research top of the line PUA's
read - the game by neil strauss
research up on "mystery method"
read - the game by neil strauss
research up on "mystery method"
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puaforum.com this should help u outComment -
I gotta agree with you Nina. That stuff works, but it is hard to do for a long period of time. Most guys use thes techniques until they get a piece of the pie and after that, return to being a man.Originally posted by BadNinaComment -
Originally posted by Mr Windy Citycoach go buy a nice suit and get one of those big black briefcases. You already got shades so you are set there. Fill the briefcase with a bunch of papers like you are big time and go to various restaurants and bars looking important. Sit down by yourself and order a maker's mark with a splash of water. Call Brock on the phone and act like you are firing him for a bad investment ($10 mil or so) and do it in the sight of the women so they hear you and think you are powerful. Hang up angrily and stroll to the bar take a glance and buy a drink for the first woman that you see looking at you. This will create attention to other women and they will begin to think you are rollin'. Get them drunk, tell them some wild stories (you are good at that) and ask them back to your place for a nightcap. Once they are in the door you know what to do my man.
Thanks now that was good advice, I think as far as getting laid you can BS a woman thinking you have money and con her for awhile and get sex.
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Just tell the truth....
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they wont believe U anyway.
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You've already been given the correct advice (confidence) and you dismiss it immediately, and yet you consider his advice good? You're covering a bullet wound with a band-aid by taking this route. You obviously have confidence issues to take care of, and you will get nowhere lying for short term satisfaction.Originally posted by jjgoldThanks now that was good advice, I think as far as getting laid you can BS a woman thinking you have money and con her for awhile and get sex.
Think about it, what attributes does the character described by MWC have that you wish you had and why would having these help get you laid? Simply put, you're hoping to fake confidence and success by using money/fake phone call and dressing up to be a business man.
You can show a women you are successful without being in charge of millions or dollars/firing/etc or without even looking like you are trying to. In a very general sense, try telling stories that portray these attributes to maximize the appearance of your strengths to the opposite sex. You have to believe you're the catch, and they are the one who is lucky to be talking to you.
As a few examples.. You've owned businesses, tell a funny story involving one of your employees. Talk about a crazy night in Vegas that you planned (or anywhere else you've been). Sprinkle these little details about yourself in the stories that you want her to pick up on (successful, confident, alpha male, etc) and you'll appear to be a lot less desperate, and probably won't have to resort to outright lying. She'll pick up that you were in charge of people, like to travel/have fun, or whatever you are trying to show her about yourself. The more subtle you are the better, you want her to make the connection from having employees->success, fun story->likes to have fun, etc, without appearing for that to be the intent.
In terms of confidence, it should be faked until you have it. It comes with practice and time. One day you'll be chatting up a 10 and realize you aren't faking confidence anymore, everyone is looking at you wishing they were you, and you are confident.
If you don't want to fix it, might as well get a hooker instead, there's less shame in paying for sex than lying. If you do want to fix it, man up, quit being a pussy and actually fix the problem.Comment -
Compliment her shoes. It worked in the movie.
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jj, the reality is your very unattractive-women are more superficial then men initially
so you must take minets advice, and be overly nice, and be patient - and continue to bone pecos bill in the ass to take off some pressureComment -
Work with what you have, lie, impress, shoot for the long haul scores."I have never seen a wild thing feel sorry for itself. A little bird will fall dead, frozen from a bough, without ever having felt sorry for itself."
- D.H. LawrenceComment -
Indecent solid advice there, I will have to study it.
