Need some advise...

konck · 03-04-09, 11:02 AM

Get a new girlfriend that looks like a dog and pays the rent.....then blow the 2500 on March Madness

themajormt · 03-04-09, 11:03 AM

Hahaha... I am 26 pal, I only date 7-9's... fukk 6's and 10's....

wtf · 03-04-09, 11:11 AM

u went to grad school and u need ADVICE

sickler · 03-04-09, 11:13 AM

I had the reverse happen with a dog.

Eighteen years ago gave girlfriend a gift (puppy). Less than a year later, she decided to move on and there was no room in her life for me or the puppy. I kept puppy until he died 14 yrs later. Was a lil yapper (Lhasapoo) . Not my choice for breed, but it was bought with her in mind. It's a chick dog..

Justin7 · 03-04-09, 11:14 AM

If she'll give it more attention, give her the dog.

themajormt · 03-04-09, 11:31 AM

Originally posted by wtf

u went to grad school and u need ADVICE

I saw that after I posted and was like "I wonder what cock is going to bust my balls on that"

sickler · 03-04-09, 11:32 AM

Major, it depends how attached you are to the dog. For many people, their pet is priceless. Impossible to attach a dollar figure to it.

themajormt · 03-04-09, 11:33 AM

Thats what I am thinking Justin... We didn't buy it together, but shortly after her and I started dating so she has been around her since day 1 basically. Was just thinking out loud if I could handle BOTH of them not being there anymore ya know?

Fiasco · 03-04-09, 11:33 AM

sell it to her for 2800

BestPlay2day · 03-04-09, 11:37 AM

If you're not that attached to the dog, just give her the dog if you know she will take good care of him/her. Taking money from her for the dog is pretty low. If you are attached to the dog, then it will get interesting.

godsfavoritedog · 03-04-09, 11:39 AM

My ex-gf got me a german shepard as a birthday present once and then broke up with me about a year later (we'd been dating for 4 years). She kept the dog. It was depressing as Hell but I made it through. You will too. If you're anything like me, you'll probably have a hard time figuring out which one you miss more.

themajormt · 03-04-09, 11:40 AM

I agree sick... The money is NOT the main reason I am considering it. I am probably 70% thinking about well being of the dog/myself and then 30% is the money. I am definitely attached to her but I am the kind of guy that does not dwell on things and can eventually get over it. I have just had the same 2 things in my life for the last 3 years and the thought of all of a sudden losing both of them is scary but also could be a good thing. I wouldnt have to worry about having someone watch her or stopping home to let her out and shit...

wtf · 03-04-09, 11:41 AM

Originally posted by themajormt

I saw that after I posted and was like "I wonder what cock is going to bust my balls on that"

would not have said anything if you did not announce to the planet you attended grad school

themajormt · 03-04-09, 11:43 AM

I didnt "attend" jerky nuts, if you re-read I said "go to"... I wasn't stroking my own dick by saying it, I was explaining the lack of time and why I was considering it...

G's pks · 03-04-09, 11:47 AM

the dog hopefully will last longer than the 2500...I say keep the dog....

AMBlai01 · 03-04-09, 11:56 AM

THemajor...sorry to hear about the breakup, sounds like you have a tough decision to make there. I know me personally, I want a dog so bad right now but living alone it just wouldn't be fair to the dog because I wouldn't have enough time to spend with it. That is the biggest reason why I haven't gotten one yet. Of course it really comes down to how attached to the dog you really are. It sounds like she is much more attached and could give it a better home, I would say it really sucks but let her have the dog. I am sure it will take a lot of adjusting but I am sure you'll be okay.

When you life calms down a bit and you have more time to be around, you can always get another dog (I know its not the same) and give the dog the attention that it deserves.

themajormt · 03-04-09, 12:04 PM

Hey Amby! Thats a good point man and pretty much what I was thinking... She will have a roommate which will be home and she works less hours and doesnt go to school at night... I love the dog and she always makes me happy and shit when I get home but I dont want her to suffer because I am selfish and want her to myself.

AMBlai01 · 03-04-09, 12:07 PM

Originally posted by themajormt

Hey Amby! Thats a good point man and pretty much what I was thinking... She will have a roommate which will be home and she works less hours and doesnt go to school at night... I love the dog and she always makes me happy and shit when I get home but I dont want her to suffer because I am selfish and want her to myself.

As long as the breakup is amicable maybe eventually she will even let you see the dog from time to time. I am sure that you won't be able to do that right away because it would be pretty tough but you never know...I am pretty good friends with a couple of my exes, so it does happen.

