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A guy with the name Duche, knows about bullying.
Good for him.
Although, I am an advocate for not riding the public schools of bullying completely. It builds character in weak children.Comment -
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Hockey players are pretty good athletes but not like other sports like NFL qb'sComment -
Good find!
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I love this story Darrell....I'm such a sap with these things, eyes were watery at the end - must be the allergies.Comment -
i got bullied in school my whole life. nobody ever gave me a signed bruins jersey. what the fukk.Comment -
bullying sucks. you cant win. i got bullied, then one day when i finally got sick of being degraded and fought the bully, and the school suspends me for fighting. what the fukk. when i complained to the teacher about the bullying in 3rd and 4th grade, the teachers literally told me to not be a tattle tale (snitch) and to be a man and deal with it. ok, so i did. i stood up for myself and fought the bully. then i get suspended. what the fukk.Comment -
it does not build character. it builds severe depression in young teens and causes suicides and school shootings.
i don't know how you can advocate that harrassment/assault/battery, and causing depression in young teens, suicide, and school shootings is a healthy thing. If you had a kid, and your kid killed himself because he was depressed about being bullied in school, would you still feel that the bullying is a good thing? would you not care that your kid killed herself or himself? Would you continue to advocate bullying? what kind of father are you? do you not care about your kids? you want some punk to beat your kids up every day for no reason? would you want your daughter to be raped as well? That would "toughen her up" if she was weak too. Would you want that as well?
bullying is serious problem. it is NOT a good thing. It does not build character. it builds depression and low self esteem in kids. i dont want any kid to be depressed or kill themself because some bully punk harasses them.
Bullying is NOT ok. bullies are punks. How about building character in the bullies to make them stop harassing and beating up innocent kids every day? School should be a safe place where kids can go to learn. Kids should be able to get an education without getting harassed, degraded, beaten up, etc.
people shouldn't need to pick on others to feel confident. if you're such a hotshot, why do you need to degrade others to gain confidence? bullying actually shows weakness in the bully. if you are confident person, you wouldn't need to bully people to make yourself feel confident and raise your self esteem. you would have confidence on your own and wouldn't need to pick on people to feel good about yourself. truth is... the bullies are the weak ones, not the victims.Comment -
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I don't understand the bully dilemma. Everyone is bullied, throw some fists at the fukk and it goes away regardless if you get thumped or not.Comment -
Deuce is right
Many let bullies get away with it
Partly person and parents faultyComment -
JJ, were you bullied a lot?
JJ, did the hockey team push you around the ice and use your bald horseshoe head to zamboni the ice?
JJ, did they shoot figs at you?Comment -
check this out lol. a bully gets what he deserves. The fat kid said in an interview that he got bullied everyday and almost comitted suicide. I'm glad he didn't and that he instead fought back and taught the bully a lesson. Not all kids can do this though. If it's a big kid bullying a small kid, the small kid is powerless. he can't fight back because he will just get his ass whooped lol. especially if its like 5 people bullying him and the victim has no friends. then its a small kid taking on bigger kids 1-on-5 (impossible). fortunately the bullying victim here was the big kid, and he had strength to take on the smaller bully.
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I got bullied a lot a d why i am scarred and angry today
In gym class when I was a 9th grader guys use to pull my shorts off and I was nude and everyone on class woulda laugh
They would throw my shorts behind bleachers so I could not get
Teachers shielded me from the kids and through blankets on me
Also after school kids use to whip me with milk weedsComment -
Thanks Swinger
Now that I am older most people back off meComment -
Deuce this thread was an attack on me
I am not dumb
Your on my blackboardComment -
As a rational adult it's easy to see this is the logical solution but this way of thinking is not disseminated to most children.
Liberal parents or a father not taking enough responsibility and leaving this is the hands of the mother will persuade children to avoid conflict, not respond with violence and just ignore them. This is a dangerous way of thinking to program into a child, passiveness is not a favorable quality in todays society.
Schools create hands off policy's that seek to prevent violence and that is the only time an authority figure will step in, to prevent violent conflict. But they turn a blind eye to bullying, in fact a policy like this enables it. It makes the victim passive and discourages them from fighting back.
If you have impulse control you will resit responding with violence even when you should because of the way you've been programmed to think, then comes depression and self esteem issues. It's easier to just become detached.
It's a huge wall to break down to go against your parents and other authority which you trusted in that state of mind. And you know what's waiting for you when you break through that wall? Disappointed parents and expulsion.Comment -
great story, thanks for sharingComment
