Boys, read this about marriage...

[sickler]

When the topic of "what makes you laugh" comes up when Baskets is on a dating site in search of a new squeeze, he might not want to point her at this thread:

http://forum.sbrforum.com/saloon/1500347-can-i-post-video-guy-taking-beating-3rd-world-country.html

[ttwarrior1]

do u have kids and we need a pic of her, also u need to get facebook also

[chilidog]

do u have kids and we need a pic of her, also u need to get facebook also

Idiot. Read more, talk less.

[ttwarrior1]

odds are she is already having an affair, and why did u marry her or she marry u

[Jaug]

Dont get whipped. 90% of men get whipped. This is real life.

[jjgold]

Illini?????????????????????????????????? ???????????????????????????????????????? ????????????????



You guys are all fukkin nuts and emotional wrecks

Fuk all of them...go get coke and get yourself a fukkin hooker and have fun and then she leaves

How do you guys get rapped up like this???

[dj_destroyer]

I'm not trying to brag but I find it hard to understand how any dude lets a woman run his show because I'm so use to the girl being head-over-heels for me that I'm always in control. I'm not that good looking, don't have a big dick, not amazing in bed, not rich, etc, etc, etc. but I just never let the girl dictate how I'm going to live.

I'm young though so what do I know, right? But I mean at least I can say I'm happy!

[letsgo]

How long were you dating before you got married? Were you high school sweethearts or something like that?

Why else would she get in shape if she wasn't doing it for you, cheating, or getting ready to hit the market again?

I would normally say if she got fat that she has mental issues or something like that, but if the opposite is happening then she is probably cheating or getting ready for the market.

Sorry Dude.

[wtf]

why u retards expending energy replying to this with legitimate advice

[flyingillini]

Illini?????????????????????????????????? ???????????????????????????????????????? ????????????????



You guys are all fukkin nuts and emotional wrecks

Fuk all of them...go get coke and get yourself a fukkin hooker and have fun and then she leaves

How do you guys get rapped up like this???

I agree JJ, when you read stuff like this it's really amazing to think what some people put up with.... I wouldn't stand for this for one second.. Go get some yayo and MDMA and have some fun with your life.... there are so many hyna's in the world to be worrying about one...Baruch HaShem JJ!

[sickler]

Here's where baskets got his story from. Verbatim.

C & P job: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=190578


Baskets, you are now the boy who cried wolf. Nothing you say will be believed...

[paranoyd androyd]

thx for the link sickler. couldn't care less this isn't baskets good thread either way

[nj1035]

Women are women. Doesn't matter if this is freshman college year or not. Women are all this way.

You idiot fukking americans think marriage is some sacred thing. No, they are just boyfriend and girlfriend but signed a couple of papers and spent a lot of money getting dressed up one day. The same rules apply. There are no kids so whether the divorce happens because he sits her down at Starbucks or whether she walks in on him banging a broad on the kitchen table makes no difference.

It's not 'playing hard to get'. It's just doing the opposite of being a needy little puppy.

The same rules don't apply, actually. When you get married, you are making a commitment to something. I guess if you are one to make commitments to yourself and other people and not following through on them, then yeah, the same rules apply.

[chilidog]

Here's where baskets got his story from. Verbatim.

C & P job: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=190578

Baskets, you are now the boy who cried wolf. Nothing you say will be believed...

Wow. He clearly said in this thread that it wasn't him. He said that he copy/pasted it from somewhere else.

[str]

Three sides to every story. Yours, hers, and the truth.

Here is what needs to be done:

1. Tell her you are unhappy. If she knows and continues, she does not care.
2. Tell the 2 tramps that are talking to a married man to go slut it up somewhere else.
3. Ask yourself if you would be happy if your marriage ended. Without trust, there is no relationship. Without respect, there should not be any relationship.
4. Show her respect and see if hers follows. Remember Romeo, "I love you" starts at five AM and runs all day, not just when your ready for some action.
5. Part of being the boss of the house is making the decisions. Start being what you say you want to be and start making this thing work or start finalizing your decision to leave.

