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  • EGrecu
    SBR Wise Guy
    • 09-15-21
    • 795

    #1
    I don't know how to control myself (really need help)
    I've hit a couple monster parlays last 5 weeks on bookmaker and have basically won about 130k


    My issue is I can't stop chasing. I hit a huge slump today and lost like 6 straight. I was gonna lose a lot of my bankroll but ended up hitting a 3 teamer and won it all back


    I don't know what the **** to do to stop chasing and only bet 1 or 2% a game. I've asked bookmaker to limit my bets to 1000 a game but they said their software doesn't have that capability

  • Headsterx
    SBR Posting Legend
    • 12-03-16
    • 24346

    #2
    If you had to ask a book to limit you, then it’s time to walk away. Find a new hobby.
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    • str
      SBR Posting Legend
      • 01-12-09
      • 11873

      #3
      For some reason I keep trying to help you. So one more time.
      Stop all betting, empty your balances, and get immediate help from a professional.
      You are completely out of control and are working towards ruining your life. You only get one. You should treat it that way.
      Next step is your call. And I would say good luck but there is no luck in this at all. You will either make a smart choice or live the rest of your life with a bad choice.
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      • EGrecu
        SBR Wise Guy
        • 09-15-21
        • 795

        #4
        Originally posted by str
        For some reason I keep trying to help you. So one more time.
        Stop all betting, empty your balances, and get immediate help from a professional.
        You are completely out of control and are working towards ruining your life. You only get one. You should treat it that way.
        Next step is your call. And I would say good luck but there is no luck in this at all. You will either make a smart choice or live the rest of your life with a bad choice.
        I am good at picking winners though


        I can make a lot of money long term if I bet controlled 1 2% each game


        I just have no self control
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        • EGrecu
          SBR Wise Guy
          • 09-15-21
          • 795

          #5
          Originally posted by Headsterx
          If you had to ask a book to limit you, then it’s time to walk away. Find a new hobby.
          But i win a lot overall if you just look at my percentage, especially college football
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          • ProSportsEdge
            SBR Sharp
            • 05-01-25
            • 260

            #6
            Originally posted by str
            For some reason I keep trying to help you. So one more time.
            Stop all betting, empty your balances, and get immediate help from a professional.
            You are completely out of control and are working towards ruining your life. You only get one. You should treat it that way.
            Next step is your call. And I would say good luck but there is no luck in this at all. You will either make a smart choice or live the rest of your life with a bad choice.
            Yeah man, this is solid advice. Sometimes you need someone to say it straight. Stepping back and getting real help is way better than digging the hole deeper. It’s tough to hear, but he’s not wrong — nothing changes until you actually stop and reset.
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            • Headsterx
              SBR Posting Legend
              • 12-03-16
              • 24346

              #7
              Originally posted by EGrecu

              But i win a lot overall if you just look at my percentage, especially college football
              Then you shouldn’t make this thread and be willing to die by the sword or in this case gambling. Personally, as I stated before, I would walk away because you’ve reached a critical point which I consider the realization that it’s not going to end well.
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              • EGrecu
                SBR Wise Guy
                • 09-15-21
                • 795

                #8
                Originally posted by ProSportsEdge
                Yeah man, this is solid advice. Sometimes you need someone to say it straight. Stepping back and getting real help is way better than digging the hole deeper. It’s tough to hear, but he’s not wrong — nothing changes until you actually stop and reset.
                Did you read the OP? I won 130k+ last 4 5 weeks


                If I can bet 1 -2% a game without chasing when I hit a slump, I can make a lot of money


                I won at 65 to 70% over a 4 5 week period
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                • EGrecu
                  SBR Wise Guy
                  • 09-15-21
                  • 795

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Headsterx

                  Then you shouldn’t make this thread and be willing to die by the sword or in this case gambling. Personally, as I stated before, I would walk away because you’ve reached a critical point which I consider the realization that it’s not going to end well.
                  I just want to be able to bet 1 to 2% a game without chasing


