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    How Do You Deal With Being Heartbroken?

    Being heartbroken and shocked. How do you get better?

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    Whiskey

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    how old are you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by existential View Post
    how old are you?
    28.

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    Oh, and time. Time heals most wounds.


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    Fuk... I remember I was 18 years old... first love... as SBR said.. "This Won't End Well..."

    It didn't.

    Young love... you know nothing about life. Glad I got through with it without suicide etc.

    Took at least a year and a half to recover.

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    The best way is to start working out and then find another girl even if it's just to hang out with or talk to at first. Once you get that feeling of meeting a new girl you like again and then you hit it, you will get over the old one pretty quickly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CantFeelMyFace View Post
    The best way is to start working out and then find another girl even if it's just to hang out with or talk to at first. Once you get that feeling of meeting a new girl you like again and then you hit it, you will get over the old one pretty quickly.
    Its about failing a big job interview, not about a girl

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    Why?
    Did you use Canada Post to mail in your resume?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jayvegas420 View Post
    Why?
    Did you use Canada Post to mail in your resume?
    Jay dont ask, its a tough situation. I thought my life would change and then i got a knife to the heart

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    Wait, is this about the breast feeder at McDonald's?

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    Come on bro. Tim Hortons will call you back

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    Quote Originally Posted by Seaweed View Post
    Being heartbroken and shocked. How do you get better?
    Talk to friends, family. After they disregard you, take to a bad vice - alcohol works! However, there is so much out there stronger to numb the pain.
    Of course pot will not work, and crack will make your heart and brain explode.
    Myself?
    I am leaning H
    ((((((((((((((((((want me to start a thread about broken fukking hearts? My family took my Mom to Italy 5 years ago...
    denied her medical attention after a stroke. I suffered with her for almost four years... I am crying my eyes out right now. I invite you to look at the threads I have started in the last few months - and my breaks in posting here for almost 5 years now.
    I will elaborate, for now - I have to stop crying...))))))))))))))))))))

    Best, with peace and love.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PittsburghPlayer View Post
    Talk to friends, family. After they disregard you, take to a bad vice - alcohol works! However, there is so much out there stronger to numb the pain.
    Of course pot will not work, and crack will make your heart and brain explode.
    Myself?
    I am leaning H
    ((((((((((((((((((want me to start a thread about broken fukking hearts? My family took my Mom to Italy 5 years ago...
    denied her medical attention after a stroke. I suffered with her for almost four years... I am cring my eyes out. Lokk at the threads I have started in the last few months - and my breaks in posting here for almost 5 years now.
    I will elaborate, for now - I have to stop crying...))))))))))))))))))))

    Best, with peace and love.

    I've lost close friends and my old man, trust me drugs DO NOT help they're the worst in that situation. Finally get to feel good for a few hours but not worth the comedown mixed with emotion. Booze not as bad but hard to mix the good nights with the bad, never a good thing to wake up and remember you were an emotional mess at four in the morning! Edit* Everyone forgives you for the too much booze in that situation, not so much the drugs.

    As for women, shit happens drugs and booze are sweet recovery, just don't be a knob and send text messages at four in the morning. Have a blow out or two and leave the phone at home.

    **Another edit (not aimed at you PP just the thread title), tune a big girl while blind, A) she'll fukk you guaranteed, B) you'll only regret it for about ten minutes when you wake up and get out of there after that it's a hilarious story for the boys that they'll bring up for years. No one remembers the 5s you hooked up with but everyone remembers thaaaaaat night!
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    piss off... I am trying to save my life
    the drug comment was a joke

    I am sorry. I read 3 sentences and responded.
    Last edited by PittsburghPlayer; 04-29-16 at 03:46 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PittsburghPlayer View Post
    piss off... I am trying to save my life
    the drug comment was a joke
    Not sure on the anger? My comment was legit through life experience. Fukk I've been in the same boat trying to save my own life believe me.

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    and then went to smoke a cigarette, few sips of beer. Yes I have eaten and slept 6 hours or more, and now I am up. and I am sorry, I do not feel good about myself when I do wrong. and it is for that reason I apologize after I do.
    Peace BassPlayer!

