I think my wife is F**king another man. What are some tell-tell signs. She hates my sports gambling, so I'm sure its some academic who thinks anyone who bets on sports should be in the pen! HELP!!!
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You find all sorts of those $1 for the first month life insurance policy applications laying around the house with your name on them when you come home from work early.
If she starts walking bow legged around the house and you only have a 2incher.
If she is pregnant and you are an Irish red head but she insists that you name your child 49 cent.
If you notice hair conditioner on her hair where she didn't take a shower yet for the day.
Sorry for being a joker when I think you are seriously distraught,,,,I think all guys have suspicions about their wives running around on them when sometimes there is probably no chance it's happening.
Do you have kids?Just tail her for a day or so even if you have to take a day off from work.Plan a weekend away by yourself and don't leave town.She will figure it's safe and you will catch the rats if there are rats.It beats hiring an expensive PI
Sometimes you have to think in reverse.Maybe it's a woman she's screwing around with?I'm not sure how you could find out if she has lesbian tendancies.Start making fun of butches and dykes a bit and if she gets mad at you,,,bingo!!
The other day I did a post where I thought that maybe extreme right wing types did those 2 political active liberal college chicks in.Now it seems like maybe their bleeding hearts got them in trouble by trusting the people they were always looking out for.Sometime you have to think in reverse.
P.S.Maybe she's screwing the pooch at home?Start making fun of Rin Tin Tin and saying beastiality is sick and see if you get a reaction out of her.hehe!Maybe your wife got all knotted up with man's best friend?I think it goes on more than people think it does.We live in a sick anything goes,don't be so judgemental,if it feels good do it world.Comment -
I'd say #1 is if you are having sex less frequent then beforeComment -
If she regularly comes back home with some guy's jizz dripping down her chin, I'd start to question her commitment to you.Originally posted by CashOriginally posted by pags11Originally posted by BuddyBearOriginally posted by curiousComment -
Just follow her around or hire a private eye.Comment -
send her flowers at work or home with an anonymous love one liner.Originally posted by Cash
then make sure ur the first to talk to her after she u know she has got them
if she mentions them then ur gold
if she doesnt she thinks there from the other guy and wont mention it
dodif knowsComment -
Make sure to carry the loaded 45 just in case.Originally posted by TchockyComment -
You can hire a private eye or you can do the flowers trick. Especially if your not the "flower giving" kind of guy.
Flowers will definately give that away.Comment -
If she is giving you blow jobs.Comment -
Why do you think this all the sudden though? For instance, if you're ignoring her a lot, by watching games, constantly checking scores, etc....And, that pissed her off, girls are very vengeful and spiteful. Wayyy worse than a guy. She could be just f*cking with your head to get you back becaue she's fed up. Therefore you spend more time with her, and pay her more attention. Try the flower trick first. See what happens.Comment -
Originally posted by BrentCrude
Very Funny!
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Take it from HB, if you think she is cheating odds are she is.
best signs......
buys new clothes
changes her hair style
loses weight and starts the gym
has odd business meetings and has to work overtime outside the ordinary.
.....number one CHECK THE CELL PHONE When shes in the shower.... look for text messages.
good luck pal. Bitches!Comment -
This sounds like the best way so far. Why don't you just ask? You could be surprise when she says yes.Originally posted by HAPPY BOYComment -
Love the flowers idea.Comment -
First sign for me was when she started creating an emotional distance from me. Then it was the way she would look at me at certain times. She would think she was was fooling me, but it was as if I could read her mind and know something was up. One morning I took a hard look into her eyes and I knew.That moment was the beginning of the end.Comment -
People having affairs uses coded lingo
The flower deal sounds good at the outset but if you are fooling around on the side,people use nicknames and inside cutesie lingo like calling their F buddy poopsie or love muffin or something sappy so they know who's sending them what.
She has to be using the home computer.Even if she knows her way around a computer you can buy programs that play instant replays of where she has been on the sites making contacts.
I would love to see the hotmail accounts of women who's husbands and boyfriends think that they are one man women.
