Whos knocked up a girl who you want too have the kid but she gets an abortion?

[topgame85]

has she seen the movie Juno?

watch that with her, and maybe she will start to think about it more as a living part of her.

truth is that she probably doesnt want the baby because she's not feeling absolute about the two of you. so maybe you and her need to find out if you two are meant to be, and if so then she may have a change of heart.

Dunno if shes seen it never heard of it, she claims in few years she wants to have my kids after school and all shit and it has nothing to domwith anything other than she feels like shes not done everything she wanted yet and were not married but who knows

[teaserpleaser]

Lol, stay classy.

Whats not classy about not wanting any kids?? I knew from age 16 on that kids would only stop me from seeing the world and it would make it harder for me to do just about anything I wanted to do. I have a Dog thats good enough for me. trust me the poor and stupid are having my share of kids plus some. Please explain to me about not wanting kids and class.

[topgame85]

You can't have an abortion at 6 months; it's too late and very risky...she can actually die.

Virginia won't do it past 2 months but in Maryland they do it up to 6 months apparently so not sure, Its like that law and order episode if you ever seen that shit the doctor in Ny kept telling the girl he couldn't do it because she had a temperature and then the girl hit 6 months and it turned out the doctor was lying to make her have the kid

[bettilimbroke999]

Whats not classy about not wanting any kids?? I knew from age 16 on that kids would only stop me from seeing the world and it would make it harder for me to do just about anything I wanted to do. I have a Dog thats good enough for me. trust me the poor and stupid are having my share of kids plus some. Please explain to me about not wanting kids and class.

I agree, having some kid shittin in a diaper and spending every cent you make doesn't make any sense, I'm not for abortion I'm just for pulling out or getting clipped or using a rubber or w/e

Back in the 1800s when kids just became free labor for the farm I can understand having kids but now it just doesn't make sense, usually the people that can't support 1 kid have 5 and the people that could support 5 have none

[Matt Rain]

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Your picture-posting skills are underappreciated, sir.

[robmpink]

You seem like a cool dude, but lets look at the flip side. Based on your life events over the year (2 dui's) or however you want to classify it, she may find that to be a big deciding factor. Think about it. If she was 50% 50% split do you think that getting dui's would reinforce her wanting to have your child?

If she decides to go through w/ it and you really want it, I would look elsewhere because most likely she will slowly begin to.

[Bread]

Jrich would make a wonderful father. I would like to be the godfather of his little rug rats. We would have fun listening to death metal.

God bless,

Bread

[Thor4140]

Financially yah, and 9/10 it is the other way around which pisses me off I already told her I'm not paying for the abortion so other than her being past 6 months I can just hope she cant come up with $700 bucks, also possible but unlikely

Those things use to be around 340 back when my buddy use to pay for them 20 years ago

[Thor4140]

your 28 no kid no fam just a loser...topgame don't kill your kid, ill never speak to you again...you will end up like bread and robyn .

good lord

[crisp]

topper can't you afford a fukkin rubber?

[RogueJuror]

It's Jrich's kid, she was cheating on you.

[fiveteamer]

Captain Hook's Abortion Emporium

[wtf]

fiver why u change your avatar? willy turn the screws to you?

[porkchop817]

I knew from age 16 on that kids would only stop me from seeing the world and it would make it harder for me to do just about anything I wanted to do. I have a Dog thats good enough for me. trust me the poor and stupid are having my share of kids plus some.

Sounds like me talking.

Topgame: If things are that serious between you and your GF, why not get the abortion now...and wait to have kids when both of you are ready? If you plan on being with her forever, you've got the rest of your life to have a child with her. Get your life in line first, then have kids. Both of you finish school, buy a house for yourselves(if you haven't already). Both of you get your careers where you want them to be, then have a child when both of you are mentally, and financially stable for it. Too many people think they will have a kid when they're young, and then they will get their lives in line later on down the road...and it usually doesn't work out for the better.

Bettilimbroke999: The pull out method doesn't work. Trust me on this.

