I been with my girlfriend for over 6 years. We moved in together 2 years ago. I am noticing that the girl doesn't do shit. Cooks maybe twice a week. Never cleans shit. I am 36 and she is 25. Rent is $1100 plus utilities. This girl gives me $200 towards bills. That's it. I never complained because I used to hustle and make a lot money. I stopped hustling and money is ok but not the fukkin Gucci and LV anymore. She is ok with that but I feel like she should be putting more money into our condo apartment. She works full-time. Sometimes she works overtime. Never once gave an extra dollar toward bills. I am noticing her Jewish ways(not being racist). I can afford to pay all the bills by myself. I'm starting to feel like a sucker. Should I ask her to go back to her moms?
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Fuk her
Throw her out unless she gives you $600 a month you mother fukkerComment -
if she is not paying her way send her on.Comment -
Depends on the sex....if it's bad you can always
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sounds like youre her sugar daddy. do you at least get laid, is the sex any good?Comment -
Kick her out unless she pays u back rentComment -
I been through a lot with this girl. Not so quick to kick her out. But I am noticing her little Jewish tendencies. Always trying to save a penny. I used to take this bitch to AC and get her a Louie or Gucci whenever I won. Now she pinches pennies with me. I feel disrespected.Comment -
Unless you told her before she moved in that she'd only need to pay $200, then she should be paying half.
If you told her that $200 was the deal, then it's not her fault your circumstances/lifestyle have changed.
I'd personally pay half because I like to have an equal balance of power - get my name on the lease, etc - but if she left another situation and part of the allure was the cheap rent, well, you made a mistake my darling. Either try to talk to her and get her to pay more, suck it up and learn your lesson, or sweetly ask her to go visit mat and babushka for an extended period of time.
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Ttrace, be a true gangstah, and take all her money....Comment -
Big lifestyle change. We agreed on $200 in the beginning, but we also agreed that she would get a better job and help out more. She hasn't and I don't really see her trying to.Unless you told her before she moved in that she'd only need to pay $200, then she should be paying half.
If you told her that $200 was the deal, then it's not her fault your circumstances/lifestyle have changed.
I'd personally pay half because I like to have an equal balance of power - get my name on the lease, etc - but if she left another situation and part of the allure was the cheap rent, well, you made a mistake my darling. Either try to talk to her and get her to pay more, suck it up and learn your lesson, or sweetly ask her to go visit mat and babushka for an extended period of time.Comment -
Then if it's pissing you off, you need to talk to her, keeping in mind that it may not end well. If you don't say anything, you're only going to get more resentful as time goes on. I was in your shoes once and it was horrible. Every time my bf spent a whack of cash on something ridiculous, I'd get pissed off. It eventually got to the point where I'd get angry even if he went out drinking with his friends because I knew the $150 he spent or whatever could've went to bills. Whereas normally I'd be happy for him to go out with his buddies so I could spend time with my girlfriends.
Talk to her. No hope otherwise.Comment -
I talked to her a few times. She's just a spoiled russian bitch. She told me to stop smoking weed. She has a point, because I spend $400 a month on weed. But if I stopped smoking, I would probably stab her like these dudes are doing russian girls in brookyln. I'm leaning toward telling her to move back with "babula". Whatever that is.Comment -
LOL nothing like posting on a message board and not talking to her about it. Tell her to step up or be out.
Personally I'm fine with looking out for a good looking broad who's cool and knows how to knock it out. If it's stressing you b/c of finances then I get that so if you can get another one, get another one.Comment -
Unless you told her before she moved in that she'd only need to pay $200, then she should be paying half.
If you told her that $200 was the deal, then it's not her fault your circumstances/lifestyle have changed.
I'd personally pay half because I like to have an equal balance of power - get my name on the lease, etc - but if she left another situation and part of the allure was the cheap rent, well, you made a mistake my darling. Either try to talk to her and get her to pay more, suck it up and learn your lesson, or sweetly ask her to go visit mat and babushka for an extended period of time.
Shari you ever live with your paying $500 per month and you better be good in bed
ok hun???
I make the fukkin rules
Tracer go get some fukkin 20 year old you fukkin stud, your 8.2 inches and thick so you can get broadsComment -
I dunno if I should just break up and start over or let her move back to her moms and us still be together?Comment -
1. Considering the Bills have won more Super Bowls than you've been laid, I think you'll find my skills satisfactory.
2. I will gladly pay $500 for my son and I plus another $300 a month for sandbags for him to spill on your carpet. The sheer joy I get when he demolishes your place and your OCD kicks in would be worth 2x that much.Comment -
i like to meet this girl. She got to be loaded. 200 a month? She got a good gig going.Comment -
tracer lets see some pics of this broad
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Yea. I can't force her to do too much. This is my apt really and she spends a lot of time in jersey at her moms. I'm gonna have to send her back there and see if she misses being on her own enought to cough up some dough. If not fukk it. I'm not broke but its getting to me.Comment -
Sounds like you're looking for reasons to get rid of her.
Show me hottest woman in the world and ill show u a guy tired of fukking herComment -
This is a very true saying. But, not only is she paying very little rent. She is very cheap. What really startted this whole thing was, I wanted to take her car to the store 2 blocks away. I have my own car but I wanted hers this day for whatever reason. She started beefing to me about wasting her gas. The store is literally 2 blocks away. I could easily walk if I wasn't so lazy. That's when I started realizing how cheap this chick always has been. Now my eyes are open to it and I am maybe kinda lookin for a reason.Comment -
tell her to pay more or move back with mommy and daddyComment -
tracer your best bet is to talk to her and listen to shari, the only girl jj has ever seen naked or lived with is his motherComment -
Dude, think about it. Your 36, shes 25. You dump her ass over a few hundo? You'll be 40 in a few years.
GOOD LUCK after that landing tail under 30. You got a 25 yr old, eat the cost.
PS. This "overtime" is her banging her 25 year old co-worker. Don't take it personally, she just wants some young ass
too. Get used to it, and counter by going to the asian massagy place and having the "19" yr old give you one.Comment -
Tracer send me some nudes
fuk her..she using you
A good way to get her back is post nudesComment -
Tracer you conservative prick
send me some nudesComment -
Kill her!Comment
