cat problem

[Jamie_UK]

small cat visits me each night at about 10pm , he/she sits next to me and takes bits of chicken, but wont let me smooth him

[slacker00]

I've got a lot of experience with strange cats. Some cats just take a lot of time for them to get used to you. One thing that helps, let the cat sniff your hand and maybe he will rub against it. That's a sign of acceptance, I think. Maybe then you can pat it lightly. Just go slow and don't make all kinds of sudden movements, etc. Don't destroy any built up trust by grabbing at it. Let him come to you on his terms. If necessary, bribe him with more bits of chicken.

[buztah]

You should know by now that the pussy must want to come to you. Attract the pussy to you. Don't go after the pussy. Make the pussy want you. THAT is the key.

[Jamie_UK]

I've got a lot of experience with strange cats. Some cats just take a lot of time for them to get used to you. One thing that helps, let the cat sniff your hand and maybe he will rub against it. That's a sign of acceptance, I think. Maybe then you can pat it lightly. Just go slow and don't make all kinds of sudden movements, etc. Don't destroy any built up trust by grabbing at it. Let him come to you on his terms. If necessary, bribe him with more bits of chicken.

ok so i will let him come to me...thanks

[Jamie_UK]

just come in, spat at me, then sat next to me

[brock]

Dont you wish your avatar would visit you about 10pm each night and let you smooth her

[Jamie_UK]

Dont you wish your avatar would visit you about 10pm each night and let you smooth her

yes, but it dont help.