Pretty sure my girlfriend is going to break up with me later tonight

[Booya711]

Mo make a fukkin bet

Forget about her

She is no good

[jjgold]

Mo jerkoffs have a girlfriends

This is a blessing in disguise

[MoMoneyMoVaughn]

It's obvious your priorities are in the wrong place. If she means that much to you instead of going to her with flowers and telling her how you feel you're worrying about betting Stop feeling sorry for yourself and go do what's right....if you're still sitting at your place looking at spreads it's obvious the girl means nothing or you're a fukking idiot.

Well I made those bets last night when I thought things were still good.

Also she is at work so I can't see her until later tonight.

[Booya711]

Well I made those bets last night when I thought things were still good.

Also she is at work so I can't see her until later tonight.

also AA is a waste of fukking time....I was court ordered to attend meetings for a couple months....bunch of jerkoffs wo aren't trying to change. All I needed was the leader to sign my attendance sheet..

[stealthyburrito]

Mo go down to Burger King and do something really romantic while she's working.

Like ordering an angry whopper when you really wanna give her your angry whopper

[Dirty Sanchez]

Well I made those bets last night when I thought things were still good.

Also she is at work so I can't see her until later tonight.

Then you go down to where she works and surprise her....you're making excuses. If you want to be a loser the rest of your life like jj or Seaweed then sit back and have a few shots and let her go

[The Giant]

Mo, if she breaks up with you, are you going to post her nudes?

I'm trying to figure out which way I'm rooting for this.

[jjgold]

Mo do no be a jerkoff post nudes

Be a fukkin man

[DiggityDaggityDo]

Mo, if she breaks up with you, are you going to post her nudes?

I'm trying to figure out which way I'm rooting for this.

Mo do no be a jerkoff post nudes

Be a fukkin man

[lolz_69]

Mo do no be a jerkoff post nudes

Be a fukkin man

[Mac4Lyfe]

Secondly, fukk AA and all of that BS. Can you imagine trying to cope your whole life without ONE drink? No thanks. I guarantee you that it is easier to moderate than to live in the top of that knife for the way of your existence.

I too have had my issues. When I get drunk, I get absolutely hammered. And I mean blackout drunk where I may remember half of my night at best. Now, that is clearly not good and my wife never likes to hear 'I am not really sure what happened last night, dear' after I have been out for the night, so....

I started to drink less. Seriously. I drink less. That's it. These are a few of the things that help:

- When I go out, I do not drink by myself before I leave the house.

- I drive my car more, which forces me to stick to one or two drinks.

- I go out on a full stomach.

- I no longer go out with two or three grand in my pocket (yes, this was very typical) and I leave all of my high limit cards at home. This keeps me from turning into the idiot in the bar that is bombed and buying everyone drinks.

- I have a real plan to get home.

- I try (note, try) to stay away from hard stuff while I am out. I have been drinking double Black Russians and Drambuie for years, so this is not easy.

I would rather do these things than do 'ten steps' and be a donkey for the rest of my life. I cannot imagine the pressure every day and I would fall off the wagon....then I would feel like a loser in life instead of a winner. That could be very damaging psychologically.

This has to be some of the worst advice I've ever seen. You can't handle your liquor and you are trying instruct another alcholic how to handle his drink? If you and he could drink just 1 drink there wouldn't be a problem but neither of you can handle your drink. Alcohol is just like any other addiction. If you can't handle your gambling then you need to stop gambling cold turkey, you can't just keep bleeding money, somehow thinking it's going to get better or just embrace your addiction slowly.

[MoMoneyMoVaughn]

Then you go down to where she works and surprise her....you're making excuses. If you want to be a loser the rest of your life like jj or Seaweed then sit back and have a few shots and let her go

Can't really do that because of where she works

I have a plan tho

[stealthyburrito]

Can't really do that because of where she works

I have a plan tho

Anyone can go to Burger King Morris stop being ridiculous

[Booya711]

Then you go down to where she works and surprise her....you're making excuses. If you want to be a loser the rest of your life like jj or Seaweed then sit back and have a few shots and let her go

If he does that...he has to pay what $20 -$25 a song for her full attention sanchez

[brooks85]

Mo is in a bad spot. Not sure I can come back from this one. I fuccked up really bad on Thursday night. Not really sure what to do.

I think I have an alcohol problem and I need to go to AA but what remains a fuccking priority is convincing her that I am worth giving one more chance. I can start figuring my life out after. Without her I don't really see a reason to get my life together and will probably keep drinking myself stupid.

I'm not a very serious guy on here most of the time but I've never been at such a loss as to what to do or say.

What the fuuck do I do?

I don't blame her. You're a coward and a pos by all accounts of your post history especially detailed in that 9/11 thread. That spoke volumes about who you are and what your character is made of. You should really take some time now that you're close to rock bottom to look at that and yourself. At least you're young, in that same thread you see rkelly... that is what you will turn into if you don't change

you're the bitchy flying guy who would run out on his girl in a moment of danger. I have no doubt this is a huge factor into her leaving you, you're not a man. And certainly not one if you can't stop drinking alcohol. Get a hobby, put your brain to work on something besides being a loser.

