Had a GOOD friend get a DUI last night, any advice?

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  • FlipsideRM
    SBR Posting Legend
    • 09-28-11
    • 10518

    #71
    Lol you're guys are so pessimistic just as you are gamblers.

    guy has nothing to worry about, especially if he had a decent job as kraken said. His job will never find out and he will keep chugging along like nothing happened. Trust me I do know
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    • R.P. McMurphy
      SBR Hall of Famer
      • 06-15-12
      • 9654

      #72
      Flipside you sound like a sheep! Ahead feel free and vote for next Pres..cause after all your meaningless vote will make a difference. Lol....fukking dunbshits who actually believe in this system. I give them books and give them .....but they just eat the pages:/
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      • Booya711
        BARRELED IN @ SBR!
        • 12-20-11
        • 27329

        #73
        Mcmurphy has dominated this thread with knowledge
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        • kidcudi92
          SBR Posting Legend
          • 12-14-11
          • 15434

          #74
          Originally posted by The Kraken
          Anyone here been there, done that, any experiences to share
          1 year probation in Indiana. 6 months license suspension. Take an online driving course. Spend night in jail. $500 bail. 40 hours community service. Attend a 3 day 20 hour alcohol class. That's all. I had the best lawyer in my county though. Piss tested once at probation intake and then never again. I played my probation officer in fan duel

          Off record in 5 years. Been 2, got it when I was 21.
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          • Killer_Demo
            SBR Hall of Famer
            • 06-15-08
            • 8409

            #75
            And teaser asks why i stay the fukk home. Pigs everywhere
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            • mohye1980
              Restricted User
              • 01-25-14
              • 2363

              #76
              Originally posted by The Kraken
              Gonna be tough, he's a nurse with me and we take A LOT of fukking call together. It's a huge chunk of our income. To take call, gotta be able to get to the hospital

              Idiot

              Get a a good attorney and you'll be fine. Use a public defender and you're ******. That's my 2 cents. A lot of my colleagues/friends including myself have had one in the past. We all used the same lawyer and he got a lot of us out of sticky situations with very little consequences.
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              • mohye1980
                Restricted User
                • 01-25-14
                • 2363

                #77
                Also, your attorney can and should do your dmv hearing and could get your friend a restricted license which would allow them to get to and from work.

                Bottom line get an atty.
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                • DiggityDaggityDo
                  SBR Aristocracy
                  • 11-30-08
                  • 81450

                  #78
                  Originally posted by FlipsideRM
                  I'm trying to tell you as someone who's been there, done that, sold my first car for a good lawyer, etc. I was young and didn't know what I was doing. 1st time duis are as common as herpes these days, no biggie. Judge gonna give the same determination either way
                  Flipper what did you get first? DUI or herpes?
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                  • Booya711
                    BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                    • 12-20-11
                    • 27329

                    #79
                    shit that you cant make up:

                    met this georgeous chick tonight.....she has to check in to prison on 1/4 for 3 months on a meth distribution charge.....unreal
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                    • MoMoneyMoVaughn
                      SBR Posting Legend
                      • 05-08-14
                      • 14988

                      #80
                      Originally posted by Booya711
                      shit that you cant make up:

                      met this georgeous chick tonight.....she has to check in to prison on 1/4 for 3 months on a meth distribution charge.....unreal
                      That's what we call a keeper where I come from, Booya.
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                      • turtlejc
                        SBR MVP
                        • 10-18-11
                        • 3958

                        #81
                        get the best lawyer you can

                        all these people are in it together, the judge, the lawyers, the cops

                        they will split your 10k at the end of the day, but you will have much lighter charges

                        your guy will walk up and give the ol wink, and get a suspended license for a month or two, no jail...hopefully no machine

                        Ive had a few friends get away with DUIs here by getting the best DUI/traffic lawyer around

                        they are idiots for drinking and driving not saying its ok, but if your friend wants to get off a little easier, pony up for a good lawyer
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                        • rkelly110
                          BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                          • 10-05-09
                          • 39691

                          #82
                          Originally posted by The Kraken
                          Fortunately, no. Just a solid guy that made a mistake. Don't get me wrong, I've been disproportionately exposed to DUI related accidents, including many with deaths of innocent people, so I'm pretty disappointed. But it's never easy knowing a close friend that you've witnessed do many good things for people is fixing to pay so dearly for a mistake.

                          HOnestly, is getting a good attorney the best thing to do at this point? Or is it even worth it? Is the punishment the same regardless
                          Forego the attorney. Save some money. They are no help. The only thing they can do is question when the blow
                          device was calibrated.

                          Don't be too hard on your dude. Now a days only two beers can get you busted. If you drink regularly, two beers won't faze you in the least, but the alcohol level still reads the same.

                          Have him scan/ print his licence on both sides on heavy photo paper at the highest resolution then laminate. This is for when they take his license, he still has a form of ID.

                          He will get evaluated, go to ARD classes, pay a fine and lose his license for 3 months. Cost with fine about 2k, with a lawyer about 5k. Big savings.
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                          • Auto Donk
                            SBR Aristocracy
                            • 09-03-13
                            • 43558

                            #83
                            hire me.....

