Bad news

**mncosoldier** · 02-17-18, 06:45 PM

Originally posted by HurryUpAndDrink

Drinking since last nite... finishing a bottle of scotch atm.

Dad has terminal lung cancer. News came yesterday.

Family ia wrecked.

Any advice regarding alt medicine if chems dont work out...?

Im a mess sorry. Lifes fukked.

apricot kernels (B17)

**gauchojake** · 02-17-18, 06:47 PM

Sorry to hear that bud. Don't accidentally kill yourself with drugs and booze.

**The Giant** · 02-17-18, 07:18 PM

Really sorry to hear about this, man.

I'll keep you both in my thoughts.

**MoneyLineDawg** · 02-17-18, 07:50 PM

Horrible news but you never know...hopefully 2nd opinion gives him a fighter’s chance

I know you don’t wanna hear it now but we all die one day and if this is close to the end for him atleast you got to live your better days with your dad still here..cherish the rest of the time

Stay strong for the the rest of your family and good luck with the other opinions

**JIBBBY** · 02-17-18, 08:32 PM

Drinkers die of liver cancer and smokers die of lung cancer.. Is what it is.. Welcome to vices in life as there is always a price to pay if you have them..

**#deleteuber** · 02-17-18, 08:44 PM

Originally posted by JIBBBY

Damn cigarettes!!! The tobacco companies should stop making them.. They should be banned for sale period in the States.. Cancer sticks, so many people die from them. It also doesn't matter if you quit or not either later on in life.. The damage is done..

Cigarette companies should be ashamed of themselves for creating and marketing a product that is proven to kill people.. Focking cancer sticks I hate them, I hate smelling the second hand smoke as well, can't stand kissing a girl that smokes.. I won't date a smoker.. I hate getting in cars that smokers have been in, you can smell it.. Etc.....

not how it works, people die of lung cancer not having smoked a single cigarette, chewed tobacco or been to a casino once in their lives

**bonusguy** · 02-17-18, 08:44 PM

sorry to hear that hurry

but get some sleep to handle it

**BadNina** · 02-17-18, 09:16 PM

Actually, recently, I did read something weird that honestly I cannot see any harm in trying.

Puree asparagus into juice. 3 tablespoons 2 times a day. It was based on an article talking about asparagus naturally removes toxins from the body (which is why your pee stinks after you eat some).

I am so sorry, Drink, and prayers for your dad, you, and your family.

**JIBBBY** · 02-17-18, 09:20 PM

Originally posted by #deleteuber

not how it works, people die of lung cancer not having smoked a single cigarette, chewed tobacco or been to a casino once in their lives

Either way you wanna spin it Tobacco smoke or tobacco chew kills...

**phinfan27615** · 02-17-18, 09:21 PM

sorry man thoughts and prayers

**KVB** · 02-17-18, 09:52 PM

Thoughts and prayers are with you Hurry.

**HurryUpAndDrink** · 02-18-18, 01:46 AM

Thanks guys, I wish you all the best!

Just cane home after drinks and food!

Hope ill feel better 2morrow

**Shute** · 02-18-18, 01:49 AM

Prayers

**shari91** · 02-18-18, 02:50 AM

So sad to hear this. I'm sending every positive vibe I have to you and your family. I went through the same thing with a parent so if you ever need to chat just send me a PM

**nyplayer33** · 02-18-18, 02:53 AM

Unfort..we all will likely come down with something. Reality it is...do search for alt meds lung cancer.

**Pinoy-T-X** · 02-18-18, 03:03 AM

So sorry to hear the news brotha, spend as much time with your dad, and ask him what’s in his bucket list that he wants to do. My thoughts and prayers to you and your fam.

**kidcudi92** · 02-18-18, 03:15 AM

we may have our differences

but good luck with everything my friend

been there done that and it is not easy at all

prayers for your family

**matt711** · 02-18-18, 04:21 AM

God bless you and your family

**BOA12** · 02-18-18, 04:46 AM

You know who your friends are when you are in trouble or sad events in life. You have a lot friends here and sometimes a false sense of reality is a great bandage.

**HurryUpAndDrink** · 02-18-18, 09:07 AM

Originally posted by shari91

So sad to hear this. I'm sending every positive vibe I have to you and your family. I went through the same thing with a parent so if you ever need to chat just send me a PM

Thank you Shari. My relationship with my dad was always hot n cold. He was my hero when I was a kid and somehow we went sour when I was a teen and it has been hard to get along.

We even fought once... told him to fukk himself twice... all those things seem meaningless now but hurts me to know I have not been a good son.

I wanna try and make up for all the shit. I am terrified of losing him tbh.

**HurryUpAndDrink** · 02-18-18, 09:08 AM

Originally posted by Pinoy-T-X

So sorry to hear the news brotha, spend as much time with your dad, and ask him what’s in his bucket list that he wants to do. My thoughts and prayers to you and your fam.

Thank you man will do... is all about him now. My shit can wait years i dont care.

**HurryUpAndDrink** · 02-18-18, 09:10 AM

Originally posted by kidcudi92

we may have our differences

but good luck with everything my friend

been there done that and it is not easy at all

prayers for your family

Petty differences on a forum are always there man... but in reality most here would get along in person.

Is easier to be mean via keyboard. We hardly can be that cruel in person. Is part of the human psychology.

Id never wish this to anyone here... ever. We are good man I know all here are sincere.

**JAKEPEAVY21** · 02-18-18, 09:25 AM

brutal news but hang in there, PR

**funnyb25** · 02-18-18, 09:31 AM

Jakers!

**KVB** · 02-18-18, 12:19 PM

Originally posted by HurryUpAndDrink

...I wanna try and make up for all the shit. I am terrified of losing him tbh.

How will you know if you ever "made up" for anything?

The past is the past, memories are good but concentrate on the here and now, this is what's important. Nothing else matters.

**kidcudi92** · 02-18-18, 09:36 PM

Originally posted by HurryUpAndDrink

Petty differences on a forum are always there man... but in reality most here would get along in person.

Is easier to be mean via keyboard. We hardly can be that cruel in person. Is part of the human psychology.

Id never wish this to anyone here... ever. We are good man I know all here are sincere.

Very well said

**KVB** · 02-20-18, 12:15 AM

HurryUpAndDrink...

**HurryUpAndDrink** · 02-20-18, 12:22 AM

KVB is a top shelf human! Buddy, thank you for the kind words and please count with my deepest support in this grueling process!

**Art Vandelay** · 02-20-18, 12:44 AM

Cancer sucks! My Dad went in for a checkup a few years back, found out he had stage 4 colon cancer, he passed 3 weeks later. Pretty much out of nowhere - never felt sick, just a little tired. Enjoy every minute you can with him - Thoughts and prayers Drinker.

**Ra77er** · 02-20-18, 12:53 AM

Is this really beneficial in any way? I don’t know about others but when I lost my mother as a kid there wasn’t and still isn’t anything anyone can say. I’m 105 now so that was long ago but the point is there isn’t a solution. No handicapping skills to beat cancer or trying to keep your head up works. If huad is close to his father well he’s in for nothing but pain. Try to be a good person perhaps you will find answers I couldn’t.