Bill Gaites has been the ruination and starter of many relations in this world.I know of guys that seemed like straight arrow family men who met guys online and dumped their families and moved across country to be in gay relationships.I know of guys that did the same for women they met online.It works that way with women too.I wonder if Gaites goes to sleep and night thinking about his creation?The internet,the wild,wild west that's the good,the bad and the ugly.In this world of government new world order control,we need a wild card like the internet to upset the apple cart.Comment -
if she fllirts and flaunts herself on web forums whilst hiding the fact she's married then you may be in troubleComment -
don't forget to update us! we need more entertainment than just JJ.Comment -
That doesn't always mean anything. I'm completely faithful to my BF, but I'll admit: I've been stressed at work and neglecting him a bit in that area lately. If you believe that, you're going to stress yourself out WAY more than you need too everytime your woman is having a rough week and just isn't in the mood.Originally posted by dizzydComment -
True, but she could think they are from someone she knows has a crush, or (if it's out of the ordinary for her hubby to send them) jut think they can't be from him. She may not want to make him jealous.Originally posted by dodifComment -
I find sex to be a great stress reliever. Why don't women find it that way also? I say women because the wife says the same thing. After I get home after a very stressful day of being me, nothing relieves and recenters me like a good nut unloading.Comment -
If she all of a sudden wants you to pay for her boob job, it's not for you.How do you know if your wife is cheating??Comment -
Smart dude.Originally posted by HAPPY BOY
But check the cell bill, not the phone. She can delete texts and calls. The bill never lies.
Another sign: She come home from these late night meetings and goes directly for the shower. She's washing off his sweat. Smell the clothes she takes off when she does this. Smell cologne?Comment -
Damn, this is a sad thread.Comment -
It's a great sleeping pill for me. After a day like that and then sex, I'm out cold. Women hate that too, no conversing.Originally posted by RageWizardComment -
We do, but after I've worked a 15 hour day, I'm just too tired. A few nights this week, I didn't even shower after work. It took my last ounce of energy to wash my face and brush my teeth. In my defense, my BF knows he could get me going if he tried, but he hasn't been much lately. I think we're both just beat. We're 5 months in at this point and we started off HOT and HEAVY...we both need a rest, I think.Originally posted by RageWizardComment -
Not this one. I roll right over and pass out.Originally posted by The SeerComment -
I just had a good look at your avatar. Very funny.Originally posted by The Seer
I almost never pass out afterwards. Sometimes I can't move but rarely pass out.Comment -
Seer - What happened when your old boyfriend cheated on you? I heard you sent the guy some pictures with your shirt off to scare him but it had a different affect on him. Now you two are engaged. Is that legal in Tenn or is it just OK with cousins?Comment -
I don't think that flower idea is good at all. If she is cheating, chances are, she is going to assume they were sent from the other guy and mention it to him. He will most certainly tell her that he didn't send them, so she will then come home and thank you for them.Originally posted by BrentCrude
I think that as a whole, women are much better at concealing the fact that they are cheating. Generally, women cheat when they feel neglected (I am speaking in general, not as a whole). If you are paying too much attention to sports, video games, friends, etc. and another man starts giving her the attention she is lacking at home, it makes a woman feel appreciated and beautiful. Obviously with the outlet of the internet, it is much easier for people to start getting the attention online vs. out of the home. If you see that your spouse is spending way too much time online and they start minimizing screens when you walk into the room, that should be a red flag.
It's true that after years of being married, people tend to take what they have for granted. That's just human nature. People don't give compliments to their spouse as they once did and the minute someone else does, especially if the person isn't used to hearing it, it almost makes them feel alive again.
I am not an expert, but I believe the following to be true for the most part.
Men cheat because they are bored and women cheat when they feel emotionally neglected.Comment -
To go along with this topic, here is a you tube of a radio station that busted a girl for cheating. It is hilarious.
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If she is not spending enough time with you, and always keep herself busy in phone or internet means there are chances that she is cheating you. Follow her and check....Comment -
If the bitch does not say "please" before "pass the salt", she is cheating for sure and you should knock her fukkin head offComment -
Look straight into her eyes and with the most serious expression and voice ask her. Even if she denies it, her body language with tell you!Comment -
if you come home and you find her with mathy's head burried in her pussy she might be cheatingComment
