Your responses are like a revolving door, no better yet, it's like you're looking at this issue through the wrong side of the binoculars so your whole image of marriage is distorted. You are part of a culture that does not value arguing as an avenue to discover the truth, instead, anything that disagrees with you (even with logical reasoning) is seen as a personal attack. Anything I have said, or will say, will just make you try to find something to counter it, even if it involves drawing on illegitimate comparisons or false labeling. People on your side of the argument are quick to toss around labels such as racist, bigot, and the such, even resorting to harassment and threats, whenever someone opposes your agendas.
Mothers and fathers compliment each other for raising children. Children require a mother and father. It is the child's natural right to have a mother and a father. Even where there are divorces, or when children are raised in single parent homes, the evidence clearly indicates the problems it creates for the children. The absence of one has proven to have devastating effect on children. Shouldn't a boy have a father to look up to? shouldn't a girl have a mother to look up to? Yes, there are heterosexual marriages with bad families, but this does not mean we should promote something that further encourages the destruction of the family unit. Divorce rates are double amongst homosexual couples than heterosexual couples. Homosexual couples see their commitment as one between themselves, and not one that also involves the natural responsibility and commitment to their child. Not enough people are hearing the stories of the children being raised without a mother and a father. It is a serious story with consequences much more devastating than that of same-sex couples not being able to marry or adopt. You'll never hear this reported in the media. The media views the issue as the new "civil rights" movement like yourself, and nothing will be reported that may call homosexual marriage into question. Even the voices of children. The voices of children are always silenced by liberals, especially in abortion.
I only provided a glimpse of what occurs to these children, some background research with Social Science data will clarify it even more for you. You can see that throughout history, the human child has always been born to a mother and father. It is our natural design and the means by which human societies have grown and flourished throughout time. This is what you are seeking to change when you define marriage.
Even if you're not a theist (which I'm pretty sure you're not) you must admit that there is a design in nature. Things work a certain way with specific functions and purposes, things compliment each other in our world. This is the design given to a man and a woman to give order to the purpose of procreation. Whether you believe that design is by a creator or by natural selection, the evidence of design is clear. So we do not counter that design, or else it will lead to repercussions. Even if you are a Darwinian atheist believer in evolution and natural selection, then you would clearly see homosexuality as a threat to our species.
This is not about legal rights as they were given it in civil unions and rejected it. Their real motive is to get government to redefine religion and then pass laws establishing this state religion.The government can only offer legal contracts to what God has already defined. What SSM supporters want is a new set of moral and a new religion that don't come from God, but one created by man for the purpose of fulfilling their relativist view on what is right. All of which is a clear violation of your Constitution.SSM activists aren't happy with civil "marriage" because they want moral acceptance enforced by the government. What you fail to realize is the government does not define morals, religion, and pass new laws to create a new religion.
You claim marriage is a commitment between 2 people. Ha. If that's the case, then by your logic what legal rejection can you have of: not let pedophiles marry a 15,14 year old? How would that hurt you?Why not let polygamous people marry? How would that hurt you? why do we need only 2 people? Because that's how much it takes to compliment the sexual actions to procreate children and create a family. Why not let two cousins (or insert any perverse definition here) people marry? How would that hurt you? Your argument becomes any and all perversion must be allowed to be called a marriage as, after all, how would it hurt you? Marriage is about new human life. When a man and woman have sex they’re engaging in that sacred act that creates human life, even if none will be created in that particular act. It’s still sacred. All sexual activity must be ordered toward new human life. Just like infertile couples who sacrifice by not using artifical methods like vitro to force new life, homosexual people sacrifice by living chaste lives. All is for love and respect for new human life.When you get your sexuality in line with respect for human life, you get your soul in line with God, who is the Source of human life.
Bottom line: Natural Family = Foundation of Civilization, Weak family = Weak civilization
Marriage predates laws. Marriage licenses have only existed on any significant scale since the late 1920s. The government has no authority to change the definition of something that is not theirs to define in the first place. Ancient Greeks and even the Romans embraced homosexuality, but they never triedd to change the institution of marriage from being a union of one man and one woman to include same-sex unions because they knew how important and sacred marriage is for
humanity.
If gay activists like you can try to change laws to meet their set of moral codes, then religions like Catholicism, Judaism, Protestantism, Muslims etc can also work to create laws based upon the judeo-chritian values that make up western society.
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To the contrary, the movement to redefine marriage asks that we replace the truth of what marriage is with a lie, so that government can unilaterally impose a thin cover of social acceptance upon a lifestyle choice. SSM advocates are simply not the same caliber as the freedom riders of the 1950s and 1960. Their politics and activism are not in the same ballpark like you claim. In fact, It's not the same league. It's not even the same sport! Homosexuality is a mental disorder and homosexuals should be accepted and loved in society just like other people with mental disorders. When there are no limitations to equality, harm ensues. Morality is not relative There are rights and wrongs in society which is why we condemn such actions like rape, burning witches, child pornography, gay-bashing etc.<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:View>Normal</w:View> <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:PunctuationKerning/> <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas/> <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:Compatibility> <w:BreakWrappedTables/> <w:SnapToGridInCell/> <w:WrapTextWithPunct/> <w:UseAsianBreakRules/> <w
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Liek i said earlier there is NO proof that homosexuality is innate and involuntary. In fact, there is MUCH proof that it isn't. Many homosexuals have abandoned their lifestyle and married the opposite sex, and even had and raised kids. So the evidence is that homosexuality is a choice, yet gay propagandists like yourself claim it not to be.
In the end, the homosexual movement to redefine marriage is an act of extreme separation of Church and State. It is a move to legitimize what was widely accepted as immoral by God's standards. It is the most insidious and dangerous threat to the common good today.
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