Co-worker dies in car crash on a night I refused to take her to hotel room with me

TPowell · 08-13-09, 09:14 PM

Genny, thats tough pal. Hope things are alright for ya

fsugolf · 08-13-09, 09:14 PM

That's gotta make your skin crawl a little bit

pavyracer · 08-13-09, 09:15 PM

You would probably had suffocated her to death when you rolled over to do it doggy style so she would have died anyway.

Fishhead · 08-13-09, 09:16 PM

WOW

Poker_Beast · 08-13-09, 09:17 PM

Wow, that is horrible. Sorry to hear that.

DacBietViet · 08-13-09, 09:17 PM

not necessary pavy

fsugolf · 08-13-09, 09:17 PM

Originally posted by pavyracer

You would probably had suffocated her to death when you rolled over to do it doggy style so she would have died anyway.

fate works in weird ways

Bread · 08-13-09, 09:18 PM

Originally posted by pavyracer

You would probably had suffocated her to death when you rolled over to do it doggy style so she would have died anyway.

Unreal.

ijustwant2bpaid · 08-13-09, 09:19 PM

wow general, i am sorry thats a tough one, A very good friend of mine also died in a car accident one night on a Monday night football, Raiders-Broncos game, we got a keg and on the way out I wasnt satisfied and had to buy a bottle of blue Milagro tequila, I was basically force feeding him shots all night, long story short, I got hammered left right after the game was over and didnt offer him a ride when I should have... He crashed his z28 in to a highway construction trailor on his way home.. He was fighting with his girl as well and I was like fukk that bitch and she would have picked him up normally also, Its a hard one to swallow for me as well...At his funeral his mom blamed me and my cousin... I am sorry for your loss though and not trying to override your experience at all, just sharing a somewhat similar situation, its not easy and to this day i blame myself a lot for it..

TPowell · 08-13-09, 09:29 PM

wow, tough situations guys

Shortstop · 08-13-09, 09:56 PM

Wow! That's a tough one to cope with. Did you attend counseling for this hardship?

MexicanStallion · 08-13-09, 09:58 PM

Sorry to hear about that General. Thanks for sharing your story. Life is crazy and realy crazy when you have to think about everything that could have been and should have been.

SSLP · 08-13-09, 10:01 PM

Normally I would insult a fuk like pavy but all i can say is that life is journey.

I have seen some friends go and its not easy , you cannot blame yourself for it one thing I learned is that you start dying the day your born.

If your due date is May 28 for example , no matter what or how .

When you gotta go you gotta go.

Nothing any of us can do to change that , no shots in a bar or taking the another route home would have changed it

TPowell · 08-13-09, 10:07 PM

really shows how short life is

topgame85 · 08-13-09, 11:12 PM

A lot of things happen that nothing can explain or rectify fate is real things alwways happen how they do for a reason I believe, you don't have to understand everything all the time and if you do try you are wasting your life... keep it moving one breath at a time until you have none left

Richkas · 08-13-09, 11:28 PM

Originally posted by The General

One night a few years back, I met this girl I worked with in a bar. She was an average looking girl. She was clear about wanting to have a night of sex with me that evening, both of us drunk. We discussed going to spend the night at a hotel next door to the bar. Even after a lot of alcohol, I decided I did not want to sleep with her. That night she left he bar drunk driving and died in a car crash on her way home. Had I went to the room with her that night and hung with her, she is likely alive today. Just a strange event in the life about 10 years ago.

Was she fat?

AMBlai01 · 08-13-09, 11:55 PM

Both of the stories in this thread gave me the chills....I am sorry to hear both of your stories....really sad.