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  • superjeff24
    SBR MVP
    • 03-17-10
    • 1078

    #1
    I'd post this in losers talk if there was such a forum.
    Ok, sadly I need girl advice. Normally I pick up girls easily, they're really predictable and after sex I usually move on. I don't think of myself as a player, but I guess you could call me one. The trouble is, I met a girl who is very smart and happens to be pretty as well. Such a bad combination. So we talk a bit, and I suggest we go for coffee, and she says she'd love to after her finals are done. However, in the last few weeks I texted her to see if she wanted to go for coffee, she didn't reply. Later said she was studying for finals, point taken. Next week same thing no reply, says she got a new phone yadda yadda. So I'm starting to feel blown off, and we're chatting today (I never did mention the times she blew me off) and I'm making her laugh (this is done mostly with texts as I chat with her during work) but when I ask her out, the texts stop. From about 4pm (she works till 5) till like 9.

    I got kinda pissed off, told her she can say no if she wants... no reply. I text her again basically like wtf? no reply. Then get a reply 5 hours later claiming she didn't have her phone on her and that I'm overreacting.

    My question is (and if you want to make fun or say I have no game, go ahead, but I'd like some serious replies)
    Is this girl trying to get under my skin so that I'll like her more, (I told her I get bored easily with girls) or is she ignoring me? I've had lots of girlfriends, and I have never ONCE known a girl to just "not have her phone" on Friday evening for 5 hours. I have sisters and they text non-stop 24/7, and it would be the end of the world if it wasn't at their hip.

    I pick up one or 2 girls a week when I'm out and about, sometimes just for practice. I picked up a different girl last week that I still haven't called yet because I actually want to try dating this girl instead of just a hookup. Someone give me some advice!
  • THE PROFIT
    SBR Posting Legend
    • 11-27-09
    • 17701

    #2
    I call bullshit, because if you had the ability to pick girls up at the drop of a hat you wouldn't have acted like a little puss & stalked this chic.

    Damn, am I gonna have to do a tutorial for you young guys on how to have to turn down more pussy than most men get?
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    • GELATINOUS CUBE
      SBR MVP
      • 08-09-09
      • 4534

      #3
      she.wants.attention.while.she's.working. that's.it
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      • minet123
        SBR Posting Legend
        • 02-17-07
        • 10280

        #4
        stop thinking so much
        you are your own worst enemy
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        • robmpink
          SBR Posting Legend
          • 01-09-07
          • 13205

          #5
          Lay off the juice and stop being a pyscho.
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          • stealthyburrito
            SBR Posting Legend
            • 05-12-09
            • 21562

            #6
            Originally posted by THE PROFIT
            I call bullshit, because if you had the ability to pick girls up at the drop of a hat you wouldn't have acted like a little puss & stalked this chic.

            Damn, am I gonna have to do a tutorial for you young guys on how to have to turn down more pussy than most men get?
            apparently she is smart and pretty, which is a challenge for him.

            They have to be dumb and pretty, smart and ugly, or dumb and ugly.
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            • superjeff24
              SBR MVP
              • 03-17-10
              • 1078

              #7
              Profit, I call jealousy. Add me to msn I'll send you a couple dozen pics if you want (not yearbook pics if you catch my drift)
              I have game. I'll concede that. It's just that most girls are hot and dumb, they're boring. This girl is getting her Masters in Biology in a year. Shes got like 4 years of psychology classes up on me and it shows.
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              • superjeff24
                SBR MVP
                • 03-17-10
                • 1078

                #8
                Originally posted by stealthyburrito
                apparently she is smart and pretty, which is a challenge for him.

                They have to be dumb and pretty, smart and ugly, or dumb and ugly.

                Smart and ugly? How would that be a challenge? and dumb and ugly? cmon man you just arent thinking.
                Most of the girls I get would be considered pretty (if i picked her up during the day) the ones who I meet after last call dont count
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                • THE PROFIT
                  SBR Posting Legend
                  • 11-27-09
                  • 17701

                  #9
                  uhhhhh....are you wanting to send me pictures of yourself?????

