Gambling has ruined my relationship!

[holly lee]

He use to love doing things for me, now it's like "can you wait for another hour?" or something like "I have alot of money on this game, and I don't wanna miss it"

We're not a couple, we're exes and bestfriends.

Yes, gambling did do us aparted, I didn't care how much he won or lost, all I cared about is spending time with him...


Any ladies at SBR that has husband/boyfriends that can give me any advice on how to deal with it?

[JRS21386]

Well i can tell you you are hot! i can help you with anything you like

[fearless]

You have all the power in the world and you're not using it. Lay down the law:

If you don't turn off the TV and spend time with me, no sex for a week.

[smitch124]

Just wait until the day after the all-star break. There's no games then, he'll be sure to take you out.

[Louisvillekid1]

it'll do it, only going to get worse

[durito]

yea right

[Nicky Santoro]

i can assure you that every guy here that gambles that has a girlfriend, or wife.. goes through this on a regular basis..

who wants to spend time with a woman when you have a big massive bet going on and it's the 2 min warning in football and you are down 4 and your team is drving and you need a TD.. then the woman calls you in the room to watch a movie with her that second..

YEAH RIGHT.. like we're really going to go now and leave this game with 2 min to go and we are about to win or lose big money. they MUST wait.. and women hate this and that is why gamblers and women DO NOT MIX..

[BeatTheJerk]

JR i'm pretty sure thats jessica alba in the pic silly ..........

[SBR Lou]

Holly, I personally saw first hand you asking Dante to pick you up and take you somewhere, and he was too busy glued to the TV checking scores, that's what gambling does. It's better off you two cooled it off because it'd be more heartache just like that, we need to stage an intervention and help Dante get his life back on track.

[pavyracer]

And you joined a gambler's hornets nest to complain? Listen lady, take your bitching comments and run away. We are compulsive gamblers and we ain't changing for some whiny pussy. If you don't like us hit the road. Gambling is more important than relationships. Got it?

[JRS21386]

JR i'm pretty sure thats jessica alba in the pic silly ..........

Dammit your right! I knew it was too good to be true Thanks for the heads up

[SBR Lou]

Dammit your right! I knew it was too good to be true Thanks for the heads up

Actually I think thats her, she had another pic with Dante.

[durito]

colombian valentines day tomorrow = no football watching for me

my sadness has nothing to do with gambling though, i just like college football

[Nicky Santoro]

i assure you if jessica alba was really his GF, then he would leave his game to spend quality time with her, and perhaps even quit gambling for her. if jessica alba was the GF of any poster at sbr, and she asked you to quit gambling for her, i assure you 100% of us would quit for life..

[holly lee]

Well, that is me, I could never look like Jessica Alba, shes pretty.

[durito]

holly is crazyl -500

[BeatTheJerk]

hey holly when your man wins he doesn't spend time and money on you with his winnings ? , if he don't then let the man be ............ your probably better off without him because gambling will lessin the quality of life for most people if they let it take them,

[BeatTheJerk]

get the fuk outta here ............. thats jessica alba and now i think this is probably a ghost ................. smells like a granny prank

[SBR Lou]

holly is crazyl -500

Uh, take a look at Dantes avatar then the picture she posted.

[MonkeyF0cker]

That is not a pic of Jessica Alba.

[MonkeyF0cker]

Holly,

Get yourself a new man. Case solved.

[fiveteamer]

you sounds like my girlfriend...

It's the 9th inning, leave-me-the-****-alone.

[fiveteamer]

i can assure you that every guy here that gambles that has a girlfriend, or wife.. goes through this on a regular basis..

who wants to spend time with a woman when you have a big massive bet going on and it's the 2 min warning in football and you are down 4 and your team is drving and you need a TD.. then the woman calls you in the room to watch a movie with her that second..

YEAH RIGHT.. like we're really going to go now and leave this game with 2 min to go and we are about to win or lose big money. they MUST wait.. and women hate this and that is why gamblers and women DO NOT MIX..

lol, again Nicky, so sharp.

Nicky, you are like a fly in the wall in my house.

[smitch124]

Holly, you have one choice. Become a sports-gambling addict, its not hard really.

[Nicky Santoro]

fiver,

there is just absolutely zero chance that if you live with your wife or GF and you gamble every night, that you don't go through this all the time.. it's just impossible.. every gambler goes through this.. that's why you should check out the divorce rates amongst gamblers. it's the highest by far. .. when a man gambles, it really ruins a womans life completely.. she's like a prisoner.

[Dante799]

Listen to Nicky, he's gives out the sharpest advice that you can find... thats all i can say

[Masu485]

Man, what's wrong with you? I'm biased because I don't believe in relationships, but seriously, just leave if things aren't working out. Do you honestly think he's the only one out of thousands of people that can make you happy? Do you not meet new people? If you meet new people on a consistent basis, you won't mind leaving him as much. Guaranteed.

[BeatTheJerk]

yeah thats definately not the same chick crazyL , their both oriental it looks like

[BeatTheJerk]

[SBR Lou]

yeah thats definately not the same chick crazyL , their both oriental it looks like

Looks like the same to me bud..

[WestsidePete]

Holly,

The ONLY way to win him back your way is to give him a reason to not make the next bet....which is to give him the best sex from any woman he's ever had so his mind is diverted from gambling to you....

[BeatTheJerk]

riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii iiiight go pick a fukin -1200 ML fav CrazyL

[gm2022]

Holly its hard to deal with. My girl took a long time to come around, as well as I changed alot to keep my gambling and to keep her at the same time. Communication is the biggest key to keeping the best of both worlds. If you both really want to make it work you both will sacrifice and give up a little to both have what you want in the long run gl

[donjuan]

my sadness has nothing to do with gambling though, i just like college football

Luckily for you, the Buffs don't play this weekend. Next Thursday is going to be great, though.

[Nicky Santoro]

dante, i had no idea this was your woman. well,i can bet that it's not just at home. how about when you go out, do you carry a pager or a phone and do you check scores every 2 min.. that must bug the crap out of her too, cause she is talking to you and you start to check your scores and you are no longer listening to her.. you are focused on your games.. and when she wants to go out for supper, and you have 2 tv games, no way you wanna go out huh? so you stay home and ruin her life.. OR how about when she wants to go to bed with you, but the late game is still on and you want to watch it, so she has to go to bed alone. Or how about when you are getting killed one night and losing your shirt, and then she wants to go out after, no way you are going cause you are too depressed to leave house and you are thinking of how you will win this money back tmorrow.

dante, my last 5 GF's have all dumped me on acct of this.. they all hate me now and still tell me how much i ruined their life and how much happier they are now with their new man.. women hate me dante, on acct of gambling.
women dont like gamblers, dante. we really ruin their lives. we are no different than crack addicts dante. that is the truth.