                            just got a guy probation last month on a 4th dwi in texas...... most people who ring that bell get 5-10 yrs in the pen......
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                            • jjgold
                              SBR Aristocracy
                              • 07-20-05
                              • 388179

                              #84
                              no excuses in this day and age

                              just a dumb fuk that could of killed someone
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                              • ByeShea
                                SBR Hall of Famer
                                • 06-30-08
                                • 8123

                                #85
                                Originally posted by The Kraken

                                He's a good dude Paver,
                                You care about this guy? Because it almost seems like you're more concerned with the short term bump this DUI might make in your work routine.

                                Tell him to look in the mirror. Because in these times with all the DUI awareness, alternatives (free rides, cabs, etc), and severe penalties - if you're drinking and driving then you need help be it a severe kick in the balls or AA.

                                And don't you dare say that someone else doesn't need AA. Not your call - in fact, you should encourage the possibility because, you know, AA might help someone who needs it.

                                Every "good dude" has a story and an excuse. This guy should be grateful no one got hurt and start changing his life because he doesn't have his shit together. And, frankly, doesn't need friends co-signing his BS.

                                I have some bad experiences with DUI that didn't change my life. That came later. And then I know a couple of good dudes who never learned the lesson of drunk driving and alcoholism and a very sweet lady who was killed by a drunk driver who was "celebrating" a Yankees WS victory.

                                It's his wake up call. Help him.
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                                • slambam
                                  SBR MVP
                                  • 02-07-10
                                  • 1653

                                  #86
                                  Don't laws vary by each state, and how drunk he was? I had a friend get one this summer, was able to get it deferred. Still lost license for 6 mos and had some fines, but not nearly as much as could have been. I think a deferral is essentially a probation. It's not on your record, but if you get another it gets tacked on - along with the 2nd one.
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                                  • unluckysob
                                    SBR MVP
                                    • 05-21-08
                                    • 1527

                                    #87
                                    DO NOT PAY BIG MONEY FOR A LAWYER---unless you plan to plea not guilty and fight in court---you can have this put off at least twice, on 3rd time to court plead guilty---sentence will be xact same thing lawyer could negotiate ---in Georgia, state will suspend DL for 6 months, be prepared to deal with this.---I have had 3 duis 1990, 1995, 2009. you are going to need money for fines, other court ordered shit---start doing research in your area --I think lawyer helps very little.
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                                    • The Kraken
                                      BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                      • 12-25-11
                                      • 28918

                                      #88
                                      Originally posted by ByeShea
                                      You care about this guy? Because it almost seems like you're more concerned with the short term bump this DUI might make in your work routine.

                                      Tell him to look in the mirror. Because in these times with all the DUI awareness, alternatives (free rides, cabs, etc), and severe penalties - if you're drinking and driving then you need help be it a severe kick in the balls or AA.

                                      And don't you dare say that someone else doesn't need AA. Not your call - in fact, you should encourage the possibility because, you know, AA might help someone who needs it.

                                      Every "good dude" has a story and an excuse. This guy should be grateful no one got hurt and start changing his life because he doesn't have his shit together. And, frankly, doesn't need friends co-signing his BS.

                                      I have some bad experiences with DUI that didn't change my life. That came later. And then I know a couple of good dudes who never learned the lesson of drunk driving and alcoholism and a very sweet lady who was killed by a drunk driver who was "celebrating" a Yankees WS victory.

                                      It's his wake up call. Help him.
                                      Im not sure how you interpreted my posts, but I called him a dumbass and told him to get a good attorney, quite sure I didn't co-sign anything. This doesn't affect my work one bit, regardless of outcome. And I don't recall saying anything about AA.

                                      That said, there is plenty of wisdom to learn about the process from those that have been though it. So I asked. Hopefully to pass on some tidbits to give him an idea of what to expect.
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                                      • pavyracer
                                        SBR Aristocracy
                                        • 04-12-07
                                        • 82841

                                        #89
                                        Kraken check this out. Good info on what to expect for your buddy.

                                        Free consultation. (404) 567-5515. Three award-winning criminal defense lawyers with 93 years combined experience in DUI, assault, sex crimes, drug crimes, and theft. Kohn & Yager.
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                                        • Stallion
                                          SBR MVP
                                          • 03-21-10
                                          • 3617

                                          #90
                                          Put the bottle down, throw away your keys.
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                                          • King Mayan
                                            SBR Posting Legend
                                            • 09-22-10
                                            • 21326

                                            #91
                                            Was it that overgrown Oompa Loompa Opie?
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                                            • mikefan1034
                                              SBR MVP
                                              • 08-29-12
                                              • 2448

                                              #92
                                              If you drive drunk you should be tried for attempted murder plain and simple. First time offense at least a year in jail and 25 thousand fine. Think twice before you drink and drive
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                                              • frostno98
                                                SBR Hall of Famer
                                                • 09-11-07
                                                • 9769

                                                #93
                                                I got one 10 years ago thanks to a fluke run in at a DUI check point. Had to pay a lawyer 2k to get it reduced to reckless driving since it was really borderline. Which resulted in a small $600 dollars fine, informal probation for 3 years, 24 hours of AA class, and still retained my license.

                                                Getting a DUI is no joke though, because of the huge financial huge . Your auto insurance will go up about $200 to 300 dollars extra, the Fine for a DUI is around 2k, and then the AA class is going to cost about 1k or more. So this single incident is going to cost you about 10k.
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