                  This dudes gettin' as creepy as Pecos
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                  • Andy117
                    SBR Hall of Famer
                    • 02-07-10
                    • 9511

                    #10
                    Back off. Don't text her unless she initiates it. Don't ask her out, let her suggest meeting up. If she doesn't than you know all you need to know about her deal.
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                    • TheLock
                      SBR Posting Legend
                      • 04-06-08
                      • 14427

                      #11
                      Originally posted by THE PROFIT
                      I call bullshit, because if you had the ability to pick girls up at the drop of a hat you wouldn't have acted like a little puss & stalked this chic.

                      Damn, am I gonna have to do a tutorial for you young guys on how to have to turn down more pussy than most men get?


                      Uh no. I'm throwing the bullshit flag up on you pal.

                      [IMG][/IMG]

                      He came in here and gave a very believable scenario and is now looking for some input from the guys here at SBR

                      He's not stalking her. He's just not used to chicks blowing him off. Why so much hostility?


                      Anyway, not to be the bearer of bad news superjeff but she's either:

                      A) married or in a serious relationship but likes the attention

                      B) she wants attention at work (like someone mentioned)

                      C) Doesn't know how to say "no" to guys


                      I think you know this but I'll say it anyway..........the more you give her attention the less she will like you.


                      Take it on the chin and move on. Happens to the best of them
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                      • jgray
                        SBR MVP
                        • 09-06-09
                        • 3599

                        #12
                        Originally posted by superjeff24
                        Profit, I call jealousy. Add me to msn I'll send you a couple dozen pics if you want (not yearbook pics if you catch my drift) I have game. I'll concede that. It's just that most girls are hot and dumb, they're boring. This girl is getting her Masters in Biology in a year. Shes got like 4 years of psychology classes up on me and it shows.
                        Nice point to concede, although I don't think anyone other than yourself made it....
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                        • UntilTheNDofTimE
                          SBR Hall of Famer
                          • 05-29-08
                          • 9285

                          #13
                          Honest opinion is she's been with a lot of men that she's dictated as losers. If she's a psych girl she probably reads through most guys and is wanting to know if you are really interested by brushing you off. I doubt your being played on the side though. As suggested above i would lay off and wait for her to come to you.
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                          • superjeff24
                            SBR MVP
                            • 03-17-10
                            • 1078

                            #14
                            Originally posted by THE PROFIT
                            uhhhhh....are you wanting to send me pictures of yourself?????

                            This dudes gettin' as creepy as Pecos

                            of the girls you f*ckin weirdo
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                            • MJFtheGenius
                              SBR Hall of Famer
                              • 05-31-07
                              • 7257

                              #15
                              you came to the wrong place kid
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                              • superjeff24
                                SBR MVP
                                • 03-17-10
                                • 1078

                                #16
                                Originally posted by TheLock
                                Uh no. I'm throwing the bullshit flag up on you pal.

                                [IMG][/IMG]

                                He came in here and gave a very believable scenario and is now looking for some input from the guys here at SBR

                                He's not stalking her. He's just not used to chicks blowing him off. Why so much hostility?


                                Anyway, not to be the bearer of bad news superjeff but she's either:

                                A) married or in a serious relationship but likes the attention

                                B) she wants attention at work (like someone mentioned)

                                C) Doesn't know how to say "no" to guys


                                I think you know this but I'll say it anyway..........the more you give her attention the less she will like you.


                                Take it on the chin and move on. Happens to the best of them
                                shes only 22, unmarried (we have some mutual friends she doesn't know we have at her university)

                                probably at least B and C though. I just told her I'm "not going to have my phone on me for a few weeks" and she wrote back saying, "why am I mad at her"

                                Im going to ignore her for at least a day and see what comes of it.
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                                • superjeff24
                                  SBR MVP
                                  • 03-17-10
                                  • 1078

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by MJFtheGenius
                                  you came to the wrong place kid
                                  probably, but I really don't want to post this in a unisex forum and have a bunch of lame internet girls talking about how they just wish someone would talk to them
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                                  • TheLock
                                    SBR Posting Legend
                                    • 04-06-08
                                    • 14427

                                    #18
                                    No.