                  Chasing is what has always killed me. I win at a high clip especially college football
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                  • Madison
                    SBR Hall of Famer
                    • 09-16-11
                    • 6610

                    #10
                    Originally posted by str
                    For some reason I keep trying to help you. So one more time.
                    Stop all betting, empty your balances, and get immediate help from a professional.
                    You are completely out of control and are working towards ruining your life. You only get one. You should treat it that way.
                    Next step is your call. And I would say good luck but there is no luck in this at all. You will either make a smart choice or live the rest of your life with a bad choice.
                    This (above). One word DISCIPLINE. Without it you are in the wrong game. Mr STR and myself are likely the most experienced long term gamblers on this forum. I never won 130K, but I did last 60 years and lived to play another day. Watched a friend do similar as you at BJack and a month later broke. If I was ever up 100+ K it would take the man a decade to get it back, however I never won 100K in one brief run, so??

                    I was within inches of taking down a 250K prize at 25ish. No way was I ready to handle that, and often wonder what would have become of me had I had that much $$ at 25 in the 80's in So fla????

                    DIScipline!! or die.
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                    • Headsterx
                      SBR Posting Legend
                      • 12-03-16
                      • 24346

                      #11
                      Originally posted by EGrecu

                      I just want to be able to bet 1 to 2% a game without chasing


                      Chasing is what has always killed me. I win at a high clip especially college football
                      Don’t know what you can do to prevent from chasing other than set your own limit on how to wager per day no matter the outcome on your previous wager.
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                      • Angie100m
                        SBR Hustler
                        • 10-12-25
                        • 53

                        #12
                        Originally posted by EGrecu

                        I just want to be able to bet 1 to 2% a game without chasing


                        Chasing is what has always killed me. I win at a high clip especially college football
                        Maybe don't talk to a shrink, but to a high-level bettor who will charge you $200/hour, just to hear what you post here and give some feedback?

                        It sounds like you have a bright mind but very, very bad habits. You are not satisfied with winning a certain percentage of your bets, no matter how high. This means you will eventually go broke because you'll double your unit size at every opportunity. This is a bad form of addiction. Perhaps talking to a real pro gambler who makes a living betting, and treats it like 'any other job', would steer you in the right direction.

                        It does sound like you need to get off the internet and talk to a real person, someone whose opinion you respect. It doesn't sound like you can make it on your own, if everything I read here is true. Chasing means you feel a need to feel 'a gambling high'.

                        The first step towards fixing a problem is admitting you have a problem.

                        It could be a great time for you to take a week off. Go spend 10% of that 100k on a ski vacation, it could save you a million in the long run.

                        Happy Thanksgiving!
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                        • LorenzoMadera
                          SBR Rookie
                          • 08-24-24
                          • 25

                          #13
                          Originally posted by EGrecu
                          I've hit a couple monster parlays last 5 weeks on bookmaker and have basically won about 130k


                          My issue is I can't stop chasing. I hit a huge slump today and lost like 6 straight. I was gonna lose a lot of my bankroll but ended up hitting a 3 teamer and won it all back


                          I don't know what the **** to do to stop chasing and only bet 1 or 2% a game. I've asked bookmaker to limit my bets to 1000 a game but they said their software doesn't have that capability
                          I had the same problems at first when I started making money from betting. I treated it like a hobby, but once I started approaching it like a full-time job after seeing results—structured everything and became disciplined—the problem went away on its own. But now I’m concerned about something else: where can I get enough betting accounts to keep doing this? Because I’ve been winning, they’ve started limiting me to $5–10. Still, it’s better to deal with this issue than to lose self-control and ruin your life. Try to discipline yourself; discipline is everything. You should depend on it, not on the thrill of gambling.
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                          • 2Sweeet
                            SBR MVP
                            • 08-31-22
                            • 1495

                            #14
                            I think u need to find some friends instead of posting thread after thread on a Gambling Forum with this nonsense.
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                            • ProSportsEdge
                              SBR Sharp
                              • 05-01-25
                              • 260

