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  • hockey216
    SBR MVP
    • 08-20-08
    • 4583

    #1
    tips on quitting?
    degen here.

    any1 know an addict that was able to permanently quit?

    How? 12 steps?

    How do you overcome strong compulsions to return to gambling after you've quit?

    Ideas?
  • juicername
    SBR Hall of Famer
    • 10-14-15
    • 6906

    #2
    No one quits.
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    • jjgold
      SBR Aristocracy
      • 07-20-05
      • 388189

      #3
      no one quits

      one way only actually and proven to work

      GA 3x a week and never stop going
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      • newguy
        SBR Hall of Famer
        • 12-27-09
        • 6100

        #4
        And stop posting / logging in here
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        • no1here
          SBR Hall of Famer
          • 03-23-09
          • 5914

          #5
          Leaving here is harder then quitting gambling

          Originally posted by newguy
          And stop posting / logging in here
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          • jjgold
            SBR Aristocracy
            • 07-20-05
            • 388189

            #6
            Originally posted by no1here
            Leaving here is harder then quitting gambling
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            • 2daBank
              SBR Aristocracy
              • 01-26-09
              • 88966

              #7
              Turn to harder drugs. Of course they just make gambling even better!!
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              • no1here
                SBR Hall of Famer
                • 03-23-09
                • 5914

                #8
                I quit after starting @ 18 in 1969. I was compulsive for better then 15 years. Memories still haunt me from back then till this day on what I did to get gambling money. Stealing from wife and dad was my bankroll.

                2004 I discovered online poker after being clean for 20 years. Since then I have won thousands sometimes in big amounts. Won 10 day trip to South Africa with everything paid including $500 per night room and all food & drinks that I wanted.

                But I don't gamble I only bet. I don't deposit ever. Only fools deposit! Only those that are not good enough or smart enough do so.

                Patience I suggest as it takes 10 years to become master at anything in life. SBR is a great place to be while learning. They are even paying me to do so. They gave me trip to Vegas and buy me many great dinners.

                My goal is huge here. If I can make it here then I can make It anywhere. But not going elsewhere till I'm convince that I am good enough to do so and then I will do so with SBR funds. Excellent at poker but too old for it anymore turning to Basketball parlays last 3 years.

                There's no limit here but go at your pace that you are capable of. Most basketball days I can hit 10K cash here and will soon that's likely years away hoping only 2 or 3.

                Bet all that you want but never gamble. Be patient and learn. Specialize in one or two areas and enjoy the other days.

                Never deposit and you will never be gambling. Think in probabilities not possibilities.
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                • RudyRuetigger
                  SBR Aristocracy
                  • 08-24-10
                  • 65086

                  #9
                  I just say I am going to quit

                  then I follow through

                  PERIOD
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                  • jjgold
                    SBR Aristocracy
                    • 07-20-05
                    • 388189

                    #10
                    Rudy your not a good quitter which is good
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                    • RudyRuetigger
                      SBR Aristocracy
                      • 08-24-10
                      • 65086

                      #11
                      I quit gambling almost a week ago as I realize professional betting is not for me

                      I took up the profession of psychic tho so that is why I bet on games still
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                      • Russian Rocket
                        SBR Aristocracy
                        • 09-02-12
                        • 43910

                        #12
                        Here is the one and only tip you'd ever need:

                        Be a MAN!
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                        • Rich Boy
                          SBR Hall of Famer
                          • 02-01-09
                          • 9713

                          #13
                          Im an addict and I will never stop gambling, the key is to start WINNING. The only reason people want to quit is because they lose money. So either find edges and become a niche bettor and beat the books or just start betting 1 dollar per game.

                          Quitting this is hard, you probably in for life
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                          • lonegambler23
                            SBR Hall of Famer
                            • 06-22-16
                            • 9761

                            #14
                            dont be a quitter
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                            • GzaTheGenius
                              SBR MVP
                              • 02-12-13
                              • 4181

                              #15
                              Quitters never win
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                              • jjgold
                                SBR Aristocracy
                                • 07-20-05
                                • 388189

                                #16
                                If you quit at gambling many say you will quit at everything else you do
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                                • funnyb25
                                  BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                  • 07-09-09
                                  • 39659

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by Rich Boy
                                  Im an addict and I will never stop gambling, the key is to start WINNING. The only reason people want to quit is because they lose money. So either find edges and become a niche bettor and beat the books or just start betting 1 dollar per game.

                                  Quitting this is hard, you probably in for life
                                  That is worse than quitting
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                                  • Dirty Sanchez
                                    SBR Posting Legend
                                    • 03-01-10
                                    • 16031

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by RudyRuetigger
                                    I just say I am going to quit

                                    then I follow through

                                    PERIOD
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                                    • Sam Odom
                                      SBR Aristocracy
                                      • 10-30-05
                                      • 58063

                                      #19
                                      Sammy quit Casino table games gambling...

                                      just fukking do it
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                                      • Dirty Sanchez
                                        SBR Posting Legend
                                        • 03-01-10
                                        • 16031

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by Sam Odom
                                        Sammy quit Casino table games gambling...

                                        just fukking do it
                                        Sammy as old as you are....you should just concentrate on breathing
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                                        • Sam Odom
                                          SBR Aristocracy
                                          • 10-30-05
                                          • 58063

                                          #21
                                          life is less fun without craps in it
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                                          • daneblazer
                                            BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                            • 09-14-08
                                            • 27861

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by jjgold
                                            If you quit at gambling many say you will quit at everything else you do

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                                            • JIBBBY
                                              SBR Aristocracy
                                              • 12-10-09
                                              • 83691

                                              #23
                                              GA is for junkies.. Pick up the phone and make that call, find and join... Very simple...

