need some advice with this woman

[BGS 9.5]

I don't care how good things are going, chicks always spoil it, especially after either weekends away or a week away. Generally, they don't pay for jackshit, and when the fun is all said and done, they all of a sudden invent reasons why they need "a break".

Bide your time and see what happens. I have been in these kinds of relationships, and for me they never turned out good after the scenario you just explained. Not trying to be a downer, I hope this works out. 4.5 years is a long time to be invested in a relationship......

[OB 2138]

I don't care how good things are going, chicks always spoil it, especially after either weekends away or a week away. Generally, they don't pay for jackshit, and when the fun is all said and done, they all of a sudden invent reasons why they need "a break".

Bide your time and see what happens. I have been in these kinds of relationships, and for me they never turned out good after the scenario you just explained. Not trying to be a downer, I hope this works out. 4.5 years is a long time to be invested in a relationship......

I know i just wanna know why she's doing this shit..i don't understand the term "break" like wtf you need a "break" for, i know the bitch will come running back in a couple of days but seriously why ****in take a break if your gonna come back..only thing i can think of is shes cheating...what else could it be?

[OB 2138]

I'm just gonna play this bitch from now on like a game of cards..Fvck respecting this hoe, i've given her enough respect ima fvck every girl i want from thsi day on and if she catches me then so be it, not holdin anything back anymore. Not to mention when i receive my lawsuit settlement from the accident in 2 weeks im thinkin about movin to vegas.

[BGS 9.5]

I'm just gonna play this bitch from now on like a game of cards..Fvck respecting this hoe, i've given her enough respect ima fvck every girl i want from thsi day on and if she catches me then so be it, not holdin anything back anymore. Not to mention when i receive my lawsuit settlement from the accident in 2 weeks im thinkin about movin to vegas.

[Teela]

"Break" is code for "I want to see what else is out there before I settle on you."

[56casino]

lol id like to take a hammer to her head instead..im so pissed off expecially after i just took her on vacation.

You must be joking, girls often get upset for whatever reason but we man will never figure out.

Like you said, this happened a lot, so I think it's nothing this time as well, and do not worry, things will get back on track.

If she really loves you, she will come to your side, and best of luck.

[OB 2138]

"Break" is code for "I want to see what else is out there before I settle on you."

thanks teela, thats why i think too but it helps gettin some advice from a lady...Another factor in this is that i'm not working right now but i've been recovering fro ma broken back n have plenty of cash thanks to sports betting..But yesterday i found out i got a job with a buddy of mine so that can't be the reason even though it pisses her family off and they wonder how a kid like me has so much money with no job.

[OB 2138]

lol she's already starting to come back, won't stop textin me after i ignored her and never called her back after she hung up on me like i usually do...i'll keep you guys updated on the status of the 'break'

[Razz_Donkey]

Bro, why are you wasting time with this? I thought you were done with her and frustrated with the drama? Don't let your ego get in the way, escape while you still can.

[56casino]

lol she's already starting to come back, won't stop textin me after i ignored her and never called her back after she hung up on me like i usually do...i'll keep you guys updated on the status of the 'break'

Ya when you been too good to girls, they won't cherish. And they will if they think they are going to lose you.
So keep on mind NEVER NEVER get too anxious, things will get better.

[OB 2138]

thanks casino you've made some good points...

[Teela]

You allowed guilt to keep you in a relationship. You have an opportunity to get out of it, especially when crazy entered the picture.

[Bread]

Godammit I love vagina. Tella CALL ME!

[losturmarbles]

ob grow up and stop acting like a punk. you say you dont want the drama, when youre your own soap opera. figure out what you want. then have a heart to heart to figure out what she wants. if you want different things. then move on. stop blaming her for your regrets.

[hoopster42]

is it 'absence makes the heart grow fonder' or is it 'out of sight out of mind'

a short break will let you know for sure, although i have always felt that a break from a relationship usually spells doom

[lakerboy]

what was this thread about?

[Teela]

Godammit I love vagina. Tella CALL ME!

You like it in the grouper.

[DwightShrute]

"women! you can't live with em ..................... pass the beer nuts!"

[Bigmikesm]

I already know how this is gonna play out. You're gonna get back together in a couple days/weeks and everything will be right back to where it was. My guess is she was interested in another guy, maybe even went on a date with him, but she'll realize there is too much between you two. When I was 21 I worked at Montgomery Wards (cashier) and my girlfriend worked at (Carson Pirie Scott) cashier and let me tell you I FVCKING payed for everything. Like I was some kind of roller. Bi tch actually made .50 cents more an hour than me too. She would occasionally leave a tip on the table, but that was it the only time I saw her wallet! Women are generally cheap with their money, not yours. You fvcked up by being a "nice"guy and paying for everything from the beginning as I did with my ex-gf and there is no backtracking and telling her we need to start going dutch. She'll start resenting you and tell you that you've changed and she'll definitely tell you "we need a break". Good luck