Probably not what you want to hear, but often times the truth isn't.

Best of Luck.

[blackbeSSt]

Here's where baskets got his story from. Verbatim. C & P job: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=190578 Baskets, you are now the boy who cried wolf. Nothing you say will be believed...

welcome to almost 24 hours ago

btw, I'm copying and pasting the above post. this is just an educational video for American men

[sickler]

welcome to almost 24 hours ago

haha..I didn't see that

Victim of not reading the entire thread

[betplom]

Tons of great advice in this thread.

One thing I learned a long time ago about SBR is that most guys here are horrible fukkin gamblers but are very sharp when it comes to women and relationships.

If you want to find winning plays at SBR just fade the known losers, if you want stellar relationship advice just post a thread and explain your problem, the masses of SBR pros will solve your problem in no time!

PS: I really agree with whoever said this guy should just fυck other women.

[flocko76]

if she's already gone out and gotten in shape its because she is getting banged by some other dude, probably several. you seem like the cuckold type, maybe she'll let you watch.

[BettingWizard]

just do the opposite of what you're doing now

[jjaycuny]

this is a lesson in the class of American Women 101.

I don't think she's American given the "whilst" that was thrown in the paragraph. However, I also noticed a "reckon," which I thought was only used down south, is it also used in Europe?

[antifoil]

i was going to post when you do a copy/paste job you should tell people it is a copy/past. it is funnier that way.

but the reading comprehension on here is so bad that it didn't matter.

[robmpink]

Guy, I haven't read any replies but this is what I could offer you as far as advice. Deactivate your facebook account. You won't get so worked up over what she writes. Half of it is prob because she knows you read it. Try and work things out. Give it whatever it takes. That way even if things don't work out you will never have any regrets. If the two girls who would come over know you are married, be up front with them, appear like you are a ethical man with marital problems and use them as a friend. That way if things don't work you seem like a good guy.

[Allure]

You thinking about cheating on your wife? You phucking realize that your girls is probably cheating on you for a very long time? YOU hadn't sex for 2 months, NOT your wife.

But that's reasonable to me. Someone who finds this "funny" (http://forum.sbrforum.com/saloon/150...d-country.html) deserves to get cuckolded.

[Optional]

I don't think she's American given the "whilst" that was thrown in the paragraph. However, I also noticed a "reckon," which I thought was only used down south, is it also used in Europe?

Australia uses it, and whilst.

[face]

1) ease off the cheddar fries
2) get some extra sex
3) make some money and buy yourself a big stupid thing that she'll get jealous and mad about, like an expensive pool table

do these things and it should work.

[8ArIvd5]

When she gets cocky remind her she isn't that hot. The shock in her eyes will give you a smile for a week.

[jerry]

The odds that she has a new man are at least 75%. She slimmed down for him. She spends her day talking to him on FB. She's going to leave you, but it's not the end of the World. In fact, it's a good thing because if you two don't split up she's going to destroy you.

[William Walters]

Hey Kerry....can we get an update here please? Thanks Pal.

[Inkwell77]

When the topic of "what makes you laugh" comes up when Baskets is on a dating site in search of a new squeeze, he might not want to point her at this thread:

Comment of the month. Good stuff.

[PhillyFlyers]

Sounds like she's cheating.

A woman in her 30s with no kids and you haven't had sex for 2 months?!

WTF

Better look into this bro.

[Abelesw]

You've gotta get out of dodge as quickly as you can. It sounds it's just damaged goods at this point.

[PR9]

Dear Baskets: I came out of the woodwork, and decided to post again because I feel for you, and I will give you real advice. All these posts by these idiots saying you did something wrong is insane and bul.lsh.it.

