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  • zam77
    SBR MVP
    • 11-03-10
    • 3586

    #1
    Does your gf/wife care if you gamble?
    Mine doesn't. She actually enjoys getting in on the action sometimes. Play a game together sometimes and she really gets into it. She doesn't really give a shit about the money, doesn't ask how I'm doing or anything, but she trusts me, so thats cool.
  • Karayilan9
    Restricted User
    • 01-10-09
    • 3742

    #2
    Keep her
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    • Hoja Verdes
      SBR MVP
      • 08-23-06
      • 1403

      #3
      As long as I am winning , no. She likes the checks that arrive in the mailbox every couple months.
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      • zam77
        SBR MVP
        • 11-03-10
        • 3586

        #4
        Originally posted by Karayilan9
        Keep her
        been 9 fukin years man.
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        • Davydave
          SBR Wise Guy
          • 07-01-08
          • 700

          #5
          Originally posted by Hoja Verdes
          As long as I am winning , no. She likes the checks that arrive in the mailbox every couple months.
          Exactly. As long as you give her a taste when you're winning, she'll tolerate it.
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          • IEDodgerFan
            SBR High Roller
            • 05-05-09
            • 218

            #6
            She HATES gambling, but I told her I enjoy it, and it's not something I would bet a mortgage over, so she's cool. Not cool enough with it to get in on the action, but like some others, enjoys to hear when I'm winning.
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            • sharper2
              SBR MVP
              • 03-30-10
              • 2724

              #7
              no because gambling doesn't control my life, its not like im checking scores constantly when im with her that would probably piss her off
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              • OTL
                SBR MVP
                • 03-08-10
                • 2433

                #8
                Nope, and I wouldn't have it any other way.
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                • ngates815
                  SBR Posting Legend
                  • 12-01-09
                  • 13845

                  #9
                  Originally posted by sharper2
                  no because gambling doesn't control my life, its not like im checking scores constantly when im with her that would probably piss her off

                  Exactly...Mine doesn't give a fuckk that I bet. She just hates it when it's 11 o clock at night, and Illinois gets a lucky TD last night and I do a wicked fist pump while she's sleeping next to me, and then yells at me to turn off the fuckkin TV. It's not my fault she had to be up at 6 for work.


                  Just as long as you still pay attention to her, and don't constantly watch sports, she shouldn't mind.
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                  • Lincoln73
                    SBR Sharp
                    • 02-12-10
                    • 454

                    #10
                    Mine doesn't love it, but i found if you throw some winnings her way and i make it clear she knows where the money is coming from, she clams up pretty good.
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                    • franklt
                      SBR High Roller
                      • 11-02-10
                      • 158

                      #11
                      If I'm winning, no problem.
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                      • jbrent95
                        SBR MVP
                        • 12-07-09
                        • 1221

                        #12
                        My wife doesn't care as long as its not too distracting from family time. I had to learn how to stop sweating games.
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                        • maxvalue1
                          SBR Sharp
                          • 11-08-10
                          • 350

                          #13
                          I told my wife she had agreed tomy sportsbetting when she said her wedding vows..."for richer or poorer"...For BETTOR or worse"...ha ha...seriously..she is cool with it.
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                          • jjgold
                            SBR Aristocracy
                            • 07-20-05
                            • 388179

                            #14
                            I do not know many that like their hubby's gambling, most cannot control it also and therefore he dips into family funds

                            Stay single and no worries about gambling
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                            • zam77
                              SBR MVP
                              • 11-03-10
                              • 3586

                              #15
                              Originally posted by ngates815
                              Exactly...Mine doesn't give a fuckk that I bet. She just hates it when it's 11 o clock at night, and Illinois gets a lucky TD last night and I do a wicked fist pump while she's sleeping next to me, and then yells at me to turn off the fuckkin TV. It's not my fault she had to be up at 6 for work.


                              Just as long as you still pay attention to her, and don't constantly watch sports, she shouldn't mind.

