My wife is leaving me, I'm crushed

[fearless]

We've been married for nearly 4 years but we never agreed about having kids. She wants kids and I don't. This was gonna be a make or break issue for years but she got angry at me yesterday and said that's it over. I'm crushed, she's my only real friend and really everything to me.

Any advice?

[BeatTheJerk]

u can always go back to your rainbow lifestyle fearless

[pat venditto]

yeah sorry to hear that but thats life dont trust women

[rake922]

fearless , how old are you

[BeatTheJerk]

it is a certainity that u will not have kids with another man

[SlickFazzer]

Sometimes life can kick you in the ballz.

My favorite quote "This too shall pass"

Comes in handy from time to time to keep me sane.

[SBR Lou]

I'm sorry to hear this, all I can say is sometimes women do get a little impulsive in the things they say, give her some space and then see if she is open to talking about it some more.

[fearless]

Sometimes life can kick you in the ballz.

My favorite quote "This too shall pass"

Comes in handy from time to time to keep me sane.

Yes a new life will come out of this. My wife says that I can find a better woman than her but my whole life is wrapped up with her, it will hard to go on without her.

[WonTooManyBets]

Don't let it affect the size of your bets.

[fearless]

I'm sorry to hear this, all I can say is sometimes women do get a little impulsive in the things they say, give her some space and then see if she is open to talking about it some more.

Yes we were planning on spending about 8 more months together but she was really mad yesterday.

[fearless]

u can always go back to your rainbow lifestyle fearless

That almost made me lol but you know I'm not gay at all.

[Panic]

fearless, I was going to ask the same question as Rake. How old are you?(and its not to be mean, just wondering)

[BeatTheJerk]

nah im j/p fearless but on the real .............. havin a lil whipper-snaper aint all that bad man i got two and im only 25 .............. i mean yeah it has taken a hit on my soicail life but their worth it everynow and again to stay home and watch them. maybe u should reconsider down the road .............

[fearless]

Don't let it affect the size of your bets.

Yes. It would be doubly crushing to lose my bankroll. I'll be extra careful.

[fearless]

fearless, I was going to ask the same question as Rake. How old are you?(and its not to be mean, just wondering)

32

[pico]

how about a compromise...get a big dog for your wife.

[fearless]

nah im j/p fearless but on the real .............. havin a lil whipper-snaper aint all that bad man i got two and im only 25 .............. i mean yeah it has taken a hit on my soicail life but their worth it everynow and again to stay home and watch them. maybe u should reconsider down the road .............

My mind is made up on that issue. I don't want kids for many reasons but my wife seems to think her life would be incomplete without a kid. It's a make or break thing for us.

[fiveteamer]

I'm a dead beat dad. The anonymity of the internet allows me to say this.

[fearless]

how about a compromise...get a big dog for your wife.

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[SBR Lou]

Fearless I think ultimately the kids thing is a big issue, women are very very wound tightly with regard to that, whether they want kids or don't want kids, a disagreement in that area can cause big problems.

I'm not going to ask about your situation or anything, because I don't want anybody taking some kind of potshot at you, but I just think maybe you should give her a night or two to cool off and then see about talking things out or maybe even mention the idea of counseling together..

[fearless]

I'm a dead beat dad. The anonymity of the internet allows me to say this.

That's awful, you have to take care of your kids.

It's more than money, my Dad was a dead beat Dad who always made his child support payments. He was just dead beat.

[fiveteamer]

I love betting horses too much. I ain't giving that bitch a nickel.

[fearless]

Fearless I think ultimately the kids thing is a big issue, women are very very wound tightly with regard to that, whether they want kids or don't want kids, a disagreement in that area can cause big problems.

I'm not going to ask about your situation or anything, because I don't want anybody taking some kind of potshot at you, but I just think maybe you should give her a night or two to cool off and then see about talking things out or maybe even mention the idea of counseling together..

Thank you crazy1, I can see that you're an awesome person.

I hope she changes her mind but even if she does, it will only be buying time because neither of us will budge on this issue.

I'll be alone soon and I'll have to cope with that. It will be a challenge indeed.

Thanks for your advice.

[fearless]

I love betting horses too much. I ain't giving that bitch a nickel.

The money is for the kid(s), not the woman.

[pavyracer]

We've been married for nearly 4 years but we never agreed about having kids. She wants kids and I don't. This was gonna be a make or break issue for years but she got angry at me yesterday and said that's it over. I'm crushed, she's my only real friend and really everything to me.

Any advice?

Post less often and make love frequently if you want to have kids.

[Panic]

fearless, your wife stuck around for 4 years waiting for you to come around. She was hoping you would get all the non parenting feelings out of your system. You didnt. She's gone. Simple as that. She is basically saying to you, it is time to sh!t or get off the pot. She's got her ideas of what she wants in life too. She was willing to give you 4 years in the hopes that you would come around to those same ideas. If it were me, I would give her children, but you do what you gotta do. You have to life with the decisions you make, not us.

[pico]

sucks to be married. a real gambler stays single and bang hookers.

[fiveteamer]

1. The whore stopped taking her pills.

2. I don't even like the mini-me. It smells like shit most times.

3. She will spend the money on her. TRUST me.

4. I like my money.

5. TRY AND FIND ME BITCH. HAHAHA.

[fearless]

fearless, your wife stuck around for 4 years waiting for you to come around. She was hoping you would get all the non parenting feelings out of your system. You didnt. She's gone. Simple as that. She is basically saying to you, it is time to sh!t or get off the pot. She's got her ideas of what she wants in life too. She was willing to give you 4 years in the hopes that you would come around to those same ideas. If it were me, I would give her children, but you do what you gotta do. You have to life with the decisions you make, not us.

Maybe I'll regret it, maybe she'll regret it but we can't agree on this issue.

[Panic]

Maybe I'll regret it, maybe she'll regret it but we can't agree on this issue.

Then there's nothing else you can do. And counseling is not going to change her mind about having children, so dont waste your money. Just prepare for the rest of your life without her and hopefully there are no regrets.

[fearless]

Then there's nothing else you can do. And counseling is not going to change her mind about having children, so dont waste your money. Just prepare for the rest of your life without her and hopefully there are no regrets.

I agree. This is very wise. She told me last night that her leaving me to have kids with someone else is her fate. It's fate indeed, I'll have to except that and move on.

[jgm1967]

1. The whore stopped taking her pills.

2. I don't even like the mini-me. It smells like shit most times.

3. She will spend the money on her. TRUST me.

4. I like my money.

5. TRY AND FIND ME BITCH. HAHAHA.

high five !!!!

jesus, this thread really brings out the bitterness

[fearless]

high five !!!!

jesus, this thread really brings out the bitterness

High fiving a dead beat Dad? How low can it go?

[jgm1967]

High fiving a dead beat Dad? How low can it go?

I was full of sarcasm.that guy should be put to sleep.

horrible post by him,

good luck to you friend

[diogee]

Sorry to hear fearless...hope everything works out in the end.