Is Cheating Mental or Physical?

[GiveMeaBJ]

Me and my girlfriend have been in a big argument and several bullshit break ups in the past 2 weeks over this. She says that if I am flirting with a girl then I am cheating.

I explained to her I have no intentions to take it any further then conversation with the girls I flirt with. It's just the way I am. I can't talk to girls without flirting. Most of them my age around here are dumb and have nothing to say that I would want to hear. So I flirt with them.

Why is that cheating?

[2daBank]

tell her to fuk off flirting is not cheating, absolutely nothing wrong with it as long as you are not doing while she is present that is rude

[GiveMeaBJ]

tell her to fuk off flirting is not cheating, absolutely nothing wrong with it as long as you are not doing while she is present that is rude

Yes, completley agree. Rude and disrespectful. One of her bitch friends told her I was flirting with a few girls. She said "If there is nothing wrong with it then why don't you ever do it in front of me?" I told her listen, I will start doing it in front of you if you are saying you are ok with it, but I don't do it because that is just disrespectful and I would rather talk to you anyway. She still doesn't get it.

[2daBank]

its human instinct to flirt, if you dont act on it your fine, im sure she is young she will understand 1 day

[MC PICKS]

Is this the same broad you payed for her to have the abortion. If it is then shes got a big pair of balls to accuse you of cheating.

[jjgold]

Giver your an emotional fukkin wreck first off

Cheating is both mental and physical but for a fukkin wacko like you it is mental. I would say you need the emotional attachment to feel wanted, your cock does not talk like many other guys. You want to feel needed mainly and hold hands and fukkin cuddle, you remind me of a teddy bear. I think your not getting that with the current girl.

Now a guy like me and many others here it is physical, all we want to do is fuk when our cocks go up even if we are dating. If I saw a girl and was engaged and some other girl came around and my cock got hurt I would want to fuk her if she was into it. So it all depends if your cock talks Ace.

[OmgUrMom]

just tell her your gay and that you want to have other friends too

[Darwin]

If the roles were reversed how would you feel? If you say that you wouldn´t mind then you should just dump her since you obviously have no feelings for her.

[pitman]

shes got low self confidence and she probably likes you alot(maybe even love)

[EaglesPhan36]

If your girlfriend thinks flirting is cheating, the O/U on when you'll tell her to go F herself is April 20th and I've got the UNDER Huuuuuge.

[paco]

When I was single, I had numerous girls at the same time. Dump her bro, and live life. Ur too young to be tied down with 1 girl right now

[jlgarciaiii22]

I don't know why you waste your time with this broad Giver... She already fuKKed another dude and got knocked up! Now she's accusing you of flirting/cheating... She's probably spreading for another dude again! Watch yourself Giver before your paying for another abortion or raising somebody elses kid!

[Darwin]

Wait, so she cheated on you and got pregnant and you are still with her? WTF is wrong with you.

[ClipCan]

Flirting is fine as long as she is not there and expect her to do the same.

[JEK]

What he said.

tell her to fuk off flirting is not cheating, absolutely nothing wrong with it as long as you are not doing while she is present that is rude

[hoopster42]

Me and my girlfriend have been in a big argument and several bullshit break ups in the past 2 weeks over this. She says that if I am flirting with a girl then I am cheating.

I explained to her I have no intentions to take it any further then conversation with the girls I flirt with. It's just the way I am. I can't talk to girls without flirting. Most of them my age around here are dumb and have nothing to say that I would want to hear. So I flirt with them.

Why is that cheating?

to answer your question in the title: cheating can be BOTH mental AND physical, or can be one or the the other. the subject of whether "flirting is cheating" is a completely different question, Sir, and the answer is "it depends". how much are you flirting? are you getting numbers, exchanging numbers, giving your number, dancing together, touching the chick?

[PureGuava]

depends on what your true intentions are

[bradthebloke]

if shes accusing you all the time of it, perhaps shes doing it herself

[jjgold]

Is Giver straight or Bi??? Maybe there is more here

[THE PROFIT]

She'll understand when she's old enough to get her period. Some level of maturity usually comes with that

[Jiggy Fly]

When I was single, I had numerous girls at the same time. Dump her bro, and live life. Ur too young to be tied down with 1 girl right now

I agree 100%!!

[TheLock]

When I was single, I had numerous girls at the same time. Dump her bro, and live life. Ur too young to be tied down with 1 girl right now

Ladies and gentleman we have a winner.

Save the serious relationships for your mid-late 30's dude. You know you want to slide your sauseeege in other hot young trim so just do it and have fun.

[stealthyburrito]

yea if she is jealous over flirting, then she is not worth your time. slam as much ass as you can before you get old and impotent.

[Extra Innings]

Both...traditional social scientists have suggested that there are gender differences. Men get angry when women cheat via sex because they fear raising a child that is not theirs. Women get angry over emotional affairs due to the fear of losing resources.

Obviously, these findings are outdated due to composition of workforce.

[ronald]

Whether or not something is cheating depends on the relationship. If two people have an agreement to bang other people, then that's not cheating. Basically, if you aren't prepared to admit to whatever you're doing, then its probably cheating. It's a breach of contract, the terms of which are determined by the parties in each individual case.

[Grandmaster B]

I don't know why you waste your time with this broad Giver... She already fuKKed another dude and got knocked up! Now she's accusing you of flirting/cheating... She's probably spreading for another dude again! Watch yourself Giver before your paying for another abortion or raising somebody elses kid!

[pat venditto]

Cheating is physical. Your girlfriend is an insecure nervous wreck.

[dodger33]

depends on what your true intentions are

if shes accusing you all the time of it, perhaps shes doing it herself

Couldn't have said it better!

[brokespoke11]

No way its not cheating

[james4512]

been around cheating for a long time unfortunatly a lot of people very close to me have been hurt but let me explain it. Cheating mentally is 10x worse than cheating phyically. You start to fall in love with another person and try to change your current person so they are more like the other person. Once you fall in love with the other person you start to lose your emotional attachment and it goes to hell. Cheating physically is just thinking the person is attractive and thats part of life theres millions of attractive people and believe it or not that is forgiven more often than you think

[PittsburghPlayer]

Break up with her now Yo. If you are breaking up and getting back together that is high school crap and needs to be ended. Better you do the dealing, so get it done. We don`t want to hear about her again. Got it!

[Teela]

Emotional cheating is when you're relying on the other person to give you something that you need. If you're flirting to make yourself feel good or if you need a woman to build you up so that you feel better about yourself. Mostly, it's providing a service that your partner should be.

Most of the times, harmless flirting is just that - saying things that are meaningless.