the evening reading or watching TV.

Money is probably one of the biggest issues. We often talk about how on earth people can afford to have kids, and how they just couldn’t squeeze themselves into our present budget. A few years ago, I refinanced my student loans for 20 years, so it is conceivable that if I had a child this year (at the age of 31!), I would be paying for my own education at the same time I sent my kid off to college! Unbelievable.

For me, the greatest factor would be the worrying. When my husband gets on a plane, I immediately begin imagining all of the horrible things that could happen. I worry when my sister and her husband are on a road trip, when my cats are home alone, and when I get my mother’s answering machine when she didn’t tell me she was going anywhere. All these things indicate that I could not deal with the worry of parenthood.

It is interesting how most parents know they are under intense pressure from these issues, and yet say they wouldn’t trade their families for anything.

That’s great for them. But I won’t trade my child free life for anything either!

Just so people cant act like they didnt see it

[bettilimbroke999]

Just so people cant act like they didnt see it

No doubt about it now, it's scientifically proven and any1 WITHOUT kids can see why (the ppl with kids are already stuck so naturally they might as well be for having kids since they can't dekid themselves anyways)

Pluses:

Ya got a cute kid around (if you're lucky and your kid isn't born with Downs Syndrome or ADHD, etc.) for you to watch play video games and be happy spending your money

Minuses:

Too numerous to name, though I threw off the first 5 or so big ones that immediately came to mind in a previous post

Minuses win it, kids are a bad idea, sorry kids

[teaserpleaser]

The thought of even having kids scares the shit outta me... im planning/saving for a 3 month backpacking trip of Europe with a lady friend of mine with Crumb crunchers that would only be a dream.

[Cloak & Dagger]

The thought of even having kids scares the shit outta me... im planning/saving for a 3 month backpacking trip of Europe with a lady friend of mine with Crumb crunchers that would only be a dream.

I see alot of fear in this thread....

[topgame85]

Starting to break her down slowly will see if it works, shes went from making up her mind to thinking about it hopefully its not just a ploy

[pico]

You can't have an abortion at 6 months; it's too late and very risky...she can actually die.

it is much safer for the mother after 9 months.

[treece]

Doesn't anybody use condoms anymore?

[Matt Rain]

Condoms make baby Jesus cry.

[SportNut]

So now that you've eliminated all the fun in your life you have the same amount of money

Instead of money waste now money save. Fat bank account instead of $50 checking like when I was single.

[teaserpleaser]

I see alot of fear in this thread....

my worst nightmare... Tons of Fear but it will never happen so

[SportNut]

And don't tell me you'll live single or without having children your whole life.

[teaserpleaser]

me?

[teaserpleaser]

And don't tell me you'll live single or without having children your whole life.

Its the plan... Hope i can pull it off, Once I have a pot belly or chicks no longer find me attractive I'll have to settle down or move back to Thailand the land of Pot Belly dudes with 18 year old Hot chicks but right now im having way too much fun. Why the hell would i want to move some broad into my house who will tell me when to be home, Asking me why i like to gamble all day, Why do i have so many girl pals, To much of a headache. No kids for me its not in the Plans. I get everything a guy who tied the knot gets without the headache best of both worlds.

[SportNut]

me?

Everybody in general.

[SportNut]

Its the plan... Hope i can pull it off, Once I have a pot belly or chicks no longer find me attractive I'll have to settle down or move back to Thailand the land of Pot Belly dudes with 18 year old Hot chicks but right now im having way too much fun. Why the hell would i want to move some broad into my house who will tell me when to be home, Asking me why i like to gamble all day, Why do i have so many girl pals, To much of a headache. No kids for me its not in the Plans. I get everything a guy who tied the knot gets without the headache best of both worlds.

I've been to Thailand, and those 18 year old hot chicks are dudes. Well...most of them are dudes. If you swing that way then it's cool.

[teaserpleaser]

I've been to Thailand, and those 18 year old hot chicks are dudes. Well...most of them are dudes. If you swing that way then it's cool.

OH yeah, odd didnt see many americans there Where did you stay?? What do they call the guys who live their lives as woman?? LOL what are you 15 "If you swing that way then its cool... You sound like an idiot and We both know all the 18 year old chicks in Thailand arent guys. Your not even fun try harder.

[SportNut]

Child Free Couples Are Happier!
Guest Author - Kim Kenney

For the child free, this should come as no shock. But my guess is some parents will be surprised by the findings.

A recent study conducted by the American Sociological Association concluded that parents are more likely to be depressed than their child free counterparts. People without children were deemed happier than any other group, including empty nesters!

The authors acknowledged that as a society, “We romanticize parenthood. It’s difficult and it is expensive.”

This is reassuring news for those of us who have made the decision not to have kids.

The study lists obvious factors, including more worry, financial drain, and guilt over not being able to “do it all.”

I have some clear cut data from my own life that supports this research. I know that my newly minted mother friends are definitely more stressed than I am. If I have a long, hectic day at work, at least I know when I get home my house will be blissfully quiet and calming. For parents, the chaos never seems to end. When it’s finally bedtime, most of my parental friends aren’t far behind their kids drifting off to Slumberland.

They also have little time to even talk on the phone, let alone have a nice evening out with their husbands. Chris and I have plenty of time for each other, both for special “dates” and just to sit together in the evening reading or watching TV.

Money is probably one of the biggest issues. We often talk about how on earth people can afford to have kids, and how they just couldn’t squeeze themselves into our present budget. A few years ago, I refinanced my student loans for 20 years, so it is conceivable that if I had a child this year (at the age of 31!), I would be paying for my own education at the same time I sent my kid off to college! Unbelievable.

For me, the greatest factor would be the worrying. When my husband gets on a plane, I immediately begin imagining all of the horrible things that could happen. I worry when my sister and her husband are on a road trip, when my cats are home alone, and when I get my mother’s answering machine when she didn’t tell me she was going anywhere. All these things indicate that I could not deal with the worry of parenthood.

It is interesting how most parents know they are under intense pressure from these issues, and yet say they wouldn’t trade their families for anything.

That’s great for them. But I won’t trade my child free life for anything either!

Child free couples have pets like cats or dogs and they worry when they away, NO shit this is true. Don't you have to scoop their poops or worry about pets tearing up the house? Buy pet food also expensive, take them out for walk, or to vet, same shit as in having kids. This author of this article is bullshit.

[SportNut]

I'm done with this discussion, all fun and good things will come to an end, and we need to face reality.

[SportNut]

OH yeah, odd didnt see many americans there Where did you stay?? What do they call the guys who live their lives as woman?? LOL what are you 15 "If you swing that way then its cool... You sound like an idiot and We both know all the 18 year old chicks in Thailand arent guys. Your not even fun try harder.

I see you there and getting jab by a them

[teaserpleaser]

I see you there and getting jab by a them

WTF does that mean.... LOL at I see you there and getting jab by a them.

[topgame85]

Found out today 23 weeks pregnant got a picture of ultrasound she needs to come up with 2500 in 3 days or else gonna be a daddy fingers crossed

[Salcas]

Found out today 23 weeks pregnant got a picture of ultrasound she needs to come up with 2500 in 3 days or else gonna be a daddy fingers crossed

Hide her purse and bank book