Dating A Woman With 1 Year Old?

minet123 · 09-08-10, 08:30 AM

Sponsey
Kid or no kid
No Women In her right mind will date a problem gambler
Unless she has addiction issues of her own
Go to one of the groups
Identify the newcomers,They are the most vulnerable
Work that 13th step

stevek173 · 09-08-10, 08:32 AM

it all depends what she and your possible relationship are bringing to the table otherwise in my opinion

if you fall in love with her then you do and the kid is inclusive

DeluxeLiner · 09-08-10, 08:34 AM

HERE IS YOUR ANSWER JJ

jjgold · 09-08-10, 08:36 AM

Every time I talk to her we are interrupted by him and she starts taking with him.

I want the attention

Minet tell me I have a gambling problem in person and you might like results.

I am a winner and women should realize this.

shari91 · 09-08-10, 08:40 AM

Nice one.

BurtRapp · 09-08-10, 08:41 AM

Dating a broad with a kid has so many advantages. You don't have to take the bitch out that much. You don't even have to see her that much. She is happy as shit when she gets to do something once every two weeks. It's an easy mark. I meet girls with kids online all the time. The first time you meet them is usually them inviting you over to their house once the kid has fallen asleep. It's like taking candy from a baby LITERALLY! They always have good snacks laying around.

Nicky Santoro · 09-08-10, 08:44 AM

dating a woman with a kid is worse thing in life. i have been there.. it's bad because you will NEVER EVER EVER EVER be #1 in her life.... i went out with a few women in my life with 6 yr old sons, 9 yr old daughters, 12 yr old sons, and let me say, it sucks.

sweetie, lets go away together alone for the weekend.. oh no, who's going to take care of michael.

sweetie, you enjoying supper at this nice restaurant? i'm really starting to get worried for chris, it's 520 pm and he's still not home from school.. now she's distracted... (the whole evening would be like this)

lets go out for a walk.. oh i can't, who's gonna make supper for cheryl??

The list goes on till Infinity. when a woman has a child around, it ruins everything.. and you can sometimes forget about making love at night because what if little timmy wakes up or hears us??

Stay away UNLESS you don't mind never being #1 for her. date a woman with no kiids, and you will be the only one she ever thinks about, and this is great. i know i sound selfish, but kids take up a lot of space...... a lot.....and it sucks.

G's pks · 09-08-10, 08:46 AM

She has an anchor with that kid JJ...take advantage of it...then just pull your pants up and leave.

hugh_morris · 09-08-10, 08:46 AM

JJ, you will never take the fore-front of a woman and her child...just like a lady wouldnt be in the fore-front of a man and his child...or at least they shouldnt,but it can work...and it actually can work a little easier for you with no kids...some times when both party's have kids, its even a worse strain on the relationship...Good Luck pal....

G's pks · 09-08-10, 08:49 AM

JJ you have a bald head dress as a baby when you go there and get breast fed!

minet123 · 09-08-10, 08:52 AM

Originally posted by jjgold

Minet tell me I have a gambling problem in person and you might like results.

.

Lets review
Not counting your fake spreadsheet for the faders
How many business have you run into the ground because you played games with the finances to feed the addiction
Wasn't there a thread last week how you need 35 dimes or Sethlin security goes belly up
Countless you tube videos of you over the edge
Blackmarked by a bookmaker
ETC ETC
If you do the same thing over and over and expect different results...
well you know the rest
And I am back home tomorrow and will be at Philadelphia Park OTB in Upper Darby Saturday and Sunday afternoons or at Matty's on Rte 3 before I head to Peurto Penesco later this month
Come on by and don't forget your shine box Mario

G's pks · 09-08-10, 09:06 AM

JJ in Toronto...

will2survive · 09-08-10, 09:44 AM

My girlfriend has a 7 year old boy.I thought that I could teach him from my life experience.I could play sports with him.He's a drain.He's a fukkin brat.They live with me and he's spoiled like I've never seen.Worst thing that I've ever had to deal with and I'm not thrilled with his mom.She know's that I'm loyal and takes advantage of it.Really lousy situation.