                                    Ignore her until she contacts you. If it's 4 days from now so be it. Trust me.
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                                    • THE PROFIT
                                      SBR Posting Legend
                                      • 11-27-09
                                      • 17701

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by superjeff24
                                      Profit, I call jealousy. Add me to msn I'll send you a couple dozen pics if you want (not yearbook pics if you catch my drift)
                                      I have game. I'll concede that. It's just that most girls are hot and dumb, they're boring. This girl is getting her Masters in Biology in a year. Shes got like 4 years of psychology classes up on me and it shows.
                                      Why the fuk would I be jealous of you. Now you're soundin' like a fukin idiot. And what does sending me 24 pictures prove? If it takes a couple dozen pics to prove you're good lookin' get a different photographer!!! I think you're a kid that has 0 game, because of the post I made before, and you think looks has more than 20% to do with gettin' laid. There's alot of guys that are a helluva lot better lookin' than me that can't pull in the kinda ass I can, because they act like you!
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                                      • TheLock
                                        SBR Posting Legend
                                        • 04-06-08
                                        • 14427

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by MJFtheGenius
                                        you came to the wrong place kid


                                        Dr. Dumb to the rescue with his .02
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                                        • Shortstop
                                          BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                          • 01-02-09
                                          • 27281

                                          #21
                                          She's just being nice and doesn't want to crush your huge ego by telling you that she's not interested in you...
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                                          • superjeff24
                                            SBR MVP
                                            • 03-17-10
                                            • 1078

                                            #22
                                            TheLock, I think Dr. Dumb should be the Profit. He comes into a thread which is me asking for advice, tells me I have 0 game, that he has 100% game, and probably thinks we're all impressed.

                                            TheProfit, quit acting like you're George Clooney when you're George Costanza. Get a life.
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                                            • THE PROFIT
                                              SBR Posting Legend
                                              • 11-27-09
                                              • 17701

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by superjeff24
                                              of the girls you f*ckin weirdo
                                              sorry, just the way I read it. Anyway, all completely unnecessary. Just leave her the fuk alone, blow her off, next time you see her, almost ignore her
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                                              • pavyracer
                                                SBR Aristocracy
                                                • 04-12-07
                                                • 82869

                                                #24
                                                "I pick up one or 2 girls a week when I'm out and about, sometimes just for practice."

                                                I call bullshit. Practice what?
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                                                • stealthyburrito
                                                  SBR Posting Legend
                                                  • 05-12-09
                                                  • 21562

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by superjeff24
                                                  Normally I pick up girls easily, they're really predictable and after sex I usually move on. I don't think of myself as a player, but I guess you could call me one. The trouble is, I met a girl who is very smart and happens to be pretty as well. Such a bad combination.
                                                  What am I missing? You say that girls are easy to pick up, then you mention you have trouble picking up girls who are smart and pretty.
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                                                  • superjeff24
                                                    SBR MVP
                                                    • 03-17-10
                                                    • 1078

                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by THE PROFIT
                                                    sorry, just the way I read it. Anyway, all completely unnecessary. Just leave her the fuk alone, blow her off, next time you see her, almost ignore her

                                                    sorry for my overly hostile responses. I just haven't had a girl make me feel like this since Jr. High.
                                                    good news though, she sent me a second message wondering why I'm not replying. If she hates being ignored for 15 minutes, maybe 24 hours will do the trick
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                                                    • TheLock
                                                      SBR Posting Legend
                                                      • 04-06-08
                                                      • 14427

                                                      #27
                                                      Also, telling her you're not going to have your phone with you for a few weeks was a bad move. Who the fvck doesn't have their phone for a few weeks in 2010?

                                                      Redeem yourself by not contacting her. If she is interested in you she will contact you.

                                                      In fact, you should be actively trying to bang new chicks to keep your mind off of this one. Your target will pick up on your needy-ness. Chicks hate that.

                                                      I'm not implying that you don't have game but you're not thinking clearly right now. She's got you tangled up in the web.
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                                                      • superjeff24
                                                        SBR MVP
                                                        • 03-17-10
                                                        • 1078

                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by pavyracer
                                                        "I pick up one or 2 girls a week when I'm out and about, sometimes just for practice."

                                                        I call bullshit. Practice what?

