Do you tell a girl to watch her teeth?

[jellobiafra]

Just curious as to others opinion on this. Part of me says, you should be happy she's doing it. And the girl in question here is a real trooper, don't get me wrong. But the teeth.... it's like sandpaper. It's not really that I'm not enjoying it, but it's just not ever going to do a whole lot for me.

So do I tell her or just let her go on thinking she's great? And if I tell her, how do I go about doing so without hurting her feelings? We're talking about a grown woman here. In my younger days, I would have just taken this for an opportunity to train a raw talent. But this isn't her first rodeo by any stretch.

[Sledge187]

Just curious as to others opinion on this. Part of me says, you should be happy she's doing it. And the girl in question here is a real trooper, don't get me wrong. But the teeth.... it's like sandpaper. It's not really that I'm not enjoying it, but it's just not ever going to do a whole lot for me.

So do I tell her or just let her go on thinking she's great? And if I tell her, how do I go about doing so without hurting her feelings? We're talking about a grown woman here. In my younger days, I would have just taken this for an opportunity to train a raw talent. But this isn't her first rodeo by any stretch.

Once you climax I would tell her to spit your man juice in your mouth. She may look at you crazy but you set a tone that you are down for anything.

[rm18]

I would have the conversation afterwards unless it is ridiculous

[jellobiafra]

Well that's the thing Sledge. I'm not gonna get anywhere near climax with her skinning my cock like this.

[daneblazer]

If she has braces or is snaggletoothed then yeah I do

[jellobiafra]

I would have the conversation afterwards unless it is ridiculous

Hmmm. Good advice I think. And it's not ridiculous. It's just a minor annoyance in an otherwise pleasurable experience. This girl has some issues though, I think. She takes everything the wrong way. One of those insecure types I think. She's definitely hanging out with the wrong guy, but I'm gonna wait for her to figure that out if at all possible.

[pavyracer]

I would ask her to remove the teeth before she starts.

[illmatick]

only problem I ever had was with this one prostitute that was strung out on crack, she started teething on my cock and scraped me up pretty bad, after I saw that blood was drawn I made her get out of my truck and paid her 10 bucks, too bad I didn't use a condom, I was desperate at the time, still havnt got myself tested since the incident

[TheLock]

Women don't mind constructive criticism jello. But you have to be very diplomatic about it.


Try this, next time you go down on her, ask her if there is anything she would like you to do different. She'll love that.

Then next time she almost bites your co*k off, ask her nicely to use less teeth, more lips.


I solve problems. Next?

[dwaechte]

If you like eachother, and you bring it up politely, I'm sure she won't mind. It's best to be open with this stuff if you want a healthy relationship.

[jellobiafra]

Women don't mind constructive criticism jello. But you have to be very diplomatic about it.


Try this, next time you go down on her, ask her if there is anything she would like you to do different. She'll love that.

Then next time she almost bites your co*k off, ask her nicely to use less teeth, more lips.


I solve problems. Next?

This is excellent advice as well, and I normally have no problems with these kind of issues. But this was only the second time we'd been together, and it was the same as the first.... and like I said, she might snap at any true criticism because I have to explain every non-critical remark I make already.

Girls don't seem to ever have a problem telling me to watch my fvcking stubble. My ex-girlfriend used to be a bitch about it. I didn't mind.

[TheLock]

Yeah you're right it is a little bit of a "sore" issue because you two don't know each other very well.

I actually think you're better off discussing it while you're having sex and not over lunch or something. I've given BJ "lessons" to a lot of women because no one ever taught them right just like I've learned a lot from women telling me the right things to do when I go down on them. We're getting into Private Zone territory here.

It's like this, if she can't handle constructive advice, then you need to go out and find a different one who is more mature and can handle it.

[jellobiafra]

It's complicated. She's kind of my boss. Kind of... one of them. I got myself into something here that I wish I hadn't.

[TheLock]

Work stuff ends in a nightmare like 90% of the time.

[Sledge187]

[jellobiafra]

Work stuff ends in a nightmare like 90% of the time.

Did I mention she's married?

[TheLock]

Did I mention she's married?

This ends bad.


Yes -800

No +690

[jellobiafra]

Oh, I don't like that opening line. Especially from a sharp like you.

[manny24]

This ends bad.


Yes -800

No +690

if it's just dome should be no problem, but if you've been going balls deep i'll take some of that -800...been there...done that...several times...always same ending.

[zubzub]

It's just a minor annoyance in an otherwise pleasurable experience. This girl has some issues though, I think. She takes everything the wrong way. One of those insecure types I think. She's definitely hanging out with the wrong guy, but I'm gonna wait for her to figure that out if at all possible.

TheLock is likely right on, this does not end on a positive note, but per the immediate question:

You stay mindful of whats emboldened with your above quote and address this matter after, definitely never during, the act and you do so in as non threatening a manner as possible.

Start off positively....compliment her on what you enjoy about the experience and express how much you do appreciate her doing it then transition to mention that your enjoyment could be increased with less toothage.

Theres a very good chance that this female was with a guy previously who liked some toothage and her technique is based upon this....

You definitely have to tell her what you want, always be honest and forthcoming about this in regards to sexual matters...with your partner, you'll come out better in the longrun if you are.

You must make it a priority to find the mate with whom you are most sexually compatible and not settle. To do so is a recipe for eventual unhappiness and strife.

[keyboarding]

The only good way out of this is to be really, really bad in bed. Don't be rude or violent, just suck at it. Have trouble getting hard, *** too early, make her pity you. She will move on and won't want to embarrass you. Cry, if you can.

[RogueScholar]

I've given BJ "lessons" to a lot of women

So have I! Nothing beats being the teacher and also being the demonstration model, eh? Well, obviously it'd be nice if they just had an instinct for it, but my experience shows that only approximately 10% of women have the dick-sucking instinct. The rest are just doing the best they can to fake it.

I'd love to get together with you sometime and discuss ... pedagogical techniques.

Seriously, Lock, call me.

[acarmelo1]

Just curious as to others opinion on this. Part of me says, you should be happy she's doing it. And the girl in question here is a real trooper, don't get me wrong. But the teeth.... it's like sandpaper. It's not really that I'm not enjoying it, but it's just not ever going to do a whole lot for me.

So do I tell her or just let her go on thinking she's great? And if I tell her, how do I go about doing so without hurting her feelings? We're talking about a grown woman here. In my younger days, I would have just taken this for an opportunity to train a raw talent. But this isn't her first rodeo by any stretch.

You are like seinfield watching every minor detail XD

tell her on the phone while eating a apple.

[yisman]

trouper

[mathdotcom]

"Watch your teeth bitch"

[Bread]

This guy would tell her. In a heartbeat.

[landers781]

Its not her fault her mother never taught her the right way

[geebert74]

I don't see a problem just telling her to ease up a little bit on the teeth... You don't want to be an asshole cuz if you are your aint getting it again for a few months...

[TheLock]

So have I! Nothing beats being the teacher and also being the demonstration model, eh? Well, obviously it'd be nice if they just had an instinct for it, but my experience shows that only approximately 10% of women have the dick-sucking instinct. The rest are just doing the best they can to fake it.

I'd love to get together with you sometime and discuss ... pedagogical techniques.

Seriously, Lock, call me.

You crack me up Rogue.

[keyboarding]

There ain't no teeth down her throat, so that's an option.

[jellobiafra]

"Watch your teeth bitch"

Bread I wish I could pretend like I knew who the fvck that was, but I have no clue. Looks like a mix of Dom Delouise and Ernest Hemingway.