Would you leave your significant other if he/she got fat?

Chi_archie · 03-24-10, 06:05 PM

nah

Dad · 03-24-10, 06:14 PM

The reason I ask is because I know a persopn who has left her husband because he is fat. They were both fat and she lost all the weight and then left him. I thought it was shitty of her to do that to him.

whatsgood5 · 03-24-10, 06:18 PM

Originally posted by Dad

The reason I ask is because I know a persopn who has left her husband because he is fat. They were both fat and she lost all the weight and then left him. I thought it was shitty of her to do that to him.

That's incredibly ****ed up, fortunately I've never been in a situation like this, so I'm just speculation on what I would do here.

But if this happened to someone I was married to, I sure as hell wouldn't get a divorce, since I wouldn't marry someone that I don't love for who they are, no homo. But if it was just a girlfriend or something that was nothing too special, and she got fat, I'd prolly kick her to the curb to be honest.

THE HITMAN · 03-24-10, 06:18 PM

Maybe not leave, but do all I could to possibly get her to lose it.............Like stop cooking for her all the time and maybe talk alot to her & maybe sacrifice a few fatty meals myself to not make her want to eat that.

MC PICKS · 03-24-10, 06:23 PM

Hell no, I'll f**k her brains out and remember the good old days, if it beomes the case. By the way I outkicked my coverage on my second wife, She's 40 and looks like she's in her mid to late 20's, I'm 35 . LOL I'm set. I work out daily too. Fat or thin if you can find someone who can put up with your bullshit, grab on and hold no matter what.

purecarnagge · 03-24-10, 06:44 PM

In a heartbeat

Sledge187 · 03-24-10, 06:54 PM

This sounds like my life story. Me and my wife have been together since 94 when we were teenagers. She has stayed skinny but I have packed on 80 lbs since then. Luckily she is Asian and they are very loyal to there husbands. She puts up with my weight and I put up with her slaughtering the neighbors cats. A perfect marriage.

jjgold · 03-24-10, 06:56 PM

A lot of people would and do

I do not know myself because will never be in that situation

Unicorn7 · 03-24-10, 06:57 PM

hell no..but weight seems to fluctuate 20 lbs up and down as it is

FishFace5 · 03-24-10, 06:57 PM

Originally posted by Dad

Would you end a relationship with your significant other if he or she was to gain a bunch of weight and become unattractive? Would it make a difference if you were married instead of just dating? Let's say you're a guy. Your girlfriend/wife is a well built 5'5" and 130lbs. In the space of a year she balloons up to 180 and shows no signs of dropping the extra weight she gained. Do you dump her/get a divorce? Let's say you're a girl. Your boyfriend husband is a well put together 6'0" and 180lbs. Over the course of a year he packs on an extra 70lbs, putting him at the 250 mark and giving him a massive paunch. Do you dump him/get a divorce?

extreme examples.
talk about letting urself go.
I would never leave my girl for putting on a few pounds. Even if she got out of control real quik b4 realizing how bad she was slipping. But if my girl turned into a slob (as in ur example) and just refused to try and work it off I would have a major problem and eventually prob leave her..... or at least start cheating

Unicorn7 · 03-24-10, 06:58 PM

Originally posted by Sledge187

This sounds like my life story. Me and my wife have been together since 94 when we were teenagers. She has stayed skinny but I have packed on 80 lbs since then. Luckily she is Asian and they are very loyal to there husbands. She puts up with my weight and I put up with her slaughtering the neighbors cats. A perfect marriage.

Jaug · 03-24-10, 07:00 PM

Yes, no question about it.

FrozenMAN · 03-24-10, 07:08 PM

Originally posted by whatsgood5

That's incredibly ****ed up, fortunately I've never been in a situation like this, so I'm just speculation on what I would do here.

But if this happened to someone I was married to, I sure as hell wouldn't get a divorce, since I wouldn't marry someone that I don't love for who they are, no homo. But if it was just a girlfriend or something that was nothing too special, and she got fat, I'd prolly kick her to the curb to be honest.

LOLOLOL, thta made my day and brought back memories of sophmore year in the dorms when juice/vontae/rejus all lived on the floor and would constantly be saying NO HOMO dawg LOLOLOL, SO FUNNY

thank you sir

wookieehumper · 03-24-10, 07:09 PM

Yup I'd leave... I got too much money & a reputation to maintain. Bye bye fatty.

Dad · 03-24-10, 07:16 PM

It's a fact that fat chicks dig anal so if my significant other got fat I could look forward to lots of butt sex, so that's looking on the bright side.

pavyracer · 03-24-10, 07:18 PM

I will put pad locks in the refrigerator and pantry before I tell her she is fat. She will get the message.

seaborneq · 03-24-10, 08:11 PM

Only a lowlife slimeball would leave their mate if they gained weight while still be willing to fuk them. I would leave if the sex decreased, not declined, but not a little extra stomach roll.

Dad · 03-25-10, 12:40 PM

Originally posted by pavyracer

I will put pad locks in the refrigerator and pantry before I tell her she is fat. She will get the message.

Buying a shit load of underware two sizes smaller then cutting the size tags out of them is a silent start.

Yi · 03-25-10, 01:00 PM

Originally posted by MC PICKS

Hell no, I'll f**k her brains out and remember the good old days, if it beomes the case. By the way I outkicked my coverage on my second wife, She's 40 and looks like she's in her mid to late 20's, I'm 35 . LOL I'm set. I work out daily too. Fat or thin if you can find someone who can put up with your bullshit, grab on and hold no matter what.

Well Said

Sawyer · 03-25-10, 01:36 PM

No.

If your answer is Yes, it means you're not in love

bruceBRUCEbruce · 03-25-10, 01:53 PM

Originally posted by Sawyer

If your answer is Yes, it means you're not in love

I'm not sure I could love someone who had so little respect for herself and me that she would disregard her health and appearance in the name of gluttony and sloth...

blueghost · 03-25-10, 01:53 PM

Originally posted by Yi

Well Said

blueghost · 03-25-10, 01:54 PM

Originally posted by MC PICKS

Hell no, I'll f**k her brains out and remember the good old days, if it beomes the case. By the way I outkicked my coverage on my second wife, She's 40 and looks like she's in her mid to late 20's, I'm 35 . LOL I'm set. I work out daily too. Fat or thin if you can find someone who can put up with your bullshit, grab on and hold no matter what.

keyboarding · 03-25-10, 02:57 PM

There's a lot more to leaving someone who gained weight than just the weight.

iceminers26 · 03-25-10, 03:08 PM

If she was only my girlfriend, regardless if it has only been 1 year or 5 years, I would regretfully say I would have to leave her because I don't think I could take the next 30+ years married to her and it wouldn't work out well for either of us. This may make me sound like a dickhead, just stating the truth, and think it would be best for both of us because I wouldn't be happy and I probably would not treat her like she would want to be treat out of anger because she has let her so go and has shown no signs of trying to lose the weight.

As far as a wife, I would stay with her regardless if she packed on the pounds because obviously I married her for more than her looks and must enjoy other things about her. In addition, if kids were involved the thought of leaving her for this sole purpose would not even cross my mind.

A very good question and its easy to state what we would or would not do and point the finger at others that may have left a significant other for this sole purpose, but I think its an entirely different beast when you yourself are left with this predicament.