ProfaneReality · 09-08-10, 09:45 AM

well on one hand you know the girl is vulnerable and desperate.... and the other hand you have to put up with an annoying kid that isnt yours that you will never love, yet be expected to act as if you did

pass

G's pks · 09-08-10, 09:50 AM

Originally posted by ProfaneReality

well on one hand you know the girl is vulnerable and desperate.... and the other hand you have to put up with an annoying kid that isnt yours that you will never love, yet be expected to act as if you did

pass

Nicky Santoro · 09-08-10, 09:56 AM

Originally posted by ProfaneReality

you have to put up with an annoying kid that isnt yours that you will never love, yet be expected to act as if you did

pass

very true.. he's not yours, you can't ever love him to death.. in fact, he's your enemy, your rival.. you can't even go out for coffee with your GF because she has to pick him up from school. he is ruining your life.. he is holding you back from being free with the one you love..

and trust me, he is not too fond of you either.. you're also his rival.. he will hate you just as much.. cause you are taking away his mother from him...she's only giving him half the attention now... but you do have to play the game, and that was the part i hated most.. oh, i love your kid nancy. .he's just sooo cute.. because if she finds out you hate him, it's over. she will boot you. she will ALWAYS pick her son over you.. you are always 2nd.. get used to it.

curious · 09-08-10, 10:12 AM

Originally posted by will2survive

My girlfriend has a 7 year old boy.I thought that I could teach him from my life experience.I could play sports with him.He's a drain.He's a fukkin brat.They live with me and he's spoiled like I've never seen.Worst thing that I've ever had to deal with and I'm not thrilled with his mom.She know's that I'm loyal and takes advantage of it.Really lousy situation.

You don't beat the brat enough. Bust him the eye a couple of times and he will straighten his shit out.

keyboarding · 09-08-10, 10:27 AM

Originally posted by BurtRapp

The first time you meet them is usually them inviting you over to their house once the kid has fallen asleep. It's like taking candy from a baby LITERALLY! They always have good snacks laying around.

chilidog · 09-08-10, 10:33 AM

Originally posted by jjgold

As you are well aware I spend about 10 hrs per day on chatllines via live connect
And web based.

The latest girl I am talking to lives in Toronto and has a 1 year old. Every time we talk the little clown makes noises and he is rude and I want to tell her Mom Larriane to control the kid.

Now I was thinking this could get serious and the nit wit will always be around.
I do not think I can deal with this and I will always be secondary to Metherlin.

Fuk that, dating with kids in mix is trouble

Best to stay alone

Do not date people with kids if you do not have any.

take what you can get, old man. it's not gonna get any easier for yah.

pavyracer · 09-08-10, 10:36 AM

Originally posted by jjgold

As you are well aware I spend about 10 hrs per day on chatllines via live connect
And web based.

The latest girl I am talking to lives in Toronto and has a 1 year old. Every time we talk the little clown makes noises and he is rude and I want to tell her Mom Larriane to control the kid.

Now I was thinking this could get serious and the nit wit will always be around.
I do not think I can deal with this and I will always be secondary to Metherlin.

Fuk that, dating with kids in mix is trouble

Best to stay alone

Do not date people with kids if you do not have any.

Who is working at Sethlin Security when you spend 10 hrs a day on chatlines? Oh wait, you just had someone bail you out from bankruptcy after a couple months running the business.

coinpusha · 09-08-10, 10:57 AM

Women with kids do serve a purpose, although "dating" them is a bad idea. If you just want a casual hookup, they're the best thing going. Especially with a 1 year old, she shouldn't be talking to you while he's awake anywayz! There is nothing more annoying than trying to have a conversation and she's yelling at the kid and the kid is crying in your ears, perhaps going 3-14 last weekend on CFB is up there, but it still isn't as bad.

Deuce · 09-08-10, 11:11 AM

Hey at least you know she puts out.

curious · 09-08-10, 11:59 AM

The best place to pick up a woman is at the pre-natal care clinic, or lamaze class, or the maternity ward in the hospital. then you don't have to worry about knocking her up.

Gemoka · 09-08-10, 12:29 PM

Originally posted by Nicky Santoro

dating a woman with a kid is worse thing in life. i have been there.. it's bad because you will NEVER EVER EVER EVER be #1 in her life.... i went out with a few women in my life with 6 yr old sons, 9 yr old daughters, 12 yr old sons, and let me say, it sucks.

sweetie, lets go away together alone for the weekend.. oh no, who's going to take care of michael.

sweetie, you enjoying supper at this nice restaurant? i'm really starting to get worried for chris, it's 520 pm and he's still not home from school.. now she's distracted... (the whole evening would be like this)

lets go out for a walk.. oh i can't, who's gonna make supper for cheryl??

The list goes on till Infinity. when a woman has a child around, it ruins everything.. and you can sometimes forget about making love at night because what if little timmy wakes up or hears us??

Stay away UNLESS you don't mind never being #1 for her. date a woman with no kiids, and you will be the only one she ever thinks about, and this is great. i know i sound selfish, but kids take up a lot of space...... a lot.....and it sucks.