we been together for 4 1/2 years, just got back from a 10 day vacation to new orleans and florida a week ago where i payed for everything...we've been great lately too until yesterday..Let me start by tellin you she is going to beauty school right now..So i need a haircut and i've gotten a few from her already since she started and they were decent, nothin great, nothin horrible...until yesterday, she messed up soooo bad, she was trying to give me a fade and instead of blending it she accidently shaved it shorter than the hair on the bottom which made it look like i had a halo around my head..And to top it off the entire time shes actin all bitchy and like she doesn't give a shit about what my hair looks like so it kinda pissed me off, actually a lot but i didn't make a huge deal out of it i just wanted her to fix it..she somewhat fixes it and then goes to bed like 20 minutes later after we smoke...now today when she gets home from school she says to me "i think we need a break for a little"...just right out of the blue i have no clue wtf happened..need a little advice on what i should do, this has happened a lot with us but not for a long time since our younger immature days..what do you guys think i should do..
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Get some scissors and cut some of her hair off when she's sleeping. Then say, "I think you're right...we do need a break."Comment -
lol id like to take a hammer to her head instead..im so pissed off expecially after i just took her on vacation.Comment -
come on i need some advice, why do you guys think she's pullin this shit?Comment -
Originally posted by OB 2138
Yeah - that's ridiculous.Comment -
Do you think there could be another guy involved? A lot of the time they will meet someone at their job or wherever and have a new guy that likes them and it will play tricks with them.. Could that be the case?המוסד
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Chicks like to stir shit up when things get boring. They need drama, constant drama.Comment -
Originally posted by flyingillini
Idk, she goes to school full time with all girls...Theres been a few times when that has happened but i honestly don't know because we've been real good lately n like i just said i took her on an amazing vacation a week ago, I feel like i've been used idk what to do..Comment -
Also this isn't just like a 6 month relationship, i mean we've been through it all, shit you wouldn't believe and were going on 5 years this december...I feel like going to her house and knockin her outComment -
Maybe I'm missing something here, but I'd be glad for any excuse to get out of a long term relationship. I'd jump at the opportunity. Besides, you can't change a girls mind once its made up. It should be clear that after 4.5 years you should either be engaged or separated, at least in the eyes of most women.Comment -
It is either another guy/girl or she she's herself going nowhere with you. I know you are pissed but the best thing to do is accept it and move on like a stud. When she see's your nonchalant way if dealing with it she may think she made a mistake or always wonder about it. That is unless she hates you.Comment -
How old are you guy?Comment -
razz- were younger though started dating when i was 17 and she was 16..You kind of make a good point with the whole long term relationship cause i constantly think about fvckin every girl except her, even though the sex is good i'm bored with her and she's a pretty big bitchy cvnt a lot of the time, she's also one of those girls that think the guy should pay for EVERYTHING, I somewhat agree but i would love a sugar momma..Comment -
OB and Hoopster42 should go out on a date.Comment -
Originally posted by bluefish
I just turned 22... I would love to just walk away from it but I put so much into this relationship and given up soooooo much..friends, hockey..etc. She ruined my life for the first 2 or 3 years, i got into legal trouble, spent time in jail, cheated on eachother and a bunch of young bs all until we had a horrible car accident together that kind of changed everything up until a few months ago shes starting to go back to her cvnt ways..Comment -
also ran away to cali when we were 17, ruined my car on the way back, 2 other cars i lost cause of her, i even took a case to save her ass back in the day and she doesn't have enough respect to come talk to me or tell me anything besides we need a break...shes done this many times before and the breaks have never lasted over a week let alone longer than 3 days maybe one time..I'm just a little confused n my heads all fvcked up now cause of thisComment -
Doesn't matter how young you guys were when you started dating, 4.5 years is a long time for a girl. Most are looking for something permanent and stable, and she might be pissed that it hasn't happened yet.
I've been in a similar situation, and its not worth it. What good is an attractive girl if you secretly hope to see her fall down a flight of stairs? My last girlfriend was really cute, but dumb as dirt and annoying. When things start to fall apart run like the wind. Its never worth getting stressed out or trying to salvage these things. Learn from it, move on, and never get too heavily invested with a relationship. It just leads to extra responsibilities and pressure in the end.Comment -
Originally posted by OB 2138
Listen man, capitalize on the break. Bang a few escorts or pick some scanks up. If you want, make one attempt to try and talk it out saying you don't want a break. If that is what she wants accept it and move on. If things are meant to be, they are. The worst thing you could do is feel she owes you, blah, blah, blah. Shit like that turns into murder-suicides.Comment -
If you want to keep a woman, don't buy her expensive presents, don't take her out to expensive places, every once in a while when she's going out of her mind wondering why you don't get her nothing surprise her with a small gift, it could be anything, it really doesn't matter what it is she'll love you more for giving a flower you ripped out of some park then the guy who gets her expensive present after expensive present.Comment -
razz i like how you know what im talkin about..the girls pretty hot, and i love fvckin her..thats about the end of the good things i can say about her..i had a chance to get with her ex-friend a couple months ago and the girl wanted to fvck when she was over before my girl got off work and i turned it down like a dumb fvck just cause ive cheated in the past and didnt want drama...like 2 days later she found out that the girl was tryin to get with me cause of some1 i told and she broke up wit hme for liek 4 days and wanted to kill the girl even though we didn't do shyt..now there not friends anymore and i think i should give her a call even though she's got a boyfriend now the bitch is fine, used to be a model and still could be, has at least a d cup and pretty slim..i'm
cause i passed that up, not to mention she was a sugar momma.