                              Classic
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                              • chilidog
                                SBR Posting Legend
                                • 04-05-09
                                • 10305

                                #16
                                Originally posted by ngates815


                                Exactly...Mine doesn't give a fuckk that I bet. She just hates it when it's 11 o clock at night, and Illinois gets a lucky TD last night and I do a wicked fist pump while she's sleeping next to me, and then yells at me to turn off the fuckkin TV. It's not my fault she had to be up at 6 for work.

                                Just as long as you still pay attention to her, and don't constantly watch sports, she shouldn't mind.
                                Mine is a very light sleeper, so when I go to bed, it's time to sleep - no watching tv so late at night. I just chill in the living room and watch the games. Besides, the TV in the living room is a lot bigger anyway.
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                                • cobalt king
                                  SBR MVP
                                  • 12-20-08
                                  • 1584

                                  #17
                                  Win or lose she hates it, hates if I watch a game check a score play poker anything. I have to b a secret agent if I want to put fifty on a game and its getting old
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                                  • jrmartin.mig
                                    SBR Wise Guy
                                    • 11-29-10
                                    • 624

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by ngates815
                                    Exactly...Mine doesn't give a fuckk that I bet. She just hates it when it's 11 o clock at night, and Illinois gets a lucky TD last night and I do a wicked fist pump while she's sleeping next to me, and then yells at me to turn off the fuckkin TV. It's not my fault she had to be up at 6 for work. Just as long as you still pay attention to her, and don't constantly watch sports, she shouldn't mind.
                                    Yea, mine doesnt care much about the money either way, as long as the bills get paid and we get to fly out 3-4 times a year. Its a catch 22 though, she hates me watching tv in bed since she has to get up at 6, and hates it if I dont come to be till 1 catching a late game!
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                                    • zam77
                                      SBR MVP
                                      • 11-03-10
                                      • 3586

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by cobalt king
                                      Win or lose she hates it, hates if I watch a game check a score play poker anything. I have to b a secret agent if I want to put fifty on a game and its getting old
                                      That's a bummer man. You shouldn't have to sneak around doing something you enjoy as long as you're responsible about it. It's amazing what some people will do just please someone else.
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                                      • zam77
                                        SBR MVP
                                        • 11-03-10
                                        • 3586

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by jjgold
                                        I do not know many that like their hubby's gambling, most cannot control it also and therefore he dips into family funds

                                        Stay single and no worries about gambling
                                        Is that your reason for staying single, I mean like one of your main reasons? You are single Goldbond... aren't you? (the forum gets confusing about u sometimes)
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                                        • vividjohn45
                                          SBR Hall of Famer
                                          • 11-21-10
                                          • 6331

                                          #21
                                          lots a ladies at the casino.
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                                          • Statman
                                            SBR MVP
                                            • 12-04-10
                                            • 1212

                                            #22
                                            Mine is great and you need to be totally upfront with it or she'll smell something is up. I used to wager far more on games than I do now but that usually comes from a prolonged losing streak. Money management is the biggest factor I need to work on.
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                                            • ngates815
                                              SBR Posting Legend
                                              • 12-01-09
                                              • 13845

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by jrmartin.mig
                                              Yea, mine doesnt care much about the money either way, as long as the bills get paid and we get to fly out 3-4 times a year. Its a catch 22 though, she hates me watching tv in bed since she has to get up at 6, and hates it if I dont come to be till 1 catching a late game!

                                              yea She doesn't mind watching a game once in a while, but she can't sit there and watch 2-3 hours straight of football or basketball. She works every saturday so I get to watch football in peace, and I like that. And then she's off every Sunday, so we normally go out and watch the Bears game, then she comes home and takes a nap or lays down, so I can watch the other games, without her saying "lets watch a movie, or something else"

                                              And I just pay the mortgage and she picks up all the other bills, So just as long as that get's paid, she don't care, and as long as we can take a trip to Jamaica every year, all is good. I'm stingy with my money anyways, so I don't go out and blow it on anything not needed.




