What guarantees that in a non-arranged marriage she wouldn't say no to sex all the time?
Good point.
Originally posted by shari91
Yeah that ^^^^ Just going on a hunch here, but if the guy's willing to be friends with you, the fact that he's not getting any probably has more to do with him being a complete tool than whether or not the marriage was arranged. Again, just a guess.
Originally posted by 13th Inning
I knew an Indian couple whose marriage was arranged. All they ever did was have violent fights and throw things at each other and say shit like, "I wish I never married you!!!" and "Fukk off!!!" Very sad what happens to people in these high tension situations.
Fixed.
Originally posted by shari91
Arranged marriages work. And they're beautiful when they do. No different than the 'normal ones' us divorce-crazy Westerners live by.
As long as its civil, they are just as likely to work as any other relationship. A lot of people think arranged marriages are women being bought or traded for green cards, and that is a very skewed image of the practice.
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compaqDikk
SBR Hall of Famer
10-08-05
5699
#39
jj one of your 3 marriages was fixed. i will pull the post here in a sec
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jjgold
SBR Aristocracy
07-20-05
388179
#40
Originally posted by compaqDikk
jj one of your 3 marriages was fixed. i will pull the post here in a sec
NO!!!!!!!!!!!! Mods this guy needs to be stopped NOW!!!
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Al Masters
SBR Hall of Famer
04-29-06
6940
#41
Originally posted by jagaf22
Arranged Marriages? Come on this isn't India!
He meant to say deranged marriages,which would be the case if any woman became MRS JJGOLD.
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compaqDikk
SBR Hall of Famer
10-08-05
5699
#42
"Some wanted to know about my 3 wives, not much to say but here is a brief summary.
Wife 1: Met her when I was 16 after I got thrown out of school for running football tickets business, she was nice, Italian and smart. We dated for 2 years and at 18 got married. She liked the big shot image I had, the minks I wore, the rolls of money I always had and my lovemaking was excellent back then. I could last like 10 minutes. Well of course it went bad due to my cheating with women from the Jazz club I hung in, it was strange girls back them loved guys with minks so I banged everything. We got divorced and went our own ways.
Wife 2: This was an arranged marriage because she was Indian, she had a crush on me for years when I use to walk by her pad and her family liked me. I was more of a nice guy type with her because she was quiet and conservative. I guess she begged her parents to arrange a marriage even though I was not Indian and I think they thought I was rich so they gave into her. It was a big wedding but most people there were Indian as we did it her families way. She was a nice girl too and in college. She was pretty also. So she moved into my pad and it was ok for a while, the lovemaking was not that good because they really only have sex to have kids and I did not want any. She would give me hand jobs every night while I watched porn so I could get off. I think she hated this but wanted to please me. Well I went broke with her and she sold her car and jewerly so I could pay of the sharks and books ( I did pay her back after the marriage went bad) . It worked for a little bit but she eventually got sick of my lifestyle and it ended. She moved back home and we got divorced. She was a good kid too. My bad.
wife 3: Hot as fukkin hell, black woman I met in a jazz club in Newark. Wow!! 5-5, 180 or so and hot body and dreads. I pumped her with money all the time and she had a mink too. We did everything together and she liked the gambling screne. I thought I was in love and this was the one forever. All she wanted to do is party, gamble and fuk all night. She loved me but get this ...it only did not work because of my performance in bed, sex meant a lot to her and I was not humg like black guys who are like 8 inches and thick. I was 2.5 inches and kind of thin but knew how to use it. Well basically at night I think she faked it and I had trouble lasting more than 2 minutes and always had trouble staying inside her, the thing always came out and we had to stop ever 5 seconds and she got frustrated. I do not go down on women either so she basically did it herself every night and I watched . I knew this was not going to last because of the sex, she needed a bigger guy and we parted on friendly terms.
You see always trouble with women even if not gambling. I am happier now without them and just as easy to watch porn (3000 tape collection) using a shaftmaster to get off and hookers once in a while.
Stay single and gamble and you will be happier.
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jjgold
SBR Aristocracy
07-20-05
388179
#43
Compactor you Son of A Bitch
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Naz18
SBR MVP
09-10-09
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#44
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pavyracer
SBR Aristocracy
04-12-07
82872
#45
Thank you compactor!
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paco
SBR Aristocracy
05-07-09
62873
#46
@ Compak's post.
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jjgold
SBR Aristocracy
07-20-05
388179
#47
Anyone have Compacts address??
$500 if you do
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Scorpion
SBR Hall of Famer
09-04-05
7797
#48
Are you planning to marry Carol(your pillow)??
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pico
BARRELED IN @ SBR!
04-05-07
27321
#49
compaq is awesome
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Jule
SBR Sharp
04-02-10
404
#50
Any man or woman should choose their spouse based on love and not based on a silly arrangement. Am I the last idealistic person? How about falling in love and then getting married? How about giving it a shot because one loves his/her spouse? how about not treating a marriage as if it is a business agreement? Is that too dreamy or romantic for the real world? I could never choose to be with a man who could not make my heart jump. Not even for a night.