                                              Gambling is all about discipline.. If you have no discipline and are a full on action junkie then you need to stop.. If you are going into debt to gamble, get depressed when you lose and it changes your moods constantly then you need to stop..

                                              Gambling is like alcohol and there is a fine line between a casual and social drinker and full blown alcoholic.. Same with Sports Gambling..

                                              I have a friend that was seriously addicted to gambling, ruined his life, ended up broke, in debt and he ended up in GA in the end. Funny thing is he wasn't a bad gambler and probably picked more winners then losers, only problem is he couldn't put on the brakes..

                                              GA changed his life and he met alot of friends in the process. Found Jesus too. He's been clean for 20 years now, is a multi millionaire, has a huge cleaning business, hot wife, 4 kids, big house in Malibu, California...

                                              Gambling is not for everyone..
                                              Last edited by JIBBBY; 05-21-17, 10:52 AM.
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                                              • gauchojake
                                                BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                                • 09-17-10
                                                • 34103

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by hockey216
                                                degen here.

                                                any1 know an addict that was able to permanently quit?

                                                How? 12 steps?

                                                How do you overcome strong compulsions to return to gambling after you've quit?

                                                Ideas?
                                                You never permanently quit, you do it one day, hour, minute, at a time.

                                                You can look into a treatment program but really you should just go to one GA meeting and see if those are your people. If they are, maybe ask them how they quit.
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                                                • jjgold
                                                  SBR Aristocracy
                                                  • 07-20-05
                                                  • 388189

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by JIBBBY
                                                  GA is for junkies.. Pick up the phone and make that call, find and join... Very simple...

                                                  Gambling is all about discipline.. If you have no discipline and are a full on action junkie then you need to stop.. If you are going into debt to gamble, get depressed when you lose and it changes your moods constantly then you need to stop..

                                                  Gambling is like alcohol and there is a fine line between a casual and social drinker and full blown alcoholic.. Same with Sports Gambling..

                                                  I have a friend that was seriously addicted to gambling, ruined his life, ended up broke, in debt and he ended up in GA in the end. Funny thing is he wasn't a bad gambler and probably picked more winners then losers, only problem is he couldn't put on the brakes..

                                                  GA changed his life and he met alot of friends in the process. Found Jesus too. He's been clean for 20 years now, is a multi millionaire, has a huge cleaning business, hot wife, 4 kids, big house in Malibu, California...

                                                  Gambling is not for everyone..
                                                  most compulsive gamblers were very successful and re build businesses

                                                  very smart..not ll of course but many
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                                                  • Otters27
                                                    BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                                    • 07-14-07
                                                    • 30749

                                                    #26
                                                    Try to get limits put on your account. Worked for me.
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                                                    • JIBBBY
                                                      SBR Aristocracy
                                                      • 12-10-09
                                                      • 83691

                                                      #27
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                                                      • jjgold
                                                        SBR Aristocracy
                                                        • 07-20-05
                                                        • 388189

                                                        #28
                                                        Jibby your one of us
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                                                        • NUTSonYAchin
                                                          SBR Sharp
                                                          • 05-08-17
                                                          • 337

                                                          #29
                                                          I never "quit" fully, but I stopped from Super Bowl weekend until a few weeks ago (with the exception of UFC events). The key is to get away from sports as a whole and replace it with another hobby (or new addiction). I started working out more and hiking as a replacement. Good luck to you. Take a break for a few days if you can...
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                                                          • JIBBBY
                                                            SBR Aristocracy
                                                            • 12-10-09
                                                            • 83691

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by jjgold
                                                            Jibby your one of us
                                                            Bet your ass I am.. Love sports gambling and have for 25 years.. Hasn't kicked my ass yet.. I'm in it for the long haul...
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                                                            • floridagolfer
                                                              SBR MVP
                                                              • 12-19-08
                                                              • 2757

                                                              #31
                                                              A long time ago I realized I just didn't need the stress of worrying if a decent chuck of money was going to win or lose depending on people who had nothing at stake — some 19-year-old kid perhaps making a meaningless basket in garbage time, a golfer in the middle of the pack who was going to shoot 74 or 76. It's hard to be regularly successful. The one big difference is that I no longer sit down and watch games I'm not interested in; I just don't care who wins and loses and by hoe much. Life is much better.
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                                                              • Sam Odom
                                                                SBR Aristocracy
                                                                • 10-30-05
                                                                • 58063

                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by floridagolfer

                                                                A long time ago I realized I just didn't need the stress of worrying if a decent chuck of money was going to win or lose...

                                                                0.75% - 2%

                                                                adjust daily

                                                                have fun
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                                                                • gauchojake
                                                                  BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                                                  • 09-17-10
                                                                  • 34103

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Gambling addicts don't adhere to Kelly. That's like telling an alcoholic to only drink a half a beer so they don't throw up in the morning.
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                                                                  • Sam Odom
                                                                    SBR Aristocracy
                                                                    • 10-30-05
                                                                    • 58063

                                                                    #34
                                                                    jake is spot on
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                                                                    • unde0087
                                                                      BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                                                      • 03-27-08
                                                                      • 28874

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Its like anything else in life, if you want to stop doing something then don't put yourself in places that make you want to continue. If you are an alcoholic and want to stop drinking then you probably don't want to hang out in bars. Likewise, stop coming here and stop going to sites that are about gambling. I got so deep into gambling back in 09, it was affecting my life because I was capping around the clock and it was all I thought about and talked about. So I stopped coming to SBR and actually stopped even watching sports on TV for a year. After a few months I didn't even think about it but again you can't expect to succeed if you don't change how you live each day. I came back after a year because I learned to live without it and hence it is fun again. Start controlling the way you live or it will control you.
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