Found out I knocked someone up I want the kid but she says she doesnt want a kid for at least 3 years, funny how it takes two to get down but only one to kill both of yours child, yes I'm pro-life, and even if I weren't I'd still want the kid anyone know of any techniques to convince her to have the kid?
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Damn man thats terrible..tell her you'll give her everything you win betting...anything to save a lifeComment -
I told my gf the same thing, she was happy until she found out she owed me 4k for NovemberOriginally posted by Salcas
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I lean more pro-choice, but I do think a male should have some legal rights in this type of situation.Comment -
If one person has advice that would be helpful right now shes like I've made up my mind end of story bla bla and I'm heated if I didn't care about her I'd prob chain her up in the basement or something until she gave birth haha but I'm not quite that crazyComment -
Nothing you can do.Originally posted by topgame85
If you disagree with her on these type of moral grounds, then I would suggest looking at ending the relationship though.Comment -
Ya just tell her its over if she goes through with it..explain to her the importance of lifeComment -
Yah I mean these are things I would of been better served asking her before we'd been together after a yr and a half and she got pregnant, my only hope I think is if she is too pregnant to have an abortion (past 6 months) which is possible but unlikelyOriginally posted by dleComment -
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Its always been the other way around... until i got clipped. The girl is doing you a solid by not having the kid. She sounds like a good Girl... You just avoided child support payments
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This is very very very x10 rare, 99% of the time the guy supports the abortion or requests itComment -
Financially yah, and 9/10 it is the other way around which pisses me off I already told her I'm not paying for the abortion so other than her being past 6 months I can just hope she cant come up with $700 bucks, also possible but unlikelyOriginally posted by teaserpleaserIts always been the other way around... until i got clipped. The girl is doing you a solid by not having the kid. She sounds like a good Girl... You just avoided child support paymentsComment -
NO SHITOriginally posted by bettilimbroke999
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people are never really "prepared" to have a kid.
Review the importance of life... Get a knife, then review the impact of death with her... if your truly a degenerate gambler, she won't think twice about having the kid.Comment -
In my personal opinion I think Topgame85 is full of SHIT !Comment -
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naw known him my whole life wouldnt bs about something like this , but this ni99a is ignoreing me so **** him! if shes about to kill your baby you need to cut the bitch loose homie!Originally posted by BeatTheJerkComment -
Wow hope it works out for you that is really rare but good job for standing what you believe.Comment -
For all the girls having babies when the guy wants an abortion to avoid child supports payment, I really gotta say damn this is rare, but there's nothing you can do, you can't make a girl have an abortion (the situation 99% of the time) and you can't make the girl keep the kid (the situation 1% of the time)
I would suggest finding a different girl if your that interested in having a kid, lord knows there's alot of girls who want kidsComment -
Topgame Pay her the $700 better yet take her to the clinic make sure it gets done. ADD up the cost of 18 years of child support + college tuition + misc kid expenses itsOriginally posted by topgame85
$700 is a hell of a deal. Trust me i may only be 28 but for a while there in my early 20s i was on a Quest to be Wilt Chamberlain trust me if she doesnt want to have your kid its one of two things shes not into you as much as you think or her career isnt where she wants it to be yet.
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Originally posted by teaserpleaser;12****4Topgame Pay her the $700 better yet take her to the clinic make sure it gets done. ADD up the cost of 18 years of child support + college tuition + misc kid expenses its $700 is a hell of a deal. Trust me i may only be 28 but for a while there in my early 20s i was on a Quest to be Wilt Chamberlain trust me if she doesnt want to have your kid its one of two things shes not into you as much as you think or her career isnt where she wants it to be yet.
your 28 no kid no fam just a loser...topgame don't kill your kid, ill never speak to you again...you will end up like bread and robyn .Comment -
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Originally posted by pags11Originally posted by BuddyBearOriginally posted by curiousComment -
Im not having shit to do with it but I know she just gonna go do that shit when I'm at work one day or somethinComment -
Bitch I've lived in Thailand,France,England and I do what the FVCK i want to do you dont know shit. I get more Vagina then you can dream of here in Cali. If i want to fly to have breakfast in Costa rica then fly right back I can do it because i dont have any kids retard. Your the Loser I sleep with a new chick every night, do what i want 24/7 I love my life can you say the same?Originally posted by thejrichshow85
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When I had my first kid and found out I was going to be a dad I was terrified. Thought it would ruin my life. Turned out to be the best thing that ever happened in my whole life. I begged her to get an abortion and glad she didn't listen to me.
Maybe she's just scared topgame, try taking her out to a nice dinner and just have a calm discussion about it. Unfortunately the end result is out of your hands. You have your whole life ahead of you to have kids, do what you can and if it doesn't work out you can sleep well at night knowing you did everything you could.....Comment -
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Originally posted by JBC77
Thanks man, ya I'm trying to let her realize if she has it I will do what I gotta to take care of it and she can go to school still and do whatever she wants too and that having it wont be the end of her life shes hard headed though, need to date weaker girls I guess, I am doing everything I can but even so if she does not have it I will always feel like I coulda done moreComment -
smelling like shit from a bullOriginally posted by teaserpleaserBitch I've lived in Thailand,France,England and I do what the FVCK i want to do you dont know shit. I get more Vagina then you can dream of here in Cali. If i want to fly to have breakfast in Costa rica then fly right back I can do it because i dont have any kids retard. Your the Loser I sleep with a new chick every night, do what i want 24/7 I love my life can you say the same?
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If you say so, I enjoy my life... like i said can you say the sameOriginally posted by thejrichshow85smelling like shit from a bullComment -
Damn dude sorry to hear that. Hope you can talk her into keeping it. Can only imagine if you GF pulled this shit on me.Comment -
has she seen the movie Juno?
watch that with her, and maybe she will start to think about it more as a living part of her.
truth is that she probably doesnt want the baby because she's not feeling absolute about the two of you. so maybe you and her need to find out if you two are meant to be, and if so then she may have a change of heart.Comment -
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Lol, stay classy.Originally posted by teaserpleaserBitch I've lived in Thailand,France,England and I do what the FVCK i want to do you dont know shit. I get more Vagina then you can dream of here in Cali. If i want to fly to have breakfast in Costa rica then fly right back I can do it because i dont have any kids retard. Your the Loser I sleep with a new chick every night, do what i want 24/7 I love my life can you say the same?Comment -
You can't have an abortion at 6 months; it's too late and very risky...she can actually die.Comment