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This is normal. Happens to everyone.
Shake it off. Go have an affair and fall in love with your girl all over again
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[quote=bluefish;2029023]Listen man, capitalize on the break. Bang a few escorts or pick some scanks up. If you want, make one attempt to try and talk it out saying you don't want a break. If that is what she wants accept it and move on. If things are meant to be, they are. The worst thing you could do is feel she owes you, blah, blah, blah. Shit like that turns into murder-suicides.[/quote]
lol thats exactly what i feel like right now in the bold..the only thing that would make me happy right now is seein her fall down an entire flight of stairs, sounds horrible but im pissedComment -
if you have to give up friends for a girl she isnt worth it and ill say it right now. I just got out of a relationship like a month ago and the same thing happend over just a tiny thing. I play basketball in college and me her and some friends were playing around the world. I just simply asked can you get my rebound? She responds in a bltchy tone saying no get your own. Im like ok whatever and then when her turn comes around she air balls it the ball goes rolling away and then starts yelling at me because i didnt get the rebound. Like seriously things have to go both ways and if you cant do a simply thing for me why would i do it for you? I had lost several good friends and fought with a bunch of good friends because of her and her manipulative ways and i feel like its the same damn thing so let her go!Comment -
Go Dutch on the next trip, and use your savings to pay for a real stylist to cut your hair.Originally posted by OB 2138Comment -
Originally posted by BreadThis is normal. Happens to everyone.
Shake it off. Go have an affair and fall in love with your girl all over again
I know it happens with us a lot but not lately...I just can't handle the drama like i'm in middleschool...Comment -
[quote=OB 2138;2029043]Originally posted by bluefish
I was in the same boat 10 years ago. My ex was going on vacation and recently broke up with me. I wanted to break into her house and ivestigate, look for clues. I didn't. I think back now of what would have happened if I got caught. What an f'in tool I would have been. You will feel the same way over time and laugh it off.Comment -
I will never allow someone to cut my hair who hasn't graduated and been working for at least a year again, lol seriously such a bad haircut i couldve done better myself with no mirror.Comment -
I know this is pseudo therapy but here is what most likely will happen. You will receive sound advice here which you will recognize. After an hour or two you will throw it out the window and do what you want to do.Comment -
I love the advice to keep a woman interested. All solid stuff.
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By your description of this relationship, you can't honestly have thought this was permanent, right? All the stress, the drama, cheating, legal problems, etc... you wanna have this for the rest of your life? Hell no!
Its normal to be pissed in these situations, just go blow off some steam and in a few days you'll be scratching your head as to why you ever got so upset in the first place. Keep busy and find new things and people to occupy your time.Comment -
It just sucks cause I was so young, blind, and stupid that i ruined my relationship with all my friends, also quit playin hockey my senior year in h.s when i was being offered scholarships and offers for junior hockey (not to sound cocky but i was damn good in hockey my whole life, everyone told me i would make it to the nhl and it was my life til i met vagina) from the start i dropped out of high school and eventually she manipulated me so bad that my whole life was her, nothing else..now thats pretty much where i am now, not too many friends let alone good ones..lost connection with all my best friends from childhood and now i gamble instead of hockey.Comment -
This right here is post of the night by far.....Originally posted by Rich BoyComment -
Your only 21 right? Don't get too sorry for yourself, there is a lot of time left if you wanna go back and play hockey or whatever. It may not be at the same level, but so what? You started because you enjoyed it, start it again if you still do.Comment -
Originally posted by Razz_Donkey
I didn't want it to be permanent i broke up with her one time and it was about 2 weeks til i answered her call and she came to pick me up, were driving down the road and bam we get t-boned, slide into on coming traffic and get hit head on by a big gmc truck..shes unconcious and i have 3 broken vertabrae...shes ina coma for a couple weeks with a 90% chance of dying and theysay if she makes it she'll be a vegetable..she lays in the hospital for about 2 weeks not able to talk or do anything, looks like a body just being kept alive by a maching with no brain, no thoughts, no emotion..NOTHING..I walk in to see her for the first time and she looks at me, i brought a pen and paper hoping she can maybe write somethin or show sign of life..so right when i walk in her eyes get so wide and i hand her the pen n paper and she writes i love you..from that point i decided to give it another chance and stuck by her through all the rehab, and months and months of her eatin from a feeding tube until shes fully recovered despite some brain damage which is slowly getting better..ever since then things were totally different, seh was a respectable lady with no bullshit, just lately things have began to start changing...Comment -
Tella nothing sparks a mundane relationship like an affair. I read that in Maxim so it's true!Comment