[Deuce]

6 months? Did she think she was just late? Did she think the firm stout belly was just from eating? Why did she wait this long?

[Tsoprano]

fiver why u change your avatar? willy turn the screws to you?

His Shamwow avatar was great

[Robyn]

your 28 no kid no fam just a loser...topgame don't kill your kid, ill never speak to you again...you will end up like bread and robyn .

If by "bread and robyn" you mean "my favorite people in the world", I just have one thing to say. Awwwwwww.

I love jrich.

[Cloak & Dagger]

Bitch I've lived in Thailand,France,England and I do what the FVCK i want to do you dont know shit. I get more Vagina then you can dream of here in Cali. If i want to fly to have breakfast in Costa rica then fly right back I can do it because i dont have any kids retard. Your the Loser I sleep with a new chick every night, do what i want 24/7 I love my life can you say the same?

that lifestyle gets old after a while....dealing with whores

[LMAOFISH]

Throw her down the stairs..wait, what?!

[teaserpleaser]

that lifestyle gets old after a while....dealing with whores

been doing it since College I've had 5 serious girlfriends and 2 live ins (I was stupid for living with chicks but we all learn! I will never do it again)... Trust me my Bachelor lifestyle never gets old. I love it it isnt the life for everybody but for me its Heaven... Having one Vagina lifestyle would get old , paying child support would get old , paying Alimony would get old As far as dealing with Whores I dont care some are good for late night calls, some are good for nights out on the town, some are good for work Christmas Partys. I dont judge

[Shark79]

Topgame Pay her the $700 better yet take her to the clinic make sure it gets done. ADD up the cost of 18 years of child support + college tuition + misc kid expenses its $700 is a hell of a deal. Trust me i may only be 28 but for a while there in my early 20s i was on a Quest to be Wilt Chamberlain trust me if she doesnt want to have your kid its one of two things shes not into you as much as you think or her career isnt where she wants it to be yet.

Great advice your fvking moron.

How could you possibly advice someone to kill their child ... wtf is wrong with you.

Im 29 and have a kid ... I go crazy just thinking if I would of made that decision.

Your an ego centric mothafocker .... I can also fly wherever the fvk I want and have breakfast if I want too ... best thing is ... I can do it with my son ... so go fvk urself.

[Shark79]

Teaser do us a favor ... stick to sports. TY

[teaserpleaser]

Whore probably isnt the right word, Since i've never paid for sex (not even in Thailand where there are real whores/bar girls) All guys pay for Dates, Meals, gas to pick the woman up, Movies, ETC... You could say Sluts or loose woman would be a better term.

[Cloak & Dagger]

been doing it since College I've had 5 serious girlfriends and 2 live ins (I was stupid for living with chicks but we all learn! I will never do it again)... Trust me my Bachelor lifestyle never gets old. I love it it isnt the life for everybody but for me its Heaven... Having one Vagina lifestyle would get old , paying child support would get old , paying Alimony would get old As far as dealing with Whores I dont care some are good for late night calls, some are good for nights out on the town, some are good for work Christmas Partys. I dont judge

I dont judge either

but

the family gig is not as bad as you make it seem

maybe you just aint found a good woman...yet

[teaserpleaser]

Great advice your fvking moron.

How could you possibly advice someone to kill their child ... wtf is wrong with you.

Im 29 and have a kid ... I go crazy just thinking if I would of made that decision.

Your an ego centric mothafocker .... I can also fly wherever the fvk I want and have breakfast if I want too ... best thing is ... I can do it with my son ... so go fvk urself.

Yeah but you need a babysitter

[bettilimbroke999]

Clearly there are many posters in this thread who are trapped workin 60 hours a week and have no money to show for it in the bank b/c they decided to have kids, to some people they'd rather have the money, there's nothing wrong either way, whatever's your preference

[teaserpleaser]

Great advice your fvking moron.

How could you possibly advice someone to kill their child ... wtf is wrong with you.

Im 29 and have a kid ... I go crazy just thinking if I would of made that decision.

