Is getting soul-crushed a real thing?

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  • PlayzDont
    SBR High Roller
    • 01-19-21
    • 112

    #1
    Is getting soul-crushed a real thing?
    Took me 4 days to get back to normal. Not a conspiracy theory but a relatable concept that occurs after gambling losses. Thoughts?
  • JayLA
    SBR Hall of Famer
    • 09-11-12
    • 7806

    #2
    Absolutely. At least i feel like a shitty person after huge losses. I replay how I I could have used that money for my family. In many ways it is selfish. But that's my problem for raising my bets to that point. I try to take breaks from coming here. Take breaks from sports and spend long stretches of my income on things that i benefit my family.

    But i come back to well all the time.
    Good luck bro
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    • mjsuax13
      Moderator
      • 03-14-15
      • 25158

      #3
      All the time around here. Check out some of these threads down 100’s of units.
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      • Hman
        SBR Posting Legend
        • 11-04-17
        • 21429

        #4
        Have to accept there will be losing streaks and enjoy the winning-runs
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        • PlayzDont
          SBR High Roller
          • 01-19-21
          • 112

          #5
          Originally posted by JayLA
          Absolutely. At least i feel like a shitty person after huge losses. I replay how I I could have used that money for my family. In many ways it is selfish. But that's my problem for raising my bets to that point. I try to take breaks from coming here. Take breaks from sports and spend long stretches of my income on things that i benefit my family.

          But i come back to well all the time.
          Good luck bro
          Honestly what works for me is not watching the games I bet on. I still lose some but I don't have to be tortured with every possession. Also play money is about 20% of what real money gaming is so that helps too. Gl today guys tread lightly!
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          • mjsuax13
            Moderator
            • 03-14-15
            • 25158

            #6
            Originally posted by PlayzDont
            Honestly what works for me is not watching the games I bet on. I still lose some but I don't have to be tortured with every possession. Also play money is about 20% of what real money gaming is so that helps too. Gl today guys tread lightly!
            I have not watched a game I bet on in years start to finish, unless I watch it in person at the arena/stadium, etc... no need to put yourself through that. Bet the numbers and move on.
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            • DrunkHorseplayer
              SBR Hall of Famer
              • 05-15-10
              • 7719

              #7
              Agree with not watching the games. Winning or losing, good streak or bad, it's much easier just getting a score every half hour or so.
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              • mjsuax13
                Moderator
                • 03-14-15
                • 25158

                #8
                Originally posted by DrunkHorseplayer
                Agree with not watching the games. Winning or losing, good streak or bad, it's much easier just getting a score every half hour or so.
                Yes! No need to torture yourself or increase your blood pressure over stupidity. Cable news is available for that!
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                • jjgold
                  SBR Aristocracy
                  • 07-20-05
                  • 388179

                  #9
                  Anyone with mood swings as far as Gambling is a compulsive gambler and needs help


                  It means you’re betting above your means
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                  • pavyracer
                    SBR Aristocracy
                    • 04-12-07
                    • 82840

                    #10
                    If this was true then thomorino would be soul crushed 24/7 for 365 days a year.
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                    • Roger T. Bannon
                      SBR Hall of Famer
                      • 06-28-18
                      • 5139

                      #11
                      Yes. For example, some have never recovered from Trump losing.
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                      • Roger T. Bannon
                        SBR Hall of Famer
                        • 06-28-18
                        • 5139

                        #12
                        Soul crushing happens when you realize that everything you believed was wrong. You are not a winner. You are a loser. Women do not find you attractive. You will never succeed in life. etc. etc.
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                        • JayLA
                          SBR Hall of Famer
                          • 09-11-12
                          • 7806

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Roger T. Bannon
                          Soul crushing happens when you realize that everything you believed was wrong. You are not a winner. You are a loser. Women do not find you attractive. You will never succeed in life. etc. etc.
                          I wouldn't go that far. That sounds like manic depression.

                          We need to remember we take risks that others don't. That's it. Other people lose at Herbalife or a failed business idea....we lose on the bounce of a ball. We just need to get over it and either quit or relaod
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                          • Roger T. Bannon
                            SBR Hall of Famer
                            • 06-28-18
                            • 5139

                            #14
                            Originally posted by JayLA
                            I wouldn't go that far. That sounds like manic depression.

                            We need to remember we take risks that others don't. That's it. Other people lose at Herbalife, we lose on the bounce of a ball. We just need to get over it and either quit or relaod
                            Every gambler believes they are a genius. Finding out otherwise is soul crushing. Usually you just ignore it and double down and hope for the best.
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                            • PlayzDont
                              SBR High Roller
                              • 01-19-21
                              • 112

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Roger T. Bannon
                              Yes. For example, some have never recovered from Trump losing.
                              I don't understand pro-trumpers including some ppl in my own family. Might as well hang a swastika on your mf front door. I respect everyone but we got Biden for 8 yrs sry donaldo
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                              • Roger T. Bannon
                                SBR Hall of Famer
                                • 06-28-18
                                • 5139

                                #16
                                Originally posted by PlayzDont
                                I don't understand pro-trumpers including some ppl in my own family. Might as well hang a swastika on your mf front door. I respect everyone but we got Biden for 8 yrs sry donaldo
                                It is hard because you finally found someone that thought and acted like yourself and they won. It made you a winner in life. And then the soul crushing loss.

