Ex GF on Facebook rejection has me on tilt

whatsgood5 · 03-07-10, 05:52 PM

You went out with a 18 year old when you were 23? That's fukking weird IMO.

stevek173 · 03-07-10, 05:54 PM

Originally posted by whatsgood5

You went out with a 18 year old when you were 23? That's fukking weird IMO.

Good time tho

Jimmy0607 · 03-07-10, 05:54 PM

How is that weird

Richkas · 03-07-10, 05:55 PM

Originally posted by whatsgood5

You went out with a 18 year old when you were 23? That's fukking weird IMO.

I know a guy who's 56 and has a 20 yo wife

stevek173 · 03-07-10, 05:55 PM

Jimmy I think hes hating because I always post how he's a stiff, which he is

pavyracer · 03-07-10, 05:58 PM

Originally posted by Richkas

I know a guy who's 56 and has a 20 yo wife

His niece?

whatsgood5 · 03-07-10, 05:59 PM

Originally posted by Richkas

I know a guy who's 56 and has a 20 yo wife

That's even more weird.

I consider it weird dating an 18 year old when you're 23, I guess that's just me though.

And no, I don't mind at all when you post that I'm a stiff. I actually enjoy having fun with it...Good luck with the Flyers tonight by the way.

stevek173 · 03-07-10, 06:02 PM

Originally posted by whatsgood5

That's even more weird.

I consider it weird dating an 18 year old when you're 23, I guess that's just me though.

And no, I don't mind at all when you post that I'm a stiff. I actually enjoy having fun with it...Good luck with the Flyers tonight by the way.

Thanks.

To me it gets less "weird" as you get older, like a lot of people would think 23 vs 18 is a little off but no one would think twice about 35 vs 30 imo

Proximity is a big part of it, we worked together for awhile, then started hanging out some and next thing you know...damn she was so sexy too, had that tennis player ass...just rediculous.

Wish there was a way to get it out of my head lol killin me

jjgold · 03-07-10, 06:08 PM

Originally posted by stevek173

Just venting...

Man being a douchebag at some points in your life sucks sometimes

I was 23 when I was dating her and she was 18, I was very athletic had a good job and full of myself at the time, totally treated her like shit and 100% regret it

Now I see her on facebook and she is smoking hot works as a casting director in Hollywood I've gained some weight and have been really struggling financially this year...

Result - friend request ignored.

Got to focus on the present tense and my woman that I am lucky to have now as wel as drinking and gambling and get this shit out of my head fahk

OK done venting play the Flyers -1.5 tonight and win with me

Fuk her, in most cases a woman is the ruination of a man

bruceBRUCEbruce · 03-07-10, 06:08 PM

Originally posted by stevek173

I was very athletic had a good job and full of myself at the time, totally treated her like shit and 100% regret it

so, you know it, she knows it, why would you expect her to want to be "friends" w/ you on facebook? it's your fault-hopefully you learned something and don't make the same mistake again.

move along. go flyers.

odusmykal · 03-07-10, 06:08 PM

I've never had a facebook page.. An ex-gf friend request denial would be too awkward.. I always delete their # from my phone also.. That way, when i get drunk, i'll never have a regret of talking to them the next morning..

CarpeDime · 03-07-10, 06:13 PM

Originally posted by jjgold

Fuk her, in most cases a woman is the ruination of a man

A----MEN brother

Richkas · 03-07-10, 06:14 PM

Originally posted by pavyracer

His niece?

She's a ex-dancer and he owns one of the strip clubs in Washington Park.

keyboarding · 03-07-10, 06:17 PM

The only reason she's hot and has a decent job is because the way you treated her. So, sucks that she doesn't appreciate the time and effort you put into her but when you help a hurt animal, you have to let it go back into the wild. If it loves you, it'll come back.

bettilimbroke999 · 03-07-10, 06:21 PM

Originally posted by whatsgood5

You went out with a 18 year old when you were 23? That's fukking weird IMO.

You wouldnt have dated an 18 yr old when you were 23, that's very fukin weird IMO

Extra Innings · 03-07-10, 06:30 PM

Karma

pavyracer · 03-07-10, 07:08 PM

Originally posted by Richkas

She's a ex-dancer and he owns one of the strip clubs in Washington Park.

It was a trailer park joke Richie.

MC PICKS · 03-07-10, 07:12 PM

F**k her steve. You tapped that shit. You got a good girl now. Move on bro. I never keep contact with any ex whores.

sharpmoney · 03-07-10, 07:12 PM

Hey stevek.

Tough break man but I guess you kind of had it coming to you in the way that you treated her. Best just to move on and don't worry about it.

Last year I came across an ex on facebook and we had been together about 3 or 4 years prior to that. Thought I would send her a friend request and see what she had been up to all this time. Well she accepted, we exchanged a couple of emails and that was about it. Its not like the two of us were going to end up hanging out again and reminiscing about old times. Turns out in that time frame when we split up and emailing each other on facebook she had gone back to school, gotten a good job, married and had a kid. Getting re-acquainted with an ex can be awkward and most of the time its not going to work out since both parties have moved on with there lives. Good times though looking back on it. Gl moving forward.

rm18 · 03-07-10, 07:34 PM

tilt all in on College of Charleston

stevek173 · 03-07-10, 07:40 PM

Definitely appreciate the insight guys.