[hoopster42]

I already know how this is gonna play out. You're gonna get back together in a couple days/weeks and everything will be right back to where it was. My guess is she was interested in another guy, maybe even went on a date with him, but she'll realize there is too much between you two. When I was 21 I worked at Montgomery Wards (cashier) and my girlfriend worked at (Carson Pirie Scott) cashier and let me tell you I FVCKING payed for everything. Like I was some kind of roller. Bi tch actually made .50 cents more an hour than me too. She would occasionally leave a tip on the table, but that was it the only time I saw her wallet! Women are generally cheap with their money, not yours. You fvcked up by being a "nice"guy and paying for everything from the beginning as I did with my ex-gf and there is no backtracking and telling her we need to start going dutch. She'll start resenting you and tell you that you've changed and she'll definitely tell you "we need a break". Good luck

montgomery wards?

dude, how fukkin old are you?????????????

[OB 2138]

lol montgomery wards...we already had angry sex tonight

[wtf]

bigmike is right

your going to be bangin her in a few days

get her to pull that wallet out, she will forget your name in a month

[Bigmikesm]

lol montgomery wards...we already had angry sex tonight

Enjoy it when you get it, because I have a feeling you'll be going thru this again down the road.

[curious]

she probably wants you to marry her. if you don't want to get married then you have to pack her shit up and set it next to the curb and tell her that you hope things work out for her in her future endeavors.

i would never let a woman cause me drama. the bitch would either tell me in straight, plain English what was really going on or I would kick her ass out.

you have been living together for too long not to have married her. I'm guessing that is the problem.

As for your hair you need to go to a barber and get another haircut and never mention it again and NEVER let your woman cut your hair again. That is a disaster just waiting to happen.

[TheIntegrityKid]

All I know is, Razz gave some spot on advice/words of wisdom to OB and that is the highlight of this thread...

In fact, there should be a thing on all threads called 'highlight of the thread' where someone's participation is highlighted to stand out...

Good luck to ya OB...

[Robyn]

Bread, when we break up someday, I hope you don't start gay threads about me.

[pavyracer]

we been together for 4 1/2 years, just got back from a 10 day vacation to new orleans and florida a week ago where i payed for everything...we've been great lately too until yesterday..Let me start by tellin you she is going to beauty school right now..So i need a haircut and i've gotten a few from her already since she started and they were decent, nothin great, nothin horrible...until yesterday, she messed up soooo bad, she was trying to give me a fade and instead of blending it she accidently shaved it shorter than the hair on the bottom which made it look like i had a halo around my head..And to top it off the entire time shes actin all bitchy and like she doesn't give a shit about what my hair looks like so it kinda pissed me off, actually a lot but i didn't make a huge deal out of it i just wanted her to fix it..she somewhat fixes it and then goes to bed like 20 minutes later after we smoke...now today when she gets home from school she says to me "i think we need a break for a little"...just right out of the blue i have no clue wtf happened..need a little advice on what i should do, this has happened a lot with us but not for a long time since our younger immature days..what do you guys think i should do..

You spend $2000 on a 10 day vacation with her and you went for a free haircut.

[jellobiafra]

Bread, when we break up someday, I hope you don't start gay threads about me.

Ouch. Double ouch. One for Bread and one for the OP.

Damn girl.

[MainEventOrBust]

Godammit I love vagina. Tella CALL ME!

+1

[InTheHole]

You got dogged...no coincidence vacation just ended...she probably dating someone else---MARK MY WORDS

[jjgold]

These guys are sooooooooo silly, why do you worry so much about them?

All you need them for are blow jobs, massages and sex

Just buy an escort and lose the drama

[Robyn]

Ouch. Double ouch. One for Bread and one for the OP.

Damn girl.

Oopsie.

[The General]

If she can cook, keep her.

[OB 2138]

lol...she thinks she can cook..honestly she is pretty bad at cookin and could never top my grandma's homemade italian food/anything else..She changed her mind about the whole break thing like an hour later but idk..I think some bullshit is goin on but just can't find any good evidence..im steady on the look for another girl as we speak..Only problem is I like freaks, I can easily have a few goody goody italian girls that are pretty sexy but I love the crazy sex..hey JJ where do I find these escorts? how much they charge?

[56casino]

lol...she thinks she can cook..honestly she is pretty bad at cookin and could never top my grandma's homemade italian food/anything else..She changed her mind about the whole break thing like an hour later but idk..I think some bullshit is goin on but just can't find any good evidence..im steady on the look for another girl as we speak..Only problem is I like freaks, I can easily have a few goody goody italian girls that are pretty sexy but I love the crazy sex..hey JJ where do I find these escorts? how much they charge?

Hey dude, you've been together, say over 4 years, and I think you two do have some great time, so why break up so quickly, give her a chance and see how things will be.