                                                        practice picking up girls. back in like 2002 I saw a video by a pickup artist and he said one of the most important things is sharpening the saw (aka keeping your skill) so I'll flirt at the grocery store, chat up a girl who picks up the same product as me etc. it just makes it really easy to pick up girls when you have a) confidence and b) lots of things to say to keep a convo going
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                                                        • pavyracer
                                                          SBR Aristocracy
                                                          • 04-12-07
                                                          • 82869

                                                          #29
                                                          I may be naive but what does pick up a girl mean in your world? Getting a phone number? Going out on a date? Taking her home for the night? You see you pick up 2 girls per week. That is 100 girls per year.
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                                                          • superjeff24
                                                            SBR MVP
                                                            • 03-17-10
                                                            • 1078

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by TheLock
                                                            Also, telling her you're not going to have your phone with you for a few weeks was a bad move. Who the fvck doesn't have their phone for a few weeks in 2010?

                                                            Redeem yourself by not contacting her. If she is interested in you she will contact you.

                                                            In fact, you should be actively trying to bang new chicks to keep your mind off of this one. Your target will pick up on your needy-ness. Chicks hate that.

                                                            I'm not implying that you don't have game but you're not thinking clearly right now. She's got you tangled up in the web.

                                                            the point of saying I don't have my phone is to irk her. of course i'll have my phone, but it's a way of saying I don't want to have contact with you without saying it. i've had about 50% success with it in the past, some girls say f*ck off loser, but actually lots of them fear the worst and see it as if I rejected them.

                                                            my buddy just phoned literally 2 minutes ago to play some pool with some girls from his work (local car dealership) so i'm gonna try taking one home until i can figure out my next chess move. thanks for the advice all
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                                                            • TheLock
                                                              SBR Posting Legend
                                                              • 04-06-08
                                                              • 14427

                                                              #31
                                                              I think he means getting phone #'s pavy

                                                              He's not banging two different girls every week

                                                              rock stars do that



                                                              I agree with superjeff reference the confidence and sharpening the saw stuff. I do it too. Women hate arrogance but love confidence


                                                              Time for me to get some sleep boys. Mayweather/Mosley tommorow night and it will get ugly
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                                                              • superjeff24
                                                                SBR MVP
                                                                • 03-17-10
                                                                • 1078

                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by pavyracer
                                                                I may be naive but what does pick up a girl mean in your world? Getting a phone number? Going out on a date? Taking her home for the night? You see you pick up 2 girls per week. That is 100 girls per year.

                                                                picking up a girl is getting a phone number. and it probably is close to 100 per year, maybe more when you count getting a few numbers on a barhopping night. my city has 1 million people. that's tens of thousands of hotties even if only 1% of chicks are hot. do the math bro
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                                                                • THE PROFIT
                                                                  SBR Posting Legend
                                                                  • 11-27-09
                                                                  • 17701

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by superjeff24
                                                                  picking up a girl is getting a phone number. and it probably is close to 100 per year, maybe more when you count getting a few numbers on a barhopping night. my city has 1 million people. that's tens of thousands of hotties even if only 1% of chicks are hot. do the math bro
                                                                  Maybe I'm different, I don't know. To me, pickin' up is fukin' 'em. I have fuked countless girls on the road, the overwhelming majority of these incidents never involved any mentioning of a phone or numbers. Most I didn't know their name. Gettin' some girls phone # is just a little too personal
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                                                                  • pavyracer
                                                                    SBR Aristocracy
                                                                    • 04-12-07
                                                                    • 82869

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by superjeff24
                                                                    picking up a girl is getting a phone number. and it probably is close to 100 per year, maybe more when you count getting a few numbers on a barhopping night. my city has 1 million people. that's tens of thousands of hotties even if only 1% of chicks are hot. do the math bro
                                                                    Do you see a problem with this though? You get 2 numbers per week but you don't get any dates. Because if you got a date you shouldn't be getting phone numbers over and over every week. So you are good at getting numbers who lead to nowhere. Did it ever occur to you the reason you keep getting the numbers is because the chicks want to get rid of you and they give you the number so you can leave them alone?
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                                                                    • wtf
                                                                      SBR Posting Legend
                                                                      • 08-22-08
                                                                      • 12983

                                                                      #35
                                                                      i think you have gotten some really good advice here

                                                                      but you must ignore her, it is your only hope

                                                                      if you have that much side action that will surely distract you from plan "a"
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