Yeah logically I know move on etc. I guess what I really wanted is acceptance from her and to be a friend, etc. but I can see why it's impossible sometimes, I mean I really was pretty bad to her looking back

Just gotta shut it out of the mind, dwelling on this kind of shit is habit forming

Good girl now, focus on the present tense etc. etc.

Sharp that's more or less what I expected, really is the way it's been with other exes

Just part of life I guess, just weird was with her a couple years

PittsburghPlayer · 03-07-10, 07:47 PM

Originally posted by whatsgood5

You went out with a 18 year old when you were 23? That's fukking weird IMO.

No, weird is liking an 18 yr old Dude when you are 23 and male.

stealthyburrito · 03-07-10, 07:53 PM

damn thats sucks bro, shouldn't burn your bridges. but then again, who knew she would be amazingly successful

stevek173 · 03-07-10, 07:57 PM

Originally posted by stealthyburrito

damn thats sucks bro, shouldn't burn your bridges. but then again, who knew she would be amazingly successful

The success doesn't mean much to me, more just happy for her than anything else...it's more the amount of time we spent together to end in not knowing eachother at all, just something I'm not used to.

PittsburghPlayer · 03-07-10, 08:05 PM

Got damn, what is this freshman high school night? You treated her like shit and she ignored you...just like you would want your sister to do to someone that treated her like shit. You should stop this thread before you start to look like a real big wuss...you must really think you are something if this is bugging you so much. Now I have to help you grow up by laughing at you

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Chi_archie · 03-07-10, 08:07 PM

Originally posted by stevek173

Now I see her on facebook and she is smoking hot works as a casting director in Hollywood I've gained some weight and have been really struggling financially this year...

Result - friend request ignored.

Got to focus on the present tense and my woman that I am lucky to have now as wel as drinking and gambling and get this shit out of my head fahk

two parts

1) the bolded info: don't connect her success, and your current weight/financial level.... with that rejection.

like others said, i think you had it right in the first sentence, if you said it yourself. you must have been a pretty big douche. most douches AREN'T that self aware....so either you were uncharacteristically douchey for some reason. and in retrospect the current broke/fat/undouchey guy can admit to that period of douchosity. which is fine.....almost all guys have at least a small period of time in their life where they lose perspective and are asshats

or you happen to be a Douche that can't help himself from being Douchey....and you know it.... hopefully its not this one, because if it is. you will soon lose the girl that you are with.

2) the unbolded stuff.

great to see you appreciate your GF, but if you are focusing on 3 things. and they are gf, drinking, gambling...... you are gonna lose one of those 3 things 80% of the time, and 80% of the time the 1 of the 3 things you will lose is THE GIRL.

get your priorities in line. nothing wrong with enjoying drinking and gambling IN MODERATION for some guys..... but for most guys those things will ruin a real relationship

MC PICKS · 03-07-10, 08:46 PM

Just like the dice man said"Ya bang chicks, You wanna have a good time, hang out with the guys". No need to be the friend thing unless your trying for one last shot at that ass. LOL

Brock Landers · 03-08-10, 01:07 AM

Originally posted by stevek173

Just venting...

Man being a douchebag at some points in your life sucks sometimes

I was 23 when I was dating her and she was 18, I was very athletic had a good job and full of myself at the time, totally treated her like shit and 100% regret it

Now I see her on facebook and she is smoking hot works as a casting director in Hollywood I've gained some weight and have been really struggling financially this year...

Result - friend request ignored.

Got to focus on the present tense and my woman that I am lucky to have now as wel as drinking and gambling and get this shit out of my head fahk

OK done venting play the Flyers -1.5 tonight and win with me

can we see a pic of the babe or a link to her facebook page?

TheLock · 03-08-10, 01:11 AM

Originally posted by whatsgood5

You went out with a 18 year old when you were 23? That's fukking weird IMO.

Congratulations. You have now qualified for full maxi-tool status.

You can pick up your medal of honor in the SBR Store.

Please tell me one thing weird about dating a chick who's 5 years younger than you and legal?

stevek173 · 03-08-10, 01:15 AM

I respect the request Brock, however I am not comfortable fulfilling it.

If the girl wants nothing to do with me than the last person I would want to be is the guy who posted pics of her on the internet...

I doubt she or anyone she knows would ever come across SBR but who knows, strange world.

Brock Landers · 03-08-10, 01:18 AM

Originally posted by stevek173

I respect the request Brock, however I am not comfortable fulfilling it. If the girl wants nothing to do with me than the last person I would want to be is the guy who posted pics of her on the internet... I doubt she or anyone she knows would ever come across SBR but who knows, strange world.

i'd like to beat my meat to a hot broad, regardless if she is your ex or not LOL

hugh_morris · 03-08-10, 07:32 AM

Hey Stevek..the good news is, you had her when she was still ripe..in her prime..tight and ohhh how nice..now shes in Hollywood with the likes of Tommy Lee and Long Dong Silver...now her lips are quivering in the breeze..bottom line: she may look the part..but some asshole is still dealing with her shit...G/L luck with todays action pal...

out..

StraitShooter · 03-08-10, 08:05 AM

late late at night when you are whacking off and betting points her feet are clenched with each deep thrust of tyrone`s 9 inch night stick..better off forgetten bout reality

pico · 03-08-10, 08:45 AM

yeah. i feel you. i treated a girl like crap, now she is smoking hot after a boobs job and a nose job.