Bread · 03-04-09, 12:09 PM

major, give her the doggy.

that way when you go over for some hot ex-sex, you'll get to say hi to your old pussy AND puppy! YAY!

themajormt · 03-04-09, 12:13 PM

Old pussy is always fun but theres nothin better than NEW pussy Bready boy!!

I think I am going to give her up Amby, I am trying to make it as amicable as possible... I shot down this hot district attorney last night ONLY because I didnt want to hurt her more than I did by breaking up with her. Growing up is rough man!! 2 years ago I wouldnt be half of the pussy I am being right now...

Bread · 03-04-09, 12:16 PM

I hate Arizona. We need to party with this guy Amby. Sounds like a complete stud. I want to benefit from his trickle down effect!

themajormt · 03-04-09, 12:21 PM

Is that where you live Bread? Make the trip East sometime! I will have the bachelor pad rockin come March 28th!!!

But no doggy

Bread · 03-04-09, 12:24 PM

No I hate AZ because they messed up our Syracuse trip!!

I'm in Tampa area.

March 28th I'll be there! uhhhhhhhhh....

AMBlai01 · 03-04-09, 12:34 PM

Well Bread TheMajor and I can party whenever....we are only 2 hours away from each other...You are the one that has to get your ass up here.

Major, You still planning on Syracuse the weekend of the 14th? I think that I am supposed to make a trip out to Buffalo sometime soon..but that planning is still in the early stages.

themajormt · 03-04-09, 01:36 PM

I was planning Amby... I am going to have to do some MAJOR budgeting and revamping of the finances now that she is moving out. I also had her to fall back on if I was a little short on the mortgage or something ya know? I think I am going to have to drop the Cuse trip, and also sell my Dave Matthews tickets for Vegas in May, which I am reallllyyyyy pissed about!

themajormt · 03-04-09, 01:58 PM

Bread have you ever been to a swingers party?? The ex and I went to the green door in vegas a couple years ago... It was interesting to say the least

AMBlai01 · 03-04-09, 02:08 PM

What about having a friend of yours move in or something to help out with the mortgage? Any decent guys that you wouldn't mind living with for a while?

seaborneq · 03-04-09, 02:10 PM

Free the dog. Give it to the person with time and kindness to care for it. I am not saying don't take the money, but the dog needs to go with the girl. Plus when some other guy is jumping up and down on your ex the dog won't remember you anyway.

Bread · 03-04-09, 05:49 PM

Originally posted by themajormt

Bread have you ever been to a swingers party?? The ex and I went to the green door in vegas a couple years ago... It was interesting to say the least

Maybe this is the reason she's breaking up with you? Just a thought.

I wanna party with major and Amby in the snow!!

unde0087 · 03-04-09, 05:59 PM

Originally posted by themajormt

So I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years, shes moving out end of the month. I work full time and go to grad school at night. She offered me $2,500 for my dog that she is absolutely in love with because she knows I am not home that much and the dog would suffer... It would definitely help with the mortgage so I am strongly considering it.

Anyone ever lose their gf/wife AND their dog at the same time?? Am I going to be a depressed fukk or you think I can handle this??

Thanks!

major, I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years as well while going to school. It was tough but between going to school and playing golf I was okay because I was so busy with homework and traveling that I didn't have a whole lot of time to think about the situation. I also agree that if you don't have time to spend with your dog that you should sell the dog to your ex. It sounds like you really care for the dog but I think you also know the dog will have a better life, at least for now, with your ex just on the fact that you are so busy. Anyways good luck to you and your decision.

RageWizard · 03-04-09, 05:59 PM

This has no bearing.

Give up the dog and visit during the dry times if you have any of those. Or perhaps you would like to just do her again, either way you get to see old Scruffy.

themajormt · 03-05-09, 09:29 AM

Originally posted by AMBlai01

What about having a friend of yours move in or something to help out with the mortgage? Any decent guys that you wouldn't mind living with for a while?

I had roommates since freshman year of college and FINALLY just got rid of my friend 2 months ago. I can honestly say I will eat pasta every day of the week if that meant not having to go back to having a roommate. Unless I found someone who had a similar schedule as mine... My last roommate got out of work at 430, was drunk by 730, was smokin bongs and blowin lines by 1030, and was destroying the kitchen by 130... Shit sucked!!

themajormt · 03-05-09, 09:31 AM

Thanks for all the advice guys... It has definitely helped hearing it from unbiased people...

smarmy · 03-05-09, 10:10 AM

I have a question. If you broke up with her or she with you, why is she still living there until the end of the month? Are you still banging her? Would she freak if you brought a chick home? I mean you're broke up, right? Or is she one of those freaks who want you to bring home chicks and your not and that's why she's leaving? OK, I had some questions.