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    Really? You had a sibling BLOOD show DEPRAVED INDIFFERENCE to your Mother?

    WOW. I have been right. This world, actually PEOPLE suck BALLZ.

    Not me. When I do wrong. I apologize.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PittsburghPlayer View Post
    Really? You had a sibling BLOOD show DEPRAVED INDIFFERENCE to your Mother?

    WOW. I have been right. This world, actually PEOPLE suck BALLZ.

    Not me. When I do wrong. I apologize.
    No, no I haven't. That's horrific I feel for you, I really fukkin do. I do know what it's like to walk in on your parent dead though.

    Saer has made a troll thread and I've replied to your post as it resonated with me. I don't give a fukk if you're angry with my posts it looks like we've both been through shit that anyone under the age of 30 hopefully don't have to deal, we did, I mentioned a few options that sort of work and really don't work.

    My life will never be the same, something tells me yours won't be either, life's a real pain in the ass sometimes I wish you the best mate.

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    Jerk off

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheMoneyShot View Post
    Fuk... I remember I was 18 years old... first love... as SBR said.. "This Won't End Well..."

    It didn't.

    Young love... you know nothing about life. Glad I got through with it without suicide etc.

    Took at least a year and a half to recover.
    yeah usually it takes like that but if you found another girl which is beautiful you will be O.K even just to be friends without love or shit

    after 1 year you will be motivated

    another way is : working and getting cash !! they say " success is the best revenge for yourself "

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    Quote Originally Posted by Don_Omarion View Post
    yeah usually it takes like that but if you found another girl which is beautiful you will be O.K even just to be friends without love or shit

    after 1 year you will be motivated

    another way is : working and getting cash !! they say " success is the best revenge for yourself "
    Couldn't work well... didn't care about making cash. Basically numb. Funny when you live life... you learn there's more to it than a dumb girl. You soon realize.... things do happen for a reason. 20 years later... she's not even attractive to me anymore.

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    Music,
    weed and some winning sports bets

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    Quote Originally Posted by tony_come View Post
    Jerk off
    Toniest good afternoon.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Seaweed View Post
    Being heartbroken and shocked. How do you get better?
    When i was younger i was engaged and a week before the Wedding she cheated on me. It hurt but i look at it this way. She did me a favor because i could have been stuck with the Bitch back then instead i told myself it was supposed to happen because there was someone better out there. Eventually i met my now wife and we have been married ever since.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smoke View Post
    Toniest good afternoon.
    Hi smokiest

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    Quote Originally Posted by tony_come View Post
    Hi smokiest
    Toniest what's your plan for today?

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    Time heals everything!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smoke View Post
    Toniest what's your plan for today?
    Picking bottles on the strip

    You?

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    Quote Originally Posted by captrobey View Post
    When i was younger i was engaged and a week before the Wedding she cheated on me. It hurt but i look at it this way. She did me a favor because i could have been stuck with the Bitch back then instead i told myself it was supposed to happen because there was someone better out there. Eventually i met my now wife and we have been married ever since.
    The "supposed to happen" stuff is at best speculation, but what he's right on with is that there was someone better out there. That's the only way to look at it. Unless it was something crazy, utterly your fault (for which you still need to man up to and just admit, then move on) the reality is that when relationships don't work, though it may hurt, there's a reason why.

    Ultimately it comes down to this question, especially when you are a man: If this girl doesn't want to be with me, why would I want to be in that relationship?

    It really is that simple.

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    Jerk off date women

    Jerkoff get married

    Jerkoffs get heartbroken

    Means your weak

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    Quote Originally Posted by tony_come View Post
    Picking bottles on the strip

    You?
    No idea

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    Quote Originally Posted by jjgold View Post
    Jerk off date women

    Jerkoff get married

    Jerkoffs get heartbroken

    Means your weak
    Jerking off feels good tho

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smoke View Post
    No idea
    Smokiest come over tonight and watch sportscenter with me

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