Unreal another divorce coming, gambling was main reason. When are guys going to learn women do not like guys that gamble. That is why they both don't post much anymore.
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I love guys that gamble - there's a dangerous aura about them that's sexy.Comment -
I think Robyn is having an affair with CharlotteOriginally posted by jjgoldהמוסד
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I think the question that needs to be answered is this.
Which one will JJ go after? Robyn or Bread?Comment -
what's funny is bread wound up on 'the list'
have you ever been accused of online slander?Comment -
yeah sure sportsgirl, we believe you. wait till he ignores the crap out of you. wait till he doesn't come to bed with you because he's watching the last 2 innings. wait till he refuses to have sex with you because the Lakers are on.. wait till he takes his plate of food and goes eats in front of tv rather than at the table. wait till he is anti social and doesn't want to know about your day because tip off is in 5 min and he has to put in a bet. wait till he never wants to go out for dinner because yankees are on tv.. i could go on forever here why gamblers make the worst boyfreinds.Originally posted by Sportsgirl
and you find that sexy????????? yeah right.Comment -
Originally posted by Nicky Santauro
Or if he goes limp when he gets a last minute bad beat in a game.
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O.K. I'll admit to all the stuff Nicky has posted, but going limp because of a bad beat has never happened. I will admit to doing doggy while actually paying more attention to the score of a game on tv, but this is a while back when I was barrelled in alot.Originally posted by RealSlimShadyOr if he goes limp when he gets a last minute bad beat in a game.Comment -
slimmy is right.. how many people here have actually done this?? your girl wants to make love, but you are having one of the worst nights of all time..you are down so big..and there's a big game on TV winding down the last 2 min..
do you go in the room with her?? NO WAY here. how can you? you're not in any mood. you are too depressed. how can you think of sex right now when you are down so big and there's a big game on tv this moment.
you will probably say, ok sweetie, can you wait 10 min, i am just watching this game. and the girl gets really upset and is no longer in the mood and even if you do go, you won't enjoy it because your mind is on the money you are losing.. gambling f-ks up all relationships for both the men and women.Comment -
Which list did I make? One saying not to trust me because I said I lost $50,000 to my Nana in a game of gin rummy?Originally posted by compaqDikk
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I heard JJ actually married that cheerleader babe, Hes getting a divorce though. She assumes half his debt though, so jj walks away laffing at this one. Maybe his great grandmother will get her money back sooner than anticipated.Comment -
He leaves me alone and doesn't demand I entertain him.Originally posted by Nicky Santauro
I get the whole bed to myself and no snoring to try to sleep through!wait till he doesn't come to bed with you because he's watching the last 2 innings.
A night off!wait till he refuses to have sex with you because the Lakers are on..
You mean I don't have to watch him shove food in his face like an animal?! Hell, I'll even bring it to him on the couch!wait till he takes his plate of food and goes eats in front of tv rather than at the table.
That's fine. You guys suck at advice anyway.wait till he is anti social and doesn't want to know about your day because tip off is in 5 min and he has to put in a bet.
I'd rather eat a home cooked meals in my sweats anyway.wait till he never wants to go out for dinner because yankees are on tv..
I'm not seeing a problem here, Nicky.i could go on forever here why gamblers make the worst boyfreinds.
and you find that sexy????????? yeah right.Comment -
If a gambler is winning then he is a mysterious guy/bad boy type that girls like.If things go south and the gambler is losing money, he is an asshole,loser,dead beat. Its all the same.Girls don't want to get involved with a guy like this and the very mention of gambling sends them away.A girl that likes to put up with this stuff is lying because this is a messageboardComment -
Swede you not too bright and probably never will be
Let me end this thread QUICKLY
1. How about when you look in your cheap pocketbook and see $40 and $50 missing per clip but you ignore in the beginning because you think Dexter just needed a few bucks and forgot to ask you.
2. How about when from time to time Dexter forgets or misses the mail and a loan statement come back and you open it and see small loans for 2k?? Of course he will have a legit reason and you will believe him.
3. How about the angry mood swings when he calls you every name in the book because he lost a bet, loan sharks breathing down his back or a bookmaker threatening to break his legs.
4. How about when you buy your home and he starts playing around with re mortgages not because to lower the payment but to get more money to pay off debts, you will be too stupid to figure out his game.
5. How about when Dexter wipes out your checking out once your deep into the relationship??
Nicky was being nice but I am giving you the cold hard facts being involved with a gambler, all these things will build up and you will eventually be a victim of gambler wife and most of the time in the early stages he will con you but eventually you will figure it all out and your life will be in a shambles.
