Do Mistakes Burden You?

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  • HotStreak
    SBR MVP
    • 05-12-09
    • 3235

    #1
    Do Mistakes Burden You?
    Do your bad decisions rent a room inside your head?
  • ACoochy
    SBR Posting Legend
    • 08-19-09
    • 13949

    #2
    I believe ur referring to ur conscience streak and yes it happens to everyone....Just make sure u re-write those bad decisions of past in the future, that is if ur looking to change....GL
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    • urge2kill
      SBR MVP
      • 10-27-09
      • 1722

      #3
      I dwell on my mistakes for a long time.
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      • Masu485
        SBR Hall of Famer
        • 08-14-08
        • 7700

        #4
        The problem is that you label it as a bad decision in the first place, and that if you just went the other way, your life would be perfect. While I do believe that certain small events or decisions can change your life drastically, I don't think it's possible to predict if that would lead to a more positive life than the 'bad' decision you made.

        I made a decision last week to not cash out and then I went and lost everything. Looking back, I'd say it was a bad decision, but even if I did cash out, who's to say I'd have used that money for something useful.

        If there was a girl you'd had a crush on for years, but never had the guts to go talk to her and now she's out of your life, you may also call that a bad decision, and wonder how perfect your life would be with her now. In reality, you have no way of knowing if your life would be better with that person or not.
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        • newjerseydevils
          SBR MVP
          • 03-11-08
          • 3110

          #5
          nah not really. everyone makes mistakes. you move on. there is a saying that goes "our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising everytime we fall"
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          • Mikail
            SBR Posting Legend
            • 07-19-09
            • 21689

            #6
            Whenever I make a bad choice I follow it up with a good choice to satisfy my innerself. Otherwise yes it would burden me.
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            • Ninersnut
              SBR MVP
              • 05-20-10
              • 3730

              #7
              Mistakes? Like spending the night with a fat chick mistake, or killing someone mistake? There are different levels.
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              • Dirty Sanchez
                SBR Posting Legend
                • 03-01-10
                • 16031

                #8
                Originally posted by HotStreak
                Do your bad decisions rent a room inside your head?
                Only when I wake up and a chicks on my arm that needs repair. I chew my arm off and leave...but can't stop thinking about how I got in the situation in the first place.
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                • maersksealand
                  SBR MVP
                  • 09-17-09
                  • 1673

                  #9
                  Originally posted by HotStreak
                  Do your bad decisions rent a room inside your head?
                  what kind of mistake ? Screwing a whore without condom mistake or betting against Peyton Manning mistake ?
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                  • The Seer
                    SBR Posting Legend
                    • 10-29-07
                    • 10641

                    #10
                    I have 3 or 4 that have really affected my life but there is one that I think about on almost a daily basis.
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                    • stealthyburrito
                      SBR Posting Legend
                      • 05-12-09
                      • 21562

                      #11
                      depending on the severity yes.

                      i have a few right now.
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                      • EDDIE MONEY LINE
                        SBR Hall of Famer
                        • 02-24-10
                        • 6298

                        #12
                        i have made a few major mistakes...but i still don't have any kids and i'm not in jail so things are still alright
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                        • dante1
                          BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                          • 10-31-05
                          • 38647

                          #13
                          Just watched a 60 minutes episode concerning memory and emotions. Studies seem to suggest that when an action is reinforced with shocking negative emotions it is very easily recalled and seems to stay in the mind of the individual. Therefore, if you made some bad decisions that caused some embarassment or other negative feedback that memory is retained and is played over and over in your mind. The real consequence of the action may not really be as bad as your memory of it.
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                          • pokernut9999
                            SBR Posting Legend
                            • 07-25-07
                            • 12757

                            #14
                            Just learn from your mistakes and move on.
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