Would you say that this was a decent opening exchange with a girl to be revisited

[stevek173]

Had an exchange with pretty cute girl today in convenience store.

After being in a relationship that spans nearly decade I honestly have no idea on "signals" so advice is welcome.

I am walking back form the basketball court and I am a sweaty mess with rum probably coming out of my pores.

She is sitting on the curb smoking.

I open with "Boy this heat huh"

She follows me in with "I know right"

I get some water.

She gives me a "Will there be anything else sweetie"

Now when it comes to the term "sweetie" I there are 3 likely scenarios:

-Older women saying it as a habit

-Younger women saying it to be flirty

-Anyone saying it to be nice

I took it to be the 3rd.

I bounce back with "Yeah you can put an air conditioner in my place"

She gives me a small smile, I chuckle.

On my way home I realized I basically told her that I am poor by saying that.

[whatsgood5]

She wants the dick.

[OmgUrMom]

well now that she knows you are poor you are fukked pal

[sundin4prez]

with that convo you'll be in her in a couple of days

[poker_dummy101]

she is obv a whore hoping you were the next customer

[stevek173]

well now that she knows you are poor you are fukked pal

I'm thinking that but if she is a cashier in a convenience store maybe she's not that judgemental

[Extra Innings]

She probably gets hit on daily...just keep going back and buying water and something will happen evenly

[THE PROFIT]

sweetie & a chuckle??? I hear wedding bells

[THE PROFIT]

I am very confident with women, but at the same time don't come on too strong usually. But when I drank alot I had a bad habit of pissing women off by being too forward. Just saying, some really like that but I really blew it with some that I was guaranteed to get some pussy from by being a total asshole when I was drinking too much.

My buddy invited this girl he had met from another town to come over & hang out & she brought her friend & we all hung out at my apartment. She really liked me & I knew I was gonna get some of that no questions asked. But later that night I got drunk & forced her to blow me in a Bennigans restroom!

[thebayareabeast]

Was she wearing a skirt and heels

[mrmarket]

Ho meets trick. Longest running love story in the history of man.

[stevek173]

Was she wearing a skirt and heels

no she wasn't

[Jimmy0607]

Where was this?? In the hood?

[stevek173]

Where was this?? In the hood?

No rural area. Needless to say I was the only one on the basketball court.

[sundin4prez]

was she italian or greek by any chance?... from what ive seen they tend to say hun,sweetie,babe a bunch when they dont know your name.....

[OmgUrMom]

forced her to blow you?

sounds like we might have another criminal matter in the SBR forums

[jonmic]

propose tomorrow, don't delay any further

[stevek173]

was she italian or greek by any chance?... from what ive seen they tend to say hun,sweetie,babe a bunch when they dont know your name.....

she could have been either now that I recall

good question

[Jimmy0607]

But she wasnt black right

[THE PROFIT]

forced her to blow you?

sounds like we might have another criminal matter in the sbr forums

well, I stuck my cok in her mouth without asking

[Onefreedm1nd]

Here's what I would do.. Go back to the store. Find whatever can fuk u up the most in the store (liquor, beer, pills, maybe throw in some candy for kiks) and eat it all. Wait 2 mins (THIS IS YOUR WINDOW) make sure to drop a super cool joke and look real G-like before you throw up. Then projectile on your most hated celeb magazine at the checkout and fall down. By now she should be coming over to resuscitate you (maybe throw in some alka seltzers for effect). Then BOOM mouth to mouth + ambulance ride

[OmgUrMom]

[THE PROFIT]

was she italian or greek by any chance?... from what ive seen they tend to say hun,sweetie,babe a bunch when they dont know your name.....

Here in the south everyone calls you honey & sweetie. Every woman over 35 anyway. I catch myself doing it alot too.

[stevek173]

But she wasnt black right

No she wasn't

[keyboarding]

Sorry, buddy. Clearly you've been out of the game way, way too long. Make absolutely nothing of this because that is what it was. Nothing.

Also, for future reference, you don't ever want to think like this. Means you're on the wrong end of the exchange. You want the woman to wonder what might have been, and to hope there's another chance with you. Smarten up and good luck.

[EmpireMaker]

stop back and start a conversation with her and see if it goes anywhere

[stevek173]

Sorry, buddy. Clearly you've been out of the game way, way too long. Make absolutely nothing of this because that is what it was. Nothing.

Also, for future reference, you don't ever want to think like this. Means you're on the wrong end of the exchange. You want the woman to wonder what might have been, and to hope there's another chance with you. Smarten up and good luck.

ty and yes i have been

[stevek173]

stop back and start a conversation with her and see if it goes anywhere

agreed

[Onefreedm1nd]

stop back and start a conversation with her and see if it goes anywhere

Probably the smarter play

[Sunde91]

She was sitting on the curb?

"Anything else, sweetie" sounds pretty sarcastic to me, like "Anything else, you prick? Fuk off, I don't want to talk to you"

A "small smile" is also just her trying to be polite. She would have laughed, even a little bit, if she was interested at all.

She obviously wasn't interested whatoever and was probably annoyed.

[stevek173]

She was sitting on the curb?

"Anything else, sweetie" sounds pretty sarcastic to me, like "Anything else, you prick? Fuk off, I don't want to talk to you"

A "small smile" is also just her trying to be polite. She would have laughed, even a little bit, if she was interested at all.

She obviously wasn't interested whatoever and was probably annoyed.

She was smoking and taking a break from her job that's why sitting.

I don't agree on the sweetie part because I was so tired that I was silent so she initiated the 2nd conversation.

I do agree that the smile was probably just being polite and if I was JJ I would have at that point released a vicious diatribe that would have had permanent ramifications.

[shari91]

stop back and start a conversation with her and see if it goes anywhere

[stevek173]

I like you

[THE PROFIT]

I like you

that's what you need to tell the clerk, not our cyber hottie

[mikejamm]

Go for it dude, ask her out! You'll never know unless you take that chance!