Okay, so I've been dating this girl for a few months, she treats me well and everything, but I'm at an age where I'm looking for marriage material, and she doesn't quite fit the bill for a few reasons. Mainly the fact that she most likely won't have a high earning potential with her career path, and also that she doesn't have a good post-secondary education or discipline to intelligently raise children. Not saying you need a degree to raise kids, but I sure as hell prefer it. And... she's family poor.
If she had any brains she would dump your sorry ass.
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Cougar Bait
SBR Posting Legend
10-04-07
18282
#37
Marriage material? Aren't you in your early 20's????
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Hoja Verdes
SBR MVP
08-23-06
1403
#38
Originally posted by Deuce
What happened to working for what you want and creating success for yourself? Love doesn't come with a fukking price tag. If you're looking for love through money it isn't love. If you want something, get it yourself.
Personally I will create success by myself and will make it so my wife has to do absolutely nothing but make me dinner when I get home and then blow me, be my partner is crime, and raise our children while I am at work.
you can fukking FORGET the "blow me" part after the wedding. Ask any guy here thats married. And even if you get one on your birthday Tony Soprano style, kiss even the annual one goodbye after the first child is born
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DOMINATER
SBR MVP
12-10-09
3698
#39
you can't be in love with the first girl those are very weak reasons to get rid of her . What type of work do you do? I have a friend did the same thing ,but he was already married with two children . He got rid of her and shipped her back to the Missisippi in swamp country. He ended up marrying a girl who was taking every guy in her car and blowing them before she went on duty . She was in law enforcement. after 20 years they are still married. you wonder how I know a mutual friend of ours told me the whole story.
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sideloaded
SBR Hall of Famer
08-21-10
7561
#40
a lot of sexually frustrated men ITT
go buy a fleshlight
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ttwarrior1
BARRELED IN @ SBR!
06-23-09
28479
#41
i got your info and im gonna tell her, sorry man
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Romocide
SBR MVP
09-14-11
1404
#42
I told her too. In related news...I've got a date on Friday.
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mh217
SBR MVP
12-05-10
2226
#43
this is easy, keep em both for now and impregnate the rich one..
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ZetaPsi808
SBR Posting Legend
09-18-08
12119
#44
seems like a nice problem to have, good luck man
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paco
SBR Aristocracy
05-07-09
62873
#45
Originally posted by ttwarrior1
don't post your facebook info or ill contact her
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sharlataans
SBR MVP
08-13-10
1927
#46
masseuse is good for kids, you will save money
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ebbearsfb1
SBR Posting Legend
12-07-08
18815
#47
Originally posted by jarvol
The most important thing you should take away from this is to stop looking for marriage material and give up on the illusion that outdated institution of marriage has any relevancy.
Says the guy who lives at home in his mothers basement..women don't want to get within a hundred feet of this clown...... sideloaded how old are you? Your better off with the first girl... those are the girls that'll hold you down through whatever if your looking for marriage material.... but seriously you would be better off going on a womens website to get your answer. Half these guys haven't spoke to a women in years
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The Kraken
BARRELED IN @ SBR!
12-25-11
29085
#48
I bet girl #1 is telling guy #2 the same thing about you right now. However, she's sucking his dick just before she's gives you a kiss.
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bettilimbroke999
SBR Posting Legend
02-04-08
13254
#49
Girl #1 is a skinny retard while girl #2 is fat and intelligent...we all been there before there really is no right decision ur going to be miserable either way
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Br0nxer
SBR Posting Legend
03-25-11
13665
#50
Post fukkin pics guy
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TheMoneyShot
BARRELED IN @ SBR!
02-14-07
28690
#51
Bronxer LOL
Exactly... why do people start threads without posting pics??? We need a visual here... so we can decide.
Bottom line... it's ok to see both of them... you should be patient and just wait it out. No need to rush. You should act like "business as usual"
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mcbaseball10
SBR MVP
02-11-09
2866
#52
Originally posted by Hoja Verdes
you can fukking FORGET the "blow me" part after the wedding. Ask any guy here thats married. And even if you get one on your birthday Tony Soprano style, kiss even the annual one goodbye after the first child is born
Sorry pal, not the case for all the married men here.
Sideloaded, numbers up story telling down. You belong here.
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will2survive
SBR Hall of Famer
11-26-09
8099
#53
Originally posted by PAULYPOKER
Stay with the 1st one cause the 2nd one is outta your league and will eventually do to you what you are about to do.........
A very intelligent post. Couldn't have been said better.
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Hawkeye2011
SBR Wise Guy
12-12-11
840
#54
You will end up with neither one so it doesnt matter what you choose
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manny24
SBR Posting Legend
10-22-07
20174
#55
Originally posted by Br0nxer
Post fukkin pics guy
bronxer is right we need to see both of these hose beasts before a rational decision can be made.
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oiler
SBR Hall of Famer
06-06-09
6585
#56
your probably better off cause she would probably leave you cause your stupid
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Mr. Lucky
SBR Sharp
07-06-08
284
#57
All single people carry a list of expectations that are unreal. Get rid of the list and you will find true love. Watch out for wanting to marry rich because you will end up earning every cent. Also, playing with more than one chick will doom all chicks and you will lose them all. Love the one your with, the grass is always greener.
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sharlataans
SBR MVP
08-13-10
1927
#58
Originally posted by Mr. Lucky
All single people carry a list of expectations that are unreal. Get rid of the list and you will find true love. Watch out for wanting to marry rich because you will end up earning every cent. Also, playing with more than one chick will doom all chicks and you will lose them all. Love the one your with, the grass is always greener.
Very well put, Mr Lucky.
You have to earn and provide her with all she needs or she will leave you to a boss of my level.