I'm here to help I really am. As long as your under 40, which you appear to be
As far as the respect thing. I screwed my last chick 2nd date I met her. Did just about everything you could possibly do to her. It was great. Then I didn't call for a week ( specifically said call me she never called) so I figured it was played out. But then she called me for round 2 and we were good to go from then on.

As far as the respect thing. I screwed my last chick 2nd date I met her. Did just about everything you could possibly do to her. It was great. Then I didn't call for a week ( specifically said call me she never called) so I figured it was played out. But then she called me for round 2 and we were good to go from then on.