                                              Although I am going with the neighbor to watch the Oregon game, and I have about 600 riding on that, and all the other games have covered so far.
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                                              • JimmysEgo
                                                SBR MVP
                                                • 06-07-10
                                                • 1201

                                                #24
                                                she's like when i make bets so she knows who to root for.
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                                                • bobbyfk
                                                  SBR Posting Legend
                                                  • 01-19-09
                                                  • 15218

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by jjgold
                                                  Stay single and no worries about gambling
                                                  does Carol mind you gambling?
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                                                  • D3 Mighty Ducks
                                                    SBR Posting Legend
                                                    • 12-17-09
                                                    • 11939

                                                    #26
                                                    My wife is cool with it because she knows that I can control myself.
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                                                    • stevek173
                                                      BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                                      • 03-29-08
                                                      • 27598

                                                      #27
                                                      Mine has a local. KEEPER.
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                                                      • Extra Innings
                                                        SBR Posting Legend
                                                        • 02-26-10
                                                        • 15058

                                                        #28
                                                        Doesn't have a choice. I run the fukkin' show.
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                                                        • Flying Dutchman
                                                          SBR MVP
                                                          • 05-17-09
                                                          • 2467

                                                          #29
                                                          If I were JJGold she'd hate it...

                                                          ...especially because of that 2.000001" inch dick.

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                                                          • thisisit
                                                            SBR Wise Guy
                                                            • 08-01-10
                                                            • 733

                                                            #30
                                                            she really doeasnt give a shit, unless i lose in some crazy fashion, and then lose my mind. all in all good woman
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                                                            • GELATINOUS CUBE
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                                                              • 08-09-09
                                                              • 4534

                                                              #31
                                                              no...it's-more-money-for-her.

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                                                              • Flexin
                                                                SBR Wise Guy
                                                                • 10-09-10
                                                                • 969

                                                                #32
                                                                She doesn't care. She would if it became a problem. She knows what I spend and know I'm not going to do anything stupid. She does like when I give her money which I did out of the last two amounts I cashed out.

                                                                James
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                                                                • purecarnagge
                                                                  SBR MVP
                                                                  • 10-05-07
                                                                  • 4843

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by ngates815
                                                                  Exactly...Mine doesn't give a fuckk that I bet. She just hates it when it's 11 o clock at night, and Illinois gets a lucky TD last night and I do a wicked fist pump while she's sleeping next to me, and then yells at me to turn off the fuckkin TV. It's not my fault she had to be up at 6 for work.


                                                                  Just as long as you still pay attention to her, and don't constantly watch sports, she shouldn't mind.
                                                                  Its not that she has to be to work at 6am. Its that she has to get up to get pretty...just tell her its not your fault you can be ready in 20 minutes and out the door.

                                                                  Mine doesn't care just wants to know how much is going in and keeps a general idea of where i'm at...meaning if i'm up a few grand she wants to go shopping... which is fair enough.
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                                                                  • Mr. Jones
                                                                    SBR Wise Guy
                                                                    • 09-02-05
                                                                    • 942

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Back until about 8 or so years ago the wife helped with manually doing the numbers. We worked really well as a team back then and she would put in 3 or 4 hours each day early in the morning before I even got up during college baskets season. We did consistently well back in the day. She was also in charge of keeping our paperwork and ledgers.

                                                                    Now in my mid 60's and since my battles with heart disease I'm totally recreational, bet nowhere near what I used to, and spend relatively little time handicapping. She no longer works with me, but is still very cool about it all.

                                                                    I really should just retire completely, but I wouldn't know what to do with my time. The boredom would probably kill me for sure. She knows that. She knows it's a way of life for me/us, and helps mostly by encouraging me when I hit a losing streak. Always reminds me that I'll get it all back in due time and to take my time doing it.
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                                                                    • Jimmy0607
                                                                      SBR Hall of Famer
                                                                      • 04-09-09
                                                                      • 7785

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Mines actually like it asks me everyday if i betted on anything I remember when we didnt live together i would lets say bet a bball game over 185 and she would send me a text counting down the points
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