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There is no way that a girl can think that being with a gambler is cool and that everything would be ok.The sole reason that a girl would say this on a messageboard is so every guy poster will then think "Wow this girl is so cool she lets guys gamble and doesn't mind blah blah" and for the rest of time all guys will have a hard on for this girl on here.Comment -
swedey,
from the sounds of things, seems like you don't love this guy.. you are very happy to be away from him. happy to have the whole bed to yourself.. you are not in love my dear.. believe me..
swedey, women should want to be in bed with their man and cuddle, not have the bed to themselves. they would want to spend every moment with him, not be happy to be alone. from the sounds of all your responses, the verdict is in swedey
YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE.. you love him, BUT YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE..
sorry to burst your bubble swedey, but this is the truth..Comment -
Nicky please don't attack a female poster here.They may have to then read there contract and determine if they are allowed to post a comeback or not to it..... I mean nevermind the girls here are not paid....yes thats right....Comment -
Nicky I agree with you, she probably hates the guy. I see it all over her face and just wants to be with someone. I said this way back Nicky. She is insecure and needs a man by her side so maybe does not care if the guy is a gambling loser.
Nicky you know women too.Comment -
wire man,
i agree with everything you said too.. that was some great observation by you and right on the money.. gamblers do steal when they need money. .
wire man,
i swear, every guy that owes me money always tell me they dont have the money to pay me, and when i go to the casino, i find them all there playing 100 bucks a hand at bj.. they can't afford to pay me back, but they have the bucks to lose 2k in a casino in 2 hrs, but not have the 80 bucks to pay me back.
gamblers steal when they are desperate..Comment -
Thought I'd repost what Nancy first said. Note that she said she loves guys that gamble. She did not say she wants to spend the rest of her life with dickheaded immature lying, thieving, steal-from-their-mommy sacks of crap who couldn't pick a fvcking winner if their life depended on it. Some of y'all got a bit confused, I believe.Originally posted by SportsgirlComment -
There seems to be alot of confusion around here lately, JMO.Originally posted by Willie Bee
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and Swede sound perfect
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Oh, I was speaking of men in general, not my man in particular. He is the exception, not the rule. I can't sleep if he's not in bed with me. We eat on the couch together (partly because we don't have a kitchen table at the moment). I love his snoring. It's soothing to me. Plus, nothing upsets him enough to deprive me of his love staff...not even the Pats blowing their perfect season.Originally posted by Nicky Santauro
I do get a little neglected during football season. He gets moody at times, but we're madly in love. No one is perfect 100% of the time. He loves football. I accept that. I accept that we can't EVER make plans on a Sunday or Monday night during the season. No vacations...or even a weekend getaway from August to January (or February). I like cooking up big lasagnes for him and his friends on game day and making runs to the fridge for their beer when they just can't peel themselves away from the TV. I actually can't wait for us to have a bigger place so we can entertain more of his buddies. It's all worth it to see the look of pride on his face when his friends say: "Dude, you have the best chick ever."Comment -
Originally posted by Willie Bee
I get my smarts from my dad.
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Yep. Definately what he said.Originally posted by Willie Bee
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Swede identifies herself by the man she is with. She holds him up high because that allows her to think of herself as valuable. And when she is no longer with the man who is so wonderful, she will immediately go and search for another great man so she can get some value again!
Tough way to live, Swede.
By the way, have you ever noticed every man you date is the exception -- until, of course, they become the rule???Comment -
You don't know me or my boyfriend. What does your little god book say about judging? Is it a good thing? Me thinks not.Originally posted by moneylineComment -
Yes, Swede, I know you both. There is nothing unique or special about your relationship. He is not the first one you thought was the exception and he will not be the last. When he cheats on you or leaves you, you'll be shocked, wonder how you could have been so wrong and then you will run right back out and find another guy.
No judgment. Just fact.Comment -
Your sir, are just plain stupid.
I'm not going to justify your ramblings by sitting here and defending my relationship. I don't have to. If you want to believe that true love doesn't exist and everyone is desitned to be alone and miserable as I assume you are, fine then. Enjoy your bitter little life. All the traveling and "charity work" in the world won't bring you even a fraction of the happiness that knowing true love would. I'm very sorry you don't see that. You're not going to bring me down today. The love of my life and I are looking at potentials homes tonight and I couldn't be happier.Comment -
If it makes you feel better, that's fine. Just remember this stupid guy was right when you two break up ...
(psst ... he's probably already cheated on you. And deep down you know it)Comment -
I love youOriginally posted by BadNinaComment -
You are just a barrel of laughs there, aren't you?Comment -
Sometimes girls who slave to their boyfriends usually have a shady past and this is how they make up for it. They look for acceptance from his friends. Their is nothing better then a slave like this but eventually it gets old like all relationships. Just my humble opinion.Comment -
Trying to rile me up? I would put my life on the fact that he hasn't. Just because you don't value things such as love and loyalty, that does not mean all men don't.Originally posted by moneyline
Man, some chick must have really fvcked you over. I really hope your faith helps you get over all of this bitterness. I can't imagine leading such an ugly, joyless life.Comment