First off, i am sick of when i woman cheats, she gets a free pass, cause you didnt cater to her emotions, but when a man does it, your a scumbag. Like we don't have goddamn emotions too?! I am going to say don't cheat. Not because you don't deserve sex like any other man, it's because if you are caught, you are screwed and she will get everything.

I have been married for 5 years exactly too, and I have many friends in the same position, and I also went thru this with an ex fiancee.

LISTEN TO ME.

The problem is her selfishness, and your inability to step up and stop this madness.

When everything was all good BEFORE marriage, it's because that's what women do to lock up the security. Bla bla bla when it all comes down to it SECURITY, a house, money, is the number 1 priority in looking for a man when women get married, not because your her soul mate. Women will choose security over soul mate for life 99% of the time.

What happened is after she got bored, and did the "me" thing on her wedding day, and got to play house, she is bored. She lost weight for HER, not to please you. She is flaunting herself like a whore because she is ALREADY CHEATING. NO WIFE or women that LOVES YOU would IGNORE you for weeks, or treat you like garbage and IGNORE your feelings and NEEDS AS A HUSBAND. If you COMPLETELY DISRESPECTS you like this, then she is more than willing to cheat. You are NOT getting sex not because she is mad at you, or you gained weight, its because she is sleeping with someone else. All she is doing now is deciding wheather to keep you and the house and play with her boyfriends, or leave you and have to find a way to take care of herself. WOMEN have needs too, especially women near their 30s, their sex drive is like ours at 15, THEY NEED IT and want it. And if she won't sleep with you because of this childish bs, it's obvious she is sleeping with someone else.

HERE IS WHAT YOU DO:

1. Install keylogger/internet password tracker on your computer.
2. Obtain her email and facebook passwords
3. Read all her facebooks msgs, emails, etc..
4. Try to get a look at her phone, if she constantly deletes recent msgs, BAMN obvious cheating THERE IS NO OTHER REASON TOO
5. Once you find the evidence she is CHEATING, DO NOT CONFRONT HER, get a lawyer, build your case, and quietly secure your finances, get the house in your parents name, move your bank account cash safely, etc...
6. Once everything is secure, tell her in the living room, but set up a hidden camera to record the audio and video
7. Confront her about the cheating and evidence, where she cant deny, then she will admit everything on camera, but when she tries to lie later to lawyers and judge BAMN you have video evidence
8. Kick her ass out
9. Go to the gym, work out hard, get confidence back
10. Live your life, dont ever marry again

IT IS SO IMPORTANT YOU UNDERSTAND THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT. Do NOT do anything stupid like make her dinner, rub her feet, tell her your sorry. SHE IS THE ONE WHO SHOULD BE DOING ALL THIS. Just because you went to her mom for help, that should show her you care and want to make it work, she just used it as another tool to manipulate her. SHE DOES NOT LOVE YOU. NO WOMEN THAT DOES THIS TO HER HUSBAND LOVES HIM.

WAKE UP. Secure the evidence, and move on with your life. If you continue to make excuses for her, and let her run your life, and beat you down into nothing, then maybe everyone here is right. But I think you are just a loving man, that wants his wife to love him, and you want to be loved and you don't understand why she is starving you of this. No wife that loves her husband would ignore him, guilt trip him, spend all her time online flaunting herself to others, and I promise you, the lack of physical attention is because she is cheating. Wake up buddy. Do my 10 steps. Good luck

[john230]

American bitches don't understand nothing. This is one of the few arenas where I respect the A-rabs. They got their bitches on lockdown!!!

So you would like to see Sharia law instituted in the US?

[Romanov]

It is very hard to know when to walk away from anything, gambling, friends, relationships etc. This sounds to me like a case when you have to make the difficult decision to walk away. You tried but it is past the point of recovery. Moreover, you should be honest with yourself. Do you really want to save this thing? You wouldn't have posted on here if you really did. You are looking for affirmation and confidence. Well, we can only give you one of those things.