Girl Using Me For $$$...Should I Care?

[JohnAnthony]

Sharp post by AMBlai01. I didn't know she bought you a shirt BJ.

[Jimmy0607]

She buys a shit and gets 200 bucks worth of stuff , bitch knows

[PittsburghPlayer]

To me, this is a NO-brainer. She is begging for anal. She took you for a little bit of a ride thinking that you would plow her brown-star. However, you do have an option. You could do it gently, slowly OR balls deep, first stroke. She is beggin`, your choice. GL

[JohnAnthony]

She buys a shit and gets 200 bucks worth of stuff , bitch knows

they always do

[GiveMeaBJ]

Okay i will try to dive into this a little bit.

First and foremost this relationship with your GF is not going to go anywhere. The decision there is if you want to keep up the charade or not...because that is what it is. You guys both cheated on each other...oh and btw if she says once and there was a pregnancy scare...you better believe that she at least did 4 or 5 other times by random hooking up or making out. People don't go from being in a committed relationship to just fukking some guy one day.... I would guess as cool as your girl is, there are some major trust issues on both end with you two because of all the cheating. Which is where the problem is, those feelings will never go away.

Now as far as the new girl is concerned.... I read your story and the big piece of information that was out of the original post was the fact that she bought you a shirt at the mall too (and first). Is she after your money? Maybe...Is she a girl that just wants to be treated well and like a lady...more likely. The bigger issue is that it seems like you want to get this girl just to say "I had her". I mean if you are truly interested in her..take her out, talk to her and see if you think there is anything there between the two. If you are just looking to fukk her....well by all means do it but understand that it just damages your relationship with your gf even more (which I think is doomed anyway).

You really have to figure out what it is that you really want out of hanging with a girl. Do you want a long term relationship? Do you want to just mess around? and be honest with yourself.....

Great post. I am 20 years old and I haven't met a girl that I ever though "hey maybe she is the one". I haven't even thought of it. I don't want to get married until I am atleast 28. I love my girlfriend she is the best. She does whatever I want to do and just loves to be around me. I don't know maybe I should just break everything off and find a new girl. I know this relationship is going nowhere but I am not expecting it too. I have some things to think about.

[paco]

The best advice I can give pal is......Whatever u do, just make sure u delete all text messages as soon as u finish reading. If u get caught by ur girl, u will be on even grounds with her again and will no longer be able to hold the leverage of web she cheated on u in the past. Have fun, put a rubber on

[rm18]

paco

[JohnAnthony]

The best advice I can give pal is......Whatever u do, just make sure u delete all text messages as soon as u finish reading. If u get caught by ur girl, u will be on even grounds with her again and will no longer be able to hold the leverage of web she cheated on u in the past. Have fun, put a rubber on

Now that's a playa!

[AMBlai01]

Great post. I am 20 years old and I haven't met a girl that I ever though "hey maybe she is the one". I haven't even thought of it. I don't want to get married until I am atleast 28. I love my girlfriend she is the best. She does whatever I want to do and just loves to be around me. I don't know maybe I should just break everything off and find a new girl. I know this relationship is going nowhere but I am not expecting it too. I have some things to think about.

20 really is right on the cusp of wanting something serious vs. wanting to just mess around. It depends on what type of guy you are.... some are content being with one girl and having the security, Others want to wander and see what is out there. Just remember that you are only 20 once and you won't get back those years. I went through most of college with a girlfriend and I have to say that I regret a lot of it because I didn't get to experience everything.....but that is just me.

[DOMINATER]

BJ Well it appears you get it. You seem to have a matureity not typical of a person of your age. LISTEN that was nice of her to buy you a shirt, she is a young girl so i don't think shes playing you .I have seen girls that are hustlers or that are kept by older guys preform in her manner, but i think your safe.. NOW remember what usually happens next. You have a girl that you are in love with, and she is no doubt in love with you . remember as far as she is concerned she has done the one of the hardest things a woman will ever have to do.,and she did it. GOD if she ever finds out about this it may destroy her. I would suggest to you , treat this matter with the most respect, if this continues make every effort the same as if you were married, listen i just got company i have to put more time into this for you i will start again after 1100 tonight. my sister says hello I SAID hi, I WILL BE BACK later hang in there

[nenad]

lol what a thread

[DOMINATER]

ok.

[DOMINATER]

let me get back to you and whats going on

[DOMINATER]

i read a few others remarks and although they gave you ter thoughts i don't think there looking inside of you

[DOMINATER]

any longterm relationship gets stagnent this is why relationships take more than just getting off and i'll see you tomorrow routine, i have been married 40 years after the first year tat having free sex and see you lster gets old

[Tree Rollins]

BJ. I'll be honest, i haven't read through this thread completely. When i go through a long thread i usually only read comments by "dominater".

Seems like you've been having a lot of problems with females lately. I just hope you don't waste your time with a girl you know isn't right. That's it my brotha. Peace.

[DOMINATER]

thats why we go looking for somethingnew because what we have we are bored with it, people laugh when they here peopletalk about the grazy things they do and how they role play when their having sex to keeps things from getting boring. well bj you can answer that are you bored with your first lady, sure things got interesting last week , i hope that was the most exciting place ypu took your girlfriend to int he last 6 monnths or so. that clinic does not qualify as a date lol.

[DOMINATER]

hi tree

[DOMINATER]

I JUST READ YOUR TWENTY DO YOU THINK AT TWENTY you should no what its about

[DOMINATER]

this is all new thats why your getting so fuked up

[DOMINATER]

you say you love your first girl and this new one is a fantasy chick ,i read where she said that she also had a crush on yo in high school do you remember

[DOMINATER]

take this from me you have a duty as a 20 year old guy to see where this takes you

[DOMINATER]

you are going steady so you are breaking a rule your not engaged if you don't explore this and you end up like this married to your first girl that will follow you to your grave

[DOMINATER]

I was 24 yr old i talked with a made guy he heard about my reputation of being an allstate pic and in college breaking some records in scholl history, he got me a try out with the pirates the worst team for spending money they flew to the east coast , not i did not throw a baseball for a while it was right before shipping out, itrie out they came to see me they watched me throw with just a catcher

[DOMINATER]

it was 40 derees out i hadnt thrown in 4 or 5 months i tried out they offered me a single a deal 440 per month i got a wife and kid and they wanted me back then in an instructional leaque

[RobbReport]

prone bone her already.

[DOMINATER]

what could i expect im lucky thats the point i will never ask myself was i any good , did i belong playing baseball the answer wasnt crystal clear but i least i knew i wasnt good enough to start for the yankees lol

[DOMINATER]

now dont you want to know ifyou are with the right one .if you were married i say oops to late your married you dont get to find out but your a puppy you have that right

[DOMINATER]

if either girl catches on your dead

[DOMINATER]

there is nothing like a woman scorned

[The Seer]

it was 40 derees out i hadnt thrown in 4 or 5 months i tried out they offered me a single a deal 440 per month i got a wife and kid and they wanted me back then in an instructional leaque

damn, and I thought what I got paid in the arena league was peanuts

[RobbReport]

damn, and I thought what I got paid in the arena league was peanuts

cheerleader?

[DOMINATER]

you are going to have to make a decision your taking this chance only because your fantasy high school girl is involved .

[DOMINATER]

well that was 1974

[DOMINATER]

and it was an instructinal type leaque