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Headsterx

                              Then you shouldn’t make this thread and be willing to die by the sword or in this case gambling. Personally, as I stated before, I would walk away because you’ve reached a critical point which I consider the realization that it’s not going to end well.
                              Yeah I get what you’re saying here. Once you hit that point where you can see it’s headed in the wrong direction, that’s usually the sign to step back. No shame in walking away when it’s clearly not going to end well. Sometimes that’s the smartest move you can make.
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                              • AribaAriba
                                SBR MVP
                                • 04-03-09
                                • 2927

                                #16
                                Your balance is 130k but ur down overall. U dnt win long term pal. If u are sure youre a winner i challenge you post all your plays 1 year here. Document it. Addict gamblers are not rationale.
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                                • JAKEPEAVY21
                                  BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                  • 03-11-11
                                  • 29556

                                  #17
                                  If you have no self control, it is just a matter of time until you have a bad day, start chasing and bury yourself.

                                  Force yourself to wave the white flag on days where you lose a certain amount. Feel the pain of the daily loss and let it sink in. Wake up the next day and try again. Do not allow the manic and chasing mindset to set in and get ruined. You are playing the long game here.

                                  Being good at picking winners etc is somewhat irrelevant if you lack self control. Self control is the most important part of gambling, as you are out of the game and on the sidelines if/when you go on a bender and start chasing and incur a massive loss.

                                  I have had issues with this as well over my life and still have a hiccup now and then but for the most part, I know when to walk away and do something else and return the next day or whenever my head a clear again. That is a lot easier said than done however and you have to fight the urge to chase and win back losses. As I said earlier, forcing myself to take losses and move onto the next day/week or whatever was a good exercise for me and helped a lot over time but what works for one might not work for another.
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                                  • ThaWoj
                                    SBR Hall of Famer
                                    • 03-09-10
                                    • 6780

                                    #18
                                    Been there done that...this will not end well
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                                    • ThaWoj
                                      SBR Hall of Famer
                                      • 03-09-10
                                      • 6780

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by LorenzoMadera

                                      I had the same problems at first when I started making money from betting. I treated it like a hobby, but once I started approaching it like a full-time job after seeing results—structured everything and became disciplined—the problem went away on its own. But now I’m concerned about something else: where can I get enough betting accounts to keep doing this? Because I’ve been winning, they’ve started limiting me to $5–10. Still, it’s better to deal with this issue than to lose self-control and ruin your life. Try to discipline yourself; discipline is everything. You should depend on it, not on the thrill of gambling.
                                      You can have all of mine...lifetime loser i get $250 max super boosts on dk and have no limits at any book. Wish I did.
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                                      • Vene1616
                                        SBR MVP
                                        • 09-20-20
                                        • 1064

                                        #20
                                        You should run a marathon. Seriously.
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                                        • lonegambler23
                                          SBR Posting Legend
                                          • 06-22-16
                                          • 10121

                                          #21
                                          well according to some mods here, egrecu FULL OF SHIIIT.
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                                          • lonegambler23
                                            SBR Posting Legend
                                            • 06-22-16
                                            • 10121

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by str
                                            For some reason I keep trying to help you. So one more time.
                                            Stop all betting, empty your balances, and get immediate help from a professional.
                                            You are completely out of control and are working towards ruining your life. You only get one. You should treat it that way.
                                            Next step is your call. And I would say good luck but there is no luck in this at all. You will either make a smart choice or live the rest of your life with a bad choice.
                                            BUT HES good at picking winners he says
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                                            • lonegambler23
                                              SBR Posting Legend
                                              • 06-22-16
                                              • 10121

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by ThaWoj

                                              You can have all of mine...lifetime loser i get $250 max super boosts on dk and have no limits at any book. Wish I did.
                                              wojer!!!! a legend in the sports betting industry
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                                              • JAKEPEAVY21
                                                BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                                • 03-11-11
                                                • 29556

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by lonegambler23

                                                wojer!!!! a legend in the sports betting industry
                                                Hopefully he is able to eat today and did not gamble it all away...
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                                                • lonegambler23
                                                  SBR Posting Legend
                                                  • 06-22-16
                                                  • 10121

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by lonegambler23
                                                  well according to some mods here, egrecu FULL OF SHIIIT.
                                                  oh boy worried about him man. ThaWoj did you save some cashola for today at least buddy?
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                                                  • EGrecu
                                                    SBR Wise Guy
                                                    • 09-15-21
                                                    • 795

                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by lonegambler23

                                                    oh boy worried about him man. ThaWoj did you save some cashola for today at least buddy?