                                Unfortunately, Uncle Joe is no better. Just a more acceptable version. He does not say it out loud.
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                                • mjsuax13
                                  Moderator
                                  • 03-14-15
                                  • 25158

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by jjgold
                                  Anyone with mood swings as far as Gambling is a compulsive gambler and needs help


                                  It means you’re betting above your means
                                  Totally agree. If you are having a panic attack over a bet you probably can’t afford to bet.
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                                  • mjsuax13
                                    Moderator
                                    • 03-14-15
                                    • 25158

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by Roger T. Bannon
                                    Yes. For example, some have never recovered from Trump losing.
                                    Wait, what? He’s not getting reinstated in August?
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                                    • PlayzDont
                                      SBR High Roller
                                      • 01-19-21
                                      • 112

                                      #19
                                      Obama '24
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                                      • pavyracer
                                        SBR Aristocracy
                                        • 04-12-07
                                        • 82840

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by mjsuax13
                                        Wait, what? He’s not getting reinstated in August?
                                        Maybe he can run for president of the inmates at the federal prison.
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                                        • Otters27
                                          BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                          • 07-14-07
                                          • 30760

                                          #21
                                          My soul has been chrushed many times. It's doesn't even phase me anymore
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                                          • RudyRuetigger
                                            SBR Aristocracy
                                            • 08-24-10
                                            • 65084

                                            #22
                                            if gambling causes this reaction.....


                                            gambling is the fukkin worst thing you can do


                                            you are trying to run away from real problems in your life by gambling



                                            time to face reality
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                                            • KVB
                                              SBR Aristocracy
                                              • 05-29-14
                                              • 74817

                                              #23
                                              lmao

                                              Common guys.

                                              Are you gambling men? Or gambling boys? Manage your bets, emotions, and monies.

                                              Get a fukkin hold of yourselves, pick yourself up, and do better.

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                                              • Allure
                                                SBR Hall of Famer
                                                • 08-18-10
                                                • 7606

                                                #24
                                                Just air bet like the vast majority

                                                That way there is no depression after losing
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                                                • RudyRuetigger
                                                  SBR Aristocracy
                                                  • 08-24-10
                                                  • 65084

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by Allure
                                                  Just air bet like the vast majority

                                                  That way there is no depression after losing
                                                  wheres your last posted play?


                                                  hows your thread doing



                                                  THANKS
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                                                  • KVB
                                                    SBR Aristocracy
                                                    • 05-29-14
                                                    • 74817

                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by RudyRuetigger
                                                    wheres your last posted play?


                                                    hows your thread doing



                                                    THANKS
                                                    Allure is a solid capper Rudy.

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                                                    • RudyRuetigger
                                                      SBR Aristocracy
                                                      • 08-24-10
                                                      • 65084

                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by KVB
                                                      Allure is a solid capper Rudy.

                                                      I bumped his thread bro



                                                      ill be watching
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                                                      • lonegambler23
                                                        SBR Hall of Famer
                                                        • 06-22-16
                                                        • 9760

                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by PlayzDont
                                                        Honestly what works for me is not watching the games I bet on. I still lose some but I don't have to be tortured with every possession. Also play money is about 20% of what real money gaming is so that helps too. Gl today guys tread lightly!
                                                        i never watch any of m,y games i just flashscore everything, if its bball totals i check about every 5 min, tennis same thing
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                                                        • lonegambler23
                                                          SBR Hall of Famer
                                                          • 06-22-16
                                                          • 9760

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by PlayzDont
                                                          I don't understand pro-trumpers including some ppl in my own family. Might as well hang a swastika on your mf front door. I respect everyone but we got Biden for 8 yrs sry donaldo
                                                          lmao this guy probably doesent work. keep collecting man.
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                                                          • KVB
                                                            SBR Aristocracy
                                                            • 05-29-14
                                                            • 74817

                                                            #30
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                                                            • KVB
                                                              SBR Aristocracy
                                                              • 05-29-14
                                                              • 74817

                                                              #31
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                                                              • Foxx
                                                                SBR Hall of Famer
                                                                • 05-25-11
                                                                • 5832

                                                                #32
                                                                Getting your soul crushed sucks. The worst part is even if you pick up the pieces and put it back together, a little part is always missing and you will never have a whole soul again. There will always be a void that can never be filled. Live goes on though.
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                                                                • KVB
                                                                  SBR Aristocracy
                                                                  • 05-29-14
                                                                  • 74817

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Nonsense Foxx, the mind and soul are remarkable and will bounce back even stronger than before, if you let it.

                                                                  What doesn't kill you, but only crushes you, will make you stonger, if you let it.

                                                                  If you let it.

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