[USCPHILLYGUY]

Mo you seem like a nice guy here but jesus Christ man, stop being so fukin selfish and let the girl find a good guy...you're not right with yourself man...........no normal woman will put up with your horseshit....get yourself right and everything else will fall into place

[Dollars2Donuts]

This has to be some of the worst advice I've ever seen. You can't handle your liquor and you are trying instruct another alcholic how to handle his drink? If you and he could drink just 1 drink there wouldn't be a problem but neither of you can handle your drink. Alcohol is just like any other addiction. If you can't handle your gambling then you need to stop gambling cold turkey, you can't just keep bleeding money, somehow thinking it's going to get better or just embrace your addiction slowly.

You clearly don't have a clue. I can certainly have one drink, or two, or none for that matter.

An alcoholic is not easily defined. Is it one that cannot stop at one drink? Is it one that needs a drink every day? Is it one that gets pissed completely, once per week?

AA is an absolute must for some people, admittedly. From what I know of Mo, I am not sure that he is one of those people.

You are one of the 'cold turkey' club. That's fine. I won't judge....but I will tell you that you can have an issue with something in your life and STILL FIND MODERATION with some work.

Cheers

[MoMoneyMoVaughn]

I don't blame her. You're a coward and a pos by all accounts of your post history especially detailed in that 9/11 thread. That spoke volumes about who you are and what your character is made of. You should really take some time now that you're close to rock bottom to look at that and yourself. At least you're young, in that same thread you see rkelly... that is what you will turn into if you don't change

you're the bitchy flying guy who would run out on his girl in a moment of danger. I have no doubt this is a huge factor into her leaving you, you're not a man. And certainly not one if you can't stop drinking alcohol. Get a hobby, put your brain to work on something besides being a loser.

Brooks you are such a dumb hick lol.

[MoMoneyMoVaughn]

Mo you seem like a nice guy here but jesus Christ man, stop being so fukin selfish and let the girl find a good guy...you're not right with yourself man...........no normal woman will put up with your horseshit....get yourself right and everything else will fall into place

I think I am a good guy. I am not the man I once was. Things are good 98% of the time and then I have my lapses in judgement. I know she loves me I just think she's sick of my weekly apology and "I'll never do it again" speech.

[The Giant]

Mo, do you ever cut yourself to alleviate the pain?

[brooks85]

Brooks you are such a dumb hick lol.

I'm from a city with over a million people in area, stop the desperation and understand what I said is 100% true about you. I don't really care if you don't listen, you can be another drunk statistic who wastes his brain. At least you'll be a consumer, still helps me.

[MoMoneyMoVaughn]

This has to be some of the worst advice I've ever seen. You can't handle your liquor and you are trying instruct another alcholic how to handle his drink? If you and he could drink just 1 drink there wouldn't be a problem but neither of you can handle your drink. Alcohol is just like any other addiction. If you can't handle your gambling then you need to stop gambling cold turkey, you can't just keep bleeding money, somehow thinking it's going to get better or just embrace your addiction slowly.

The problem is not handling my liquor. No one else has a problem with my drinking because I am fun to be around. It's only her who sees me as someone who can be so much more and who really knows me.

I don't know if AA or going cold turkey is the answer. I just need to not be such a dickhead when I drink. I say and do things I would never have otherwise.

[Dirty Sanchez]

If he does that...he has to pay what $20 -$25 a song for her full attention sanchez

Why sacrifice a couple cases of beer for a woman....get drunk and make a pick

[CWD]

I didn't cheat or anything like that.

I just showed up to her place drunk and it ended with her crying in the bathroom for a half hour and she's been distant ever since

thats tuesday night over here

you all good

[stealthyburrito]

Mo, do you ever cut yourself to alleviate the pain?

Giant, do you go down the road or across the street?

Are you a results man or seeking attention with your cutting episodes?

[KVB]

...I have good relationships with pretty much everyone in my life. it's just the substances.

This thread is about the deterioration of a relationship...don't deny it.

...I say and do things I would never have otherwise.

Once again a deteriorating situation. This will only get worse and you will really have a regret someday.

Mo, you're heading one direction, face up to it and chill the fuk out. Don't spiral downward.

Take care brother.

[Mase of Base]

I like D2Ds post but I'm not sure that will fly as it seems you've used your last strike. Saying I won't drink so much might not work in this case you gotta earn that trust back, it might be a dry till christmas or something that might work? I don't know much about much though so doing the opposite is probably the right call.

[The Giant]

Giant, do you go down the road or across the street?

Are you a results man or seeking attention with your cutting episodes?

Neither.

I'm not really a fan of blood.

I've known a few young girls over the years that have been cutters. Mostly young girls with daddy issues, that are willing to do anything to please a man, even those deplorable, unmentionable things. You know what I'm talking about, stealthy.

[DiggityDaggityDo]

Mo?

[ChuckyTheGoat]

Mo, rule around here is that u don't apologize for a thing. Have a nice day.

[ChuckyTheGoat]

Without her I don't really see a reason to get my life together and will probably keep drinking myself stupid.

Cmon, Mo, you're better than that.

[MoMoneyMoVaughn]

I was successful.

We are good.

Had to fight though.

[stealthyburrito]

Well done Mo.

You know this will happen again, right?

Dont Fukk this up. Remember you're trash and she's your everything.

[Smoke]

Stop

[unde0087]

If she's a normal woman who has a decent life, she's never going to want you if all you are doing is living for her. Women want men who can stand on their own and be successful....not have to be babysat and taken care of.
Priority number 1....fix yourself. After that, let the chips fall on their own. Whatever's meant to be will happen.

if you don't fix yourself, your situation will always be broken.

Mo, this right here is the best and most real advice you are going to get in this thread. End of thread