                                                    Im up about 140k now. I pulled out 50k cash


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                                                    • lonegambler23
                                                      SBR Posting Legend
                                                      • 06-22-16
                                                      • 10121

                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by EGrecu


                                                      Im up about 140k now. I pulled out 50k cash


                                                      You should make a pick thread and document all your plays
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                                                      • MOBIL19
                                                        SBR MVP
                                                        • 07-31-20
                                                        • 1026

                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by EGrecu


                                                        Im up about 140k now. I pulled out 50k cash


                                                        Wow! What's your best sport(s)?
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                                                        • lonegambler23
                                                          SBR Posting Legend
                                                          • 06-22-16
                                                          • 10121

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by AribaAriba
                                                          Your balance is 130k but ur down overall. U dnt win long term pal. If u are sure youre a winner i challenge you post all your plays 1 year here. Document it. Addict gamblers are not rationale.
                                                          hes got no stones to do that man. cmon EGrecu brotha!!
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                                                          • EGrecu
                                                            SBR Wise Guy
                                                            • 09-15-21
                                                            • 795

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by MOBIL19

                                                            Wow! What's your best sport(s)?
                                                            College football

                                                            I've always killed college football, although primarily its because I follow a website that I've praised here many times but I've won at 55 to 65% on college football every year last 5 years

                                                            My issue is I win a bunch of money, then hit a little slump and start betting huge amounts and lose it all. I end up losing everything even though I've been picking winners at a great rate forever
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                                                            • Flashmo
                                                              SBR MVP
                                                              • 09-27-09
                                                              • 1024

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by EGrecu

                                                              But i win a lot overall if you just look at my percentage, especially college football
                                                              Then become a Tout and sell your pics
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                                                              • EGrecu
                                                                SBR Wise Guy
                                                                • 09-15-21
                                                                • 795

                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by Flashmo

                                                                Then become a Tout and sell your pics
                                                                Collegefootballnews.com would prolly sue me since I just follow their picks 90% of the time

                                                                Once in a while I go against them but the majority of the 140k I've won has been cfn.com picks
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                                                                • TommieGunshot
                                                                  SBR MVP
                                                                  • 03-27-12
                                                                  • 1612

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by EGrecu

                                                                  I am good at picking winners though
                                                                  A pick is worthless. A bet has value. What's the probability it wins? What's the payout if it does win? Do an online search for a Kelly Criterion calculator and follow that. Repeat until rich. If you have some compulsion or mental health issue that prevents you from doing that, you'll probably have to figure out a way to fix it. The people here are bettors, so we can help you with the betting part; there's a lot of people out there who can help with the other part.
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                                                                  • lonegambler23
                                                                    SBR Posting Legend
                                                                    • 06-22-16
                                                                    • 10121

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by EGrecu

                                                                    College football

                                                                    I've always killed college football, although primarily its because I follow a website that I've praised here many times but I've won at 55 to 65% on college football every year last 5 years

                                                                    My issue is I win a bunch of money, then hit a little slump and start betting huge amounts and lose it all. I end up losing everything even though I've been picking winners at a great rate forever
                                                                    Dude just keep a low balance and behave yourself unit wise.
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                                                                    • Mac4Lyfe
                                                                      SBR Aristocracy
                                                                      • 01-04-09
                                                                      • 48883

                                                                      #35
                                                                      First you say you win a lot. Then you say you’re good at picking. Then you finally say you follow a website. WTH?
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