WTF thanks for vote of confidenceComment -
are you sure you really want one? if you knock one up everything will change and if you don't what use are they. its a losing battle and you will lose. make sure she likes sports gambling or you will be doomed that way too.Comment -
jj you have to lie your ass off lie li lie and again lie
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jj just carry a bag just in caseComment -
I've seen a guy doing something like this; he was talking about mils on the cell phone, but seconds later his phone actually rangOriginally posted by Mr Windy Citycoach go buy a nice suit and get one of those big black briefcases. You already got shades so you are set there. Fill the briefcase with a bunch of papers like you are big time and go to various restaurants and bars looking important. Sit down by yourself and order a maker's mark with a splash of water. Call Brock on the phone and act like you are firing him for a bad investment ($10 mil or so) and do it in the sight of the women so they hear you and think you are powerful. Hang up angrily and stroll to the bar take a glance and buy a drink for the first woman that you see looking at you. This will create attention to other women and they will begin to think you are rollin'. Get them drunk, tell them some wild stories (you are good at that) and ask them back to your place for a nightcap. Once they are in the door you know what to do my man.Comment -
its real simple pal ......be a fukkn assholeComment -
That book is a classic. All you need is in there JJOriginally posted by KavComment -
cocain - be a coke king and get a bunch of coke queens.
firs jou get the mawneee theeen jou get the poooosssy.
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Just act like the guy from "Silence of the Lambs". They love it.
JJ: "It puts the lotion in the basket."
Girl: "What?"
JJ: "Put the fcking lotion in the basket or it gets the hose again!!!"Comment -
get them drunkComment -
This! And good luck finding the chloroform too.Originally posted by TexansFan
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Nothing working even though some solid advice.
I think their is an art to it
I am too honest maubeComment -
Care about them!Comment -
Can you at least help us out on why it's hard for you to score?Originally posted by jjgold
Whats your age range? Do you look old/young?
How do you dress?
Are you in shape(are you a fat one)?
Do you consider yourself attractive(meaning, are you ugly or not).
Are you loaded with money or not?
How tall are you.
These type of things women care about a lot. Don't pay attention to all that "I care whats on the inside" bullshit because those girls only exist in a 2/20 ratio. Trust me!Comment -
jj just find yourself a fat chick...they need lovin too
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Can you at least help us out on why it's hard for you to score?
Whats your age range? Do you look old/young? 40 look like 50 without rug
How do you dress? cut of sweats
Are you in shape(are you a fat one)? a little overweight
Do you consider yourself attractive(meaning, are you ugly or not). not attractive
Are you loaded with money or not? NO
How tall are you. 5-4 1/2
These type of things women care about a lot. Don't pay attention to all that "I care whats on the inside" bullshit because those girls only exist in a 2/20 ratio. Trust me!Comment -
Moving from New Jersey would be a good start.Comment -
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SHit! we are working with one of those "beat-up trucks" while trying to get it to run again.Originally posted by jjgold
Anyways, for me I'm still young (early 20's) and in shape. I'm attractive because older women said so.
I had a friend who was overweight and not attractive at all. He was 5'8 and very poor. But he ended up with a girl who was knocked out hot! We were all wondering, "WTF???!!!"
They way he found her was that he was at the right place at the right time. The girl just broke up with her BF cuz he was being a douche. So, my friend got to be the rebound guy and was there for her. Girls right after a break up are desperate for someone to talk to. You can be that guy.
If you go to pubs/bars and try to score with women there, I suppose things don't change cuz the one's I'm easy with are the older ones as all they want is a young guy to take home.
But in your shoes, with what you pointed out from you, your best bet is to be smooth. Try and impress the girl you wanna approach. Be funny and have a sense of humour. Pretend like you have lots of money(if your not thinking of a serious deal).
If you get a chance to talk to her and she mentions things that you are aware about, then bring it up and lie to her that you have those things at home and if she ever wants to come over and take a look at it. In the mean time you can go to the swap meet or ebay and order something so that you can actually show it to her.
But if your looking for something to can just "fool" around with, save lots of money and get yourself an Escort.
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Manipulate the woman? Maybe it should be the next field of SBR company
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Jmobile that was a great post. I think it's all timing with girls like you said being at right place at right time.
For that matter timing is everything for many things in life.Comment -
Get a penis pump and work that shit till your Johnson is at least 8 inches, that's all you need in this world pal
Then like the guy upstairs said hit the bar and flaunt your shit, all the bar skanks will be suckin your dick in no time.
You'll most likely end up getting some form of STD's though, careful.Comment -
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Shaftmasters work but promote isolation with women.Comment