Your an ego centric mothafocker .... I can also fly wherever the fvk I want and have breakfast if I want too ... best thing is ... I can do it with my son ... so go fvk urself.

Glad your happy (which i doubt your probably paying child support or will be at some point im, sure of it with you only being 29)

[Cloak & Dagger]

Clearly there are many posters in this thread who are trapped workin 60 hours a week and have no money to show for it in the bank b/c they decided to have kids, to some people they'd rather have the money, there's nothing wrong either way, whatever's your preference

lost souls...

[teaserpleaser]

I dont judge either

but

the family gig is not as bad as you make it seem

maybe you just aint found a good woman...yet

You could be right im moving out of So. Cal here in a year or two maybe i'll find somebody who can slow me down. I've seen what happens when people have kids and it doesnt work out and child support hurts... No thanks. Why would i want to give up my freedom? MY Brothers have 3 kids each I pick them up all the time the key is i can drop them back off when we get back from disneyland.

[bettilimbroke999]

lost souls...

Everyone's got different plans for life, I don't see how changing diapers is going to make my life any better, I'd rather have a fistful of dollars instead of a fistful of dirty diapers, but if that's what you're into by all means enjoy it

[Shark79]

Yeah but you need a babysitter

Then whats the point of having a kid around?

I apologize for the words I posted previously. You are entitled to think whatever you want.

You might not realize what satisfaction is to the human kind yet, but once you have the opportunity of being around a human being that needs you day in day out. Then you will realize what we are ment to be.

Good Luck to you ... and I hope if you do move away from CA. you find someone that will bring you back to being a human.

[Shark79]

Everyone's got different plans for life, I don't see how changing diapers is going to make my life any better, I'd rather have a fistful of dollars instead of a fistful of dirty diapers, but if that's what you're into by all means enjoy it

Bettil.

I dont change diapers ... however, that doesnt mean I dont care about my son.

I also can have a fistful of dollars, so what if I cant enjoy them 100% on me ... I prefer for my son to enjoy it in full and see him being as full of life and joy.

Its about giving and not keeping ... once you find that difference .. life will be different.

[bettilimbroke999]

Then whats the point of having a kid around?

I apologize for the words I posted previously. You are entitled to think whatever you want.

You might not realize what satisfaction is to the human kind yet, but once you have the opportunity of being around a human being that needs you day in day out. Then you will realize what we are ment to be.

Good Luck to you ... and I hope if you do move away from CA. you find someone that will bring you back to being a human.

Who would want the responsibility and cost of having some1 totally dependent on them, I'm not sure what the appealing side of this is, sounds like a real lose/lose deal, lose your money and lose all your energy and free time in exchange for just having a kid walkin around your apartment

[teaserpleaser]

Then whats the point of having a kid around?

I apologize for the words I posted previously. You are entitled to think whatever you want.

You might not realize what satisfaction is to the human kind yet, but once you have the opportunity of being around a human being that needs you day in day out. Then you will realize what we are ment to be.

Good Luck to you ... and I hope if you do move away from CA. you find someone that will bring you back to being a human.

No hard feelings your not the only person who jumps on me when i tell them how i think. Im a selfish person i know that I always have been. I had a chick at a bar i knew all of 30 min throw a Mojito on me because of my "lack of intrest in having babys" it really pisses people off im not sure why. by the way its not so much me wanting topgame to kill his kid its the Child support laws and the way guys get Fvcked. I'd like to see him avoid the pain if possible.

[teaserpleaser]

Who would want the responsibility and cost of having some1 totally dependent on them, I'm not sure what the appealing side of this is, sounds like a real lose/lose deal, lose your money and lose all your energy and free time in exchange for just having a kid walkin around your apartment

I love my place no crumbs, no toys, no food stains on the carpet. Alot of people with kids have told me if they could be without kids they would, Their lives would be alot easier... I'll look for it some university did a poll on this. We are in a Recession If i had a kid or two i sure as hell would feel it alot more than i am now!!